Timmy84 said:

^ Well there's also that saying: "if you've seen one, you've seen it all" so I don't know how that logic works.

Every dick is different. There's big ones, small ones, skinny ones, thick ones, curved ones, low hanging balls, tight balls, one ball hanging lower than the other ball, cut ones, uncut ones, dark ones pale ones, pink heads, brown heads....and that's before you even get into the different degrees of thickness and textures of pubes which is also a wide variety. A dick ain't a hole, it's an actual thing and it's a sexy thing.

JustErin said:

Serious said:

A big to you both (I hope Erin does not mind getting hugs).

Thanks.

RodeoSchro said:

Serious said:

Oh God I guess we had that discussion before.

What gives you the idea he has any problems with his self-esteem or wants people to be attracted to him?

[Edited 2/26/13 15:42pm]

I didn't say he had a problem with his self-esteem, I said it would blow up.

I guarantee you ANYONE'S self-esteem will rise after ditching porn.

And I guarantee you mine would not! It did not change at all when I started to watch porn and it would not change one bit if I stopped. And why should it? I don't watch porn because I cannot find anybody for sex (I am turning down men all the time) and I don't consider the majority of these fake looking women more attractive or better in bed than I am - as you can see my self-esteem is not a problem at all

Timmy84 said:

RodeoSchro said:

I didn't say he had a problem with his self-esteem, I said it would blow up.

I guarantee you ANYONE'S self-esteem will rise after ditching porn.

I have to admit. Sometimes porn can make you feel awkward especially if you spend hours watching so I can see how someone's self-esteem can be fucked with because they expect that person to be just like what they saw in that porno. I know better than that though. No girl or guy will ever give you the illusion of satisfaction you see in skin flicks lol

Hmm are you serious? The sex they are having there does not look very satisfying to me... I never thought in my life wow that's the kind of sex I'd like to have. Sometimes the men seem to struggle to even stay hard and the women usually don't seem to be that much into it either. And hardly anybody ever seems to be overwhelmed when they come. Or are you just talking about the talk of the people there like when a woman needs nothing more in life right now than 2 random guys double penetrating her ? Sorry I am really sleepy (and no not because I watched porn instead of getting sleep ), I hope I could get my point across in English .

[Edited 2/27/13 3:37am]

728huey said:

JoeyC said:

Same here, but I don't watch nearly as much as I used to. I think being younger, more horny, and less discriminating in the type of women I'd go to bed with made porn more exciting. But now it's like I've seen so much of it, and it doesn't have the same thrill it used to. Unless the porno participants are extremely hot or the sex is extremely weird or extreme, it's hard for me to get as excited as in the past. And even some of the extreme stuff can be off-putting.

It was a few years ago that I was watching some porno and came to a conclusion that I should be spendling less time watching people having sex and actually going out to meet people I may have want to have sex with. Unfortunately, it's harder to find somebody to have sex with that's actually worthy of your time and your body at times.

I agree

[Edited 2/27/13 3:43am]

Fauxie said:

Serious said:

A big to you both (I hope Erin does not mind getting hugs).

Thank you! (I think she'll accept them from you, but definitely not from me)

Timmy84 said:

RodeoSchro said:

Go cold turkey! Just say, "Forget porn! I am better than this!" I guarantee that your self-esteem and confidence will blow up, and people will notice and become incredibly attracted to you.

And that's a money-back guarantee!

lol speaking of cold turkey, I'm gonna delete some stuff that I hardly watch anymore regarding that stuff.

RodeoSchro said:

Serious said:

Oh God I guess we had that discussion before.

What gives you the idea he has any problems with his self-esteem or wants people to be attracted to him?

[Edited 2/26/13 15:42pm]

I didn't say he had a problem with his self-esteem, I said it would blow up.

I guarantee you ANYONE'S self-esteem will rise after ditching porn.

are we talking self-esteem, or "self-esteem" ????

tinaz said:

RodeoSchro said:

I didn't say he had a problem with his self-esteem, I said it would blow up.

I guarantee you ANYONE'S self-esteem will rise after ditching porn.

are you an ex porn addict?

I have watched more than my fair share of it, way back in the past. So I'm not just guessing about all this.

