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Thread started 10/20/12 6:56pm

Fury

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QOD: leave your phone unattended on a date or not ?

Okay so just had a date where the other person got up to go the restroom an left her phone on the table. 1 hour later I go to the bathroom and take my phone with me, which elicited a mad
Then she went to the restroom and took her phone with her this time
Only been seeing each other a month, so leave it unattended it take it with you?
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Reply #1 posted 10/20/12 7:58pm

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I think that if you want to take your celly to the bathroom, that is a personal thing.

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Reply #2 posted 10/20/12 10:29pm

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If I am on a date the phone stays in my pocket. It's rude to have the phone out. Unless you have a kid or sick person to check up on.

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Reply #3 posted 10/20/12 11:01pm

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My phone is on lock down, so they wouldn't get much out of it anyhow.

Plus, my phone is usually in my pocket/bag/or bra. So i guess it would be going with me.

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Reply #4 posted 10/21/12 1:24am

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I say if u have children who live at home...they will either have to understand..she aka my daughter is first in my life if date can't understand ur kids/kids is first then fuck them...I'll leave it on silent or vibrate when on a a date....if u don't have kids then I would say it up to both on what they will do....I mean if there is a family issues like mom or relative in hospital or death bed sorry but family is first if they can't understand then they are not understanding at all....but it is up to the couple n should be discussed on what they think
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Reply #5 posted 10/21/12 4:03am

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I can't imagine taking a phone on a date

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Reply #6 posted 10/21/12 4:21am

Rayan

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Fury said:

Okay so just had a date where the other person got up to go the restroom an left her phone on the table. 1 hour later I go to the bathroom and take my phone with me, which elicited a mad Then she went to the restroom and took her phone with her this time

I'm sorry but this really made me laugh lol

I always take my phone with me when I hit the loo but it's nothing to do with the person and more to do with me not feeling comfortable leaving my stuff behind in public places. it's a habit.

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Reply #7 posted 10/21/12 4:54am

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kewlschool said:

If I am on a date the phone stays in my pocket. It's rude to have the phone out. Unless you have a kid or sick person to check up on.

This

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Reply #8 posted 10/21/12 5:07am

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What is the problem? Why spend your energy on something random like bringing your phone to the loo?

Do you want to continue dating somebody who is making a fuzz after one month about something random like that?

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Reply #9 posted 10/21/12 5:30am

missfee

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kewlschool said:

If I am on a date the phone stays in my pocket. It's rude to have the phone out. Unless you have a kid or sick person to check up on.

That's what I say. I would leave my phone in my purse and just check it later after the date is over.

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Reply #10 posted 10/21/12 5:33am

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paintsprayer said:

I can't imagine taking a phone on a date

You'd be surprised how many people actually take phone calls on a date right in front of you or text fanatically or check their facebook or any other apps on their phone while in the presence of a person you are "supposedly" trying to get to know. It's rude as hell.

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Reply #11 posted 10/21/12 9:05am

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missfee said:

paintsprayer said:

I can't imagine taking a phone on a date

You'd be surprised how many people actually take phone calls on a date right in front of you or text fanatically or check their facebook or any other apps on their phone while in the presence of a person you are "supposedly" trying to get to know. It's rude as hell.

My daughter brought a young man to dinner who texted while we were eating and engaging in conversation. At first I thought he was playing with himself. lol After it dawned on me that wasn't the case; I told him unless he's checkin up on someone who's near death it was inappropriate and rude to carry on a conversation over the phone at the dinner table. confused Clueless.

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Reply #12 posted 10/21/12 9:10am

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Let me tell you something:

Whenever you are with someone, do you know what being on your phone is telling that person?

It's telling them, "You are not as interesting as the person that I am not with".

If that's the message you want to convey, then by all means stick your nose in your phone when you're out with other human beings. Otherwise, act like a grown-up and put that damn thing away.

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Reply #13 posted 10/21/12 9:31am

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kewlschool said:

If I am on a date the phone stays in my pocket. It's rude to have the phone out. Unless you have a kid or sick person to check up on.

Agreed.

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Reply #14 posted 10/21/12 9:34am

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missfee said:

paintsprayer said:

I can't imagine taking a phone on a date

You'd be surprised how many people actually take phone calls on a date right in front of you or text fanatically or check their facebook or any other apps on their phone while in the presence of a person you are "supposedly" trying to get to know. It's rude as hell.

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Reply #15 posted 10/21/12 3:19pm

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TD3 said:

missfee said:

You'd be surprised how many people actually take phone calls on a date right in front of you or text fanatically or check their facebook or any other apps on their phone while in the presence of a person you are "supposedly" trying to get to know. It's rude as hell.

My daughter brought a young man to dinner who texted while we were eating and engaging in conversation. At first I thought he was playing with himself. lol After it dawned on me that wasn't the case; I told him unless he's checkin up on someone who's near death it was inappropriate and rude to carry on a conversation over the phone at the dinner table. confused Clueless.

clapping Glad you put that young man in check. Honestly, I think in some cases, some people just don't realize to think that doing that in front of others, especially at a dinner table, is considered rude. Nonetheless, whether he was doing it on purpose or was just clueless, I'm sure he knows clearly what the deal is, especially if he wants to keep seeing your daughter. thumbs up!

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Reply #16 posted 10/21/12 3:19pm

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RodeoSchro said:

Let me tell you something:

Whenever you are with someone, do you know what being on your phone is telling that person?

It's telling them, "You are not as interesting as the person that I am not with".

If that's the message you want to convey, then by all means stick your nose in your phone when you're out with other human beings. Otherwise, act like a grown-up and put that damn thing away.

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nod 100% agree.

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Reply #17 posted 10/22/12 11:12am

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My phone is on me at all times.

If I am on a date and that phone rings you best believe I am going to check to see who is calling and I will absolutely answer if it is in any way to do with my son.

Most grown men understand that your child comes first and it has never been an issue with any dude I've been out with.

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Reply #18 posted 10/22/12 11:30am

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Fury said:

1 hour later I go to the bathroom and take my phone with me, which elicited a mad

This is the part I don't understand. Why would anyone care? How is this even an issue?

In any case, I wouldn't look at my phone if I was on a date.

I get the thing for folks with kids and then yes, having your phone available is a must and should be understood.

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Reply #19 posted 10/22/12 2:34pm

RodeoSchro

JustErin said:

My phone is on me at all times.

If I am on a date and that phone rings you best believe I am going to check to see who is calling and I will absolutely answer if it is in any way to do with my son.

Most grown men understand that your child comes first and it has never been an issue with any dude I've been out with.

Anyone with a child under a babysitter's care would do that.

I'm talking about people who are texting while ignoring the human beings they're actually with.

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Reply #20 posted 10/29/12 3:56am

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RodeoSchro said:

JustErin said:

My phone is on me at all times.

If I am on a date and that phone rings you best believe I am going to check to see who is calling and I will absolutely answer if it is in any way to do with my son.

Most grown men understand that your child comes first and it has never been an issue with any dude I've been out with.

Anyone with a child under a babysitter's care would do that.

I'm talking about people who are texting while ignoring the human beings they're actually with.

gotcha ..understandable

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Reply #21 posted 10/29/12 6:04am

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Like others have stated...leave your phone in your pocket/purse/bra/waistband.

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Reply #22 posted 10/29/12 6:12am

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Last time I went on a date mobile phones hadn't been invented yet
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Reply #23 posted 10/29/12 6:21am

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ZombieKitten said:

Last time I went on a date mobile phones hadn't been invented yet razz

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Before my most recent "dates", the LAST time I was dating there was a beeper on my waistband.

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