johnart said:

Doesn't sound like the weave is causing the drama so much as the "stupid as hell" coworker.

i know huh.

women have been covering up their natural beauty for years. paying large amounts of monies to have the naturalness of their hair covered up using sewn/glued on methods. donning wigs of plastic fiber and/or using dead hair and etc.

[any thoughts of using dead human hair grosses me out. and don't even get me started on the lead based lipsticks and the such > very bad side-effects]

from hollywood's setting a hair beauty standard, and back to the times of the royal courts of england and france, and as far back as egypt, women (and men) have been acting out "stupid as hell" to set a beauty standard.

and these "stupid as hell" people allow themselves to be duped into sacraficing who they naturally are in "hopes to be accepted" in the main stream.

too bad their are so many "stupid as hell" people amongst us all.

note: i hope either one of the bad-weave lady's co-workers or family says something to her out of concern. hopefully she will not feel ridiculed.

I'm like most here. If you're "cool with her" meaning that she's a person you can tactfully talk to, I say tell her. She might not give a shit, but at least she'll know that folk are perceiving her as a nut case.