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Thread started 08/11/13 5:56pm

Lammastide

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Men, do you care about your sexual reputation?

Let me qualify this: I'm not asking whether you boneheads would want to be known as a stud rather than a dud. smile Rather, I'm particularly wondering if being known as a manwhore would disturb you.

Recently, I quipped about the sexual impropriety of a male acquaintance of mine. He wasn't sure if I was joking, and he seemed honestly concerned at the possibility I wasn't. I clarified that my comment was, indeed, made in jest. (I have no clue as to the nature of his love life.) But I have to say I gained even more respect than I'd already had for this guy. The popular notion, of course, is that girls suffer from allegations of promiscuity while guys are immune and, sometimes, even relish in the notoriety. It was kind of cool to encounter a single, hetero male who seemed not to follow the stereotype.

[Edited 8/11/13 20:20pm]

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Reply #1 posted 08/11/13 7:04pm

Byron

Eh, not really. But then again, I do care about having my actions misrepresented and mischaracterized by those who don't know me nearly well enough to be doing so. So I guess sexually it would be the same thing.


I've been called a "manwhore" on here before lol...I just thought "What the hell?"

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Reply #2 posted 08/11/13 7:18pm

PurpleJedi

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I would think that for the vast majority of us, it's more of a stigma to be considered a monk than a whore.

I mean, not that anyone REALLY wants to be considered a true whore in every sense of the word, but to "get around" is more of the "norm" than to be...say in your 40's with only 1 or 2 notches in your belt.

So I guess my answer is "yes" ...but not in the sense that you presented.

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Reply #3 posted 08/11/13 7:21pm

MoBetterBliss

my conscience guides my decisions... after that, i don't care what people think about what i do

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Reply #4 posted 08/11/13 9:09pm

luv4u

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Don't men carry a black book of conquests? hmmm

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Reply #5 posted 08/12/13 4:50am

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Do we care about our Sexual reputation?....LOL.....All I got to say to that is if it's Friday night, LATE and the Fat chick wanna ride till she break my hips, everybody ends up happy...We never stop wanting to Fuck even when we're on our BEST behaviour. Bad Boys & Good Boys want Sex.

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Reply #6 posted 08/12/13 5:03am

robertlove

no, I don´t even think about it actually

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Reply #7 posted 08/12/13 6:01am

uPtoWnNY

Chancellor said:

Do we care about our Sexual reputation?....LOL.....All I got to say to that is if it's Friday night, LATE and the Fat chick wanna ride till she break my hips, everybody ends up happy...We never stop wanting to Fuck even when we're on our BEST behaviour. Bad Boys & Good Boys want Sex.

gospel truth

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Reply #8 posted 08/12/13 6:37am

MoBetterBliss

luv4u said:

Don't men carry a black book of conquests? hmmm

i stopped doing that when i needed a wheel barrow to lug it around with me

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Reply #9 posted 08/12/13 6:50am

kitbradley

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I definately care. When I was out in the world, I found it much easier to attract dudes if I told them I was extremely selective and overly picky about who I was intimate with (which was the truth). It always made dudes pursue me more aggressively. I've always been different from most men. I never found sleeping around with any ole yahoo who presented me with the opportunity to be attractive anyway.

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Reply #10 posted 08/12/13 7:33pm

ZombieKitten

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I care. Manwhoriness is a turn off.
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Reply #11 posted 08/12/13 8:40pm

laardilla10

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being a mexican american where my culture champions machismo notions, most males are encourage to have many women. the more sexual relationships a man has, it adds more value to his manhood and reputation.

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Reply #12 posted 08/13/13 4:29am

Tempest

Well, I'm not a man so this question really isn't directed at me. wink

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However, as a woman, I care deeply. nod

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Reply #13 posted 08/13/13 6:54am

Graycap23

The answer 2 this question is in direct relationship 2 age and experience as a man.

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Reply #14 posted 08/13/13 7:26am

Tempest

Graycap23 said:

The answer 2 this question is in direct relationship 2 age and experience as a man.

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. . . and his moral compass.

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Reply #15 posted 08/13/13 8:17am

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Reply #16 posted 08/13/13 9:00am

DaveT

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Personally, no...I'm lucky enough to have been in a long term relationship with a great lady for a long time so its not been on my radar for a while. Having said that, my male friends who do carry that reputation, I kind of think "good on you", as I know how tough it is to land a lady in the sack from back in my single days biggrin As for a lady with that reputation, that would have taken no effort at all so she gets alot less kudos from me.
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Reply #17 posted 08/14/13 12:37am

Chancellor

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uPtoWnNY said:

gospel truth

And you see how a couple of Orgers in this thread call Men that sleep or have slept with more than one Chick "Man Whores". Single Men do NOT think like single Women....We NEVER have and we never will...It's sad that Women don't understand it...ANY woman that thinks her Current man didn't sleep with multiple women before they got together is very naive or very ignorant.

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Reply #18 posted 08/14/13 4:29am

HMD82

I never discount karma, so yes I do.

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Reply #19 posted 08/14/13 5:20am

PurpleJedi

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Chancellor said:

uPtoWnNY said:

gospel truth

And you see how a couple of Orgers in this thread call Men that sleep or have slept with more than one Chick "Man Whores". Single Men do NOT think like single Women....We NEVER have and we never will...It's sad that Women don't understand it...ANY woman that thinks her Current man didn't sleep with multiple women before they got together is very naive or very ignorant.


Dude, I don't think anyone would consider a guy who's slept with 2 or 3 women a man whore.

I'd say that 2 or 3 different women A WEEK is more like it!

