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A Question I have a question. When did being yourself become a big no no on the org. I have been on the org for a long time and have never had my shit jumped for expressing an opinion about anything or anyone before. This place is starting to sound a tad too much like the NPGMC and I really don't want to be a part of that whole shindig. I am me...and I will always be me...If you do not like me...then ignore me...if you are offended by me...realize that this is just a fucking chat room and get over it. Y'all really missin on this Reality shit...It is the bomb. The fantasy that you encase yourself in...it will someday prove to be the disaster that is being reeked elsewhere. **NPGMC** | |
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Ummm, like dude, you just totally offended me.
Seriously, though, just let some time go by and most likely it will all work out. Sometimes people are just touchier than normal on a given day and react more strongly than normal. The entire Org shouldn't be judged by that, though. [This message was edited Tue Aug 5 20:10:11 PDT 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] | |
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Seems to me you are asking people to allow you to be yourself...
The org has always allowed and encouraged that, but keep in mind that applies to ALL the org members. Would you rather the other members weren't themselves and expressed no opinion contrary to your own? Are you asking others to ignore you, when you have that exact same power within yourself? Seems to me you asking the org to becomes MORE like the NPGMC... ~When you understand why you dismiss all other gods, then you will understand why I dismiss yours~ | |
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Moderator | MuaPetahl said: Seems to me you are asking people to allow you to be yourself...
The org has always allowed and encouraged that, but keep in mind that applies to ALL the org members. Would you rather the other members weren't themselves and expressed no opinion contrary to your own? Are you asking others to ignore you, when you have that exact same power within yourself? Seems to me you asking the org to becomes MORE like the NPGMC... Co-sign! BTW, kickass avatar In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular. |
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MuaPetahl said: Seems to me you are asking people to allow you to be yourself...
The org has always allowed and encouraged that, but keep in mind that applies to ALL the org members. Would you rather the other members weren't themselves and expressed no opinion contrary to your own? Are you asking others to ignore you, when you have that exact same power within yourself? Seems to me you asking the org to becomes MORE like the NPGMC... Actually I am happy when other orger's express an opinion. I think it is the only way that ppl as a whole grow. However, I do no like being told that I am a bad person for expressing an opinion. I know where the ignore button is, and seldom have to use it, but if what I say gets on others nerves, then ignore me...please...but DO NOT expect me to stop expressing my opinion on anything or anyone. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN!!! | |
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MuaPetahl said: Seems to me you are asking people to allow you to be yourself...
The org has always allowed and encouraged that, but keep in mind that applies to ALL the org members. Would you rather the other members weren't themselves and expressed no opinion contrary to your own? Are you asking others to ignore you, when you have that exact same power within yourself? Seems to me you asking the org to becomes MORE like the NPGMC... Nice post, I would just like to add. You don't need permission from anyone to be yourself. I don't see the Org as "allowing" us to be ourselves rather that we "make" the Org what it is. However, being yourself is no excuse for negativity, abusive behaviour etc. | |
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AnotherLoverToo said: Ummm, like dude, you just totally offended me.
Seriously, though, just let some time go by and most likely it will all work out. Sometimes people are just touchier than normal on a given day and react more strongly than normal. The entire Org shouldn't be judged by that, though. [This message was edited Tue Aug 5 20:10:11 PDT 2003 by AnotherLoverToo] | |
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alexnevermind319 said: MuaPetahl said: Seems to me you are asking people to allow you to be yourself...
The org has always allowed and encouraged that, but keep in mind that applies to ALL the org members. Would you rather the other members weren't themselves and expressed no opinion contrary to your own? Are you asking others to ignore you, when you have that exact same power within yourself? Seems to me you asking the org to becomes MORE like the NPGMC... Actually I am happy when other orger's express an opinion. I think it is the only way that ppl as a whole grow. However, I do no like being told that I am a bad person for expressing an opinion. I know where the ignore button is, and seldom have to use it, but if what I say gets on others nerves, then ignore me...please...but DO NOT expect me to stop expressing my opinion on anything or anyone. IT WILL NOT HAPPEN!!! ok...i understand all of that...and alex...i love you now...and i always have...i dont want you too be upset with me at all... the thing is...that lately people have become a bit free with their words in here...usually, you might see someone get into it every once in a while...but now it seems to be the 'norm' in here... we all have too share this room together...and i hate seeing people "pin" someone down with their words...i would say the same if someone was doing it too you ...:HUG: this room is meant to have fun in...and enjoy others company...not tear down others and make them feel bad about themselves or the things they do in life...the message you sent across was pretty harsh...and kinda mean...thats what i was saying wasnt called for...not your opinions... honey...i love your opinions...and your outlook on life is great...you are a true pick-me-up when someone is feeling down...thats why...it was so out of character for you... thats all i was saying...:HUG: still love me baby ??? cuz i love you THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
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I'm bettin that I missed some hoo-haw, but I've seen very little of "jumping on people" lately... can't we all just get along??? | |
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endorphin74 said: can't we all just get along??? thats my thoughts exactly THE UNOFFICIAL ORG SEX THERAPIST
the original org kisser...:K: proud member of the 4F | |
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I'm gonna have to go with Alex on this one!!! I understand exactly what you mean!!! BTW long time no see! -------------------------------------------------
MENACE TO SOBRIETY | |
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pejman said: I'm gonna have to go with Alex on this one!!! I understand exactly what you mean!!! BTW long time no see!
...ty Pej | |
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Lleena said: MuaPetahl said: Seems to me you are asking people to allow you to be yourself...
The org has always allowed and encouraged that, but keep in mind that applies to ALL the org members. Would you rather the other members weren't themselves and expressed no opinion contrary to your own? Are you asking others to ignore you, when you have that exact same power within yourself? Seems to me you asking the org to becomes MORE like the NPGMC... Nice post, I would just like to add. You don't need permission from anyone to be yourself. I don't see the Org as "allowing" us to be ourselves rather that we "make" the Org what it is. However, being yourself is no excuse for negativity, abusive behaviour etc. How's that... | |
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alexnevermind319 said: Lleena said: MuaPetahl said: Seems to me you are asking people to allow you to be yourself...
The org has always allowed and encouraged that, but keep in mind that applies to ALL the org members. Would you rather the other members weren't themselves and expressed no opinion contrary to your own? Are you asking others to ignore you, when you have that exact same power within yourself? Seems to me you asking the org to becomes MORE like the NPGMC... Nice post, I would just like to add. You don't need permission from anyone to be yourself. I don't see the Org as "allowing" us to be ourselves rather that we "make" the Org what it is. However, being yourself is no excuse for negativity, abusive behaviour etc. How's that... Perfect!:Finger: | |
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Maybe I missed some shit but I was gonna start a thread saying how great it is that there are few troublemakers on the org of late.
word edit. [This message was edited Fri Aug 8 12:43:53 PDT 2003 by Cloudbuster] | |
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U're saying nobody kicked your ass for an opinion..?
Then..I will, U' have to learn it! | |
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Just remember who 'U' are Al'.
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Just remember who 'U' are Al'.
JD x ...ty JD... | |
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