I'm not gonna do this
[This message was edited Mon Apr 7 11:51:28 PDT 2003 by IstenSzek]

I don't think it's fair that your boyfriend is giving you such an ultimatum.

You shouldn't have to choose between keeping him or keeping a t-shirt.

You know?!

Diva said:

What t-shirt? What are you going on about Diva!

what's going on here

This thread feels like when a tv station joins a show "already in progress".

and I'm not even

Ok, I'll give in I wrote about a t-shirt that I'd kept which
spawned an argument between me and my current boyfriend.

See, I kept a t-shirt which I had used to swipe the sperm
of an ex-boyfriend off my stomach after sex.

Perversely I kept that t-shirt and never washed it, just
let the stains dry in.

Sometimes I still wear that t-shirt under a sweater or a
shirt. Don't ask me why. The guy was sort of the love of
my life and in a weird romantic/perverted way that shirt
makes me eerily comfortable when I wear it whenever I go
out clubbing.

My current boyfriend found out about it and went nuts over
it and wants me to get rid of it.

there. now you know.

AaronFantastic said:

co-

what's goin on??!?

endorphin74 said:

read the above post. and try not to regurgitate your dinner

hmmm...that's kinna odd. how new is this current boyfriend? Hopefully he should understand a shirt (however stained it may be) is just a shirt and not freak out about it. Could you compromise and pack it away with other 'momentos' that a rarely looked at but can't be thrown?

how much do you like this guy? would he be worth thwoin away the shirt for?

ps...I HATE ultimatums, they are childish

IstenSzek said:

Do whatever makes you happy or put the shirt in a safe place and tell him that you got rid of it.
[This message was edited Mon Apr 7 12:20:14 PDT 2003 by slm4m]

IstenSzek said:

can I ask? now that the stains have set, do you wash it?

ccos if you've NEVER washed it, I may be able ton uderstand why it'd freak someone out

AmethystAngelMN said:

i know

endorphin74 said:

I've NEVER washed it. That's sort of the point. And I have
to admit, I like to smell it too, sometimes.


Now can you see why I deleted the original post??

ohhh, o-tay... ultimatums suck, man...i say go 4 whatcha think is right, istenszek.

but if i were u i'd keep the shirt, if it means a lot 2 ya.

I guess I'd understand if your ex was the President, and you were saving it for evidence or something, but other than that, it's really gross.

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

yeah, that's what I'm gonna do too. I'll tell him I'll
get rid of it and just put it in a box on the attic.

I mean, it will make a great story for my grandchildren


"Here, Szek Jr Jr, smell this"...

IstenSzek said:

alls I can say is if you've never washed it, you should maybe febreeze it!

thanks for sharing!

IstenSzek said:

yeah, and i can see why he wants you to get rid of it. not only is it really gross, that you actually wear it but i can see why it offends him or hurts his feelings.

i think the ultimatum is stupid, though.

AaronFantastic said:

Would you still consider it gross if it was a cum-covered
captain america outfit???



Nah, I know what you mean. He wasn't meant to find out
about it anyway but he was over at my place and when he
came out of the shower he just pulled a shirt from one
of the drawers and it happened to be that one so I kind
of yelled "NOOO" [like in a bad b-movie] and than I had
to explain to him what that was all about.

IstenSzek said:

that's very interesting!
why the hell did you tell him anything about the shirt?
maybe now you can play it off like it was a joke or something!
oh yeah...

EEEWWW!!!
ya sick bastahd!!!

[This message was edited Mon Apr 7 12:39:08 PDT 2003 by purplelu]

IstenSzek said:

yes. terribly. i have a jizzrag myself, it's the shirt that came free with my Crystal Ball CD. " loves me. love " it's really disgusting. and while i don't mind touching it, it really is very gross and i wouldn't want anyone to know i have it, let alone see it




i wouldn't have explained. i'd have just found a different one and told him that one was dirty

purplelu said:

LMAO

AaronFantastic said:

Hmm, this makes me feel slightly better about the whole
situation...I think.






Yeah, I know. But I just blurted it out, like I blurt out
so many things. I guess being a Prince fan for 15 years,
his tourette finally rubbed off on me


[This message was edited Mon Apr 7 12:45:24 PDT 2003 by IstenSzek]

iz a conspiracy...ain't it?

pejman said:

:O

No you can't. Get your own. It only takes about 2 minutes
to make one you know...

some sick fucking puppies in here. I'd dump U 2.

IstenSzek said:

It's NOT quite like having your granny knit you a sweater...
now is it???
I'm working on one for you now...