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Reply #30 posted 01/11/04 7:51pm

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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod
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Reply #31 posted 01/11/04 7:52pm

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bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!
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Reply #32 posted 01/11/04 7:55pm

bkw

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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit
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Reply #33 posted 01/11/04 7:56pm

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bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit

Girl!
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Reply #34 posted 01/11/04 7:56pm

rdhull

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bkw said:

Supernova said:

Usually that he's more secure than most men.

Stop it! biggrin

(or way more insecure) heh heh

(or just a plain ol wuss) giggle


lol BK
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Reply #35 posted 01/11/04 7:56pm

MostBeautifulG
rlNTheWorld

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?
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Reply #36 posted 01/11/04 7:57pm

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I have been there also, and i felt honored that he could let me see him at his most vulnerable. A man so very rarely cries usually, if he does it in front of you it means somehting very special. That's my honest opinion.
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Reply #37 posted 01/11/04 7:57pm

MostBeautifulG
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althom said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit

Girl!

Your not helping the situation lol
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Reply #38 posted 01/11/04 7:57pm

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rdhull said:

PEJ said:



that he's human


bingo.

my sentiments exactly
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Reply #39 posted 01/11/04 8:00pm

bkw

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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?

I'm so very scared. boxed

I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do.
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Reply #40 posted 01/11/04 8:01pm

MostBeautifulG
rlNTheWorld

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?

I'm so very scared. boxed

I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do.


Your right...I do not fit that generalization...and in all reality I don't fit most generalizations of women.
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Reply #41 posted 01/11/04 8:03pm

bkw

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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?

I'm so very scared. boxed

I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do.


Your right...I do not fit that generalization...and in all reality I don't fit most generalizations of women.

Cool! thumbs up!
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Reply #42 posted 01/11/04 8:05pm

2the9s

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?

I'm so very scared. boxed

I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do.


Your right...I do not fit that generalization...and in all reality I don't fit most generalizations of women.


Really? Cause I have this generalization about women who get dragged by their friend's car until they blackout.

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Reply #43 posted 01/11/04 8:06pm

bkw

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2the9s said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?

I'm so very scared. boxed

I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do.


Your right...I do not fit that generalization...and in all reality I don't fit most generalizations of women.


Really? Cause I have this generalization about women who get dragged by their friend's car until they blackout.

smile

falloff

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Reply #44 posted 01/11/04 8:07pm

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althom said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit

Girl!

lol althom!
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Reply #45 posted 01/11/04 8:09pm

MostBeautifulG
rlNTheWorld

bkw said:

2the9s said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?

I'm so very scared. boxed

I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do.


Your right...I do not fit that generalization...and in all reality I don't fit most generalizations of women.


Really? Cause I have this generalization about women who get dragged by their friend's car until they blackout.

smile

falloff

Beep beep, beep beep, yeah!



flip u da booth of ya and I mean that from the bottom of my heart
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Reply #46 posted 01/11/04 8:09pm

Aerogram

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It makes me sob.
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Reply #47 posted 01/11/04 8:19pm

Paisley

Nothing touches my heart more than to see a man cry (not that I enjoy it) I just think it's beautiful when a man isn't afraid to express his sensitive side. touched


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Reply #48 posted 01/11/04 8:20pm

2the9s

Paisley said:

Nothing touches my heart more than to see a man cry (not that I enjoy it) I just think it's beautiful when a man isn't afraid to express is sensitive side. touched


So, you're saying you enjoy making men cry?
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Reply #49 posted 01/11/04 8:21pm

AnotherLoverTo
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bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?

I'm so very scared. boxed

I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do.


I think some women get frightened when they see a man cry. It's been so ingrained in us that it has to be the end of the world before a guy loses it emotionally, that crying signifies that there's something really fucked up happening.

For me, it would depend upon the reason he is crying and how he's crying ("how" sounds weird, but what I mean by that is if he's sobbing or just has a few tears). I don't cry much myself, so I probably wouldn't be able to be too sympathetic to someone--male OR female--who cries a lot over small things. It's important to me that my friends and partners show genuine emotion, though, so I'm not saying they shouldn't express or show sadness. Just saying that some of us see a lot of shit in life, and we have to be strong in order to function, and I need to be strong and I need a strong PARTNER to walk with. I can't always be carrying the both of us, if the shit goes down, ya know? wink

But I've seen many strong men and women cry (I cry every once in awhile), and as long as I know what kind of stuff they're made of, it doesn't negatively influence my perception of them.
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Reply #50 posted 01/11/04 8:22pm

Paisley

2the9s said:

Paisley said:

Nothing touches my heart more than to see a man cry (not that I enjoy it) I just think it's beautiful when a man isn't afraid to express is sensitive side. touched


So, you're saying you enjoy making men cry?

NO, I dont like to make anyone cry if I felt that I hurt someone it would just break my heart
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Reply #51 posted 01/11/04 8:25pm

rdhull

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2the9s said:

Paisley said:

Nothing touches my heart more than to see a man cry (not that I enjoy it) I just think it's beautiful when a man isn't afraid to express is sensitive side. touched


So, you're saying you enjoy making men cry?

