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19 year old girls are not thinking when...... Ok so this is sick. I found out that one of the photograhers I work with is dating a 34 year old man. SHE IS ONLY 19!!! What on earth is she thinking. She says her mom is cool with it and she stays at his house all the time. He also calls her at work all the time. I answered one time and almost told him to fuck off, but I was nice  and told her that R. Kelly was on hold for her on line 2 
I ask her why oh why and all she says is "he is so hot" WTF does that have anything to do with it. I tried to tell her but she ain't hearing it. So I guess when she is cryin a month from now cause he wants nothing to do with her anymore and she realizes he just wanted some putang. I should just say I told you so? Oh how it hurts to watch this go on. I dunno maybe I care way to much. Next on my agenda find out where the motherfucker lives in the city (which is not far from me she has told me) and beat his mother fucking ass 
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Ok so this is sick. I found out that one of the photograhers I work with is dating a 34 year old man. SHE IS ONLY 19!!! What on earth is she thinking. She says her mom is cool with it and she stays at his house all the time. He also calls her at work all the time. I answered one time and almost told him to fuck off, but I was nice
and told her that R. Kelly was on hold for her on line 2
I ask her why oh why and all she says is "he is so hot" WTF does that have anything to do with it. I tried to tell her but she ain't hearing it. So I guess when she is cryin a month from now cause he wants nothing to do with her anymore and she realizes he just wanted some putang. I should just say I told you so? Oh how it hurts to watch this go on. I dunno maybe I care way to much. Next on my agenda find out where the motherfucker lives in the city (which is not far from me she has told me) and beat his mother fucking ass
Thanks for letting me vent this has got me tweaking for the past few days. So why is this your concern. She's grown now and it's her business whoever she sees. NEW WAVE FOREVER: SLAVE TO THE WAVE FROM THE CRADLE TO THE GRAVE. | |
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NWF said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Ok so this is sick. I found out that one of the photograhers I work with is dating a 34 year old man. SHE IS ONLY 19!!! What on earth is she thinking. She says her mom is cool with it and she stays at his house all the time. He also calls her at work all the time. I answered one time and almost told him to fuck off, but I was nice
and told her that R. Kelly was on hold for her on line 2
I ask her why oh why and all she says is "he is so hot" WTF does that have anything to do with it. I tried to tell her but she ain't hearing it. So I guess when she is cryin a month from now cause he wants nothing to do with her anymore and she realizes he just wanted some putang. I should just say I told you so? Oh how it hurts to watch this go on. I dunno maybe I care way to much. Next on my agenda find out where the motherfucker lives in the city (which is not far from me she has told me) and beat his mother fucking ass
Thanks for letting me vent this has got me tweaking for the past few days. So why is this your concern. She's grown now and it's her business whoever she sees. I dunno for some stupid reason I care and do not want to see her get hurt or anything bad happen to her  ...she ma girl. | |
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I have and 19 year old daughter and i would go crazy  that man is old enough to be her father 
I'm with you MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld let me talk to him first, i got plenty to say  | |
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katt said: I have and 19 year old daughter and i would go crazy
that man is old enough to be her father
I'm with you MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld let me talk to him first, i got plenty to say I just do not understand how any mother would be ok with it??? | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: katt said: I have and 19 year old daughter and i would go crazy
that man is old enough to be her father
I'm with you MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld let me talk to him first, i got plenty to say I just do not understand how any mother would be ok with it??? Neither can i, i dont think my daughter would ever do such a thing  but this guy is right beside my age, oh he would be a sorry bunny if he crossed my path. | |
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I dont think it is any of your business to be honest, yes it is nice you are concerned but she is old enough to make her own decisions. If she is happy, then be happy for her too. She could easily get as hurt dating a 19 year old guy.
Well let me tell you, when I was 19 I was dating a guy who was 42 so  there you go, 34 isnt really that old to me.
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Maybe they are in love? When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
 They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34!  | |
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REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34! 
About 20 years ago a friend of my dads who was about 40 at the time married a girl who was 18. She was a stunner too! (I was 16 at the time). They are still together and have a couple of kids who are now teenagers. It does happen.  When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34!
About 20 years ago a friend of my dads who was about 40 at the time married a girl who was 18. She was a stunner too! (I was 16 at the time). They are still together and have a couple of kids who are now teenagers. It does happen. 
My Grandmother married a man twice her age, they were very very happy together until he passed away
But yes, if two people love each other there are no boundaries. Only the people who think they can judge and say it isnt right makes it more difficult for them.  | |
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I'd hate to be the guy when Jess catches up with him.  | |
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REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34!
