And don't give me that "we are mature and not like you men" cause we all know you are...so shut up!!!..and answer the fucking question!!!

You can't hear what we're THINKING, silly

Even though women can be just as visually stimulated, we tend to value personality traits more so a lot of times. Men sometimes can't get beyond a physical trait that may bug them like a woman being over weight or having a mole in the middle of her forehead or something...



Big mistake edit!!! sorry
[This message was edited Tue May 6 6:10:46 PDT 2003 by Rhondab]

Rhondab said:

I thought you said hole for a second there...

Rhondab said.

Nah C'MON...

You're a die-hard optimist aren't you.

women are not as superficial as some men tend to be
[This message was edited Tue May 6 6:19:44 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa]

DigitalLisa said:

I would argue that a GREAT number of women are just as superficial as men.

IceNine said:

well i'll say women seem to be more open minded, I mean I don't speak for all women, but I have heard some women say a man doesn't have to look all that good as long as he treats me right and that the truth, it really doesn't matter how you look as long as you treat with me respect and I know half these pretty boys running thinking their so called players treating women like ish, so ... it's like that

DigitalLisa said:

I would agree that some women are certainly like that... I would also argue that some men are like that.

I can PROMISE you that clubs are filled with women who won't give an ugly, fat guy the fucking time of day.

IceNine said:

This is true...but the ratio between superficial men and superficial women is heavier on the male side (no pun intended )

Women are more forgiving, definitely But women seem to have less choices than men do IMO, so they'll settle for some fat fuck as their last shot @ a ring. I ain't havin it

CalhounSq said:

Darlin', you know I like you, but do you realize what a nasty thing that is to say?

I hope your fat fuck of a soulmate is reading this right now and realizes he's too good for you.

IceNine said:

good point ICE.

some PEOPLE guys and girls are just wired that way.

I'll probably be hated on for saying this but I am one of those so called superficial people.

I don't have an issue saying that i think that way.

It's not to say that I think I'm BETTER in any way. I actually envy people that are more accepting and nonjudgemental

CalhounSq said:

hehe.. that's right!!

pimpdoutt said:

Awww...poor thing...you say that like it's a handicap you were born with.

CalhounSq said:

:LOL:

applekisses said:

not at all. it's the choice i've made not to deprogram myself by the way i was brought up.

nothin wrong with it as there's nothing wrong with you being all "we are the world" about the issue.

it is what it is.

i'm no more likely to change your mind than you are mine
[This message was edited Tue May 6 9:27:46 PDT 2003 by pimpdoutt]

pimpdoutt said:

What I'm saying is that if you actually 'envy' people for being more openminded, then why not try to be less shallow? It's in your control.
[This message was edited Tue May 6 9:32:34 PDT 2003 by applekisses]

I guess I am superficial...

The physical aspect of a person is important to me
as well as the mental. I prefer a man that is good
looking and in good shape... doesnt have to be a
hard body but somewhat fit. I guess I see it as if a
man takes pride in his physical appearance then he
cares about himself.

i prefer big men. i'm not so little myself and i really don't want a guy who is thinner than me. but i do want a big man who is also active ie plays sport, works out, etc. not someone who sits on the couch all day watching sportcenter.

applekisses said:

my envy ...no let me rephrase that...i appreciate people for whom not being shallow is a natural occurance.
for people like me who have to be mindful of it, it just seems and feels less sincere than it's intended to be

tackam said:

Welp, my boyfriend is a little fatty and I love it. Makes me feel smaller when I hug him. And he's nice and soft to lay on.

CarrieLee said:

Awww... I love my b/f's belly too.
Welcome Back! BTW, where have you been? Did you take your vacation?

Carrieee!!! How was your holiday? Welcome back!!!

Vacation was awesome! I met so many wonderful people there and I've never seen beaches as beautiful as the ones in the Dominican Republic. I would go back in a heartbeat...I didn't want to come home!

My partner is "pleasantly plump" and I love him!

00769BAD said:

And i am the ceo of a fortune500 company. I have a house, a summer house, and two sports cars all paid for.

Hot girls tend to be very picky when it comes to a guys looks, unless he has money, then she can bend her rules a little.

"The beautiful ones always smash the picture."

I would never date a fat dude. Now a nice tall, dark man with a great body who is wearing suspenders would turn me on. I love guys in suspenders!