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My boss is a Grinch and I am miserable OK here is the deal...
My boss gave the people in my office a shitty christmas party.. I havent' gotten a christmas bonus in 2 years.. I haven't gotten a raise in 2 and a half years... My boss has been promising me she would hire me a secretary and has still not.. Hence that was AGAIN 2 YEARS AGO!! She is evil.. Pure evil.. 
I am being burned at both ends and am exhausted every night I head out of the office. I am working my fingers to the bone and getting paid the same salary as I have for the past 2 years.. taking on double the work. I am buring myself out and that stupid bitch hasnt' even noticed.. I need a new job.. Anyone want to help me burn her ass at the stake???   The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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Well, I wont help U burn her at the stake, but...
I will wish U a Happy Christmas!  
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Well, I wont help U burn her at the stake, but...
Thank you JD...
I will wish U a Happy Christmas!
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Start the New Year looking for a new job. You are wasted there, and she is really taking advantage of you BabyCakes. I bet there are loads of companies out there that will appreciate you and your hard work and will show that in promotion, raises and team work help. 
Seriously, think about it over Christmas. You dont wanna be saying the same stuff next year about your boss, do you? 
Good Luck anyway! And try not to let it worry you over Christmas.  | |
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REDFEATHERS said: Start the New Year looking for a new job. You are wasted there, and she is really taking advantage of you BabyCakes. I bet there are loads of companies out there that will appreciate you and your hard work and will show that in promotion, raises and team work help.
Seriously, think about it over Christmas. You dont wanna be saying the same stuff next year about your boss, do you?
Good Luck anyway! And try not to let it worry you over Christmas. Thank you sweetheart! The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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Your boss and Scrooge should get together. Wait...your boss IS Scrooge...3 Xmas spirits to come. 
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moderatorKick her in the balls (cause she sure has some!) and frie her ass!
And then start looking for a new job with a male boss! If U don't get the raise u asked for, spend a nite at the office and look forwards to your next paycheck! | |
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HerRoyalBadness said: Kick her in the balls (cause she sure has some!) and frie her ass!
And then start looking for a new job with a male boss! If U don't get the raise u asked for, spend a nite at the office and look forwards to your next paycheck!   The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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BabyCakes said: HerRoyalBadness said: Kick her in the balls (cause she sure has some!) and frie her ass!
And then start looking for a new job with a male boss! If U don't get the raise u asked for, spend a nite at the office and look forwards to your next paycheck! Ok, bad idea! sowwee! | |
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Just do what you can, and after 8 hours leave...
Bastards, always take advantage of good workers... ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
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sag10 said: Just do what you can, and after 8 hours leave...
Bastards, always take advantage of good workers... Advantage ain't the word! Thanks saggy... The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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I've had a few bosses like that in my time. I'm very fortunate to have a good one now (just for the record, she is female, so not all of them make bad bosses) 
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JediMaster said: I've had a few bosses like that in my time. I'm very fortunate to have a good one now (just for the record, she is female, so not all of them make bad bosses)
I've had wonderful bosses who were women. It's usually kinda silly to even mention the gender of your boss when it comes to personalities, isn't it? Aren't we over that whole thing by now, or do we still think women are ruled by their emotions and that men are all angry perverts, and other stereotypes?  | |
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I DIDN'T EVEN MENTION IF SHE WAS MALE OR FEMALE.. I JUST CALLED HER A BITCH.. which she is..
I think it dont' matter what the sex is, but working for men and women in my past.. i see that women do feel they need to almost prove a "point" in the working field. It is just the way it is.. Some women do, and some dont'. but we can't classify all in the same category! The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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BabyCakes said: I DIDN'T EVEN MENTION IF SHE WAS MALE OR FEMALE.. I JUST CALLED HER A BITCH.. which she is..
I think it dont' matter what the sex is, but working for men and women in my past.. i see that women do feel they need to almost prove a "point" in the working field. It is just the way it is.. Some women do, and some dont'. but we can't classify all in the same category! Ummm...hey...I was talking to JediMaster, which is why I quoted him, because he mentioned that not all female bosses are like yours. No need to yell. [This message was edited Tue Dec 16 13:36:02 PST 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: BabyCakes said: I DIDN'T EVEN MENTION IF SHE WAS MALE OR FEMALE.. I JUST CALLED HER A BITCH.. which she is..
