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Reply #90 posted 07/23/03 9:53pm

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sinisterpentatonic said:

TigersLyric said:

From the responses I'm reading, I would gather they're coming from white woman or white women who love black men or THE FAT NASTY SLOUGHY TRAILER TRAMPS ya'll are the fools I'm talking about! But either way it REALLY DON'T MATTER..Seems ya'll all are reacting to that part, seems there much more TRUTH THAN MEETS THE EYE...Which STILL hold true to my post...!


Like I said before Very crackish!




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Reply #91 posted 07/23/03 9:56pm

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justkelley said:

TigersLyric said:

From the responses I'm reading, I would gather they're coming from white woman or white women who love black men or THE FAT NASTY SLOUGHY TRAILER TRAMPS ya'll are the fools I'm talking about! But either way it REALLY DON'T MATTER..Seems ya'll all are reacting to that part, seems there much more TRUTH THAN MEETS THE EYE...Which STILL hold true to my post...!




well...well...well...
you came back for more huh??? so it wasnt a silly slip or a case of being angry or drunk...you really feel this way ...ok...lets deal with this ...


From the responses I'm reading, I would gather they're coming from white woman or white women who love black men ...UMMM...DUH...DIDNT I JUST SAY THAT ???


or THE FAT NASTY SLOUGHY TRAILER TRAMPS ya'll are the fools I'm talking about! ... I THINK WE COVERED THAT AS WELL MY DEAR :NONO:


ya'll are the fools I'm talking about!...THINK I SAID THAT AS WELL...:NOD:


REALLY DON'T MATTER...YOU GOT THAT SHIT RIGHT...lol



Seems ya'll all are reacting to that part, seems there much more [b]TRUTH THAN MEETS THE EYE...THIS IS NOT THE TRUTH HUN...ITS MORE SAD THAN ANYTHING...:CRY:



Which STILL hold true to my post...!...THATS EVEN MORE SAD...YOU HAVE A WHOLE GROUP OF PEOPLE LOOKING AT YOU LIKE YOU ARE A CRAZY...CRACKED OUT WHORE...AND YOU STILL INSIST THAT YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT ...SOME PEOPLE JUST MAKE ME NUTS...


HERES HOW IT REALLY IS...YOU ARE LOST, CONFUSED, HATEFUL, AND LONELY...

AND JUST BECAUSE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER WERE BLACK...DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO TALK THE WAY YOU ARE TO ANY OF US..SEE...THE THING IS ...MEN CHOOSE WHO THEY WANT TOO...IF A MAN WANTS A WOMAN WITH A NASTY ASS ATTITUDE..HE CAN CHOOSE YOU , IF HE WANTS A WOMAN WITH A GOOD, CLEAN, PURE HEART...HE CAN CHOOSE ME...ITS TOTALLY UP TO HIM...I JUST HOPE THAT ITS NOT ABOUT RACE WITH HIM...MOST OF US HAVE LEARNED TO OVERLOOK THAT ABOUT PEOPLE...I AM DEEPLY SORRY THAT YOU HAVENT...

GUESS YOU ARE JUST ONE OF "THOSE" SPECIAL ONES STILL LEFT...DONT WORRY ...BE PROUD...BECAUSE PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE DYING OUT FAST...

ITS NOT MUCH IN STYLE TO BE AS MESSED UP IN THE HEAD AS YOU ARE...wink


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Reply #92 posted 07/23/03 9:58pm

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justkelley said:

TigersLyric said:

From the responses I'm reading, I would gather they're coming from white woman or white women who love black men or THE FAT NASTY SLOUGHY TRAILER TRAMPS ya'll are the fools I'm talking about! But either way it REALLY DON'T MATTER..Seems ya'll all are reacting to that part, seems there much more TRUTH THAN MEETS THE EYE...Which STILL hold true to my post...!




well...well...well...
you came back for more huh??? so it wasnt a silly slip or a case of being angry or drunk...you really feel this way ...ok...lets deal with this ...


