Man I gotta admit I'm a complete dork when it comes to some of you men out there. If you don't believe me, let me give you a lil' example... today when I came home from work, I went to Taco Bell to get something for lunch and I swear I saw the most beautifulest guy standing in front of me in line, I wanted to say something to him so bad ... but didn't know what to say, all I could do was stare at him, and I know he was feeling uncomfortable cuz I was all up in his grill ... then I really got mad, because he was with a girl who I assumed was his girlfriend, so I ended up not saying nothing to him at all, but then on my way I just was so mad at myself, I wish a I could've gotten a name or something, He just Georgous... Don't ya'll hate it when this happens or am I alone on this "smile ...

*This has happend to me twice, and I regret not saying anything afterward all the time too..Next time I'll build up the courage..hopefully!*
[This message was edited Tue Apr 15 17:30:49 PDT 2003 by Insatiable7]

DigitalLisa said:

Ummm...if he was with a girl it's probably a good idea you didn't talk to him. You do realize that there is protocol to that sort of thing. If you had talked to him you may have ended up causing a scene.

lovemachine said:

For all I know it could've been his sister...

lovemachine said:

Very true.

I have to admit though- when a girl has nice eyes, I melt.

Moonbeam said:

I could've been on straight perp mode and be like... "don't I know you from somewhere, ain't you wassaname from wassaname house, didn't we go to school, I swear I know you from somewhere"
What harm would that have been?

DigitalLisa said:

All I have to say is you are brave.

digitalLisa, you are socially retarded for a variety of reasons.

first, you are so oblivious of male/female relations that you are unable to both approach a member of the opposite sex as well as pick up on signals that would identify whether the female your focus of attraction is accompinying is either a family member or a romantic interest. both of these deficencies can be overcome by spending more time with men and women in social settings and less time on the internet discussing your phobias. this may sound harsh, but it is the truth. your inability in both areas that I have addressed makes you socially retarded, but luckily social retardation can be overcome, so just put down your keyboard and back slowly away...slowly away...and rejoin the real world.

secondly, you're at taco bell for crying out loud! only teenagers and imbeciles hook up at fast food joints, and the former is just a sub-group of the latter.

dumbass said:

Okay but do you have the nerve to tell it to me in person

Girl if I was with my man and you were stairing at him you would of got knocked out it is very disrespectful to be all up in a guys face when a woman is with him.

Paisley said:

but what i'm saying is, how do you know it's his woman, cuz I use to walk around with my cousin all the time and plenty of guys had made this mistake with me... so you never really know

And I know how to check a guy out without being obvious about it, there was no ring on his finger so technically he still single

Mizzunderstood said:

What I'm trying to say is when you see a woman with a man, show some respect even if it his girl or not, you just dont know. How would you feel if someone was all up in your mans face?

DigitalLisa said:

sure, I don't suffer from the same affliction as you.

Paisley said:

I wouldn't care if he wasn't mines, but you know if a you handling yo' business like you suppose to, you wouldn't have to worry about a woman being all up in yo' man's face, cuz he would let the bitch know... see what i'm sayin'... damn insecurites

lovemachine said:

I agree.. If you weren't sure if it was his girlfriend or not best you didnt' say anything.. IN my opinion if a girl started talking to my boyfriend right in front of me batting her eyes and making small talk that would be a problem.. Besides the fact it is disrespectful...

silkyspread said:

That's what I'm saying!

Mizzunderstood said:

I don't think believing total strangers should act with respect towards someone, especially in regards to something so personal as their significant other, whether it is or not, is either too unreasonable or idealistic, and thus an adverse reaction to such behavior is justified, not a repercussion of insecurities.

Paisley said:

Whatver but it's okay for guys to do it, and besides all that I don't even know why this is a issue, I didn't talk with a guy because he did have a girl with him, but ain't no shame of looking, if I had a man as fine as he was I wouldn't care if other females was staring him up and down, I'd be yeah you can look baby but you can't have...

dumbass said:

hey . . .


u b a dumbass

dumbass said:

Either way it goes, everybody fools around and unless you have a ring on your finger then it's okay, this is exactly why i don't try hold a guy down... and y'all talking about i need a touch of reality

shausler said:

it's my job, it's what I do.

shausler said:

DigitalLisa said:

dumbass said:

So you don't mind it if I call you Mr.Dumbass... it has a certain ring to it, you must've kissed alot of asses to deserve that name may I add
[This message was edited Tue Apr 15 18:59:50 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa]

DigitalLisa said:

everybody fools around. that's an awfully bold statement. what is it based on.

please, don't project your beliefs or limited experience on the rest of human behavior. besides, I think someone who honestly believes that everyone fools around and thus it is okay is the one in need of a touch of reality. in fact, every statement you have made so far in this thread would back that up.

Paisley said:

Look the way I see it is, I'm da bomb so I don't care, ain't no shame in my game babeh

dumbass said:

Dammit the Got Damn President was caught with his pants down in the white house and you want to tell me that everbody doesn't fool around, Okay I won't say everybody but the majority of the people ...
[This message was edited Tue Apr 15 19:03:17 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa]

DigitalLisa said:

that is an easy one to counter. if you are saying that because the president does something than the majority must do it as well, that could be projected to our current white house leader, who runs a six minute mile, yet the majority of people do not.

A lot of people may cheat, but the majority is still an exageration.