I think it dont' matter what the sex is, but working for men and women in my past.. i see that women do feel they need to almost prove a "point" in the working field. It is just the way it is.. Some women do, and some dont'. but we can't classify all in the same category! Ummm...hey...I was talking to JediMaster, which is why I quoted him, because he mentioned that not all female bosses are like yours. No need to yell. [This message was edited Tue Dec 16 13:36:02 PST 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] Oh nooo I wasnt' yelling... Please.. dont get the panties in a bunch.. I guess I am just a bit sensative today The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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BabyCakes said: AnotherLoverToo said: BabyCakes said: I DIDN'T EVEN MENTION IF SHE WAS MALE OR FEMALE.. I JUST CALLED HER A BITCH.. which she is..
I think it dont' matter what the sex is, but working for men and women in my past.. i see that women do feel they need to almost prove a "point" in the working field. It is just the way it is.. Some women do, and some dont'. but we can't classify all in the same category! Ummm...hey...I was talking to JediMaster, which is why I quoted him, because he mentioned that not all female bosses are like yours. No need to yell. Oh nooo I wasnt' yelling... Please.. dont get the panties in a bunch.. I guess I am just a bit sensative today My panties weren't--and still aren't--in a bunch.  All caps is just considered "yelling" online, so...
Anyway 
And I hope things get better for you [This message was edited Tue Dec 16 13:41:19 PST 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: BabyCakes said: AnotherLoverToo said: BabyCakes said: I DIDN'T EVEN MENTION IF SHE WAS MALE OR FEMALE.. I JUST CALLED HER A BITCH.. which she is..
I think it dont' matter what the sex is, but working for men and women in my past.. i see that women do feel they need to almost prove a "point" in the working field. It is just the way it is.. Some women do, and some dont'. but we can't classify all in the same category! Ummm...hey...I was talking to JediMaster, which is why I quoted him, because he mentioned that not all female bosses are like yours. No need to yell. Oh nooo I wasnt' yelling... Please.. dont get the panties in a bunch.. I guess I am just a bit sensative today My panties weren't--and still aren't--in a bunch. All caps is just considered "yelling" online, so...
Anyway
And I hope things get better for you [This message was edited Tue Dec 16 13:41:19 PST 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] Well.. any which way .. I wasn't yelling.. Thanks for your support. By the way the panties comment.. I was being cute.. Guess that went over and above..  [This message was edited Tue Dec 16 13:44:08 PST 2003 by BabyCakes] The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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Anotherlovertoo: All caps is just considered "yelling" online, so...
Some people just write in captials all the time.. it dont always mean your "yelling"... The day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom - Anais Nin
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BabyCakes said: I need a new job.
 Yes, you do. No raise in 2 and a half years, and you're being overworked with double the workload? Unfortunately, being overworked and underpaid is common. I don't think you should quit before you have something lined up already, but I would start looking for a new job. I really feel for people who are miserable in their work. I've been there before, and to me there really aren't that many worse things in life to endure. Getting out of bed to essentially be unhappy is horrible.  I understand some may have to do it for a while, but not forever.This post not for the wimp contingent. All whiny wusses avert your eyes. | |
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I'd look for anew job. In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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BabyCakes said: AnotherLoverToo said: BabyCakes said: AnotherLoverToo said: BabyCakes said: I DIDN'T EVEN MENTION IF SHE WAS MALE OR FEMALE.. I JUST CALLED HER A BITCH.. which she is..
I think it dont' matter what the sex is, but working for men and women in my past.. i see that women do feel they need to almost prove a "point" in the working field. It is just the way it is.. Some women do, and some dont'. but we can't classify all in the same category! Ummm...hey...I was talking to JediMaster, which is why I quoted him, because he mentioned that not all female bosses are like yours. No need to yell. Oh nooo I wasnt' yelling... Please.. dont get the panties in a bunch.. I guess I am just a bit sensative today My panties weren't--and still aren't--in a bunch. All caps is just considered "yelling" online, so...
Anyway
And I hope things get better for you [This message was edited Tue Dec 16 13:41:19 PST 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] Well.. any which way .. I wasn't yelling.. Thanks for your support. By the way the panties comment.. I was being cute.. Guess that went over and above..
[This message was edited Tue Dec 16 13:44:08 PST 2003 by BabyCakes] Ok, you weren't yelling...and your panties comment went over and above...and sometimes all caps doesn't mean yelling...and you didn't mention your boss's sex... 
((Just remember--I am not a Grinch, and I don't want you to be miserable!))  [This message was edited Tue Dec 16 21:54:25 PST 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] | |
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