From the responses I'm reading, I would gather they're coming from white woman or white women who love black men ...UMMM...DUH...DIDNT I JUST SAY THAT ???


or THE FAT NASTY SLOUGHY TRAILER TRAMPS ya'll are the fools I'm talking about! ... I THINK WE COVERED THAT AS WELL MY DEAR :NONO:


ya'll are the fools I'm talking about!...THINK I SAID THAT AS WELL...:NOD:


REALLY DON'T MATTER...YOU GOT THAT SHIT RIGHT...lol



Seems ya'll all are reacting to that part, seems there much more [b]TRUTH THAN MEETS THE EYE...THIS IS NOT THE TRUTH HUN...ITS MORE SAD THAN ANYTHING...:CRY:



Which STILL hold true to my post...!...THATS EVEN MORE SAD...YOU HAVE A WHOLE GROUP OF PEOPLE LOOKING AT YOU LIKE YOU ARE A CRAZY...CRACKED OUT WHORE...AND YOU STILL INSIST THAT YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT ...SOME PEOPLE JUST MAKE ME NUTS...


HERES HOW IT REALLY IS...YOU ARE LOST, CONFUSED, HATEFUL, AND LONELY...

AND JUST BECAUSE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER WERE BLACK...DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO TALK THE WAY YOU ARE TO ANY OF US..SEE...THE THING IS ...MEN CHOOSE WHO THEY WANT TOO...IF A MAN WANTS A WOMAN WITH A NASTY ASS ATTITUDE..HE CAN CHOOSE YOU , IF HE WANTS A WOMAN WITH A GOOD, CLEAN, PURE HEART...HE CAN CHOOSE ME...ITS TOTALLY UP TO HIM...I JUST HOPE THAT ITS NOT ABOUT RACE WITH HIM...MOST OF US HAVE LEARNED TO OVERLOOK THAT ABOUT PEOPLE...I AM DEEPLY SORRY THAT YOU HAVENT...

GUESS YOU ARE JUST ONE OF "THOSE" SPECIAL ONES STILL LEFT...DONT WORRY ...BE PROUD...BECAUSE PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE DYING OUT FAST...

ITS NOT MUCH IN STYLE TO BE AS MESSED UP IN THE HEAD AS YOU ARE...wink


GOOD LUCK WITH ALL THAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER YOU smile


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Reply #93 posted 07/23/03 9:59pm

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sinisterpentatonic said:

justkelley said:

TigersLyric said:

From the responses I'm reading, I would gather they're coming from white woman or white women who love black men or THE FAT NASTY SLOUGHY TRAILER TRAMPS ya'll are the fools I'm talking about! But either way it REALLY DON'T MATTER..Seems ya'll all are reacting to that part, seems there much more TRUTH THAN MEETS THE EYE...Which STILL hold true to my post...!




well...well...well...
you came back for more huh??? so it wasnt a silly slip or a case of being angry or drunk...you really feel this way ...ok...lets deal with this ...


From the responses I'm reading, I would gather they're coming from white woman or white women who love black men ...UMMM...DUH...DIDNT I JUST SAY THAT ???


or THE FAT NASTY SLOUGHY TRAILER TRAMPS ya'll are the fools I'm talking about! ... I THINK WE COVERED THAT AS WELL MY DEAR :NONO:


ya'll are the fools I'm talking about!...THINK I SAID THAT AS WELL...:NOD:


REALLY DON'T MATTER...YOU GOT THAT SHIT RIGHT...lol



Seems ya'll all are reacting to that part, seems there much more [b]TRUTH THAN MEETS THE EYE...THIS IS NOT THE TRUTH HUN...ITS MORE SAD THAN ANYTHING...:CRY:



Which STILL hold true to my post...!...THATS EVEN MORE SAD...YOU HAVE A WHOLE GROUP OF PEOPLE LOOKING AT YOU LIKE YOU ARE A CRAZY...CRACKED OUT WHORE...AND YOU STILL INSIST THAT YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT ...SOME PEOPLE JUST MAKE ME NUTS...


HERES HOW IT REALLY IS...YOU ARE LOST, CONFUSED, HATEFUL, AND LONELY...

AND JUST BECAUSE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER WERE BLACK...DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO TALK THE WAY YOU ARE TO ANY OF US..SEE...THE THING IS ...MEN CHOOSE WHO THEY WANT TOO...IF A MAN WANTS A WOMAN WITH A NASTY ASS ATTITUDE..HE CAN CHOOSE YOU , IF HE WANTS A WOMAN WITH A GOOD, CLEAN, PURE HEART...HE CAN CHOOSE ME...ITS TOTALLY UP TO HIM...I JUST HOPE THAT ITS NOT ABOUT RACE WITH HIM...MOST OF US HAVE LEARNED TO OVERLOOK THAT ABOUT PEOPLE...I AM DEEPLY SORRY THAT YOU HAVENT...

