no way!

morningsong said:

I learned from Dr. Toni many years ago that too much honesty can lead to some very damaging situations. At this point I'm going to agree with her. Thinking about somebody else during sex, it happens but there's a line when it gets to be a bad sign, like thininking about someone else most of the time obviously isn't good.

What was on the list of things not to share? Or things better left untalked about?

nammie said:

I save those thoughts for my masturbation time so I get the best of all worlds without having to deal with guilt..

Love this

LadyCasanova said:

morningsong said:

I learned from Dr. Toni many years ago that too much honesty can lead to some very damaging situations. At this point I'm going to agree with her. Thinking about somebody else during sex, it happens but there's a line when it gets to be a bad sign, like thininking about someone else most of the time obviously isn't good.

What was on the list of things not to share? Or things better left untalked about?

There was no list of does or don'ts of any kind. I'm not even sure what this means left untalked about.

Just on GP this is who I'm talking about:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toni_Grant

[Edited 9/3/12 22:20pm]

errant said:

This is something everyone does. But you don't admit it. And even if in you're at a place in your relationship that you can admit it, you should never, under any circumstances, reveal who it is you're thinking about, especially it's someone you have a professional or personal relationship with outside of your relationship.

what an effin' idiot.

I find it very amusing when people say things like, "thinking about someone else during sex is bad/disrespectful and I'd never do that".

The brain will wander where it feels like going. Stop fighting it and just be honest - there are alot of hot people in this world. Other attractive people don't suddenly become unattractive just because you're getting it on with this one person! It's no big deal if one of them pops into your head during sex and it doesn't mean you're not into the person you're with either. It simply means you're goddam red blooded human!

But yeah, judging by some of the responses, I'd say not telling the person you're sleeping with about any brain wandering that goes down is probably a good idea

LadyCasanova said:

Tittypants said:

I would never want to know, because I already know I'd be hurt by it . I, myself, wouldn't even care to think about a celebrity either [or anybody else during sex], because I've really don't trust celebrities @ all & I'm happy to be having sex with the woman I'm with . For my woman to tell me that she thinks about a person she actually has easy access to though, would hurt like hell....I'd be devastated.

[Edited 9/2/12 15:25pm]

Yea, you never know when one of them are going to try and stick their finger up your butt during sex

Or a gerbil, too. Think of Richard Gere

nd33 said:

errant said:

This is something everyone does. But you don't admit it. And even if in you're at a place in your relationship that you can admit it, you should never, under any circumstances, reveal who it is you're thinking about, especially it's someone you have a professional or personal relationship with outside of your relationship.

what an effin' idiot.

I find it very amusing when people say things like, "thinking about someone else during sex is bad/disrespectful and I'd never do that".

The brain will wander where it feels like going. Stop fighting it and just be honest - there are alot of hot people in this world. Other attractive people don't suddenly become unattractive just because you're getting it on with this one person! It's no big deal if one of them pops into your head during sex and it doesn't mean you're not into the person you're with either. It simply means you're goddam red blooded human!

But yeah, judging by some of the responses, I'd say not telling the person you're sleeping with about any brain wandering that goes down is probably a good idea

Ok?