If the girl is at least a 7 out of 10, I'll take the personality. I don't really care for "oversized women body parts" or none of that stuff. But if a girl has a cool personality, I'll most likely be interested.

Hell, I think Ein Burnett is a hottie, and people always call her ugly. But she has a cool personality.

No. I have to be attracted to his physical characteristics before I can even consider becoming interested in his personality.

Platonically, on the other hand, the quality of his mind is the only significant factor, with looks being immaterial.

i still look good enough where i don't

have to settle for personality, it has to

come with the looks, a package deal.

like a good personality and bad breath

the bad breath is gonna be all i notice

People call Erin Burnett ugly

*googles Erin Burnett*

..... NOPE! Erin is pretty to me!

I am a woman so.... I have tried to start two relationships with men I wasn't attrcated to, but had really great personalities... yeah, it didn't work out at all.

So its a package deal for me, you can't be an ass or ugly... gotta come with good looks and substance.

No I wouldn't, especially when there's billions of people on the planet and you could find both in one person. There's abolutely no reason to pick one over the other.

I'll never know why people keep asking this question

B-O-T-H

I expect/demand a hot girl-woman (what I consider hot, which is curves) with an above average intelligence/conversation and a kind spirit (basically a decent/generous/peaceful person, not a chronically dissatisfied lunatic or a money-obsessed bitch), I'll take no less than that...

I don't care about her race/family as long as she meets those requirements...

^i have to agree. a certain amount of chemistry is a must, and what's the point of perfect sex if the after chat is boring? i'd go even further though, and say he has to be from off-planet. i'm open to tentacles if he's intelligent and from off planet.

XxAxX said:

^i have to agree. a certain amount of chemistry is a must, and what's the point of perfect sex if the after chat is boring? i'd go even further though, and say he has to be from off-planet. i'm open to tentacles if he's intelligent and from off planet.

girl, you should play the Mass Effect videogame trilogy...tons of sex with alien species...

JoeTyler said:

XxAxX said:

^i have to agree. a certain amount of chemistry is a must, and what's the point of perfect sex if the after chat is boring? i'd go even further though, and say he has to be from off-planet. i'm open to tentacles if he's intelligent and from off planet.

girl, you should play the Mass Effect videogame trilogy...tons of sex with alien species...

Yes, in a heartbeat. If a person has a beautirful personality, spirit. above average intelligence, and can make me laugh, I find that person beautiful regardless of looks. Case in point. I have a cousin who had a boyfried who was rather homely. Granted, I was only 13 at the time, but I fell madly in love with him because he was the sweetest, kindest, gentlest boy I had ever met. But I guess if the person was god-awful helplessley ugly, I'd have to rethink the situation. I mean I wouldn't want somebody whose looks would scare little children or was too hard to look at.

No, I wouldn't completely forsake physical attraction for personality. I have to have a fairly strong physical attraction to someone for it to work. Relationships take a lot of energy and sacrafice and I know for a fact I wouldn't be able to invest all of that into someone I'm only halfway feeling.

Of course, this person wouldn't have to be drop dead gorgeous as long as she's pretty to me. Besides, I have a theory that most beautiful women have lackluster personalities. They've never had to be smart or funny or engaging; being beautiful got them all the attention the world. Ugly girls often have great personalities though. They're usually not fussy, they're witty, supportive, eager to please...hell, they may even fix your car if it breaks down! Still, I need a bit more.

I don't know about beauty since I'm rather eclectic in my taste but there's got to be something physically appealing.

at age 40 HELLL YES

I mean I would still hve to be attracted to the person but

I've met some beauties with absolutely NO personality mind vision heart

I get tired to easily

For me, after going through duds of guys who were 90% good looking with a 30-40% good personality....I have to say personality has to weigh over looks. Besides, after you fall in love with someone's personality, they start to look good to you anyway.

Hell fucking no! I've had enough of that puppy high school attitude for the past 15 years....yes it does matter what the eye can see...or eye won't have orgasms

Actually personality does matter the most, but if he's ugly as a mug, it's not going to work physically and sexually for me

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alphastreet said:

Hell fucking no! I've had enough of that puppy high school attitude for the past 15 years....yes it does matter what the eye can see...or eye won't have orgasms

Actually personality does matter the most, but if he's ugly as a mug, it's not going to work physically and sexually for me

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You can get orgasms from an ugly guy...

Now that I'm a dirty old man...NO.

PurpleJedi said:

Now that I'm a dirty old man...NO.

Hell to the naw.

I've been with a few women that could be considered to be of the "attractive but shallow" type. However, I can't resist making ironic and laconic remarks about the flimsy stuff they like to talk about so they've always left my ass in anger or being otherwise upset.

I like average girls that put some effort into their looks the most. That doesn't mean walking around with a gucci bag, fake nails and your tits hanging out though.

Always have. Always will. It doesn't matter how fine you are if you can open your mouth and eff it all up.

GeminiBrown said:

Always have. Always will. It doesn't matter how fine you are if you can open your mouth and eff it all up.

So true. I understand what some folks are saying, that you have to be attracted to the person in some sort of physical way as well, but for real, what the hell can I do with you if you irritate and bore me and can't have a mature conversation?

No.

missfee said:

GeminiBrown said:

Always have. Always will. It doesn't matter how fine you are if you can open your mouth and eff it all up.

So true. I understand what some folks are saying, that you have to be attracted to the person in some sort of physical way as well, but for real, what the hell can I do with you if you irritate and bore me and can't have a mature conversation?

Exactly. It didn't take me long in life to discover my 'type' really had nothing to do with how someone looked on the outside. Being easy on the eyes means nothing if you're hard on the ears. JMO

GeminiBrown said:

If I had to choose, personality would take it everytime. People with stunning personalities just always tend to look more physically attractive to me, even if his/her physical attributes are "less than optimal" .

I may just be easily biased

A person's personality is what usually makes them beautiful to me, so I suppose I would fall in the category of taking the personality. I have no use for good looking twits.

JustErin said:

No.

I thought you didn't care for "good looks"?