About 20 years ago a friend of my dads who was about 40 at the time married a girl who was 18. She was a stunner too! (I was 16 at the time). They are still together and have a couple of kids who are now teenagers. It does happen.
My Grandmother married a man twice her age, they were very very happy together until he passed away
But yes, if two people love each other there are no boundaries. Only the people who think they can judge and say it isnt right makes it more difficult for them. I understand what you are saying red...but she ruined a 2 year realationship over this and I can not help but worry sorry if I pissed you or someone else off with what I said I do not mean to judge her...I am just being the worried mother. Christ I ain't even got any kids and I am acting like a my mother | |
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althom said: I'd hate to be the guy when Jess catches up with him.
Put yourself in my place...how would you feel? | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34!
About 20 years ago a friend of my dads who was about 40 at the time married a girl who was 18. She was a stunner too! (I was 16 at the time). They are still together and have a couple of kids who are now teenagers. It does happen.
My Grandmother married a man twice her age, they were very very happy together until he passed away
But yes, if two people love each other there are no boundaries. Only the people who think they can judge and say it isnt right makes it more difficult for them. I understand what you are saying red...but she ruined a 2 year realationship over this and I can not help but worry sorry if I pissed you or someone else off with what I said I do not mean to judge her...I am just being the worried mother. Christ I ain't even got any kids and I am acting like a my mother What up Hooch | |
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Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34!
About 20 years ago a friend of my dads who was about 40 at the time married a girl who was 18. She was a stunner too! (I was 16 at the time). They are still together and have a couple of kids who are now teenagers. It does happen.
My Grandmother married a man twice her age, they were very very happy together until he passed away
But yes, if two people love each other there are no boundaries. Only the people who think they can judge and say it isnt right makes it more difficult for them. I understand what you are saying red...but she ruined a 2 year realationship over this and I can not help but worry sorry if I pissed you or someone else off with what I said I do not mean to judge her...I am just being the worried mother. Christ I ain't even got any kids and I am acting like a my mother What up Hooch Yo Slut | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34!
About 20 years ago a friend of my dads who was about 40 at the time married a girl who was 18. She was a stunner too! (I was 16 at the time). They are still together and have a couple of kids who are now teenagers. It does happen.
My Grandmother married a man twice her age, they were very very happy together until he passed away
But yes, if two people love each other there are no boundaries. Only the people who think they can judge and say it isnt right makes it more difficult for them. I understand what you are saying red...but she ruined a 2 year realationship over this and I can not help but worry sorry if I pissed you or someone else off with what I said I do not mean to judge her...I am just being the worried mother. Christ I ain't even got any kids and I am acting like a my mother What up Hooch Yo Slut :LOL: you so crazy | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: althom said: I'd hate to be the guy when Jess catches up with him.
Put yourself in my place...how would you feel? With a 19 year old girl? | |
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Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34!
About 20 years ago a friend of my dads who was about 40 at the time married a girl who was 18. She was a stunner too! (I was 16 at the time). They are still together and have a couple of kids who are now teenagers. It does happen.
My Grandmother married a man twice her age, they were very very happy together until he passed away
But yes, if two people love each other there are no boundaries. Only the people who think they can judge and say it isnt right makes it more difficult for them. I understand what you are saying red...but she ruined a 2 year realationship over this and I can not help but worry sorry if I pissed you or someone else off with what I said I do not mean to judge her...I am just being the worried mother. Christ I ain't even got any kids and I am acting like a my mother What up Hooch Yo Slut :LOL: you so crazy I know | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34!
About 20 years ago a friend of my dads who was about 40 at the time married a girl who was 18. She was a stunner too! (I was 16 at the time). They are still together and have a couple of kids who are now teenagers. It does happen.
My Grandmother married a man twice her age, they were very very happy together until he passed away
But yes, if two people love each other there are no boundaries. Only the people who think they can judge and say it isnt right makes it more difficult for them. I understand what you are saying red...but she ruined a 2 year realationship over this and I can not help but worry sorry if I pissed you or someone else off with what I said I do not mean to judge her...I am just being the worried mother. Christ I ain't even got any kids and I am acting like a my mother What up Hooch Yo Slut :LOL: you so crazy I know We all know Jess  | |
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Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Paisley said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: REDFEATHERS said: bkw said: Maybe they are in love?
They cannot possibly be in love, I mean cos she is 19 and he is 34!
About 20 years ago a friend of my dads who was about 40 at the time married a girl who was 18. She was a stunner too! (I was 16 at the time). They are still together and have a couple of kids who are now teenagers. It does happen.