Serious said:

RodeoSchro said:

I didn't say he had a problem with his self-esteem, I said it would blow up.

I guarantee you ANYONE'S self-esteem will rise after ditching porn.

And I guarantee you mine would not! It did not change at all when I started to watch porn and it would not change one bit if I stopped. And why should it? I don't watch porn because I cannot find anybody for sex (I am turning down men all the time) and I don't consider the majority of these fake looking women more attractive or better in bed than I am - as you can see my self-esteem is not a problem at all

There's one way to prove me wrong - give up porn for a couple months.

Then come back and tell me if I was right or wrong.

Will you do it?

It offers a nice enough break from my day job as a nuclear physicist.

RodeoSchro said:

Timmy84 said:

Only watch to kill time and get a nut off but I'm trying to wean myself off it somewhat... if you're not careful, it can be addicting.

Go cold turkey! Just say, "Forget porn! I am better than this!" I guarantee that your self-esteem and confidence will blow up, and people will notice and become incredibly attracted to you.

And that's a money-back guarantee!

Rodeo, you know I respect many of your views and opinions and I know you´re on a crusade against porn, and yes , I have read some of the links you posted and they do make a bit of sense as far as addiction and ruining your dopamine levels are concerned, and yes, there are weak people out there who can easily become addicted to a bunch of things that seem harmless on the surface (like coffee, videogames, sex...and I love all three examples but then again I have a strong will)....BUT....BUT...how can you seriously claim that not watching porn would make anybody more attractive for the opposite sex?

I mean, don´t get me wrong, I don´t want to turn this into a pros and cons discussion on porn (I mean, there are always tons of arguments and counterarguments for both sides, and many urologists say that frequent ejaculations are beneficial for healthy prostates, which in most cases does involve porn for some men who are either single, or not really into picking up strangers or prostitutes, or find pornless masturbation boring but I digress).

So, back to my question. I often see anti-porn people or ex-porn addicts come up with this argument, and I fail to see the connection on a scientific level. I mean why would it be visible for the opposite sex if someone´s managed to kick his porn habit?

Unless that person in question is or was a heavy , chronic masturbator who´d spend days locked up inside watching porn, not eating well, not working out, not doing anything except hunting for porn, I don´t really see why NOT watching porn would boost someone´s confidence and make him look more attractive.

Again, this is not supposed to be a "pro porn" post here, I´m just wondering how you can seriously believe that not watching porn will have such an effect and make someone physically attractive.

By the way, most porn talents used to be heavy porn users before they made it big in porn, including legends such as Erik Everhard and Lexington Steel, though I doubt that you are familiar with them. They are the Rick James and Prince of porn, so to say.

I find porn trivia way more interesting than porn itself. Porn to me is pretty much like watching the NBA or boxing...you see different styles, attitudes, passion or lack of it, new techniques, how the game changes...it´s just like sports, and maybe that´s a bad thing because it turns something special into something purely athletic.

But like I said, I love reading porn trivia, interviews with porn studs and porn chicks, their diets, their lifestyles, their workout routines, how they prepare for scenes, what drugs they use, how porn has changed their lives for better or worse and so on. I find sex and anything to do with it very fascinating but then again I´m a freak most of the time.

I´d appreciate an honest and scientific answer from you because I´ve read the same argument on so many sides but most of them did not give any plausible reason for their argument.

RodeoSchro said:

Serious said:

And I guarantee you mine would not! It did not change at all when I started to watch porn and it would not change one bit if I stopped. And why should it? I don't watch porn because I cannot find anybody for sex (I am turning down men all the time) and I don't consider the majority of these fake looking women more attractive or better in bed than I am - as you can see my self-esteem is not a problem at all

There's one way to prove me wrong - give up porn for a couple months.

Then come back and tell me if I was right or wrong.

Will you do it?

I've done that. I've gone months and months and months without watching it. Just wasn't interested in it at that time. When I was interested again, I watched.

So I can say that you're wrong.

Not sure why porn would inhibit healthy self esteem. Maybe if you have a tiny penis and are embarrassed about yourself when you see all those big schlongs...?

Maybe that's why some guys feel better when they are not reminded of it.

