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Thread started 01/24/13 5:41am

ThisOne

Post something nice about your EX

The bestest thing about my ex is that he's an ex biggrin


Ok your turn.....
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Reply #1 posted 01/24/13 5:57am

paintedlady

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My ex dumped me for a woman 20+ years my senior (me and my ex are the same age 41- she is at least 64 since she has children as old as we are) ... found out that the same old woman is the office slut where they work. She is like a cougar office slut... three guys in the office got a chance to count all the skin tags on her labia. woot!

So the slut he left me for is humping one of his co-workers. touched

My neighbor works with my ex. He filled me in on the office shenanigans that had me in a giggle fit a few weeks ago.

lol

My ex is very polite to me now and his other ex... the COS. He must be polite to me in order to see his children.

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Reply #2 posted 01/24/13 6:09am

Graycap23

She's gone.

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Reply #3 posted 01/24/13 6:10am

imago

She donated part of my book collection to her local library instead of just throwing it away. lol

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Reply #4 posted 01/24/13 6:14am

paintedlady

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Graycap23 said:

She's gone.

dancing jig

That really is the best thing about any ex!

He's GONE!! party

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Reply #5 posted 01/24/13 6:22am

Stymie

He's alive?

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Reply #6 posted 01/24/13 6:22am

PurpleJedi

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^^^Amen.

Nicer than that...she's gone and now I have the kids.

She gets to re-live her "lost youth" with her "true love".

I get to be with the three most important people on this Earth for me.

All-around good situation I think.

That's nice. nod

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Reply #7 posted 01/24/13 6:23am

tinaz

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PurpleJedi said:

^^^Amen.

Nicer than that...she's gone and now I have the kids.

She gets to re-live her "lost youth" with her "true love".

I get to be with the three most important people on this Earth for me.

All-around good situation I think.

That's nice. nod

mushy @ you!!

~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~
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Reply #8 posted 01/24/13 6:25am

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tinaz said:

PurpleJedi said:

^^^Amen.

Nicer than that...she's gone and now I have the kids.

She gets to re-live her "lost youth" with her "true love".

I get to be with the three most important people on this Earth for me.

All-around good situation I think.

That's nice. nod

mushy @ you!!

hug

tonk

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Reply #9 posted 01/24/13 6:26am

Stymie

PurpleJedi said:

^^^Amen.

Nicer than that...she's gone and now I have the kids.

She gets to re-live her "lost youth" with her "true love".

I get to be with the three most important people on this Earth for me.

All-around good situation I think.

That's nice. nod

Just marry me already. mushy

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Reply #10 posted 01/24/13 6:28am

PurpleJedi

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Stymie said:

PurpleJedi said:

^^^Amen.

Nicer than that...she's gone and now I have the kids.

She gets to re-live her "lost youth" with her "true love".

I get to be with the three most important people on this Earth for me.

All-around good situation I think.

That's nice. nod

Just marry me already. mushy

batting eyes

tonk

tonk

tonk

tonk

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Reply #11 posted 01/24/13 6:32am

tinaz

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Stymie said:

PurpleJedi said:

^^^Amen.

Nicer than that...she's gone and now I have the kids.

She gets to re-live her "lost youth" with her "true love".

I get to be with the three most important people on this Earth for me.

All-around good situation I think.

That's nice. nod

Just marry me already. mushy

For real!!

he's making me wanna be a Morman batting eyes

~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~
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Reply #12 posted 01/24/13 6:32am

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I am on very good terms with all my exes - except my son's father who went MIA to avoid child support - so I can say many nice things about them all.

Just because we are no longer together, doesn't mean that we stopped caring for each other.

I personally have a hard time understanding how someone can go from loving someone to completely hating them. I may not want to be with them because of things that happened while we were together but that doesn't stop me from having love for them.

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Reply #13 posted 01/24/13 6:43am

PurpleJedi

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JustErin said:

I am on very good terms with all my exes - except my son's father who went MIA to avoid child support - so I can say many nice things about them all.

Just because we are no longer together, doesn't mean that we stopped caring for each other.

I personally have a hard time understanding how someone can go from loving someone to completely hating them. I may not want to be with them because of things that happened while we were together but that doesn't stop me from having love for them.

"Hating" your ex is only really possible if you never truly loved him/her.

I think most people still harbor "loving" feelings for exes...but depending on the situation...it's sometimes important (for one's mental well-being) to focus on the negative as a means to move on. Otherwise, that's when people cling to their exes and can never fully divorce their heart from the loss.

Maturity comes into play when you maintain a cordial/amicable relationship with the ex, especially when kids are involved.

The only time I got a little nasty is when she recently had the nerve to ask me for money...when it should be the other way around.

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Reply #14 posted 01/24/13 7:07am

Serious

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JustErin said:

I am on very good terms with all my exes - except my son's father who went MIA to avoid child support - so I can say many nice things about them all.

Just because we are no longer together, doesn't mean that we stopped caring for each other.

I personally have a hard time understanding how someone can go from loving someone to completely hating them. I may not want to be with them because of things that happened while we were together but that doesn't stop me from having love for them.

Thank you, I never get people with the "an ex is an ex for a reason attitude".

I know that I will love my exes for the rest of my life.

With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A....
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Reply #15 posted 01/24/13 7:47am

Tokyo89

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He wants another shot

talk to the hand

She Don't Speak..But She Remembers
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Reply #16 posted 01/24/13 9:04am

FrenchGuy

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JustErin said:

I am on very good terms with all my exes - except my son's father who went MIA to avoid child support - so I can say many nice things about them all.

Just because we are no longer together, doesn't mean that we stopped caring for each other.

