Do any of you ever try to put your man in make-up [lipstick, eye lashes, foundation, etc.]?

Do any of you ever try to give your man girlish hairstyles?

Have any of you ever tried to stick your finger up your man's butt hole, or tried to bribe him in some way to let you stick your fingers up his butt hole, even though he obviously doesn't want to do that, or any of the other stuff mentioned?

Please answer & share your thoughts on this, Thanks!

damn

I haven't. But I had a guy ask me to put my finger in his butt whenever I played with his balls. He came just like that. I didn't even had to touch his penis.

I would totally be into it if a guy asked me to treat him like a girl. But I would never ask a guy to do that, specially if he doesn't feel comfortable performing certain acts.

To me, sex should be experimental. If you trust your partner you both should be willing to try most things with each other, excluding fetish stuff because that's not guaranteed to get one off, more so just turns one on a lot.

BUT If a dude wants to stick his ding ding in his girl butt hole he should at least be willing to take a measly finger....COME ON! Just my opinion, though. At least try it, you might like it but if you don't then...............

[Edited 2/10/16 19:46pm]

Welcome back T!

KidaDynamite said:

To me, sex should be experimental. If you trust your partner you both should be willing to try most things with each other, excluding fetish stuff because that's not guaranteed to get one off, more so just turns one on a lot.

BUT If a dude wants to stick his ding ding in his girl butt hole he should at least be willing to take a measly fing....COME ON! Just my opinion, though. At least try it, you might like it but if you don't then...............

Sounds reasonable to me.

KidaDynamite said:

To me, sex should be experimental. If you trust your partner you both should be willing to try most things with each other, excluding fetish stuff because that's not guaranteed to get one off, more so just turns one on a lot.

BUT If a dude wants to stick his ding ding in his girl butt hole he should at least be willing to take a measly fing....COME ON! Just my opinion, though. At least try it, you might like it but if you don't then...............

Exactly. The problem with many guys is that they want things that they are not willing to do themselves. No one is putting anything up my butt before they try it on themselves. Period.

No to all.

Nasty

My wife tried to "sneak" her finger up my butt when I was drunk and pumping her...I didnt go near her for about a month, an she never tried that shit again.

Ahem.

Is...is this thread still alive?

Okay.

Former bf. Years ago. One finger. He said it felt weird, but "not bad". We were both in our early twenties. Happened one time, never happened again.

Hairstyles. Okay I have to laugh at this one, because he practically just sat there and let it happen. Like, at any time he could have said "Roni stop." I even asked him if it was okay. He just nodded his head. (Honestly I think he just let me do it, because it was Winter and he could just put on a beanie.)

I flat ironed his hair.

He had that tight, curly hair. So I took each section and flat ironed it. It was kinda flipping up on its own. Feathered, just like...well...Prince on the Prince album. When I was done, I told him that. He looked at me like this--

Grunted, put his hat on. I thought he looked cute. He was ALWAYS cute. His features were just...everything. But he semi loved it, because I saw the smirk when he looked in the mirror. He'd never seen his hair straight before.

I think I tried to put teal eyeshadow on him, once. Just to screw with him. (Again, we were young and dumb. Most of the things we did to each other were prank-filled and goofy.) A little neon pink lip gloss.

I thought it was cute. He was light-skinned, so certain colors just looked good on him. Again--he let me do it! Like, I don't know what was going on in his head. I would always ask/suggest, and he'd act like it was semi-annoying, but would quietly hiss/sigh and let me do it.

I took a pic, let him see. Then we deleted. Both the hair pics and makeup pics.

Nine years later, I get this call from one of his former fwb. He had been calling over and over, afraid to tell me who gave him my number but the last call, I come to find out that my ex had finally decided to accept the other side of himself. He hinted at it, and I guess that's why he really didn't protest at the time. He wanted those things, but probably felt like he couldn't vocalize them.

I always told him that experimentation wasn't wrong, and that I would never shame him. While a lot of it was just me being my screwball self, I also just wanted to experiment with another person, and his personality is a fuse of masculine and feminine. Kinda hard to explain correctly.