KoolEaze said:

RodeoSchro said:

Go cold turkey! Just say, "Forget porn! I am better than this!" I guarantee that your self-esteem and confidence will blow up, and people will notice and become incredibly attracted to you.

And that's a money-back guarantee!

Rodeo, you know I respect many of your views and opinions and I know you´re on a crusade against porn, and yes , I have read some of the links you posted and they do make a bit of sense as far as addiction and ruining your dopamine levels are concerned, and yes, there are weak people out there who can easily become addicted to a bunch of things that seem harmless on the surface (like coffee, videogames, sex...and I love all three examples but then again I have a strong will)....BUT....BUT...how can you seriously claim that not watching porn would make anybody more attractive for the opposite sex?

I mean, don´t get me wrong, I don´t want to turn this into a pros and cons discussion on porn (I mean, there are always tons of arguments and counterarguments for both sides, and many urologists say that frequent ejaculations are beneficial for healthy prostates, which in most cases does involve porn for some men who are either single, or not really into picking up strangers or prostitutes, or find pornless masturbation boring but I digress).

So, back to my question. I often see anti-porn people or ex-porn addicts come up with this argument, and I fail to see the connection on a scientific level. I mean why would it be visible for the opposite sex if someone´s managed to kick his porn habit?

Unless that person in question is or was a heavy , chronic masturbator who´d spend days locked up inside watching porn, not eating well, not working out, not doing anything except hunting for porn, I don´t really see why NOT watching porn would boost someone´s confidence and make him look more attractive.

Again, this is not supposed to be a "pro porn" post here, I´m just wondering how you can seriously believe that not watching porn will have such an effect and make someone physically attractive.

By the way, most porn talents used to be heavy porn users before they made it big in porn, including legends such as Erik Everhard and Lexington Steel, though I doubt that you are familiar with them. They are the Rick James and Prince of porn, so to say.

I find porn trivia way more interesting than porn itself. Porn to me is pretty much like watching the NBA or boxing...you see different styles, attitudes, passion or lack of it, new techniques, how the game changes...it´s just like sports, and maybe that´s a bad thing because it turns something special into something purely athletic.

But like I said, I love reading porn trivia, interviews with porn studs and porn chicks, their diets, their lifestyles, their workout routines, how they prepare for scenes, what drugs they use, how porn has changed their lives for better or worse and so on. I find sex and anything to do with it very fascinating but then again I´m a freak most of the time.

I´d appreciate an honest and scientific answer from you because I´ve read the same argument on so many sides but most of them did not give any plausible reason for their argument.

I know who Lexington Steele is but I'd never heard of Eric Everhard. LMFAO, if that's not a great porn name I don't know what is!

Porn denigrates the greatest expression of love there is. It cheapens it. It causes men to look at women as things to screw, rather than objects of love. What three words do you never hear in porn?

"I love you."

What are the three words you most want to hear in your life?

"I love you."

That's pretty much it.

JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:

There's one way to prove me wrong - give up porn for a couple months.

Then come back and tell me if I was right or wrong.

Will you do it?

I've done that. I've gone months and months and months without watching it. Just wasn't interested in it at that time. When I was interested again, I watched.

So I can say that you're wrong.

Not sure why porn would inhibit healthy self esteem. Maybe if you have a tiny penis and are embarrassed about yourself when you see all those big schlongs...?

Maybe that's why some guys feel better when they are not reminded of it.

All you ever do is complain about what a crappy life you have. Your signature says it all.

You're the walking, talking embodiement of everything I've said, but you just don't know it. And that breaks my heart.

I don't really watch porn that much because I just have a stool that I sit on when using my computer. If I tried to masturbate while sitting in front of my computer I could very well fall and break my penis or something.

RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

I've done that. I've gone months and months and months without watching it. Just wasn't interested in it at that time. When I was interested again, I watched.

So I can say that you're wrong.

Not sure why porn would inhibit healthy self esteem. Maybe if you have a tiny penis and are embarrassed about yourself when you see all those big schlongs...?

Maybe that's why some guys feel better when they are not reminded of it.

All you ever do is complain about what a crappy life you have. Your signature says it all.

You're the walking, talking embodiement of everything I've said, but you just don't know it. And that breaks my heart.

