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Printablerdhull said: bkw said: AnotherLoverToo said: bkw said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: bkw said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: bkw said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.
I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere.  I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period! Okay then. 
Dont make me cry!  I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish? I'm so very scared. 
I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do. I think some women get frightened when they see a man cry. It's been so ingrained in us that it has to be the end of the world before a guy loses it emotionally, that crying signifies that there's something really fucked up happening. For me, it would depend upon the reason he is crying and how he's crying ("how" sounds weird, but what I mean by that is if he's sobbing or just has a few tears). I don't cry much myself, so I probably wouldn't be able to be too sympathetic to someone--male OR female--who cries a lot over small things. It's important to me that my friends and partners show genuine emotion, though, so I'm not saying they shouldn't express or show sadness. Just saying that some of us see a lot of shit in life, and we have to be strong in order to function, and I need to be strong and I need a strong PARTNER to walk with. I can't always be carrying the both of us, if the shit goes down, ya know? 
But I've seen many strong men and women cry (I cry every once in awhile), and as long as I know what kind of stuff they're made of, it doesn't negatively influence my perception of them. Good response (as usual ).
Yes, I think some women become terrified when a guy loses it emotionally. Christ, if it happens to me I terrify myself!  Thats because society has endoctrinated us a ll with the fact that men, boys etc shouldn't cry and DONT. So when it does happen, folks flip the fuck out, ar euncomfrtable about it, etc. hence it also makes some submit to some Tough Guise and replace their sadness etc with a more acceptable emotion..anfer, agression etc...then you have situations such as crime, roberry, gangs etc all because of whats deemed wrong by soeone who said "boys dont cry" etc. then you have the republicans and conservatives etc all maiing harsh laws for those who have ben indocterinated with only showing agression and anger as acceptable instread of th e hurt and pain theyy may actually feel, being caught up in that system (crime, punishment)... "Thats the way...yow!...of the world"-Earth Wind & Fire Mine doesn't come out in anger or aggression thankfully. I just bottle it all up and wait for the inevitable twitchy madness that will decend on me...lol When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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2the9s said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: So I say its good to see a man cry as well as all the other women who responded on this thread and I am the one who gets shit for it.
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: So I say its good to see a man cry as well as all the other women who responded on this thread and I am the one who gets shit for it.
I didnt give you shit for it sweetheart. I just made a generalisation that didnt apply to you.
Carrie can see where I'm coming from though. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
They don't call us yanks for nothing.  | |
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2the9s said: bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
They don't call us yanks for nothing. Please point that thing at althoms thread thankyou! When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
lol y'all must be hardcore BK..Althom is always makin fun of folks when they show emotion too etc lol... but I bet if I got both of you in a room and you gave me some time I could make you both cry
just by talking "Climb in my fur." | |
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bkw said: 2the9s said: bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
They don't call us yanks for nothing. Please point that thing at althoms thread thankyou! lol "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
lol y'all must be hardcore BK..Althom is always makin fun of folks when they show emotion too etc lol... but I bet if I got both of you in a room and you gave me some time I could make you both cry
just by talking Tears of boredom? lol | |
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althom said: rdhull said: bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
lol y'all must be hardcore BK..Althom is always makin fun of folks when they show emotion too etc lol... but I bet if I got both of you in a room and you gave me some time I could make you both cry
just by talking Tears of boredom? lol For some reason I doubt it | |
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rdhull said: bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
lol y'all must be hardcore BK..Althom is always makin fun of folks when they show emotion too etc lol... but I bet if I got both of you in a room and you gave me some time I could make you both cry
just by talking It must be really painful when your ears bleed I guess?
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althom said: rdhull said: bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
lol y'all must be hardcore BK..Althom is always makin fun of folks when they show emotion too etc lol... but I bet if I got both of you in a room and you gave me some time I could make you both cry
just by talking Tears of boredom? lol lol..hardy har har... "Climb in my fur." | |
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bkw said: rdhull said: bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
lol y'all must be hardcore BK..Althom is always makin fun of folks when they show emotion too etc lol... but I bet if I got both of you in a room and you gave me some time I could make you both cry
just by talking It must be really painful when your ears bleed I guess?
Bk! "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: althom said: rdhull said: bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
lol y'all must be hardcore BK..Althom is always makin fun of folks when they show emotion too etc lol... but I bet if I got both of you in a room and you gave me some time I could make you both cry
just by talking Tears of boredom? lol lol..hardy har har... Oh oh! I think I'm in trouble. | |
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2the9s said: Handclapsfingasnapz said: i admire 'em. it shows that the cat actually has a heart, as opposed to tryin to show off and tryin to come off as tough all the damn time.
it don't hurt anybody to shed a tear or three.  Good, cause that's what I do when you bitchslap me.  LMFAO | |
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someone told me if a guy cries in front of u, that means he trust you, so I think it's a good thing, yes | |
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Reply to 'What do you think of a man who cries?'
I just ask him nicely to chill... And wait for help to arrive...  | |
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Pej...much  | |
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a real man cries
a man who says he doesn't cry is lies and is probably teary eyed right now | |
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To be frank, I don't like softy boys who cry about every damned thing. For that matter, I don't like softy girls who cry about every damned thing either.
But I do think that if a person has enough trust and comfort to cry in front of you that it's a very humbling and honorable place to be for both parties -- perhaps especially if a guy is doing the crying. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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I'd be so aroused if a straight man cried in front of me, it's just such a rare sight to see, and I'd like to see it. I'd still respect him and I don't see why masculinity should equate to coldness. It's just stupid. | |
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Absolutely nothing wrong when a man cries. Men have feelings too and need to be free to express not supress. 
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Can be very atractive, if it's for the right reasons it can be downright sexy  | |
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I think it is beautiful to see a man cry esepcially if it is someone that I am intimate with at the time. The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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I think it is beautiful I really do. | |
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bkw said: Oh, I've also got to add that Aussie men are famous for not showing their emotions (in a bad way famous). We are not all mushy like the yanks and Europeans
The Aussie men picked up that trait from the Persian men. “A poor man waited a thousand years before the gate of paradise. And, while he snatched a little sleep, it opened and shut.” | |
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Ok, so you're all touched or turned on by a man who dares to cry, BUT... that's only because it doesn't happen too often. If you saw your man cry two or three times a week, would it still be great? | |
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It is very touching. ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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well,
i think, its human! first of all, to cry about "stuff"...(doesnt, and shouldnt be confused with "being weak", being emotional doesnt pertain to just ONE certain "SEX" "the female", like our society projects! thats ignortant!!! anytime, anyone, cries reminds us "were" NOT "rocks"...we have feelings! 
(soo let it flow guys! we dont mind!!!) *... "ive always said, that if you have to ask for something more than once or twice, it wasnt yours in the first place"...* | |
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theVelvetRoper said: I don't think there's anything really wrong with it, except once I went on a date with this guy to see "What Women Want", and he bawled. A little odd, as that's a ROMANTIC COMEDY. He found it touching, and, needless to say, that was the last time I went out with him. There's a such thing as overly sensitive, lol.
...ooh really! hmmm!!! (i dont think so, dont be offended, but you need to get OUT more! it'll help you appreciate the variety of personalities in people, variety is cool!...wow! you might of missed out on someone who would of been "sensitive" to yer needs an really listened to you)
ooh well, NEXT! *... "ive always said, that if you have to ask for something more than once or twice, it wasnt yours in the first place"...* | |
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