GUESS YOU ARE JUST ONE OF "THOSE" SPECIAL ONES STILL LEFT...DONT WORRY ...BE PROUD...BECAUSE PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE DYING OUT FAST...

ITS NOT MUCH IN STYLE TO BE AS MESSED UP IN THE HEAD AS YOU ARE...wink


GOOD LUCK WITH ALL THAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER YOU smile


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somebody just got checked! nod





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Reply #94 posted 07/23/03 10:02pm

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Remind me to NEVER piss you off
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[This message was edited Wed Jul 23 21:59:58 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79]
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really...i am one of the nicest people you would ever wanna meet...

just ask any of the BLACK men i have dated :LOL:

just jokin...

really...i just hate nasty, rude, stupid people...thats all :K:

but for you ...i give :hugs: wink
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Reply #95 posted 07/23/03 10:03pm

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CHEECHWIZARD said:

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can make a $1.00 out of 15 Cents

And doin big thangs with the dollar

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can go from the boardroom to the 'hood and "keep it real" in both places.

Natural Multi Taskers

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can slap the taste out of your mouth.

Or in to the middle of next week

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can put a Black man and his non-Black date on pins and needles just by walking into the room.

Tsk, tsk, tsk...
ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can live below poverty level and yet set fashion trends.

FINE MUTAFUCKAS

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can fight two struggles everyday and make it look easy.

And still have room for more

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can make a child happy on Christmas Day even if he didn't get a darn thing.

that ain't no small task

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can be admired and fantasized about by men of other races and know that when she does cross over it's done out of sincerity, not a political move.

It's never been a status symble for them, just a love thing.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can be 75 years old and look 45!

[b] Yeah,I got that too


ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can make other women want to pay plastic surgeons top $$$ for physical features she was already born with.

Shit!!! I got that too

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can be the mother of civilization.

MATERCONDRIAL blah blah blah, i study shit



Did Ya Hear me?

If you are BLACK in origin, we can do the same here...
[This message was edited Wed Jul 23 14:39:52 PDT 2003 by CHEECHWIZARD]

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Now where did it all go wrong here???
this thread was to point out the streghnths of black womanhood. it WAS basicly in response to all the kobe shit
that been goin on and to show all the atvantages of having a BLACK WOMAN.
BUT maybe i underestimated the org again, as this has just turned into an atack on this woman for speakin her mind.
I speak my mind at all turns and don't get put on like that.
WHUT!!!
i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
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Reply #96 posted 07/23/03 10:05pm

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justkelley said:

Remind me to NEVER piss you off
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[This message was edited Wed Jul 23 21:59:58 PDT 2003 by Sweeny79]




really...i am one of the nicest people you would ever wanna meet...

just ask any of the BLACK men i have dated :LOL:

just jokin...

really...i just hate nasty, rude, stupid people...thats all :K:

but for you ...i give :hugs: wink[/quote]


I hear where you are comming from, i was just trying to lighten the mood here a bit biggrin hug
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Reply #97 posted 07/23/03 10:05pm

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ummm...king...i believe it went wrong with ms. lyrics discussion hun...
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Reply #98 posted 07/23/03 10:06pm

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KingBAD said:

CHEECHWIZARD said:

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can make a $1.00 out of 15 Cents

And doin big thangs with the dollar

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can go from the boardroom to the 'hood and "keep it real" in both places.

Natural Multi Taskers

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can slap the taste out of your mouth.

Or in to the middle of next week

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can put a Black man and his non-Black date on pins and needles just by walking into the room.

Tsk, tsk, tsk...
ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can live below poverty level and yet set fashion trends.

FINE MUTAFUCKAS

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can fight two struggles everyday and make it look easy.

And still have room for more

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can make a child happy on Christmas Day even if he didn't get a darn thing.

that ain't no small task

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can be admired and fantasized about by men of other races and know that when she does cross over it's done out of sincerity, not a political move.

It's never been a status symble for them, just a love thing.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can be 75 years old and look 45!

[b] Yeah,I got that too


ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can make other women want to pay plastic surgeons top $$$ for physical features she was already born with.

Shit!!! I got that too

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can be the mother of civilization.

MATERCONDRIAL blah blah blah, i study shit



Did Ya Hear me?