My Grandmother married a man twice her age, they were very very happy together until he passed away
But yes, if two people love each other there are no boundaries. Only the people who think they can judge and say it isnt right makes it more difficult for them. I understand what you are saying red...but she ruined a 2 year realationship over this and I can not help but worry sorry if I pissed you or someone else off with what I said I do not mean to judge her...I am just being the worried mother. Christ I ain't even got any kids and I am acting like a my mother What up Hooch Yo Slut :LOL: you so crazy I know We all know Jess  | |
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the guy I've been in love with for the last 4 years is now dating a 19 year old...he's 42...makes me wanna vomit. | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Ok so this is sick. I found out that one of the photograhers I work with is dating a 34 year old man. SHE IS ONLY 19!!! What on earth is she thinking. She says her mom is cool with it and she stays at his house all the time. He also calls her at work all the time. I answered one time and almost told him to fuck off, but I was nice
and told her that R. Kelly was on hold for her on line 2
I ask her why oh why and all she says is "he is so hot" WTF does that have anything to do with it. I tried to tell her but she ain't hearing it. So I guess when she is cryin a month from now cause he wants nothing to do with her anymore and she realizes he just wanted some putang. I should just say I told you so? Oh how it hurts to watch this go on. I dunno maybe I care way to much. Next on my agenda find out where the motherfucker lives in the city (which is not far from me she has told me) and beat his mother fucking ass
Thanks for letting me vent this has got me tweaking for the past few days. Is this thread over a hundred years old? Aren't we too intelligent in these days not to care about stuff like this? You are right this is none of your business. And if he hurts her it's too bad. A 20 years old guy could hurt her too. Age don't matter silly! And stay out of her business. 18 August 2007, O2 Arena, London
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if her answer to 'why are you with him'was 'he is is hot', it seems like she knows what she wants out of this. just because she's 19 doesn't mean she is naive. now, you work with her so you would know if she's immature or naive or whatever. if that is the case then just be a friend when it all falls apart and until then, bite your tongue. in reality, if she were to say to you (after making r. kelly comments to her boyfriend) 'mind your own business', she would have every right. just see what happens and help her if she asks for it. | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: NWF said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Ok so this is sick. I found out that one of the photograhers I work with is dating a 34 year old man. SHE IS ONLY 19!!! What on earth is she thinking. She says her mom is cool with it and she stays at his house all the time. He also calls her at work all the time. I answered one time and almost told him to fuck off, but I was nice
and told her that R. Kelly was on hold for her on line 2
I ask her why oh why and all she says is "he is so hot" WTF does that have anything to do with it. I tried to tell her but she ain't hearing it. So I guess when she is cryin a month from now cause he wants nothing to do with her anymore and she realizes he just wanted some putang. I should just say I told you so? Oh how it hurts to watch this go on. I dunno maybe I care way to much. As much as it could be considered wrong it doesn't do you any good to have a strong voice in the matter (maybe not) I think this would be the time where some rebellion comes into play and it could go on longer for the wack reason to prove a point or something like that. The mom is a different situation. I know if my sister was in this boat my parents wouldn't have anything to do for it my dad would probably go crazy and then get high. (weak joke) Good luck with the issue: Here is a question: I just turned 34 last month and I'm out at concert and I'm talking to girls who age range anywhere from 16 to 24. I had one girl hitting on me that was 18. She was very pretty and she didn't look the age, she was very developed. She didn't know how old I was so I was stoked that she thought I was good. Now seeing her the way she was and knowing that she is attractive does that make me a dirt bag? Next on my agenda find out where the motherfucker lives in the city (which is not far from me she has told me) and beat his mother fucking ass
Thanks for letting me vent this has got me tweaking for the past few days. So why is this your concern. She's grown now and it's her business whoever she sees. I dunno for some stupid reason I care and do not want to see her get hurt or anything bad happen to her ...she ma girl. | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: katt said: I have and 19 year old daughter and i would go crazy
that man is old enough to be her father
I'm with you MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld let me talk to him first, i got plenty to say I just do not understand how any mother would be ok with it??? What does this have to do with her mother? Best u can do is let here see the light if she's in the dark on such things. Maybe she just wants some experienced lovin' & fully expects him to disapear soon enough. | |
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i'm 19. the oldest guy i've dated is 28. seriously EXPLAIN your concerns to her because being bitchy is only going to be counterproductive.
[i know how she feels because honestly men mature a lot more slowly than girls do (in general). when i dated that 28 year old as a 19 year old i actually broke up with him because he behaved too immaturely. what is a girl supposed to do if she's particularly mature? just wait around until she's old enough for guys her age to be mature (which could be a long time) or suffer with jerks?] [This message was edited Sat Dec 6 14:16:45 PST 2003 by conch5184] | |
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