My signature is an inside joke.

Show me where I go on about how crappy my life is? I have a pretty good family, an amazing son and countless other things that are great. I also have a person who loves me so much that they are making some unbelievable sacrifices that many would never do. However, whatever challenges I DO have in my life have absolutely nothing to do with pornography.

Sex is the greatest expression of love???

Guess you can't fully express your love for your kids...well, unless you're having sex with them too.

Porn obviously caused YOU to look at women that way, since you absolutely can not speak for anyone but yourself. Your experience is yours and yours only...and perhaps the effect that porn had on YOU is a sign of a weak character.

You're so ignorant it's disgusting.

RodeoSchro said:

KoolEaze said:

Rodeo, you know I respect many of your views and opinions and I know you´re on a crusade against porn, and yes , I have read some of the links you posted and they do make a bit of sense as far as addiction and ruining your dopamine levels are concerned, and yes, there are weak people out there who can easily become addicted to a bunch of things that seem harmless on the surface (like coffee, videogames, sex...and I love all three examples but then again I have a strong will)....BUT....BUT...how can you seriously claim that not watching porn would make anybody more attractive for the opposite sex?

I mean, don´t get me wrong, I don´t want to turn this into a pros and cons discussion on porn (I mean, there are always tons of arguments and counterarguments for both sides, and many urologists say that frequent ejaculations are beneficial for healthy prostates, which in most cases does involve porn for some men who are either single, or not really into picking up strangers or prostitutes, or find pornless masturbation boring but I digress).

So, back to my question. I often see anti-porn people or ex-porn addicts come up with this argument, and I fail to see the connection on a scientific level. I mean why would it be visible for the opposite sex if someone´s managed to kick his porn habit?

Unless that person in question is or was a heavy , chronic masturbator who´d spend days locked up inside watching porn, not eating well, not working out, not doing anything except hunting for porn, I don´t really see why NOT watching porn would boost someone´s confidence and make him look more attractive.

Again, this is not supposed to be a "pro porn" post here, I´m just wondering how you can seriously believe that not watching porn will have such an effect and make someone physically attractive.

By the way, most porn talents used to be heavy porn users before they made it big in porn, including legends such as Erik Everhard and Lexington Steel, though I doubt that you are familiar with them. They are the Rick James and Prince of porn, so to say.

I find porn trivia way more interesting than porn itself. Porn to me is pretty much like watching the NBA or boxing...you see different styles, attitudes, passion or lack of it, new techniques, how the game changes...it´s just like sports, and maybe that´s a bad thing because it turns something special into something purely athletic.

But like I said, I love reading porn trivia, interviews with porn studs and porn chicks, their diets, their lifestyles, their workout routines, how they prepare for scenes, what drugs they use, how porn has changed their lives for better or worse and so on. I find sex and anything to do with it very fascinating but then again I´m a freak most of the time.

I´d appreciate an honest and scientific answer from you because I´ve read the same argument on so many sides but most of them did not give any plausible reason for their argument.

I know who Lexington Steele is but I'd never heard of Eric Everhard. LMFAO, if that's not a great porn name I don't know what is!

Porn denigrates the greatest expression of love there is. It cheapens it. It causes men to look at women as things to screw, rather than objects of love. What three words do you never hear in porn?

"I love you."

What are the three words you most want to hear in your life?

"I love you."

That's pretty much it.

So THAT is your answer?

I expected something more scientific than that. I mean, you did say that not watching porn would make someone more attractive, right?

And I´d like to know what difference it would make? Why would women feel magnetically attracted to someone who doesn´t watch porn? Is is body chemistry? Certain hormones?

I don´t think that all porn studs denigrate women ...I could post some links where some girls had mindblowing sex with certain dudes, and told them that they loved them, THANKED them, and even mentioned the scene(s) as a life changing, unforgettable experience in interviews a year or two later. But I won´t post them here nor will I send you those links because you don´t watch porn and because it goes against org rules. Sure, most scenes denigrate women these days, but not all scenes, and keep in mind that there are many women who like to be manhandled and have rough sex...in certain moments at least.

Love and sex are best when they go hand in hand, but they don´t necessarily have to. At least not in my experience. And like I said, there have been great scenes where those magic words were uttered and they meant it, believe it or not.

