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Printable32Flavors said: Teacher said: Stop with these damned man-bashing threads
 I'm with Teacher here. To be honest, the topic could be much more effective if the question/statement was not so slanted. Most of the man hating threads are actually not even gender specific. Lots of women AND men do the things of which you speak. Damn you people are so freakin touchy!  It was just a question now move on and get over it. | |
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ButterscotchPimp said: Well, allow me to spit some truth.
I assume that "as she is" means that she hasn't changed. So if you're a big girl when the guy meets you, then it should be all good unless you really pork out. I look at it like this. I respect myself and my body, and i don't put just anything in my body. I'm a vegetarian, i don't drink soda, i don't smoke, etc. I work out semi-regularly (it's not the bane of my existence). If i fall in love with a person, it's true that you are falling in love with the person not the package, but the package does reflect the person. I'm not into super-model types, and i don't expect the woman i'm with to be perfect, because i'm not perfect. But if the woman i love, decides to pack on let's say 60 extra pounds, yeah there's a problem. First of all it tells me that you're too comfortable, and you should NEVER be that comfortable in a relationship. Why is it that women think that once they "settle down" that all of a sudden it's okay to pork out? And if they end up single, then it's time to go to the gym? What does that say to the person that you're with? You don't care what you look like for him? That's bull. SO enough with all the man-hater crap. Gaining 10 pounds is nothing. Gaining 60 pounds is a deal breaker. And just to be fair, i won't gain 60 pounds either. Aight? This is exactly what i'm talking about. | |
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Pais...were you hurt by a man? Fear is the mind-killer. | |
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Teacher said: Stop with these damned man-bashing threads
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teller said: Pais...were you hurt by a man?
NO!  it was just a  DAMN! | |
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Paisley said: teller said: Pais...were you hurt by a man?
NO! it was just a DAMN! Methinks thou dost protest too much.  Fear is the mind-killer. | |
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Paisley said: 32Flavors said: Teacher said: Stop with these damned man-bashing threads
I'm with Teacher here. To be honest, the topic could be much more effective if the question/statement was not so slanted. Most of the man hating threads are actually not even gender specific. Lots of women AND men do the things of which you speak. Damn you people are so freakin touchy! It was just a question now move on and get over it.How many "Why is a man so stupid/mean/moronic/insensitive" threads have u posted, eh? There's a reason we're tired of it u know | |
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teller said: Paisley said: teller said: Pais...were you hurt by a man?
NO! it was just a DAMN! Methinks thou dost protest too much. Well thous thinks wrong.  | |
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Teacher said: Paisley said: 32Flavors said: Teacher said: Stop with these damned man-bashing threads
I'm with Teacher here. To be honest, the topic could be much more effective if the question/statement was not so slanted. Most of the man hating threads are actually not even gender specific. Lots of women AND men do the things of which you speak. Damn you people are so freakin touchy! It was just a question now move on and get over it.How many "Why is a man so stupid/mean/moronic/insensitive" threads have u posted, eh? There's a reason we're tired of it u know Well I'm not talking about all men in paticular ok, so get over it, I'm just saying that there are some assholes like that and thank god I've never came across any. | |
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Fear is the mind-killer. | |
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Paisley said: ButterscotchPimp said: Well, allow me to spit some truth.
I assume that "as she is" means that she hasn't changed. So if you're a big girl when the guy meets you, then it should be all good unless you really pork out. I look at it like this. I respect myself and my body, and i don't put just anything in my body. I'm a vegetarian, i don't drink soda, i don't smoke, etc. I work out semi-regularly (it's not the bane of my existence). If i fall in love with a person, it's true that you are falling in love with the person not the package, but the package does reflect the person. I'm not into super-model types, and i don't expect the woman i'm with to be perfect, because i'm not perfect. But if the woman i love, decides to pack on let's say 60 extra pounds, yeah there's a problem. First of all it tells me that you're too comfortable, and you should NEVER be that comfortable in a relationship. Why is it that women think that once they "settle down" that all of a sudden it's okay to pork out? And if they end up single, then it's time to go to the gym? What does that say to the person that you're with? You don't care what you look like for him? That's bull. SO enough with all the man-hater crap. Gaining 10 pounds is nothing. Gaining 60 pounds is a deal breaker. And just to be fair, i won't gain 60 pounds either. Aight? This is exactly what i'm talking about. Okay, what is what you're talking about? What exactly did i say that you don't agree with? I don't mind answering the question, and i'm not afraid of an intelligent debate on the topic... http://www.facebook.com/p...111?ref=ts
y'all gone keep messin' around wit me and turn me back to the old me...... | |
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Paisley said: Teacher said: Paisley said: 32Flavors said: Teacher said: Stop with these damned man-bashing threads
I'm with Teacher here. To be honest, the topic could be much more effective if the question/statement was not so slanted. Most of the man hating threads are actually not even gender specific. Lots of women AND men do the things of which you speak. Damn you people are so freakin touchy! It was just a question now move on and get over it.How many "Why is a man so stupid/mean/moronic/insensitive" threads have u posted, eh? There's a reason we're tired of it u know Well I'm not talking about all men in paticular ok, so get over it, I'm just saying that there are some assholes like that and thank god I've never came across any. If u never came across one, why all these questions? How would u know then, if u have no first hand experience? | |
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ButterscotchPimp said: Well, allow me to spit some truth.
