We all want people to see us a certain light... sometimes we might exagerated a few details just to make sure this is true, I even admit at times I've done this at times, all cuz I wanted make new friends with people I thought where cool, but then I thought about it. If they can't except me for who I am, why be fake when you can be yourself and I have to say damn I great person even with all my flaws. Everybody is a little fake, from day one we where taught not to tell the whole truth. Remember when you where a little kid and your curious mind saw a fat person walking across the street and you'll say something like "momma look he has a big fat jelly belly, he shouldn't be walking across the street, he might tip over" Then you get in trouble for it YOu just tellling the truth...

Then when you're older,you're more aware of other peoples feelings, don't want to hurt them, even if you don't like a person, you still smile and try to be nice, instead of telling the truth in how you feel all because you d on't want to be the one to look bad ... I guess the point in which I'm trying to make is, when it comes to down to the truth person you really are, how real are you? When you look deep inside of you, do except the person you really are, or deny it and try to become somethig else rather then yourself? Like I said before I've alway had difficulties with me, myself and I, but every day I'm learning to love me for who I am and just be me, if you don't like it... then to hell wit ya'. cuz' I'm keeping it real... as the old sayin' goes


[This message was edited Sat Mar 29 10:49:11 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa]

i tend to fluctuate


im a 38 year old kid at heart


diggy

Although I may not be able to accept myself physically,

as I think most woman have a hard time doing, I can

definitely except my inner being. 4 years ago I couldnt

though. I did everything I could to fit in. But I think

when a woman gets to about 25 they start finding themselves

and can truly be content with who they are and not care so

much as to what others may be thinking around them. Dont

get me wrong, of course there are those things that I can

better, but knowing that and working on those things

allows me to accept myself even more! So I would say that,

yeah, I keep it real!

I truly understand with what you are saying, DigitalLisa. As for me... I am nearly 100% true, (leaving a small percentage for adjustments , we are all human and cannot possibly be perfect, I believe).

Although since my childhood years I was always raised to tell the truth, perhaps scarred into telling the truth , my Aunt that raised me always said... "Heavenly Father is watching" , so I always felt "watched" and in turn... I told the truth. When asked a question..., I just could never tell a lie, even something simple like... "Did you brush your teeth" , I would turn around and go brush my teeth.

Still today (with on-going wisdom/maturity) (smile)... I choose to live an honest/true life no matter with who or where I go. Quite honestly I tell the truth even when it hurts, I believe it is far better to simply face the truth than to ever live a lie and if one can recognize... people appreciate the honesty (something truly hard to come by, I realize this). Living this way of life... is my way of life, here and everywhere else.

Beautiful day DigitalLisa, I appreciate your presence here.
[This message was edited Sat Mar 29 14:28:46 PST 2003 by Freespirit]

I am as real as I can be here, but I generally only show my humour. In reality I am a deep thinking person, (that, very few people here know) I write, I discuss things that people my age wouldnt do but I never bother here.

I think too deeply at times and this makes me worry, and occasionally depressed depending what it is. I always worry about peoples opinions of me, I generally apologise profusely if I have hurt someones feelings that I am close to.

I am emotional and clingy, I am one of those people that always wants to feel loved and appreciated and once I lose that I have nothing.

i'm just as jovial here as i am in real life--i'm not a very serious person.

It's easier to be me than anybody else, so that's what I stick to. When I start feeling myself drifting down that road of peer pressure, I withdraw from the scene and regroup. I feel much better afterwards.

Im pretty consistant in being selfish and jaded when it comes to doing or getting what I want.I'm also a very private person so only the people in my life that I care about or love see a different side of me.When dealing with others it all depends on my mood.Most of the time I'll say whatever it is to get you the hell away from me the quickest.Except for children,the mentally or physically disabled,or elderly people,I always wear my heart on my sleeve.
[This message was edited Sat Mar 29 13:30:57 PST 2003 by crazyhorse]

I'am myself, I dont try to be something or someone I'm not.

DigitalLisa said:

Very... Honesty is huge, I don't front when I can help it. Sometimes the truth is hard to hear & hard to tell, but it's SO necessary. Avoiding the truth only leads to problems...



I accept the person I am, which is why I'm so friggin neurotic, self conscious, etc I'm pretty aware of my flaws & am always striving to be a better person. I constantly fail & in turn beat myself up for it I really makes me tired mentally, LOL, but @ the end of the day I feel better for trying.

JaneyPoos said:

I think you're cool Janey. You're exactly the type of people I like to be around.

I can't stand people who waste their energy pretending to be something they're not.

"Know thyself", etc...

Check my stereo-types thread people, it says much of the same thing.

O.K. I admit I haven't been real. I've been selling myself short. My cock is about 2 inches bigger than I said it was.

SexGod said:

ya lyin bastid!!!

Don't be fooled by the rocks that I got
I'm still, I'm still Jenny from the block



(Cause I'm real)
[The way you walk, the way you move, the way you talk]
(Cause I'm real)
[The way you stare, the way you look, your style, your hair]
(Cause I'm real)
[The way you smile, the way you smell, it drives me wild]
(Cause I'm real)
(And I can't go on without you)

Penis said:

cheers penis u're great 2 I loved your penis world thread very chic

Freespirit said:

Co-Sign!! To you as well!

Muse2noPharaoh said:

co-co-sign!

as i am related to the Grinch its always 100% REAL, but it may vary by my mood swings...