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Let's Talk I always hear people talk about the things that make a relationship strong. What are somethings that weaken and damage a relationship? Maybe by learning these a stronger relationship can be achieved. | |
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Lack of money and lack of communication! He calls me "Holi" cuz he says everyday w/ me is like a Holiday... | |
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luv4thepurple1 said: Lack of money and lack of communication!
Thanks for stepping to the plate and giving an opinion. Lack of communication is definitely crucial in relationships. Money i don't think is such a big issue as the rich have more divorces than the poor. Hollywood is full of them. | |
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luv4thepurple1 said: Lack of money and lack of communication!
Agreed. . [This message was edited Fri Apr 11 19:19:59 PDT 2003 by AzureStar] | |
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weaken:pride
strengthen:humility, "Climb in my fur." | |
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INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada...  ... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ... 
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C!  Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! well, it's good to know that he got a definitive answer... ... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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Lack of communication for sure...
Trust is a huge one too... if you lack trust in your relationship and your partner, then you relationship is definitely not going to be strong as it should be, lack of trust is always going to cause problems, no matter which way you look at it. There are of course reasons why someone might have a lack of trust in someone, (could be for valid reasons or not) whatever the case, it's a sad thing when you can't trust someone you love, that applies to all interpersonal relationships, not just romantic ones. --»You're my favourite moment, you're my Saturday... | |
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EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! well, it's good to know that he got a definitive answer... ...We're useful for something on this damn site
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INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! well, it's good to know that he got a definitive answer... ...We're useful for something on this damn site
We deserve a pat on the back useful for something..? are you kidding me... we make this damn site... 
oh, by the way... i'll tell you the full story later, but i go today to bitch out the guys at the car place and get all of my warranty forms back, because i'm going to take my car somewhere else... and the dumb-ass can't find my warranty forms... like 15 pages of signed documents that i got when i bought this car that explains every single detail about my warranty, and they can't find it... i didn't want to leave it with them in the first place, but the guy said that he needed to give it to his manager, so that they could figure out exactly how much of my problem would be covered by the warranty... i take that back... that pretty much is the whole story... :LOL:... and now, he doesn't know where it's at...  ... this is getting so ridiculous...  ...
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rdhull said: weaken:pride
strengthen:humility,
The pride thing often goes hand in hand with the need to always be right, always "win" the argument... but at what cost?! Sometimes it just isn't worth it... when you're hurting one another and the relationship in the process... . . [This message was edited Fri Apr 11 20:22:00 PDT 2003 by Diva] --»You're my favourite moment, you're my Saturday... | |
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EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! well, it's good to know that he got a definitive answer... ...We're useful for something on this damn site
We deserve a pat on the back useful for something..? are you kidding me... we make this damn site...
oh, by the way... i'll tell you the full story later, but i go today to bitch out the guys at the car place and get all of my warranty forms back, because i'm going to take my car somewhere else... and the dumb-ass can't find my warranty forms... like 15 pages of signed documents that i got when i bought this car that explains every single detail about my warranty, and they can't find it... i didn't want to leave it with them in the first place, but the guy said that he needed to give it to his manager, so that they could figure out exactly how much of my problem would be covered by the warranty... i take that back... that pretty much is the whole story... :LOL:... and now, he doesn't know where it's at... ... this is getting so ridiculous... ...
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[This message was edited Fri Apr 11 20:19:13 PDT 2003 by EllisDee] oh WOW! 
you need to take a Jiffy-Pop pan, shove it down his throat, aim a flame-thrower at his neck, and charbroil that bastard, so his neck explodes and kernels fly everywhere, grab a mouthful, chew, then go find the biggest remnant of his exploded head, and spit it in his FACE! 
ahem... I mean, good luck Stephen. hope all goes well. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! well, it's good to know that he got a definitive answer... ...We're useful for something on this damn site
We deserve a pat on the back useful for something..? are you kidding me... we make this damn site...
oh, by the way... i'll tell you the full story later, but i go today to bitch out the guys at the car place and get all of my warranty forms back, because i'm going to take my car somewhere else... and the dumb-ass can't find my warranty forms... like 15 pages of signed documents that i got when i bought this car that explains every single detail about my warranty, and they can't find it... i didn't want to leave it with them in the first place, but the guy said that he needed to give it to his manager, so that they could figure out exactly how much of my problem would be covered by the warranty... i take that back... that pretty much is the whole story... :LOL:... and now, he doesn't know where it's at... ... this is getting so ridiculous... ...
... ellis is a dumb-ass edit...