And yeah, many women will be like; "Eww! ill " while most guys will be like; "Lucky. pout "

...at face value anyway. wink

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Reply #20 posted 08/14/13 6:05am

JustErin

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Chancellor said:

uPtoWnNY said:

gospel truth

And you see how a couple of Orgers in this thread call Men that sleep or have slept with more than one Chick "Man Whores". Single Men do NOT think like single Women....We NEVER have and we never will...It's sad that Women don't understand it...ANY woman that thinks her Current man didn't sleep with multiple women before they got together is very naive or very ignorant.



Where? I didn't see any orgers say that.

I personally don't think most women care how many women a man they want to be with has been with before them. All that matters is that they don't be with anyone else while with them, unless it's some kind of mutual agreement that it's an open relationship.

Women are all about "changing" a man, so how they were before us doesn't matter. lol

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Reply #21 posted 08/14/13 2:35pm

G3000

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[img:$uid]http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y131/bobgeorge909/wilt-chamberlain-32955988712_xlarge.jpg[/img:$uid]

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This is just outstanding. An old Life magazine article about Wilt Chamberlain's mansion. Of course as any man that claims to have slept with over 10,000 women will tell you, the place has a special love making room.

A five-sided room, its 'floor' a circular water bed, eight feet in diameter, covered with French black rabbit fur. Custom wedge sofas in purple velvet fill space from bed to walls. Purple velvet covers the wall and the ceiling which is lit with tiny bulbs like stars. A timed light bounces a spectrum of colors around the room giving an outer-space atmosphere to the whole thing.

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Reply #22 posted 08/14/13 2:41pm

phunkdaddy

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Maybe with age and time and even then that's not the case with all men.

Some continue to chase young booty but that young booty won't always

stay around unless you're a millionaire. A wise aged woman who's been

through all the seasons will always have your back.

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Reply #23 posted 08/14/13 2:44pm

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G3000 said:

BobGeorge909 said:

[img:$uid]http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y131/bobgeorge909/wilt-chamberlain-32955988712_xlarge.jpg[/img:$uid]

nod

This is just outstanding. An old Life magazine article about Wilt Chamberlain's mansion. Of course as any man that claims to have slept with over 10,000 women will tell you, the place has a special love making room.

A five-sided room, its 'floor' a circular water bed, eight feet in diameter, covered with French black rabbit fur. Custom wedge sofas in purple velvet fill space from bed to walls. Purple velvet covers the wall and the ceiling which is lit with tiny bulbs like stars. A timed light bounces a spectrum of colors around the room giving an outer-space atmosphere to the whole thing.

tonk

Did he really claim to have slept with 10.000 women? How is that even possible if he´s not in the porn biz? I mean, as a professional NBA player he is supposed to train at least four times a week, right? Where did he even find the time to have sex with all of them, let alone finding and contacting them? That number seems to be highly inflated.

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Reply #24 posted 08/14/13 2:56pm

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KoolEaze said:



G3000 said:




BobGeorge909 said:



nod





This is just outstanding. An old Life magazine article about Wilt Chamberlain's mansion. Of course as any man that claims to have slept with over 10,000 women will tell you, the place has a special love making room.



A five-sided room, its 'floor' a circular water bed, eight feet in diameter, covered with French black rabbit fur. Custom wedge sofas in purple velvet fill space from bed to walls. Purple velvet covers the wall and the ceiling which is lit with tiny bulbs like stars. A timed light bounces a spectrum of colors around the room giving an outer-space atmosphere to the whole thing.



tonk




Did he really claim to have slept with 10.000 women? How is that even possible if he´s not in the porn biz? I mean, as a professional NBA player he is supposed to train at least four times a week, right? Where did he even find the time to have sex with all of them, let alone finding and contacting them? That number seems to be highly inflated.


a babe a night for 30 years. do-able(not by me by ANY means). throw a bunch of reverse gangbangs and some proper orgies...u got it made. a couple blowjobs here and there...the "alarm clock" and the "knight cap"...u know.
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Reply #25 posted 08/14/13 3:36pm

uPtoWnNY

BobGeorge909 said:

KoolEaze said:

Did he really claim to have slept with 10.000 women? How is that even possible if he´s not in the porn biz? I mean, as a professional NBA player he is supposed to train at least four times a week, right? Where did he even find the time to have sex with all of them, let alone finding and contacting them? That number seems to be highly inflated.

a babe a night for 30 years. do-able(not by me by ANY means). throw a bunch of reverse gangbangs and some proper orgies...u got it made. a couple blowjobs here and there...the "alarm clock" and the "knight cap"...u know.

They didn't call him "The Stilt" for nothing.

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Reply #26 posted 08/14/13 3:51pm

JoeTyler

mmm, YES

I just like to be seen (in real life) as someone who CHOOSES when to have sex, with moderation, purpose and common sense

last summer I was a total whore, but, never again

reputation first...

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Reply #27 posted 08/15/13 4:37am

deebee

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G3000 said:



BobGeorge909 said:



nod





This is just outstanding. An old Life magazine article about Wilt Chamberlain's mansion. Of course as any man that claims to have slept with over 10,000 women will tell you, the place has a special love making room.



A five-sided room, its 'floor' a circular water bed, eight feet in diameter, covered with French black rabbit fur. Custom wedge sofas in purple velvet fill space from bed to walls. Purple velvet covers the wall and the ceiling which is lit with tiny bulbs like stars. A timed light bounces a spectrum of colors around the room giving an outer-space atmosphere to the whole thing.



...finished off with PVC covers for easy 'wipe-down' cleaning.
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Reply #28 posted 08/15/13 4:39am

Cloudbuster

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Fuck everything.

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Reply #29 posted 08/17/13 11:41pm

Rococo

When it comes to my sexuality-I don't give a toss what anyone thinks. at the moment, i lack one, because of choice and i am in this moment quite content. But in a sense i am very apthetic person, so i am never affected by the negativity of others . its there business of what they think of me not mines.

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