I'm happy for him, though. I miss him but our time has been over for a looong time.

[Edited 2/18/16 8:14am]

No!

AmethystNRubies said:

Ahem.

Is...is this thread still alive?

Okay.

Former bf. Years ago. One finger. He said it felt weird, but "not bad". We were both in our early twenties. Happened one time, never happened again.

Hairstyles. Okay I have to laugh at this one, because he practically just sat there and let it happen. Like, at any time he could have said "Roni stop." I even asked him if it was okay. He just nodded his head. (Honestly I think he just let me do it, because it was Winter and he could just put on a beanie.)

I flat ironed his hair.

He had that tight, curly hair. So I took each section and flat ironed it. It was kinda flipping up on its own. Feathered, just like...well...Prince on the Prince album. When I was done, I told him that. He looked at me like this--

Grunted, put his hat on. I thought he looked cute. He was ALWAYS cute. His features were just...everything. But he semi loved it, because I saw the smirk when he looked in the mirror. He'd never seen his hair straight before.

I think I tried to put teal eyeshadow on him, once. Just to screw with him. (Again, we were young and dumb. Most of the things we did to each other were prank-filled and goofy.) A little neon pink lip gloss.

I thought it was cute. He was light-skinned, so certain colors just looked good on him. Again--he let me do it! Like, I don't know what was going on in his head. I would always ask/suggest, and he'd act like it was semi-annoying, but would quietly hiss/sigh and let me do it.

I took a pic, let him see. Then we deleted. Both the hair pics and makeup pics.

Nine years later, I get this call from one of his former fwb. He had been calling over and over, afraid to tell me who gave him my number but the last call, I come to find out that my ex had finally decided to accept the other side of himself. He hinted at it, and I guess that's why he really didn't protest at the time. He wanted those things, but probably felt like he couldn't vocalize them.

I always told him that experimentation wasn't wrong, and that I would never shame him. While a lot of it was just me being my screwball self, I also just wanted to experiment with another person, and his personality is a fuse of masculine and feminine. Kinda hard to explain correctly.

I'm happy for him, though. I miss him but our time has been over for a looong time.

[Edited 2/18/16 8:14am]

So he is gay or what?

AmethystNRubies said:

Ahem.

Is...is this thread still alive?

Okay.

Former bf. Years ago. One finger. He said it felt weird, but "not bad". We were both in our early twenties. Happened one time, never happened again.

Hairstyles. Okay I have to laugh at this one, because he practically just sat there and let it happen. Like, at any time he could have said "Roni stop." I even asked him if it was okay. He just nodded his head. (Honestly I think he just let me do it, because it was Winter and he could just put on a beanie.)

I flat ironed his hair.

He had that tight, curly hair. So I took each section and flat ironed it. It was kinda flipping up on its own. Feathered, just like...well...Prince on the Prince album. When I was done, I told him that. He looked at me like this--

Grunted, put his hat on. I thought he looked cute. He was ALWAYS cute. His features were just...everything. But he semi loved it, because I saw the smirk when he looked in the mirror. He'd never seen his hair straight before.

I think I tried to put teal eyeshadow on him, once. Just to screw with him. (Again, we were young and dumb. Most of the things we did to each other were prank-filled and goofy.) A little neon pink lip gloss.

I thought it was cute. He was light-skinned, so certain colors just looked good on him. Again--he let me do it! Like, I don't know what was going on in his head. I would always ask/suggest, and he'd act like it was semi-annoying, but would quietly hiss/sigh and let me do it.

I took a pic, let him see. Then we deleted. Both the hair pics and makeup pics.

Nine years later, I get this call from one of his former fwb. He had been calling over and over, afraid to tell me who gave him my number but the last call, I come to find out that my ex had finally decided to accept the other side of himself. He hinted at it, and I guess that's why he really didn't protest at the time. He wanted those things, but probably felt like he couldn't vocalize them.

I always told him that experimentation wasn't wrong, and that I would never shame him. While a lot of it was just me being my screwball self, I also just wanted to experiment with another person, and his personality is a fuse of masculine and feminine. Kinda hard to explain correctly.

