Okay, so- I have these 2 friends, lets call them Hollie & Ruth, they are closer w/ each oher than they are w/ me & that has never bothered me. Well, Hollie has some sort of problem. She thinks that I'm trying 2 be closer 2 Ruth than she is. She backstabs me & when we are together she always talks about herself & Ruth, seemingly purposely excluding me. I've come 2 deal w/ it, but now she's really acting juvenile, she sent me an e-mail that Ruth sent her. There are these 2 little dolls that u can make on some sites, 1 says "Ruth" under it & the other says "Hollie". She's acting like some jelous teenager & I'm getting upset, I value our frienship, but, is it worth it?

No friendship is worth all that. kick her to the curb.

Sorry to hear this, sounds like a no win situation. I say, tell Ruth how U feel and that how Hollie is acting concerns you. The rest is up to them.

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[This message was edited Fri Jun 13 14:47:55 PDT 2003 by CAMILLE4U]

ohhh. i dunno. have you tried asking her what's up?

CAMILLE4U said:

Thank u, but I can't do that. Ruth would tell Hollie & besides that, she really can't stand conflicts.

XxAxX said:

Hollie is vey arrogant, I have asked her though & all she'll say is "Me I Ruth are best friends" & glare at me like it's my fault.

PURPLEJACKSON9 said:

Maybe U should just do nothing? Maybe if U ease off Hollie won't feel so threatened and everything will end up being ok?

These are just thoughts, I ain't no expert.

Just confront both of them in the same room, at the same time.

Maybe start with the phrase "I don't want to sound like a child, but..."

Slave2daGroove said:

Try "I don't want to sound like a fucking child, but..."

Seriously, I hope U come out on top of this. It all sounds bitchy and unfair to me.

CAMILLE4U said:

Thanks

PURPLEJACKSON9 said:

I think it is your fault. I think you are trying to drive them apart for your own gain. What kind of friend are you?

I can't say I'm not disappointed.