Ladies and Gents (moreso gents, but whatever)...

Can you tell me a story or share an experience where you were so caught up in a relationship ... one very tumultous, or where you were almost mesmerized with the other person, like this person held your heart in his or her hand and squeezed the life out of it? Knock down drag out fights and passionate make up? Just the height of emotion and almost craziness? Crazy love or better yet lust, I guess.

I can share this. I remember fighting with my first serious boyfriend and just going over to his cassette tapes and taking each one out and throwing them against the wall for whatever reason, and he started breaking my CDs. I just remember yelling, "Not Purple Rain!!!" (I've replaced that CD like, 5 times.) There was a lot of fighting and crying that took place.*

I know this is kind of obtuse, but I hope y'all can help me out.





*This relationship was not healthy... relationships of which I am speaking generally aren't.

What U need help with?

[This message was edited Wed Apr 21 17:34:04 2004 by SexLovely]

SexLovely said:

Pardon?

I'm writing a story. It's research.

This is what I open with:


He floored the accelerator as his car sped toward the bridge. The odometer was a foreign object at this moment although way back in the stem of his brain the numbers registered: 85, 90, 95. The cloudy confused mass that composed the rest of his brain ached and begged for relief from the cool still water below the bridge or the smashed twisted wreckage of steel, flesh and glass. Anything to stop the chaos and screaming and fury, the tiny knives of insanity stabbing his cerebellum. Anything to erase her from existence. The car hurtled over the apex of the bridge and he had to choose his annihilation.

This guy has just left the home of the woman he was involved with.

I'm just trying to gather emotion, experiences, etc. that will help me get the feeling right.

starkitty said:

I just recently had a row with The Wife.

She said to me "Why don't you pick up after yourself?"

I just said "Yeah, like, whatever!"

Hope this helps!

I think I can relate.

My boyfriend of 5 years did not come home one night. I decided to start looking through his personal belongings. I found another gals number. I took All his clothes out of the closet, took them to the garden, and threw his clothes in the mud. When he came home, he couldnt get in the front door, so he walked around back ( having to past the garden of course!) Ha HA HA to his suprise. This wasnt the first or the last horrid fight. We where very unhealthy for each other. We loved each other, but there REALLY is a fine line between love and hate.

I once tore a boyfriend's porn collection to shreds. Ripped up each and every page of every magazine in front of him and made him watch me while I yelled at/lectured him why I was doing it.



I was young then.

I threatened to leave a girl once by smashing my mobile with a hammer. I'm doubtful that this will assist though. In fact, i'm not wholly convinced in retrospect that destroying my mobile phone achieved anything.

You should read Milan Kundera's "The Hitchhiking Game" in his collection Laughable Loves.

TaraPatrick said:

Exactly. Have you ever heard that song? It is so true.

I remember when said boyfriend cheated on me... before I knew he cheated, long story but I saw him talking to the girl while she was sitting on a park bench, I drove up and jumped out of my car (forgot to put it in Park), well someone told me later they got in my car and stopped it from drifting backwards because my intent was to beat both their asses.

CarrieMpls said:

HAHAHA...

I was gonna say.

starkitty said:

you should have set fire to the park bench while they weren't looking.

3bogs said:

But did you want to smash her head with the hammer. That's what I'm talkin' about.

JasmineFire said:

I should have had him arrested. He was 19 and she was 15.

doctormcmeekle said:

I can tell you throw caution to the wind.

2the9s said:

Will do. Thanks.

When I fall in love.....it's hard. There have been a few girls that have broken my heart....and I do mean broken it. It feels like your whole chest will cave in and disapear.
I'm not the type to have a big fight about something.....I tend to just walk away. Maybe it would've been easier to fight and get it all out of my system.....but at the time, it was just to hard.

althom said:

I love this description...




This really gives insight into who you are. Thank you althom.

starkitty said:

I guess the best part about all this drama is that I learned from my mistakes. We ( my ex and I) can look back at all of these foolish games and laugh at them. We realized that we had an unhealthy relationship, and walked away before it was too late.

starkitty said:

Get the hell out of that relationship

bkw said:

um

that's not helping.

starkitty said:

Er...no. I've never been in quite that dramatic a relationship. I'm sure girls have wanted to smash me in the head with a hammer (in fact i'd put money on it), but that's another story.

I can tell you though, that for sheer joyous release, there are few things that compare to smashing a mobile phone to bits.

3bogs said:

Yer NOT George Michael?

3bogs said:

I wonder what the phone has to say about that.

gooeythehamster said:

Silly boy.

I like how the ads on top of the page match the thread content.

PRETTY SUBLIMINAL.

starkitty said:

Cute hamster.

No Mr Hamster, i am not George Michael.

I just feel spiritually connected to Bogs. The stench, the disinfectant, all that.

3bogs said:

Don't make me vomit, it's too early.

starkitty said:

Well i threw it into the Thames afterwards - I'll fish it out and ask it if you want.