all my life, i have never dated anyone or had a boyfriend. i've told folks this in the past and everybody's reaction has been the same: somethin to the point of, "oh my god, you've never had a boyfriend?! why not??" i've even had some people ask me if i'm gay, just because i've never been romantically interested in guys and am not interested in relationships.

for those of ya'll who are hooked up with folks at the moment: what's so hot about bein in a relationship with someone else? i don't understand it....

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Please read my signature!

You're not alone, Handclaps. I've got two very dear (female) friends. One is 35 like me. The other is 32. Neither have had a boyfriend. Yet.

As a matter of fact, neither have I. (Well, no one that lasted more than a week, anyway.)

But I would like to have one, sure.
[This message was edited Tue Mar 16 19:05:41 2004 by scififilmnerd]

Janfriend said:

i keep meanin to tell you that i love your signature. it's right on.

i guess if you're not interested in relationsips then it's no big deal not to have one but for whatever reason, most people are interested in having some kindof romantic relationship at some point in their lives. I can't explain what it is but being in a relationship can be a great thing if it's with the right person. it's wonderful to have someone who you can share a large part of your life with, i guess. if it's with the wrong person then it can be like janfriend's avatar.

do you know why you've never been interested in having a relationship? it is out of the ordinary.

jessyMD32781 said:

i've never been too keen on the idea of hangin around the same person, day in and day out. i can do that with friends, sure, but it'd irk me if it were a boyfriend.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

That's it. I'm throwing out the wife and kids and i'm going to hang with my mates!

bkw said:

are you going to make love to your mates as well?

jessyMD32781 said:

There goes that idea!

bkw said:

slut!!!

sosgemini said:

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

:etc... etc....:

June7 said:

i'm not down with sexual relations with other folks either, so that's out...

omg guys like suck 4 most of the time. i don't think ur missing much handsclaps.

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[This message was edited Tue Mar 16 19:44:17 2004 by Mizzunderstood]

What is this "boyfriend/girlfriend" thing of which you speak?

Anxiety said:

Well, you say that now..but once somebody gives you a little sugar you'll have a great appreciation for relationships
Seriously, the right person can shine a lot of light into your life (as cheesy as that sounds lol) for real though!!

And yeah, the wrong person can be a vacuous black hole of emotion, choose wisely.

Stop being selfish Dansa!! it's a beautiful thing!!

sinisterpentatonic said:

Co-Sign....

sinisterpentatonic said:

all the guys who have attempted to start chatter with me in any public setting (i.e. walkin down the street, on the bus, at the store, etc.) have all been either unbelievably obnoxious or unbelievably ignorant. i guess you'd have to know me face-to-face in order to understand how i am in situations like that, i suppose.


how's not wanting to be in a relationship 'selfish'?

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

You're just picky that's all.
Someone's gonna come along and blow your mind.




Yes, it's very selfish. Someone's out there in need of what you have, and you're keeping it all to yourself. SHAME ON YOU!!

All I want out of life is a heterosexual marrige to another man, where instead of having sex we play Air Hockey all day.

sinisterpentatonic said:

i'm not picky about anything. i could care less about having and maintaining a relationship. you don't see what i'm sayin here. i don't want that "special someone" at all. i don't need it, and i never have.

HobbesLeCute said:

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

Does this mean you have casual sex or are you an Asexual?

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I see exactly what you're saying

I just find it hard to believe.

Janfriend said:

i'm a virgin.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

For me it's whenever I find the perfect make and model, it's either out of my price range or its already been sold.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I'm about to orgnote you