If you are BLACK in origin, we can do the same here...
[This message was edited Wed Jul 23 14:39:52 PDT 2003 by CHEECHWIZARD]

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Now where did it all go wrong here???
this thread was to point out the streghnths of black womanhood. it WAS basicly in response to all the kobe shit
that been goin on and to show all the atvantages of having a BLACK WOMAN.
BUT maybe i underestimated the org again, as this has just turned into an atack on this woman for speakin her mind.
I speak my mind at all turns and don't get put on like that.
WHUT!!!

Sorry boxed
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Reply #99 posted 07/23/03 10:09pm

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Now where did it all go wrong here???
this thread was to point out the streghnths of black womanhood. it WAS basicly in response to all the kobe shit
that been goin on
and to show all the atvantages of having a BLACK WOMAN.
BUT maybe i underestimated the org again, as this has just turned into an atack on this woman for speakin her mind.
I speak my mind at all turns and don't get put on like that.
WHUT!!!


What do you mean by it being a "response to all the kobe shit"? It almost seems to mean that if his wife was black, this wouldn't have happened? Or am I totally misunderstanding you?
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Reply #100 posted 07/23/03 10:19pm

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blunt hi,don't mind me...
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Reply #101 posted 07/23/03 10:26pm

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seee...thats why i love ya pej hug falloff
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Reply #102 posted 07/23/03 10:29pm

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justkelley said:

seee...thats why i love ya pej hug falloff





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Reply #103 posted 07/23/03 10:48pm

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pejman said:

blunt hi,don't mind me...


Pass that over here dog! By the way that reminds me I need to change my bong water.
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Reply #104 posted 07/23/03 10:51pm

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sinisterpentatonic said:

pejman said:

blunt hi,don't mind me...


Pass that over here dog! By the way that reminds me I need to change my bong water.



rolleyes
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Reply #105 posted 07/23/03 10:53pm

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hey...give some to the lyric chic...maybe she can calm down a bit :LOL:...


and then pass it too me woot! clapping
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Reply #106 posted 07/23/03 10:57pm

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ian said:



Open a Japanese women's magazine and it's full of white faces, pale skin, blue eyes, blonde hair. Why try and convince Japanese women that they need to look like the western world's vision of white beauty? If you are short, with yellow skin, a small bust, and black hair... why is fashion telling you to be tall, white, busty, with blonde hair and blue eyes? Ridiculous!



And herein lays the problem. White is right. Or perceived right. When in actuality brown rice is better for you than white rice. Strange as it may seem, refined sugar, is not. It is a stripped down version of the original. Brown sugar is better. Same for flour. It's a trick yall. And if your say "it's a trick", then you the trick. Right?
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Reply #107 posted 07/23/03 11:00pm

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ian said:



Open a Japanese women's magazine and it's full of white faces, pale skin, blue eyes, blonde hair. Why try and convince Japanese women that they need to look like the western world's vision of white beauty? If you are short, with yellow skin, a small bust, and black hair... why is fashion telling you to be tall, white, busty, with blonde hair and blue eyes? Ridiculous!



And herein lays the problem. White is right. Or perceived right. When in actuality brown rice is better for you than white rice. Strange as it may seem, refined sugar, is not. It is a stripped down version of the original. Brown sugar is better. Same for flour. It's a trick yall. And if your say "it's a trick", then you the trick. Right?

right confuse
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Reply #108 posted 07/23/03 11:01pm

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ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Wears a burgundy French roll, 3-inch heels and a split up her thigh to work and makes it look professional.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can wear the heck out of spandex.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can raise a doctor, a world-class athlete and an A+ student in an environment deemed by society as dysfunctional, broken, underprivileged and disenfranchised.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can heat a whole house in the winter without help from the gas company.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can work full time while finishing school, raising respectful and intelligent children, be active in the PTA, be the pastor's secretary, and the choir president and a make it all seem effortless





Funny...my mama white and she did some of these same exact things.
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Reply #109 posted 07/23/03 11:06pm

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justkelley said:

hey...give some to the lyric chic...maybe she can calm down a bit :LOL:...


and then pass it too me woot! clapping


"the lyric chic" eek

lol
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Reply #110 posted 07/23/03 11:10pm

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AnotherLoverToo said:

justkelley said:

hey...give some to the lyric chic...maybe she can calm down a bit :LOL:...


and then pass it too me woot! clapping


"the lyric chic" eek

lol





yes...the tigerslyric...she needs it i think :LOL:
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Reply #111 posted 07/23/03 11:10pm

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CHEECHWIZARD said:

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Wears a burgundy French roll, 3-inch heels and a split up her thigh to work and makes it look professional.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can wear the heck out of spandex.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can raise a doctor, a world-class athlete and an A+ student in an environment deemed by society as dysfunctional, broken, underprivileged and disenfranchised.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can heat a whole house in the winter without help from the gas company.