I assume that "as she is" means that she hasn't changed. So if you're a big girl when the guy meets you, then it should be all good unless you really pork out. I look at it like this. I respect myself and my body, and i don't put just anything in my body. I'm a vegetarian, i don't drink soda, i don't smoke, etc. I work out semi-regularly (it's not the bane of my existence). If i fall in love with a person, it's true that you are falling in love with the person not the package, but the package does reflect the person. I'm not into super-model types, and i don't expect the woman i'm with to be perfect, because i'm not perfect. But if the woman i love, decides to pack on let's say 60 extra pounds, yeah there's a problem. First of all it tells me that you're too comfortable, and you should NEVER be that comfortable in a relationship. Why is it that women think that once they "settle down" that all of a sudden it's okay to pork out? And if they end up single, then it's time to go to the gym? What does that say to the person that you're with? You don't care what you look like for him? That's bull. SO enough with all the man-hater crap. Gaining 10 pounds is nothing. Gaining 60 pounds is a deal breaker. And just to be fair, i won't gain 60 pounds either. Aight?  | |
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teller said: Pais...were you hurt by a man?
arent we all at one time or another...  men... THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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Paisley, I hope that what I'm about to say will help--not just for this question, but for any other male/female questions you have: not a whole lot is "fair" in life, or the way it "should" be, and no one ever said it would be. We're all attracted to beauty, to symmetry in features, and some have it and others of us don't.
Even online, where it's supposed to be about the content of what we write, the women who post their pictures and are considered physically beautiful will, 9 times out of 10, get more attention from men than a plain woman (or a woman who doesn't post a picture of herself), even if the plain woman posts intelligent, insightful, beautiful things. And my opinion is that you have 3 choices. Either: 1. Shrug your shoulders and say, "that's just how it is", and try to accept yourself the way you are 2. Continue to beat your head against the wall about how unfair it all is 3. Exercise, eat better, lose weight, have surgery or do whatever it takes to look the way you think you need to look No one can ever 100% accept you the way you are, other than God, maybe your parents and possibly yourself. And hopefully, that's more than enough... [This message was edited Sat Aug 23 17:29:24 PDT 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] | |
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Whatever..
Why is it that you're acting like men are the ONLY ones who care about these things? There are plenty of women who get turned off when their partners "let themsleves go",too. And it doesn't make them assholes,or shallow,or immature...I mean how the hell am I supposed to want to get it on,when I look over and see a guy whose breasts are almost as big as mine,and his stomach makes him look as if he's 8 months pregnant?! I guess I should just close my eyes and pretend he's somebody else,huh? It would be one thing if you looked that way when we first got together,but another thing when you look like what I find attractive when we first get together,and soon as we settle down,all of a sudden,  you don't care about yourself anymore...
We're all being a little too politically correct when we act like physical attraction isn't an important part of a relationship! I DON'T WANT TO BE NORMAL,because normal is part of the status quo,which I don't want to be a part of- Tori Amos | |
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All I know is that even after marriage, I'm gonna continue taking care of myself. I'll still wanna look good for my biatch. "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
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EvilWhiteMale said: All I know is that even after marriage, I'm gonna continue taking care of myself. I'll still wanna look good for my biatch.
:TOUCHED: Awww..thanks EWM! :EYES: | |
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Chico319 said: EvilWhiteMale said: All I know is that even after marriage, I'm gonna continue taking care of myself. I'll still wanna look good for my biatch.
:TOUCHED: Awww..thanks EWM! :EYES:  Chico, you are such a tart! | |
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Oh wait..I'm mad at you!   | |
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Chico319 said:
Oh wait..I'm mad at you! You know damn well if I was anywhere near you that you'd remove that sticker from yo ass for good.   | |
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Chico319 said: EvilWhiteMale said: All I know is that even after marriage, I'm gonna continue taking care of myself. I'll still wanna look good for my biatch.
:TOUCHED: Awww..thanks EWM! :EYES: | |
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Cloudbuster... I don't think so!  [This message was edited Sat Aug 23 17:38:17 PDT 2003 by Chico319] | |
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stymie said: Chico319 said: EvilWhiteMale said: All I know is that even after marriage, I'm gonna continue taking care of myself. I'll still wanna look good for my biatch.
:TOUCHED: Awww..thanks EWM! :EYES: Eat me, dough girl!! 
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But on the subject, Paisley, as long as you love yourself, there is nothing anyone can do to tear that down. Most of the married women I know have gained a considerable amount of weight after marriage and are still happily married so those particular set of guys on Maury were just jerks. I used to respect Maury Povich but his show is complete and utter garbage. | |
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Chico319 said: stymie said: Chico319 said: EvilWhiteMale said: All I know is that even after marriage, I'm gonna continue taking care of myself. I'll still wanna look good for my biatch.
:TOUCHED: Awww..thanks EWM! :EYES: Eat me, dough girl!!
Stymie ---> <--- Chico | |
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Chico319 said:
Cloudbuster... I don't think so! I don't believe you. And I shall call you 'man-bitch' from now on. | |
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Chico319 said: EvilWhiteMale said: All I know is that even after marriage, I'm gonna continue taking care of myself. I'll still wanna look good for my biatch.
:TOUCHED: Awww..thanks EWM! :EYES: I'm glad you enjoy the fantasy.  "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
Al Pacino- Scarface | |
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stymie said: Chico319 said: EvilWhiteMale said: All I know is that even after marriage, I'm gonna continue taking care of myself. I'll still wanna look good for my biatch.
:TOUCHED: Awww..thanks EWM! :EYES: Thanks baby.  "You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "
Al Pacino- Scarface | |
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