KidaDynamite said:

AmethystNRubies said:

Ahem.

Is...is this thread still alive?

Okay.

Former bf. Years ago. One finger. He said it felt weird, but "not bad". We were both in our early twenties. Happened one time, never happened again.

Hairstyles. Okay I have to laugh at this one, because he practically just sat there and let it happen. Like, at any time he could have said "Roni stop." I even asked him if it was okay. He just nodded his head. (Honestly I think he just let me do it, because it was Winter and he could just put on a beanie.)

I flat ironed his hair.

He had that tight, curly hair. So I took each section and flat ironed it. It was kinda flipping up on its own. Feathered, just like...well...Prince on the Prince album. When I was done, I told him that. He looked at me like this--

Grunted, put his hat on. I thought he looked cute. He was ALWAYS cute. His features were just...everything. But he semi loved it, because I saw the smirk when he looked in the mirror. He'd never seen his hair straight before.

I think I tried to put teal eyeshadow on him, once. Just to screw with him. (Again, we were young and dumb. Most of the things we did to each other were prank-filled and goofy.) A little neon pink lip gloss.

I thought it was cute. He was light-skinned, so certain colors just looked good on him. Again--he let me do it! Like, I don't know what was going on in his head. I would always ask/suggest, and he'd act like it was semi-annoying, but would quietly hiss/sigh and let me do it.

I took a pic, let him see. Then we deleted. Both the hair pics and makeup pics.

Nine years later, I get this call from one of his former fwb. He had been calling over and over, afraid to tell me who gave him my number but the last call, I come to find out that my ex had finally decided to accept the other side of himself. He hinted at it, and I guess that's why he really didn't protest at the time. He wanted those things, but probably felt like he couldn't vocalize them.

I always told him that experimentation wasn't wrong, and that I would never shame him. While a lot of it was just me being my screwball self, I also just wanted to experiment with another person, and his personality is a fuse of masculine and feminine. Kinda hard to explain correctly.

I'm happy for him, though. I miss him but our time has been over for a looong time.

[Edited 2/18/16 8:14am]

Awww, such a cute little story.


I honestly think a lot of guys are afraid of their booties being played with because they are scared that they will like it.... A LOT! And they think that something is wrong with them if they do like it. Why is it so wrong for your body to feel pleasured? You don't mind your dick, nipples, fingers, toes etc but when it comes to your butt it's a No Go Zone. It's kind of sad actually.

It doesn't feel good to get something (does not matter what) inside your asshole, it feels very uncomfortable, not nice at all.

"one up the bum...no harm done"

As a guy, I had an ex-g/f try it on me - didn't like it.

We also tried A-level for her - neither saw the point of that either...but then my ex-wife, ocassionally liked A-level...not my cup of tea, but he-ho, she enjoyed it!

As long as you really aren't averse to something - and I really don't like my backsie being entered...then whatever makes your partner happy...'cos we all gotta gett off...

^ A chainsaw - that is some funny shit right there!!! - I can just see his mental visualisation!!!

It all has to do with how Men are raised and the relationship between ass pleasure and homosexuality.

Straight guys (like myself) are raised that the bum is a no go for pleasure - and if you like that sort of thing...then you are gay.

So we build up over many many years and sexual experiences - that it is a no go area.

I over having quite open experiences appreciate that the bum is an erogenous zone...and a little tickle here and there is quite fun - but I did find the finger to be uncomfortable...

It was just too alien...most probably on a mental/emotional level more than the actual physical side - was it uncomfortable because I thought it was or because it physically was?

Freud identified the "anal stage" as one of the 5 psychosexual stages of development.

For guys, we are raised - it is associated with the identity of being straight...so I understand where your "old man" is cumming from...

Not easy to undo formative psychosexual identity...straight guys penetrate - they don't get penetrated...

I remember being called gay at school for liking Prince - because of his sexual androgyny...he wears make-up and high-heels - must be a poof...and you must be a poof if you like him.

Luckily, I knew I was straight, so didn't feel the need to over-compensate and my folks were pretty liberal in their attitudes anyway.

But I imagine if you are raised in a less open environment...ass play for a guy is just too massive to comprehend.

Your trip to the sex shop sounded hilarious!!!

You all straight guys need to experience yourselves to know if you are into that or not. Dig it, great don't, great.

[Edited 3/2/16 12:46pm]

214 said:

It doesn't feel good to get something (does not matter what) inside your asshole, it feels very uncomfortable, not nice at all.

214 - you also say "dig it great, don't dig it great"...

Careful, you might get a splinter up yo ass " />

One time YEARS ago, my babydaddy fell asleep on my couch. He was a hard sleeper, so I dolled his face up with lipstick, eyeliner, eyeshadow and mascara. He slept though it all. It was extremely hard to not giggle and keep a steady hand. Our son watched as I had fun with his face. We both fought giggles.

At the time, babydaddy is an ex-Marine buffed out guy. I woke him, his lips firey red, silver shadow,and liquid liner made his face pop to an extreme. It was great, I wisked him out of my apartment because it was late and did my best to keep him from going into the bathroom.

Success, he left my place to go home late at night.

I gave it a hour and called him. He told me he was OK but was pulled over, the policeman gave him a hard time but let him go because he told me the police officer kept asking him was he sure he came from a "girlfriend's house" .... I told him to look in his mirror and her screamed. He cussed me out in two languages simutaneously for like 10 minutes straight. Funniest shit ever!

^ that is some funny shit right there!

My g/f at University used to paint my fingernails when I was asleep - I was known as "the scarlett fingernail".

Silly, silly girl!

[Edited 3/3/16 1:43am]

paintedlady said:

Connected said:

214 said:

It doesn't feel good to get something (does not matter what) inside your asshole, it feels very uncomfortable, not nice at all.

214 - you also say "dig it great, don't dig it great"...

Careful, you might get a splinter up yo ass " />

ouch!!