ONLY A BLACK WOMAN
Can work full time while finishing school, raising respectful and intelligent children, be active in the PTA, be the pastor's secretary, and the choir president and a make it all seem effortless


Gee wiz, I know a lot of women like that. I have great admiration for them, but you'll never see their faces or any representation thereof on the cover of Vogue magazine. They mostly considered second class citizens in western culture, or worse.
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Reply #112 posted 07/23/03 11:13pm

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Some people find such things entertainment. "Can I please get some entertainment here!"
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Reply #113 posted 07/23/03 11:19pm

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Cheech, this for you highfive Uh, can I borrow some suga, brown preferably...
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Reply #114 posted 07/24/03 12:13am

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We all know by now that Black is the color of the ORIGINAL MAN and all others stem from us...So if "I" choose to lay down with, marry, cohort, live with, hire, fire, make her ass squirt!...so be it...all races are a part of me anydamnway!

evillol



I'm an equal opportunity fucker, sucker, lover, truster, and FUCKIN FORUM BUSTER!
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Reply #115 posted 07/24/03 12:13am

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only a black woman will fight her mans battles for him lol seriously, if she see her man gettinginto a fight i swear she would jump in too . at least i would.,,,,,

But if I was wondering though if the same things where being said about a white woman, would this even a issue?
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Reply #116 posted 07/24/03 1:53am

ian

Janfriend said:

ian said:

TigersLyric said:

In your round-about way of praising black women...What's this REALLY about?

The way I see it...When black men get it together and stop deserting their black women for a White Woman then we can talk...


Why is it there is always a White Woman in the wings CHOREOGRAPHING the demise of the black on black relationship...ASK

O.J. Simpson
Montel Williams
Lionel Richie
Michael Jordan


And most recently Kobe Bryant's.(dumb ass) See what you my brother don't see is when a white man gets with that BLACK WOMAN...Trust me she's on point in everyway, Career, Body, the whole 9...Black men get the sloppy seconds, of the white woman, that the white men don't want no damn way...Usually they're FAT/NASTY SLOUGHY Trailer Tramps... so check your preception cause we aren't really upset, we are really shaking our heads cause you think you hit a pot of GOLD! So when I come in the room and truly stiffle you due to the fact you know you are wrong...what u refer to as pins and needles, and slap the taste out of your mouth...Just remember you came from a BLACK WOMAN...DON'T EVER FORGET IT MY BROTHA!


omg

Different cultures and different people all hold different ideals of beauty. For example, some African cultures value heavier, bigger women as being the ideal, so I don't judge if I see a black guy with a white woman who is a bit chubbier than my own tastes prefer. To say that white women who date black guys are usually "trailer tramps" is just ridiculous though. Also, when dating a person from outside your own culture or race, such assumptions about beauty are thrown out the window anyway. For example, my wife is Japanese but the type of Japanese woman I find beautiful probably differs quite a lot from what a Japanese guy might be attracted to. Same goes for the black women I might find attractive... they won't necessarily be the ones that makes a black man's jaw drop. Tastes are different, and thankfully there are tastes so varied around the world that almost every shape, size and colour is permitted the opportunity to procreate


Do you realize what you just said without saying it? You basically said you're attracted to women outside your race who look less ethnic than what they are. At least that's what it sounds like (i.e. a light-skinned black girl with thin lips and a small nose or the asian girl who's eyes aren't as "asian" looking).


No that ISN'T what I said. Read again, more carefully.

What I am saying is, people have different ideals of beauty.
The Japanese women I find attractive, for example, are probably considered quite ordinary in Japan - where unfortunately nowadays it is more popular to look western - so some Japanese guys nowadays go for taller, big-chested girls with dyed brown hair, big eyes etc. Japanese guys often want a Japanese woman that looks more western, I want a Japanese woman who looks Japanese. What I'm saying is, the things I find attractive in a woman aren't necessarily the same as what other people will. We're all different so we can't judge other people's values so harshly, it depends totally on your cultural context. This applies equally to black guys who date white women are a little "heavier" than the generic western image of white beauty too. Those women aren't "cast offs" just because they don't fit the western world's white image of beauty and slimness - so if they can find a black man who appreciates them for what they are, where's the problem?
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Reply #117 posted 07/24/03 2:13am

ian

penelopeperriwinkle said:

ian said:



Open a Japanese women's magazine and it's full of white faces, pale skin, blue eyes, blonde hair. Why try and convince Japanese women that they need to look like the western world's vision of white beauty? If you are short, with yellow skin, a small bust, and black hair... why is fashion telling you to be tall, white, busty, with blonde hair and blue eyes? Ridiculous!