But I´m not really into porn, I am fascinated with the background of it though. Like you, I am very much a physical person, I love working out, I´m a health nut, and sex is part of that.

Still....you haven´t really answered my question. Why would NOT watching porn make a man more attractive?

JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:

All you ever do is complain about what a crappy life you have. Your signature says it all.

You're the walking, talking embodiement of everything I've said, but you just don't know it. And that breaks my heart.

My signature is an inside joke.

Show me where I go on about how crappy my life is? I have a pretty good family, an amazing son and countless other things that are great. I also have a person who loves me so much that they are making some unbelievable sacrifices that many would never do. However, whatever challenges I DO have in my life have absolutely nothing to do with pornography.

Sex is the greatest expression of love???

Guess you can't fully express your love for your kids...well, unless you're having sex with them too.

Porn obviously caused YOU to look at women that way, since you absolutely can not speak for anyone but yourself. Your experience is yours and yours only...and perhaps the effect that porn had on YOU is a sign of a weak character.

You're so ignorant it's disgusting.

See? For one of the very few times I can remember (and I've been here since the beginning), you acknowledged the good things you have. I'm finally getting through to you!

Now I feel much better, and I hope you do, too!

I'm glad that person loves you but I do find it interesting that you didn't say you love him. See what I mean about porn eradicating the words "I love you" from your life?

Now, if we can just get you away from those scary thoughts of pedophilia that you posted, we're going to be really making some great improvement!

JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:

There's one way to prove me wrong - give up porn for a couple months.

Then come back and tell me if I was right or wrong.

Will you do it?

I've done that. I've gone months and months and months without watching it. Just wasn't interested in it at that time. When I was interested again, I watched.

So I can say that you're wrong.

Not sure why porn would inhibit healthy self esteem. Maybe if you have a tiny penis and are embarrassed about yourself when you see all those big schlongs...?

Maybe that's why some guys feel better when they are not reminded of it.

Totally agree with you on this. I don´t understand it either. And I don´t even think that big schlongs have much to do with it (though I wouldn´t rule it out). I say some dudes probably aren´t into porn and think all scenes are staged because their own sex lives are nowhere near as exciting as the things they see in some scenes. There surely are a lot of misogynistic pigs in the porn world but there are also, just like in sports, some real sex athletes out there who´d put most average folks into a depression. Some men should watch porn and step their game up.

KoolEaze said:

RodeoSchro said:

I know who Lexington Steele is but I'd never heard of Eric Everhard. LMFAO, if that's not a great porn name I don't know what is!

Porn denigrates the greatest expression of love there is. It cheapens it. It causes men to look at women as things to screw, rather than objects of love. What three words do you never hear in porn?

"I love you."

What are the three words you most want to hear in your life?

"I love you."

That's pretty much it.

So THAT is your answer?

I expected something more scientific than that. I mean, you did say that not watching porn would make someone more attractive, right?

And I´d like to know what difference it would make? Why would women feel magnetically attracted to someone who doesn´t watch porn? Is is body chemistry? Certain hormones?

I don´t think that all porn studs denigrate women ...I could post some links where some girls had mindblowing sex with certain dudes, and told them that they loved them, THANKED them, and even mentioned the scene(s) as a life changing, unforgettable experience in interviews a year or two later. But I won´t post them here nor will I send you those links because you don´t watch porn and because it goes against org rules. Sure, most scenes denigrate women these days, but not all scenes, and keep in mind that there are many women who like to be manhandled and have rough sex...in certain moments at least.

Love and sex are best when they go hand in hand, but they don´t necessarily have to. At least not in my experience. And like I said, there have been great scenes where those magic words were uttered and they meant it, believe it or not.

But I´m not really into porn, I am fascinated with the background of it though. Like you, I am very much a physical person, I love working out, I´m a health nut, and sex is part of that.

Still....you haven´t really answered my question. Why would NOT watching porn make a man more attractive?

Because someone who watched porn and then quits watching it sees their self-esteen rise and with that, their confidence. People see a more-confident person, and people are drawn to confident people.

Any man in the world, regardless of looks, can attract women if he's self-confident. And EVERY woman in the world knows I'm right!