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Reply #52 posted 01/11/04 8:26pm

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AnotherLoverToo said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?

I'm so very scared. boxed

I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do.


I think some women get frightened when they see a man cry. It's been so ingrained in us that it has to be the end of the world before a guy loses it emotionally, that crying signifies that there's something really fucked up happening.

For me, it would depend upon the reason he is crying and how he's crying ("how" sounds weird, but what I mean by that is if he's sobbing or just has a few tears). I don't cry much myself, so I probably wouldn't be able to be too sympathetic to someone--male OR female--who cries a lot over small things. It's important to me that my friends and partners show genuine emotion, though, so I'm not saying they shouldn't express or show sadness. Just saying that some of us see a lot of shit in life, and we have to be strong in order to function, and I need to be strong and I need a strong PARTNER to walk with. I can't always be carrying the both of us, if the shit goes down, ya know? wink

But I've seen many strong men and women cry (I cry every once in awhile), and as long as I know what kind of stuff they're made of, it doesn't negatively influence my perception of them.

Good response (as usual biggrin ).

Yes, I think some women become terrified when a guy loses it emotionally. Christ, if it happens to me I terrify myself! lol
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Reply #53 posted 01/11/04 8:27pm

Paisley

rdhull said:

2the9s said:

Paisley said:

Nothing touches my heart more than to see a man cry (not that I enjoy it) I just think it's beautiful when a man isn't afraid to express is sensitive side. touched


So, you're saying you enjoy making men cry?

falloff

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Reply #54 posted 01/11/04 8:30pm

shausler

when i cry

its like im a baby again

its the most freeing experience

to really wale

doesnt happen but once a decade

but twer in not so taboo

id do it everyday
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Reply #55 posted 01/11/04 8:31pm

rdhull

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bkw said:

AnotherLoverToo said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

bkw said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I think it is one of the most beautiful things ever. Its showes he has a heart, feeling and in no way does it show that he is weak or a wussie.

I believe that you think that you will be that way, but wait til a guy actually starts sobbing away in front of you. Your disgust will well up out of nowhere. nod

I have already been there...why would I have disgust for that??? What I say is what I mean and how I feel. Period!

Okay then. biggrin

Dont make me cry! fit



I was not trying to make you cry...but you were assuming that I was saying one thing but would react another way. I hate it when peeps do that. Capish?

I'm so very scared. boxed

I was just making a generalisation that may not fit you. I earnestly believe that women dont really appreciate men crying as much as they say they do.


I think some women get frightened when they see a man cry. It's been so ingrained in us that it has to be the end of the world before a guy loses it emotionally, that crying signifies that there's something really fucked up happening.

For me, it would depend upon the reason he is crying and how he's crying ("how" sounds weird, but what I mean by that is if he's sobbing or just has a few tears). I don't cry much myself, so I probably wouldn't be able to be too sympathetic to someone--male OR female--who cries a lot over small things. It's important to me that my friends and partners show genuine emotion, though, so I'm not saying they shouldn't express or show sadness. Just saying that some of us see a lot of shit in life, and we have to be strong in order to function, and I need to be strong and I need a strong PARTNER to walk with. I can't always be carrying the both of us, if the shit goes down, ya know? wink

But I've seen many strong men and women cry (I cry every once in awhile), and as long as I know what kind of stuff they're made of, it doesn't negatively influence my perception of them.

Good response (as usual biggrin ).

Yes, I think some women become terrified when a guy loses it emotionally. Christ, if it happens to me I terrify myself! lol


Thats because society has endoctrinated us all with the fact that men, boys etc shouldn't cry and DONT. So when it does happen, folks flip the fuck out, are uncomfortable about it, etc. hence it also makes some submit to some Tough Guise and replace their sadness etc with a more socially acceptable emotion...such as anger, agression etc...which then you have situations such as crime, roberry, gangs etc all because of whats deemed wrong by soeone who said "boys dont cry" etc. then you have the republicans and conservatives etc all maiing harsh laws for those who have ben indocterinated with only showing agression and anger as acceptable instread of th e hurt and pain theyy may actually feel, being caught up in that system (crime, punishment)...

"Thats the way...yow!...of the world"-Earth Wind & Fire

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Reply #56 posted 01/11/04 8:31pm

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So I say its good to see a man cry as well as all the other women who responded on this thread and I am the one who gets shit for it. rolleyes
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Reply #57 posted 01/11/04 8:32pm

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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

So I say its good to see a man cry as well as all the other women who responded on this thread and I am the one who gets shit for it. rolleyes


pat Don't cry, Jess!
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Reply #58 posted 01/11/04 8:33pm

2the9s

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

So I say its good to see a man cry as well as all the other women who responded on this thread and I am the one who gets shit for it. rolleyes


Hey! I gave Paisley shit too! eek
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Reply #59 posted 01/11/04 8:33pm

MostBeautifulG
rlNTheWorld

AnotherLoverToo said:

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

So I say its good to see a man cry as well as all the other women who responded on this thread and I am the one who gets shit for it. rolleyes


pat Don't cry, Jess!



uhh I'm not.
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