And herein lays the problem. White is right. Or perceived right. When in actuality brown rice is better for you than white rice. Strange as it may seem, refined sugar, is not. It is a stripped down version of the original. Brown sugar is better. Same for flour. It's a trick yall. And if your say "it's a trick", then you the trick. Right?


smile Well I'm not 100% sure I get the food analogy, because the point is that no one colour is the "right" one, or a better option. Obviously there are many people in the world for whom the white image of beauty works very well, but my point was that those ideals of beauty (in fashion etc) needs to expand to represent today's more multicoloured societies. And we DEFINITELY shouldn't be trying to sell that image of white beauty to Asian countries where most of the women do not and can not possibly ever look anything the image of beauty being fed to them.

I think it's quite natural to expect that in a predominantly white country (such as Ireland) that our ideals of female beauty involve white women. But by the same token, the Japanese ideals of female beauty should involve a yellow woman, not a white woman or "the palest possible yellow model they could find, covered in foundation to make her even whiter").
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Reply #118 posted 07/24/03 2:18am

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AnotherLoverToo said:

KingBAD said:

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Now where did it all go wrong here???
this thread was to point out the streghnths of black womanhood. it WAS basicly in response to all the kobe shit
that been goin on
and to show all the atvantages of having a BLACK WOMAN.
BUT maybe i underestimated the org again, as this has just turned into an atack on this woman for speakin her mind.
I speak my mind at all turns and don't get put on like that.
WHUT!!!


What do you mean by it being a "response to all the kobe shit"? It almost seems to mean that if his wife was black, this wouldn't have happened? Or am I totally misunderstanding you?


No you're not misunderstandin me,
The issue being that the consences (?) is if kobes girl
and all those other black stars girls were black, they would of got the taste smacked out they mouth a long time before they had the chance to fuck off they families.
Me, i was just tryin to let 'em know that they are appreciated. but folks really do have to try and understand
IF this thread had not mentioned the word BLACK, y'all could all be havin a good chuckle about the whole thang.


there are extremist to every cause, and exceptions to every rule.
i am KING BAD!!!
you are NOT...
evilking
STOP ME IF YOU HEARD THIS BEFORE...
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Reply #119 posted 07/24/03 2:25am

ian

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2/3 of my children are of mixed races 'halfbreeds'
one of them (my lil baby) has a white mother.
she will no doubt have a much harder time in her future
because she has in her nine years had it rugher that the
other two, but she will have it better later because everyone will want to be with her.
Now here's the part where you say WHY???

SEE as a half breed she posesses an exotic look of the kind
that makes everyone think she's something different.
She's a charmer already (look at me) and she soaks up
knowlege like a sponge.
like me she will prolly have a hard time setteling down, but that's the least of it. she'll prolly want a man like
dear ole dad, but she'll catch hell for whutever choice she makes, lest she tie down with yet another halfbreed.
[b]Now there will be alot of people that want to have something to say about whut i just wrote, but you know whut... i bet that how it is. nod

yo yo yo,
i love my daughters, so don't get to wild with whut you say.


Great post BAD. Yeah if I have kids, I've no doubt they might have a hard time like that, due to being half Irish and half Japanese. Shit, they'll need to speak 3 languages which will be hard enough (Irish, Japanese, English) smile

But at the same time, they'll probably look very exotic and be considered good-looking (assuming they get my brains and my wife's looks - if it is the other way around they are screwed haha) so it's not all bad.

Weird though that you mention your daughters would catch hell for whatever their choice in husbands or boyfriends... Maybe I'm being naive since I myself married outside my race, but over here, no one really gives a shit who you go out with - I can't imagine ever getting any shit for your choice of partner like that. It must be an American thing... Sure my grandmother (being quite old and from an old-generation with old attitudes) was quite surprised the first time I brought home a Japanese girl to meet my family but she wouldn't say anything of it.
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