paintedlady said:

noimageatall said:

But how many folks were cheering for Angela Basset in Waiting to Exhale????

I was!!

I am cheering for this wife too.... I called her a crazy bitch... but I like crazy bitches.

Yeah, me too. Wonder what she'd have done if he'd had phimosis too???

I only know about this because of you

noimageatall said:

paintedlady said:

I was!!

I am cheering for this wife too.... I called her a crazy bitch... but I like crazy bitches.

Yeah, me too. Wonder what she'd have done if he'd had phimosis too???

I only know about this because of you

Lawd.

How many homes/cars go up in flames every year because of crazy shit like this?

wow she's quite vindictive eh her actions seem way over the top. she doesn't really have a right to sell his stuff... that being said it is kind of funny

i just want to be her friend!!!!

XxAxX said:

wow she's quite vindictive eh her actions seem way over the top. she doesn't really have a right to sell his stuff... that being said it is kind of funny

At least she didn't get hold of his car...

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noimageatall said:

paintedlady said:

I was!!

I am cheering for this wife too.... I called her a crazy bitch... but I like crazy bitches.

Yeah, me too. Wonder what she'd have done if he'd had phimosis too???

I only know about this because of you

If she married a man with phimosis...

I would think she would have been TOO happy to see him cheat. Heck she may have given the mistress a party in her honor, champagne toast and all.

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cherrystar said:

[SNIP]

You are that woman?!

I think Prince has enough material on this thread to write you a song.

I'm very sorry to hear about your hardships as a foster child. That must have been very hard on you.

And I understand that past makes you respond extra sensitive when a person you trust (and love) treats you as if you are disposable to him.

How are you doing now?

I hope you get enough support during this fase.

For me the Robin Norwood support group has been very important to find my balance and self.

I there a similar support group in your area that you can attend? Maybe one for love addicts or grown up foster children? I really recommend a group with kindred spirits, it can be very healing.

BTW, what happened with his tools? I would have loved to buy those!

And how did he respond?

Most importantly, how are you doing?

dJJ said:

I would love to get my hands on those tools he never used.

I loved her "don"t come to early, as he always does".

If the house is in her name she can sell it as she wishes.

And I do hope for her that she is not going to get in trouble financially by doing this.

I absolutely support her craziness. Revenge can be very healing.

And I would love to see a picture of his face when he comes home.

If the house is in both their names, she alone can't put it up for sale.

He will recover damages out of her share of the proceeds from the house.

excited said:

i like a ballsy woman, sell his stuff! bolloocks to him!.. let him prove she sold his crap, she can claim she was being all mouth & was shitfaced to boot

???
So where did it go?

She just posted it on Craigslist.

The picture shows his stuff in the boat and on the lawn.

Being shitfaced is not a legal defense to any action.

paintedlady said:

JustErin said:

You absolutely support her without knowing anything about the relationship she had with her husband? Without knowing anything about this woman other than these actions?

It always strikes me as odd that a woman would be so upset and vindictive over a husband that she now claims was so horrible when they were together (useless, bad at sex, etc).

I also find it amusing when the wives clearly think of themselves as saints and the other woman is always considered "trash".

Not saying a cheating partner is in any way right, just find find the dynamics of this kind of situation interesting.

Regardless of the dynamic of any marriage, marriage is a partnership, and being cheated on hurts, and is a sure sign of complete disrespect of the partner you cheat on. Simply put.... this sounds like a woman who at the end of the day is in a lot of pain and is masking it by seeking to cause her husband pain. He disrespected her... she returned the favor.

Doesn't matter what goes on in a relationship, or what led up to it... there is NEVER a proper excuse for cheating... cheating never helps and it is best to work it out or just walk away. Cowardly actions like cheating on a spouse tends to bring out animosity, because I am sure if the shoe was on the other foot and the wife cheated, I am sure the husband would be pissed off too.

Now she didn't handle being cheated on gracefully... but she is no nutjob either just a woman in pain who is coping badly.

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A nutjob.

paintedlady said:

JustErin said:

That's a lot of assumptions about a relationship we know nothing about.

Doesn't matter what goes on in a relationship?? Guess you can use that excuse for any type of action that happens within a relationship. What leads up to an action just doesn't matter.

Yes, cheating is awful and yes, it is disrespectful. I'm still a strong believer that two wrongs will never make a right.

And no, she's most definitely a nutjob and now a criminal to boot.

I am not assuming anything about their relationship.

All I am saying is that no matter what is going on in any relationship, folks should seek counsel or break up... not cheat because cheating is wrong.

I am not gonna sit here an co-sign some cheating because wifey has issues. He (should have) knew the bitch was crazy when he married her. Judging by that extreme reaction.

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No one is condoning his actions unlike hers . . . . .

dJJ said:

JustErin said:

That's a lot of assumptions about a relationship we know nothing about.

Doesn't matter what goes on in a relationship?? Guess you can use that excuse for any type of action that happens within a relationship. What leads up to an action just doesn't matter.

Yes, cheating is awful and yes, it is disrespectful. I'm still a strong believer that two wrongs will never make a right.

And no, she's most definitely a nutjob and now a criminal to boot.

