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Thread started 08/16/12 10:11pm

scriptgirl

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Have you ever been sexually harassed on the job?

A few years ago, I started a job and there was an accountant there who was just the worst-oily, sleazy. He made it his business to pop up in front of my desk and ask questions that were leading up to a bad place. But the superiors at the job were onto his ass. After the first few times he did this, whenever he would try to holler, a supervisor would call him away. After about 2 weeks, the guy was fired.

About a week after this, I found a notepad-my predecessor had written down each time this fool had harassed her, what he had said, the time it occurred. My impression is that she was fired and then once I started, the higher ups saw he was the issue and not her.

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Reply #1 posted 08/16/12 10:44pm

kewlschool

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scriptgirl said:

A few years ago, I started a job and there was an accountant there who was just the worst-oily, sleazy. He made it his business to pop up in front of my desk and ask questions that were leading up to a bad place. But the superiors at the job were onto his ass. After the first few times he did this, whenever he would try to holler, a supervisor would call him away. After about 2 weeks, the guy was fired.

About a week after this, I found a notepad-my predecessor had written down each time this fool had harassed her, what he had said, the time it occurred. My impression is that she was fired and then once I started, the higher ups saw he was the issue and not her.

Nope, I haven't. But your predecessor was fired (probably)-so your workplace wouldn't get a law suit for letting his behavior occur. It's collateral damage and it happens. shrug

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Reply #2 posted 08/16/12 10:50pm

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I was harassed by some cougars on the job some months back lol....& I was also harassed by a guy too. He asked me some questionable stuff.... confused

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Reply #3 posted 08/16/12 10:52pm

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Tittypants said:

I was harassed by some cougars on the job some months back lol....& I was also harassed by a guy too. He asked me some questionable stuff.... confused

Interesting. What did you do/say?

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Reply #4 posted 08/16/12 10:52pm

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Yeah, but it was a long time ago when it wasn't nearly as talked about or worrisome. I actually ended up sleeping with her, then becoming good friends with her and her husband. lol He never knew. lol

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Reply #5 posted 08/16/12 10:55pm

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Cerebus said:

Yeah, but it was a long time ago when it wasn't nearly as talked about or worrisome. I actually ended up sleeping with her, then becoming good friends with her and her husband. lol He never knew. lol

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Reply #6 posted 08/16/12 10:58pm

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kewlschool said:

Cerebus said:

Yeah, but it was a long time ago when it wasn't nearly as talked about or worrisome. I actually ended up sleeping with her, then becoming good friends with her and her husband. lol He never knew. lol

Hey! I was rubberized! And she knew what I was about from the jump. She wanted to bump uglies, so I obliged. lol I actually think about her from time to time. She was cool people.

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Reply #7 posted 08/16/12 11:01pm

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Cerebus said:

kewlschool said:

Hey! I was rubberized! And she knew what I was about from the jump. She wanted to bump uglies, so I obliged. lol I actually think about her from time to time. She was cool people.

lol

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Reply #8 posted 08/16/12 11:02pm

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Reply #9 posted 08/16/12 11:03pm

Cerebus

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kewlschool said:

Cerebus said:

Hey! I was rubberized! And she knew what I was about from the jump. She wanted to bump uglies, so I obliged. lol I actually think about her from time to time. She was cool people.

lol

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Well you know who populates whore island, right? lol

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Reply #10 posted 08/16/12 11:03pm

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Cerebus said:

Tittypants said:

I was harassed by some cougars on the job some months back lol....& I was also harassed by a guy too. He asked me some questionable stuff.... confused

Interesting. What did you do/say?

I just laughed & brushed it off. He was Arabian, & he couldn't speak English extremely well. So, I'm not sure if he was gay, or just trying to joke around with me. He did ask stuff that straight men usually don't ask each other....a lot of penis questions from this person. nod

الحيوان النادلة ((((|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|̲̅̅=̲̅̅|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|)))) ...AND THAT'S THE WAY THE "TITTY" MILKS IT!
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Reply #11 posted 08/16/12 11:04pm

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kewlschool said:

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Reply #12 posted 08/16/12 11:05pm

kewlschool

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Cerebus said:

kewlschool said:

lol

falloff

Well you know who populates whore island, right? lol

Whores like you. tease

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Reply #13 posted 08/16/12 11:05pm

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Tittypants said:

Cerebus said:

Interesting. What did you do/say?