I personally have a hard time understanding how someone can go from loving someone to completely hating them. I may not want to be with them because of things that happened while we were together but that doesn't stop me from having love for them.

clapping clapping

I have nothing against my exes at all. I don't understand the "I used to love him/her, not l hate her" thing either.

Maybe in some exceptional cases (a true moron, a cheater...).

Me and my exes split on commomn agreement, when we felt we were not going to the same direction, we didn't have the same expectations, or maybe because we were too different. Sure we needed some time away to "digest" the breakup, but after awhile we can talk again, have a drink, joke about our past, etc... smile

As adults l think people can understand somebody is not supposed to BELONG to you eternally. I think in most cases people actually hate their ex beacuse they can't get over him/her, maybe because of self-esteem issues, refusing to admit they still have feeling, and mianly, when they realise the ex has moved on and is happy in his/her new life. l don't get the energy spent on hating someone.

People are not kleenex. It's not "ooh, we have our time together, never wanna see you again." and throw them in a bin... Gawd, we're some fucking human beings!

(once again, except for some cases like violent people, cheaters, liars...).

Everybody is somebody, but nobody wants to be themselves.
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Reply #17 posted 01/24/13 9:07am

XxAxX

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we're on good terms so i wish my ex hubby a good life.

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Reply #18 posted 01/24/13 9:50am

novabrkr

Her snoring wasn't so loud that wearing earplugs wouldn't have blocked it. shrug

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Reply #19 posted 01/24/13 9:52am

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Something nice: We had really good times together.

I personally have no contact with any of my exes. And I don't think anything is wrong with that. There's no hate involved, for me, it's just best to leave the past in the past and move on. Doesn't mean that when I see them in the street that we can't speak and be cordial. Some folks can be friends with their exes, some folks just move on from their exes. I'm the latter and it works just fine for me.

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I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince.
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Reply #20 posted 01/24/13 10:14am

LadyCasanova

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Alex: You are probably one of the best dancers I have ever had the honor to dance with. I still can't

listen to Danza Kuduro or Bamboleo without thinking about you. I hope the music is always as

good to you as you are to it.

Spike: Your voice could melt an ice cube. You were one of those people who I knew would

walk through hell and back for me. I've hated desiring you since highschool and probably always

will.

Scott: You are beyond supportive. You are also one of the kinkest people I have ever met. It is

always the quiet ones. From my first dirty talk, to my (adult) first porn viewing, to my first

"self play," you were always all over it and willing to go as slow as I needed.

Pablo: You are so fucking funny. Your sketches have been amazing since 3rd grade, never give

up on art.

Cody: I know I never bothered to actually get in a LTR with you. But there is not a man out there

with a better ass than you. Also, you still make my top five best kiss list.

"Aren't you even curious? Don't you want to see the dragon behind the door?"
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Reply #21 posted 01/24/13 10:25am

Genesia

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Well, I would...but it's been so long, I barely remember any of them. When I'm done, I'm done. shrug lol

We don’t mourn artists because we knew them. We mourn them because they helped us know ourselves.
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Reply #22 posted 01/24/13 10:34am

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She was a wonderful human being and just a beautiful person all around. She was caring, compassionate, and made the effort consistently to communicate, even when she was in Florida 4 several months. She never once used me 4 money and she never judged me. I wish her nothing but the very best.

Don't hate me 'cause I'm NOT beautiful
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Reply #23 posted 01/24/13 10:40am

SpaceInBetween

She is a wonderful mother to our child and would do every and anything for him. I know he is safe and sound when he is with her.

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Reply #24 posted 01/24/13 10:58am

uniden

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i only have 2 ex boyfriends. the first one is serving a life sentence in prison for trying to kill me. so the only nice thing i can say about him is that it was nice of him not to actually kill me. i praise God i survived.

and for the other ex....he was a prince fan, so that was nice.

be kind, be a friend, not a bully.
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Reply #25 posted 01/24/13 11:04am

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PurpleJedi said:

^^^Amen.

Nicer than that...she's gone and now I have the kids.

She gets to re-live her "lost youth" with her "true love".

I get to be with the three most important people on this Earth for me.

All-around good situation I think.

That's nice. nod

hug grouphug

be kind, be a friend, not a bully.
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Reply #26 posted 01/24/13 1:12pm

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I am friends with some of my exes, but there are two that hurt me so badly that it is not possible to "harbor loving feelings" for either one of them... talk to the hand

So to answer the original question:

"K" lives over 50 miles away, so I won't ever have to run into him. biggrin

"S"... um,... well,... hmmm ....

Okay, no. Can't do it. There is nothing nice I can say about him.
And from what I've heard, he hasn't said anything nice about me, either. Pig. mad


"Love Hurts.
Your lies, they cut me.
Now your words don't mean a thing.
I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..."

-Cher, "Woman's World"
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Reply #27 posted 01/24/13 1:25pm

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There are times that you make Courtney Love look sane. smile

99.9% of everything I say is strictly for my own entertainment
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Reply #28 posted 01/24/13 1:25pm

PurpleJedi

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chocolate1 said:

I am friends with some of my exes, but there are two that hurt me so badly that it is not possible to "harbor loving feelings" for either one of them... talk to the hand

So to answer the original question:

"K" lives over 50 miles away, so I won't ever have to run into him. biggrin

"S"... um,... well,... hmmm ....

Okay, no. Can't do it. There is nothing nice I can say about him.
And from what I've heard, he hasn't said anything nice about me, either. Pig. mad

lol

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Reply #29 posted 01/24/13 1:26pm

PurpleJedi

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kewlschool said:

There are times that you make Courtney Love look sane. smile

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