I didn't say anything about his mistress, now did I?

I assume that she doesn't just go over the top for nothing.

But it is clear that he cheated on her, and by doing that he deprived her from makeing her own choices based on all the information that is relavant for her relationship and therefore life.

How do you know she is a nutjob? That is a strong assumption and you have no idea what lead up to her actions, do you?

She a nutjob from reading the Craigslist post Sherlock.

What led up to her actions? According to her, her cheating husband.

No one deprived her of making choices. This is the choice she is making.

You never have 100% information about anyone and their future intentions. Someone is always depriving you of information to somehow make a better choice. That's just life.

TD3 said:

It could have been much worse, she could have killed him. I'm serious, these days people are just unbalanced.

We've had a couple sales like this in my old and current neighborhood, these women weren't so "loud" about why they were having a garage sales but by the end of the day, folks found out or figured it out what was going down. Married people: I know some folks I thought would go ballistic when they found their partners were cheating but they didn't. I know some folks who I thought would never "lose it"... yet they did. I've been told its like an outer-body experience. In my opinion one should be careful when treading on other people feelings. If you are leaving home for weekend tryst maybe its time to (in this case) man up and tell your wife you want out.

I'm not certain of Canadian community property laws but I doubt if she in any trouble; his wife in all likelihood will have to spilt the money she made from the yard sale. Another marriage bites the dust, I guess.

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If there is no community property in Canadian law then she is definitely in legal trouble. It wasn't her property to destroy, discard or sell. The fact that they were married doesn't give her the right to do anything with his property. Even if the claim is community property, she then has to show she bought it all or bought it with commingled funds.

If I were her husband I would sue for everything she earned at that sale. Her 'half' would go to him as punitive damages.

noimageatall said:

But how many folks were cheering for Angela Basset in Waiting to Exhale????

Not I. I thought she was wrong too.

noimageatall said:

XxAxX said:

wow she's quite vindictive eh her actions seem way over the top. she doesn't really have a right to sell his stuff... that being said it is kind of funny

At least she didn't get hold of his car...

What did she do to her sister?

Takes two to tango.

Her sister knew who he was to her sister.

cherrystar said:

[SNIP]

So why did you think that was the best way to handle the situation with your husband?

What happened when he came home?

SUPRMAN said:

noimageatall said:

At least she didn't get hold of his car...

What did she do to her sister?

Takes two to tango.

Her sister knew who he was to her sister.

Yep, it takes two to tango. Just like the mistress more than likely knew he was married that the op posted, but if he leaves the relationship for you........run. Both scenarios.

Does it justify busting windows, and selling his stuff? No.

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Is this thread really about an orger?

cherrystar said:

[SNIP]

OMG, I hope you're doing ok. This is crazy how you're actually the person in the actual story. I have so many questions for you! How much money did you make from selling all of that stuff? Was the boat really 'a piece of shit' with a '1950's Chrysler' motor', as Joe Eastcott78 said? Are you an alter of a more memorable orger? How do you feel about the phrase 'cray cray'? Michael Jackson's kids aren't really his are they? But what about the vitiligo on the chubby one?

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cherrystar said:

[SNIP]

Awww shit!!! Thank you for posting! I hope things are better and you didn't get in too much trouble over your Cheating Husband sale. So sorry you had to go through all that BS.

Not the best way to do that... but I probably would have been right there with you toasting and packing his mess up and helping you sell stuff.

[SNIP]

StillGotIt said:

Only skanks knowingly sleep with married men. Its nobody's business what stage a marriage is at but the married couple. If he lives with his wife, and the other woman is sitting justifying anything and attacking the wife, then she is the lowest of the low in all of society. I hate women who think like that. Women should support each other. We go through enough as it is, without some skank schemeing afer a married man.As for this woman, I like her....she has cajones.

Still takes two to tango. He knows he's married before she does.

Women support each other? Ha!

You think you're at your best destroying each other.

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StillGotIt said:

SUPRMAN said: StillGotIt said: Only skanks knowingly sleep with married men. Its nobody's business what stage a marriage is at but the married couple. If he lives with his wife, and the other woman is sitting justifying anything and attacking the wife, then she is the lowest of the low in all of society. I hate women who think like that. Women should support each other. We go through enough as it is, without some skank schemeing afer a married man.As for this woman, I like her....she has cajones. Still takes two to tango. He knows he's married before she does. Women support each other? Ha! You think you're at your best destroying each other. ummmm......I am not excusing his behavior in the least. He is getting what he deserves for sure. Just stating that mistresses are extra skanky to me. But what would you know......are you even married, are you even a woman. I haven't destroyed anyone so you are barking up the wrong tree. You are making a sexist comment about women in general. I am making a statement meant for skanks only.

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Never interpreted as you excusing his behavior.

Getting what he deserves? That's subjective. I can't say.

Do I have to be married or a woman to know what's it's like to be cheated on?!!!

It's not only husbands that cheat.

Not a woman, thank God.

Not accusing you personally of destroying women but women in my experience are more brutal to other women than men I know are.

Yes, it's a comment about women in general. In my few years, I've met a couple . . . . ..

Women and skanks isn't synonymous?