I just laughed & brushed it off. He was Arabian, & he couldn't speak English extremely well. So, I'm not sure if he was gay, or just trying to joke around with me. He did ask stuff that straight men usually don't ask each other....a lot of penis questions from this person. nod

Well... uhh... huh. I don't know. shrug I've worked with a whole lot of gay men who never asked me about my penis. lol

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Reply #14 posted 08/16/12 11:07pm

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Cerebus said:

Tittypants said:

I just laughed & brushed it off. He was Arabian, & he couldn't speak English extremely well. So, I'm not sure if he was gay, or just trying to joke around with me. He did ask stuff that straight men usually don't ask each other....a lot of penis questions from this person. nod

Well... uhh... huh. I don't know. shrug I've worked with a whole lot of gay men who never asked me about my penis. lol

And how does that even end up in the conversation? Awkward. lol

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Reply #15 posted 08/16/12 11:08pm

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kewlschool said:

Cerebus said:

falloff

Well you know who populates whore island, right? lol

Whores like you. tease

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Reply #16 posted 08/16/12 11:15pm

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Cerebus said:

Tittypants said:

I just laughed & brushed it off. He was Arabian, & he couldn't speak English extremely well. So, I'm not sure if he was gay, or just trying to joke around with me. He did ask stuff that straight men usually don't ask each other....a lot of penis questions from this person. nod

Well... uhh... huh. I don't know. shrug I've worked with a whole lot of gay men who never asked me about my penis. lol

lol Yeah, I'm not sure what was with the guy. I am for certain that if I would have been into it, he would have wanted to see my dick....& done even more than seen it. lolI could tell that he was "inching"around the subject, because I was over a foot taller than him, & could have easily hurt him lol...but he was reaching....nod

الحيوان النادلة ((((|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|̲̅̅=̲̅̅|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|)))) ...AND THAT'S THE WAY THE "TITTY" MILKS IT!
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Reply #17 posted 08/16/12 11:19pm

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hmmm On second thought, with a name like tittypants you were just asking for it. lol

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Reply #18 posted 08/16/12 11:21pm

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kewlschool said:

hmmm On second thought, with a name like tittypants you were just asking for it. lol

falloff How so?

الحيوان النادلة ((((|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|̲̅̅=̲̅̅|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|)))) ...AND THAT'S THE WAY THE "TITTY" MILKS IT!
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Reply #19 posted 08/16/12 11:37pm

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Tittypants said:

kewlschool said:

hmmm On second thought, with a name like tittypants you were just asking for it. lol

falloff How so?

I'm sorry I'm a bit distracted.

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Reply #20 posted 08/17/12 1:25am

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I've had a guy reach up under my skirt and pinch my ass

I've had a female and a male grab/touch my tits

I've had a lot of "under the table" offers

I've physically hurt a number of people at work

"Aren't you even curious? Don't you want to see the dragon behind the door?"
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Reply #21 posted 08/17/12 2:24am

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I've physically hurt a number of people at work

touched

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Reply #22 posted 08/17/12 3:27am

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I really don't understand why this never happens to me.

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Reply #23 posted 08/17/12 3:45am

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robertlove said:

I really don't understand why this never happens to me.

From your profile picture, I would think it was because your guns make it very clear that you

could knock someones block off?

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Reply #24 posted 08/17/12 4:16am

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LadyCasanova said:

I've had a guy reach up under my skirt and pinch my ass

I've had a female and a male grab/touch my tits

I've had a lot of "under the table" offers

I've physically hurt a number of people at work

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Where do you work? lol

I can't imagine anyone even remotely trying to touch anyone at my work.

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Reply #25 posted 08/17/12 4:17am

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I had a boss once that stared at my boobs every time he called me into his office. That's as far as it went and he'd try to look away but inevitably he'd end up staring at them again. I ignored it. He was just kind of a boob himself.

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Reply #26 posted 08/17/12 4:41am

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Yeah, but it was a long time ago when it wasn't nearly as talked about or worrisome. I actually ended up sleeping with her, then becoming good friends with her and her husband. lol He never knew. lol

Damn, I wish that would have happened to me. The most I ever got was a pinch from a few female co-workers.

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Reply #27 posted 08/17/12 5:16am

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uPtoWnNY said:

Cerebus said:

Yeah, but it was a long time ago when it wasn't nearly as talked about or worrisome. I actually ended up sleeping with her, then becoming good friends with her and her husband. lol He never knew. lol

Damn, I wish that would have happened to me. The most I ever got was a pinch from a few female co-workers.

no no no!

If it's welcome and reciprocated that's not "harrassment". lol

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Reply #28 posted 08/17/12 5:35am

ThisOne

yes sad

I was very young and he became obsessed and it turned scary disbelief

nothing ever happened but he kept on asking / insisting and then he started to friggin stalk me!!!

back then it was frowned upon if you complained so i just left my job - well he was my boss

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Reply #29 posted 08/17/12 5:56am

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My old boss.. didn't exactly harass me because I was digging him too. He let me grab his butt at work.. We actually did end up doing the do.. He got fired for asking another employee very sexual and personal questions.. She was really uptight tho, but she wore spandex everyday (like full body cat suits) confuse .. didn't care for her at all myself

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