I'm happy for him, though. I miss him but our time has been over for a looong time.

[Edited 2/18/16 8:14am]

What the.....???

Superfan1984 said:

AmethystnRubies---- You are a boy or a girl? I'm not really following, sorry. And if you're a girl, why would you want to put your finger in his butthole? or did he ask you to?

I am a woman. And it was part of a pillow talk conversation. We were talking about experiences, interests, curiosities. He said "I would try it."

I honestly have no problem doing something like that. I've never considered things of that nature to be a huge deal. I wanted to because he consented, and we were both curious.

214 said:

AmethystNRubies said:

Ahem.

Is...is this thread still alive?

Okay.

Former bf. Years ago. One finger. He said it felt weird, but "not bad". We were both in our early twenties. Happened one time, never happened again.

Hairstyles. Okay I have to laugh at this one, because he practically just sat there and let it happen. Like, at any time he could have said "Roni stop." I even asked him if it was okay. He just nodded his head. (Honestly I think he just let me do it, because it was Winter and he could just put on a beanie.)

I flat ironed his hair.

He had that tight, curly hair. So I took each section and flat ironed it. It was kinda flipping up on its own. Feathered, just like...well...Prince on the Prince album. When I was done, I told him that. He looked at me like this--

Grunted, put his hat on. I thought he looked cute. He was ALWAYS cute. His features were just...everything. But he semi loved it, because I saw the smirk when he looked in the mirror. He'd never seen his hair straight before.

I think I tried to put teal eyeshadow on him, once. Just to screw with him. (Again, we were young and dumb. Most of the things we did to each other were prank-filled and goofy.) A little neon pink lip gloss.

I thought it was cute. He was light-skinned, so certain colors just looked good on him. Again--he let me do it! Like, I don't know what was going on in his head. I would always ask/suggest, and he'd act like it was semi-annoying, but would quietly hiss/sigh and let me do it.

I took a pic, let him see. Then we deleted. Both the hair pics and makeup pics.

Nine years later, I get this call from one of his former fwb. He had been calling over and over, afraid to tell me who gave him my number but the last call, I come to find out that my ex had finally decided to accept the other side of himself. He hinted at it, and I guess that's why he really didn't protest at the time. He wanted those things, but probably felt like he couldn't vocalize them.

I always told him that experimentation wasn't wrong, and that I would never shame him. While a lot of it was just me being my screwball self, I also just wanted to experiment with another person, and his personality is a fuse of masculine and feminine. Kinda hard to explain correctly.

I'm happy for him, though. I miss him but our time has been over for a looong time.

[Edited 2/18/16 8:14am]

So he is gay or what?

He is bisexual.

Tittypants said:

AmethystNRubies said:

Ahem.

Is...is this thread still alive?

Okay.

Former bf. Years ago. One finger. He said it felt weird, but "not bad". We were both in our early twenties. Happened one time, never happened again.

Hairstyles. Okay I have to laugh at this one, because he practically just sat there and let it happen. Like, at any time he could have said "Roni stop." I even asked him if it was okay. He just nodded his head. (Honestly I think he just let me do it, because it was Winter and he could just put on a beanie.)

I flat ironed his hair.

He had that tight, curly hair. So I took each section and flat ironed it. It was kinda flipping up on its own. Feathered, just like...well...Prince on the Prince album. When I was done, I told him that. He looked at me like this--

Grunted, put his hat on. I thought he looked cute. He was ALWAYS cute. His features were just...everything. But he semi loved it, because I saw the smirk when he looked in the mirror. He'd never seen his hair straight before.

I think I tried to put teal eyeshadow on him, once. Just to screw with him. (Again, we were young and dumb. Most of the things we did to each other were prank-filled and goofy.) A little neon pink lip gloss.

I thought it was cute. He was light-skinned, so certain colors just looked good on him. Again--he let me do it! Like, I don't know what was going on in his head. I would always ask/suggest, and he'd act like it was semi-annoying, but would quietly hiss/sigh and let me do it.