[This message was edited Fri Apr 11 20:19:13 PDT 2003 by EllisDee] oh WOW!
you need to take a Jiffy-Pop pan, shove it down his throat, aim a flame-thrower at his neck, and charbroil that bastard, so his neck explodes and kernels fly everywhere, grab a mouthful, chew, then go find the biggest remnant of his exploded head, and spit it in his FACE!
ahem... I mean, good luck Stephen. hope all goes well. :LOL:... and i was just gonna call the corporation and bitch about it... or, worse case scenerio, maybe just shoot the guy... :LOL:... i did let him know how terribly pissed i was... and i told him that if he didn't have those forms to me by monday, there would be some serious hell to pay... i'm really tired of fuckin' 'round with these fools... it's starting to irritate the hell outta me... i don't know how people that dumb have managed to survive as long as they have... it seems like they'd walked in front of moving traffic or stuck a fork into an electrical socket not knowing what the consequences would be... or they would have forgotten how to breathe or something... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! :LOL: while that is funny as hell( and i would have probably done the same). I want at least a serious answer from you two in between the jokes :LOL: | |
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EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! well, it's good to know that he got a definitive answer... ...We're useful for something on this damn site
We deserve a pat on the back useful for something..? are you kidding me... we make this damn site...
oh, by the way... i'll tell you the full story later, but i go today to bitch out the guys at the car place and get all of my warranty forms back, because i'm going to take my car somewhere else... and the dumb-ass can't find my warranty forms... like 15 pages of signed documents that i got when i bought this car that explains every single detail about my warranty, and they can't find it... i didn't want to leave it with them in the first place, but the guy said that he needed to give it to his manager, so that they could figure out exactly how much of my problem would be covered by the warranty... i take that back... that pretty much is the whole story... :LOL:... and now, he doesn't know where it's at... ... this is getting so ridiculous... ...
... ellis is a dumb-ass edit...
[This message was edited Fri Apr 11 20:19:13 PDT 2003 by EllisDee] oh WOW!
you need to take a Jiffy-Pop pan, shove it down his throat, aim a flame-thrower at his neck, and charbroil that bastard, so his neck explodes and kernels fly everywhere, grab a mouthful, chew, then go find the biggest remnant of his exploded head, and spit it in his FACE!
ahem... I mean, good luck Stephen. hope all goes well. :LOL:... and i was just gonna call the corporation and bitch about it... or, worse case scenerio, maybe just shoot the guy... :LOL:... i did let him know how terribly pissed i was... and i told him that if he didn't have those forms to me by monday, there would be some serious hell to pay... i'm really tired of fuckin' 'round with these fools... it's starting to irritate the hell outta me... i don't know how people that dumb have managed to survive as long as they have... it seems like they'd walked in front of moving traffic or stuck a fork into an electrical socket not knowing what the consequences would be... or they would have forgotten how to breathe or something... Dude. I guess we should just be thankful we're not floating through life like these guys. And if we are, hey! At least we're oblivious!
Don't worry, just keep dreaming of that huge freightliner truck, and the bastard walking right in front of it, picking his ass, completely clueless. Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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SuperC said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! :LOL: while that is funny as hell( and i would have probably done the same). I want at least a serious answer from you two in between the jokes :LOL: was my serious answer... you work hard all every single day, about 40 hours a week, and then you come home to some spam... and then you tell me that there aren't relationship problems... :LOL:...
or on the flipside... say, you trying to do something nice for your lady... so you break out the candles, and the lionel richie and all... and then, when you say, "dinner is served", you slap down some spam... you gonna know what relationship problems are all about then... ...
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INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! well, it's good to know that he got a definitive answer... ...We're useful for something on this damn site
We deserve a pat on the back useful for something..? are you kidding me... we make this damn site...
oh, by the way... i'll tell you the full story later, but i go today to bitch out the guys at the car place and get all of my warranty forms back, because i'm going to take my car somewhere else... and the dumb-ass can't find my warranty forms... like 15 pages of signed documents that i got when i bought this car that explains every single detail about my warranty, and they can't find it... i didn't want to leave it with them in the first place, but the guy said that he needed to give it to his manager, so that they could figure out exactly how much of my problem would be covered by the warranty... i take that back... that pretty much is the whole story... :LOL:... and now, he doesn't know where it's at... ... this is getting so ridiculous... ...
... ellis is a dumb-ass edit...