KoolEaze said:

JustErin said:

I've done that. I've gone months and months and months without watching it. Just wasn't interested in it at that time. When I was interested again, I watched.

So I can say that you're wrong.

Not sure why porn would inhibit healthy self esteem. Maybe if you have a tiny penis and are embarrassed about yourself when you see all those big schlongs...?

Maybe that's why some guys feel better when they are not reminded of it.

Totally agree with you on this. I don´t understand it either. And I don´t even think that big schlongs have much to do with it (though I wouldn´t rule it out). I say some dudes probably aren´t into porn and think all scenes are staged because their own sex lives are nowhere near as exciting as the things they see in some scenes. There surely are a lot of misogynistic pigs in the porn world but there are also, just like in sports, some real sex athletes out there who´d put most average folks into a depression. Some men should watch porn and step their game up.

LMFAO, I always thought the guys who were over-compensating either had big speedboats, huge monster trucks, or drove a Corvette.

I have no boat, and drive a Suburban and a Hyundai Sonata (gave the Mustang convertible to my daughter for her 16th birthday). So, draw your own conclusions!

RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

I've done that. I've gone months and months and months without watching it. Just wasn't interested in it at that time. When I was interested again, I watched.

So I can say that you're wrong.

Not sure why porn would inhibit healthy self esteem. Maybe if you have a tiny penis and are embarrassed about yourself when you see all those big schlongs...?

Maybe that's why some guys feel better when they are not reminded of it.

All you ever do is complain about what a crappy life you have. Your signature says it all.

You're the walking, talking embodiement of everything I've said, but you just don't know it. And that breaks my heart.

I know your dialogue with Erin is none of my business but your post is , in my opinion, very judgmental, unfair and far fetched. How can you make such a generalizing assumption based on the little bit of info you get about her from what you read here or what she displays here? Even if you were a professional psychologist, you still wouldn´t be able to make such an assumption on her or anybody based on what you read here, nevermind the fact that the things you think you know about her probably have NOTHING to do with her porn watching habits whatsever.

I´d find your arguments much more plausible if they were based on facts, not hurtful, borderline insulting assumptions, but that´s just me. I get the impression that you just don´t know enough about porn and its consumers or performers.

Some of the stuff you use for your arguments make a lot of sense, like some of the scientific facts on the website you posted a while ago...but what I read above is really low and mean and a tad arrogant and patronizing.

Just my two cents.

RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

My signature is an inside joke.

Show me where I go on about how crappy my life is? I have a pretty good family, an amazing son and countless other things that are great. I also have a person who loves me so much that they are making some unbelievable sacrifices that many would never do. However, whatever challenges I DO have in my life have absolutely nothing to do with pornography.

Sex is the greatest expression of love???

Guess you can't fully express your love for your kids...well, unless you're having sex with them too.

Porn obviously caused YOU to look at women that way, since you absolutely can not speak for anyone but yourself. Your experience is yours and yours only...and perhaps the effect that porn had on YOU is a sign of a weak character.

You're so ignorant it's disgusting.

See? For one of the very few times I can remember (and I've been here since the beginning), you acknowledged the good things you have. I'm finally getting through to you!

Now I feel much better, and I hope you do, too!

I'm glad that person loves you but I do find it interesting that you didn't say you love him. See what I mean about porn eradicating the words "I love you" from your life?

Now, if we can just get you away from those scary thoughts of pedophilia that you posted, we're going to be really making some great improvement!

You're simply a nutcase. I feel so sorry for your family.

RodeoSchro has sex-related issues

let him be...

RodeoSchro said:

KoolEaze said:

Totally agree with you on this. I don´t understand it either. And I don´t even think that big schlongs have much to do with it (though I wouldn´t rule it out). I say some dudes probably aren´t into porn and think all scenes are staged because their own sex lives are nowhere near as exciting as the things they see in some scenes. There surely are a lot of misogynistic pigs in the porn world but there are also, just like in sports, some real sex athletes out there who´d put most average folks into a depression. Some men should watch porn and step their game up.

LMFAO, I always thought the guys who were over-compensating either had big speedboats, huge monster trucks, or drove a Corvette.