I took a pic, let him see. Then we deleted. Both the hair pics and makeup pics.

Nine years later, I get this call from one of his former fwb. He had been calling over and over, afraid to tell me who gave him my number but the last call, I come to find out that my ex had finally decided to accept the other side of himself. He hinted at it, and I guess that's why he really didn't protest at the time. He wanted those things, but probably felt like he couldn't vocalize them.

I always told him that experimentation wasn't wrong, and that I would never shame him. While a lot of it was just me being my screwball self, I also just wanted to experiment with another person, and his personality is a fuse of masculine and feminine. Kinda hard to explain correctly.

I'm happy for him, though. I miss him but our time has been over for a looong time.

[Edited 2/18/16 8:14am]

What the.....???

AmethystNRubies said:

214 said:

So he is gay or what?

He is bisexual.

hot

Superfan1984 said:

AmethystnRubies- Thank you for clearing that up --- Sounds like you are a fantastic girlfriend! Very understanding, very open, ---- Good for you

No prob, lol. I left out that detail and didn't realize it.

I try to be a good one! Nowhere near perfect, but I always want my partner to feel like they can be who they are on all levels.

Which sometimes backfires, but in this case...it was a really cool experience. It taught me a lot about myself. And I'm sure after the fact, it allowed him to blossom.

Horsefeathers said:

I'd love to tickle a prostate just one good time. But I'm dealing with an old man (literally) who is pretty traditional. I mean, he has a fair amount of freak in him. As long as it doesn't involve his butt. I believe he might hire armed guards for it if he feared a surprise attack. I might as well try to drive a car up in there as try one little finger. Or makeup. And he's bald, so no on that as well.

AmethystNRubies said:

Ahem.

Is...is this thread still alive?

Okay.

Former bf. Years ago. One finger. He said it felt weird, but "not bad". We were both in our early twenties. Happened one time, never happened again.

Hairstyles. Okay I have to laugh at this one, because he practically just sat there and let it happen. Like, at any time he could have said "Roni stop." I even asked him if it was okay. He just nodded his head. (Honestly I think he just let me do it, because it was Winter and he could just put on a beanie.)

I flat ironed his hair.

He had that tight, curly hair. So I took each section and flat ironed it. It was kinda flipping up on its own. Feathered, just like...well...Prince on the Prince album. When I was done, I told him that. He looked at me like this--

Grunted, put his hat on. I thought he looked cute. He was ALWAYS cute. His features were just...everything. But he semi loved it, because I saw the smirk when he looked in the mirror. He'd never seen his hair straight before.

I think I tried to put teal eyeshadow on him, once. Just to screw with him. (Again, we were young and dumb. Most of the things we did to each other were prank-filled and goofy.) A little neon pink lip gloss.

I thought it was cute. He was light-skinned, so certain colors just looked good on him. Again--he let me do it! Like, I don't know what was going on in his head. I would always ask/suggest, and he'd act like it was semi-annoying, but would quietly hiss/sigh and let me do it.

I took a pic, let him see. Then we deleted. Both the hair pics and makeup pics.

Nine years later, I get this call from one of his former fwb. He had been calling over and over, afraid to tell me who gave him my number but the last call, I come to find out that my ex had finally decided to accept the other side of himself. He hinted at it, and I guess that's why he really didn't protest at the time. He wanted those things, but probably felt like he couldn't vocalize them.

I always told him that experimentation wasn't wrong, and that I would never shame him. While a lot of it was just me being my screwball self, I also just wanted to experiment with another person, and his personality is a fuse of masculine and feminine. Kinda hard to explain correctly.

I'm happy for him, though. I miss him but our time has been over for a looong time.

[Edited 2/18/16 8:14am]

Awww, such a cute little story.


I honestly think a lot of guys are afraid of their booties being played with because they are scared that they will like it.... A LOT! And they think that something is wrong with them if they do like it. Why is it so wrong for your body to feel pleasured? You don't mind your dick, nipples, fingers, toes etc but when it comes to your butt it's a No Go Zone. It's kind of sad actually.