[This message was edited Fri Apr 11 20:19:13 PDT 2003 by EllisDee] oh WOW!
you need to take a Jiffy-Pop pan, shove it down his throat, aim a flame-thrower at his neck, and charbroil that bastard, so his neck explodes and kernels fly everywhere, grab a mouthful, chew, then go find the biggest remnant of his exploded head, and spit it in his FACE!
ahem... I mean, good luck Stephen. hope all goes well. :LOL:... and i was just gonna call the corporation and bitch about it... or, worse case scenerio, maybe just shoot the guy... :LOL:... i did let him know how terribly pissed i was... and i told him that if he didn't have those forms to me by monday, there would be some serious hell to pay... i'm really tired of fuckin' 'round with these fools... it's starting to irritate the hell outta me... i don't know how people that dumb have managed to survive as long as they have... it seems like they'd walked in front of moving traffic or stuck a fork into an electrical socket not knowing what the consequences would be... or they would have forgotten how to breathe or something... Dude. I guess we should just be thankful we're not floating through life like these guys. And if we are, hey! At least we're oblivious!
Don't worry, just keep dreaming of that huge freightliner truck, and the bastard walking right in front of it, picking his ass, completely clueless. only in my dream, he's so dumb that he stands there looking at it coming right at him... "hey, billy bob, look at that there purty truck... hehehe"... ...
i really am thankful that i'm not floating through life like that... i really am... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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EllisDee said: SuperC said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: ...the two things that break up more relationships than anything else i can think of... spam and canada... ...
For once, I totally agree with you. There ya go, C! :LOL: while that is funny as hell( and i would have probably done the same). I want at least a serious answer from you two in between the jokes :LOL: was my serious answer... you work hard all every single day, about 40 hours a week, and then you come home to some spam... and then you tell me that there aren't relationship problems... :LOL:...
or on the flipside... say, you trying to do something nice for your lady... so you break out the candles, and the lionel richie and all... and then, when you say, "dinner is served", you slap down some spam... you gonna know what relationship problems are all about then... ...
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[This message was edited Fri Apr 11 20:38:57 PDT 2003 by EllisDee] Yeah! And Canada...
and canada... 
hmmm. I'd say they suck, but they really don't. THAT'S IT!  "Blame Canada" : I'm sick and tired of hearing people in already-fucked-up relationships, blaming Canada for all of their romantic problems! Look within... it's not Canada's fault!
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Why even "date" someone who would even "eat" spam? "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: Why even "date" someone who would even "eat" spam?
i guess if you're into some really freaky shit, and you find someone who is willing to eat spam, and you ask yourself, "if they'll eat spam, i wonder what else they would eat," you might find your answer...  ...
i hear that LaViShH eats an awful lot of spam... ... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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EllisDee said: rdhull said: Why even "date" someone who would even "eat" spam?
i guess if you're into some really freaky shit, and you find someone who is willing to eat spam, and you ask yourself, "if they'll eat spam, i wonder what else they would eat," you might find your answer... ...
i hear that LaViShH eats an awful lot of spam... ...I knew someone would say it! I knew it! Poor island girl :p Oh shit, my hat done fell off | |
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EllisDee said:[quote] rdhull said: Why even "date" someone who would even "eat" spam?
i guess if you're into some really freaky shit, and you find someone who is willing to eat spam, and you ask yourself, "if they'll eat spam, i wonder what else they would eat," you might find your answer...
...Spam is over the limit of freaknikishessness though
I hear that LaViShH eats an awful lot of spam...
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Total reliance upon a partner weakens a relationship. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
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INSATIABLE said: EllisDee said: rdhull said: Why even "date" someone who would even "eat" spam?
i guess if you're into some really freaky shit, and you find someone who is willing to eat spam, and you ask yourself, "if they'll eat spam, i wonder what else they would eat," you might find your answer... ...
i hear that LaViShH eats an awful lot of spam... ...I knew someone would say it! I knew it! Poor island girl :p they do some freaky things down there... i can't help it... that's just what i heard... ...
besides, i've not picked on her in quite some time... she was overdue... ... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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rdhull said:[quote] EllisDee said: rdhull said: Why even "date" someone who would even "eat" spam?
i guess if you're into some really freaky shit, and you find someone who is willing to eat spam, and you ask yourself, "if they'll eat spam, i wonder what else they would eat," you might find your answer...
...Spam is over the limit of freaknikishessness though
I hear that LaViShH eats an awful lot of spam...
...I refuse to believe that spam eatin' women are over my freaknastiness limit, too... but some guys out there are intrigued by it... a girl that will eat spam will do just about anything... ... or so, i hear...
and i cannot confirm about LaV and her spam fetish, but i did hear it somewhere... from a very reliable source... ... Mr. Ellis Dee-licious, the Official NPGigolo
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Lammastide said: Total reliance upon a partner weakens a relationship.
Has to be a balance | |
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weaken:
lack of trust, lack of communication and lack of individual strength w/in the partnership, lack of commitment | |
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