I have no boat, and drive a Suburban and a Hyundai Sonata (gave the Mustang convertible to my daughter for her 16th birthday). So, draw your own conclusions!

WTF do these vehicles and the clichee of men "over-compensating" a small penis with materialistic possession have to do with what Erin and I wrote?

By the way, there´s nothing wrong with having a boat, driving a nice car etc. It´s not a law of nature that all boat owners and sports car drivers have sexual problems.

_

I love Mustangs, by the way, but don´t own own. I love the fact that you gave yours to your daughter on her birthday. I envy her...for having such a great car AND for having such a nice dad.

But I digress. I really don´t get what you´re trying to say here.

KoolEaze said:

JustErin said:

I've done that. I've gone months and months and months without watching it. Just wasn't interested in it at that time. When I was interested again, I watched.

So I can say that you're wrong.

Not sure why porn would inhibit healthy self esteem. Maybe if you have a tiny penis and are embarrassed about yourself when you see all those big schlongs...?

Maybe that's why some guys feel better when they are not reminded of it.

Totally agree with you on this. I don´t understand it either. And I don´t even think that big schlongs have much to do with it (though I wouldn´t rule it out). I say some dudes probably aren´t into porn and think all scenes are staged because their own sex lives are nowhere near as exciting as the things they see in some scenes. There surely are a lot of misogynistic pigs in the porn world but there are also, just like in sports, some real sex athletes out there who´d put most average folks into a depression. Some men should watch porn and step their game up.

I was really just kidding around when I said that.

JustErin said:

RodeoSchro said:

See? For one of the very few times I can remember (and I've been here since the beginning), you acknowledged the good things you have. I'm finally getting through to you!

Now I feel much better, and I hope you do, too!

I'm glad that person loves you but I do find it interesting that you didn't say you love him. See what I mean about porn eradicating the words "I love you" from your life?

Now, if we can just get you away from those scary thoughts of pedophilia that you posted, we're going to be really making some great improvement!

You're simply a nutcase. I feel so sorry for your family.

I guess that's why you brought up pedophilia, huh? I must have struck a nerve. But it's OK, I forgive you.

Well, as you know, I love you and wish you the very best. And of course, I'll be praying for you.

KoolEaze said:

RodeoSchro said:

LMFAO, I always thought the guys who were over-compensating either had big speedboats, huge monster trucks, or drove a Corvette.

I have no boat, and drive a Suburban and a Hyundai Sonata (gave the Mustang convertible to my daughter for her 16th birthday). So, draw your own conclusions!

WTF do these vehicles and the clichee of men "over-compensating" a small penis with materialistic possession have to do with what Erin and I wrote?

By the way, there´s nothing wrong with having a boat, driving a nice car etc. It´s not a law of nature that all boat owners and sports car drivers have sexual problems.

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I love Mustangs, by the way, but don´t own own. I love the fact that you gave yours to your daughter on her birthday. I envy her...for having such a great car AND for having such a nice dad.

But I digress. I really don´t get what you´re trying to say here.

He's saying, "Love Jesus".

KoolEaze said:

RodeoSchro said:

LMFAO, I always thought the guys who were over-compensating either had big speedboats, huge monster trucks, or drove a Corvette.

I have no boat, and drive a Suburban and a Hyundai Sonata (gave the Mustang convertible to my daughter for her 16th birthday). So, draw your own conclusions!

WTF do these vehicles and the clichee of men "over-compensating" a small penis with materialistic possession have to do with what Erin and I wrote?

By the way, there´s nothing wrong with having a boat, driving a nice car etc. It´s not a law of nature that all boat owners and sports car drivers have sexual problems.

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I love Mustangs, by the way, but don´t own own. I love the fact that you gave yours to your daughter on her birthday. I envy her...for having such a great car AND for having such a nice dad.

But I digress. I really don´t get what you´re trying to say here.

Well, Erin made a non-too-obilque about those who criticized porn must be small in the penile department, and then you bolded that in your response and agreed with her, so I was just telling you what the stereotypical things are that represent male over-compensation.

At least, here in Texas that's what they are. I've never heard anyone say a porn-free person is that way because they're ashamed of their own body. That's just weird.