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what is your relationship status??? i'm lucky last. | |
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He would say I am 'In a relationship'.... I say I am a cross between 'Best friend with Benefits' and a 'Mistress' since he is only legally separated.
He hates that I call him married since he keeps telling me he considers himself single.
Oh well, I guess that's why they have 'Its complicated' on there. | |
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good point | |
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I guess I could say I am 4 of those. | |
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This is the second time that I've come across this issue. I don't understand why that would matter.
Isn't a Separation - legal or otherwise - pretty much a dissolution of the marriage???
I mean, you're either married or you're not.
IMO, once you Separate, then you are living separate lives...emotionally AND physically.
So, IMO, you'd be a "Mistress" ONLY if he were still living as a married man.
I understand that some people separate as a trial period in the hopes of saving the marriage. If that's the case, then there's still carte blanche to go out and b/c you are on a "break".
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I fit 4 of those as well. By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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can you name them all...or is it asking too much??? | |
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...asking WAY too much.
But I'll tell you anyway (no secret anyway)...
80% of the orgers here have endured my past year's worth of obnoxious threads on the matter so it's almost common knowledge.
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To me separated is NOT single because if I wanted to marry him I couldn't. He simply isn't free to commit fully to me.
Another woman has claim on him, and it is misleading to present yourself as single to someone you meet.
Let it go already, divorced is single, not separated. I am pretty sure he would take issue with me being married to another guy.
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flyorra said:
can you name them all...or is it asking too much??? Naw, in my case it will just lead to too many question from those who may be curious and I just don't want to get into it. | |
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and no... your threads were candid and thoughtful, never obnoxious.... well... minus that fishslap thread.
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I see your point.
But still though, once separated there should be no "stigma" on going out and getting some.
UNLESS, of course, the separation is presented by one party as a "temporary" break for "breathing room" under the pretense of maintaining fidelity and working towards repairing a failing relationship...with completely opposite intentions.
Just sayin'... By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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Too late Erin.
Now you got us all guessing.
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PurpleJedi said:
Too late Erin.
Now you got us all guessing.
I am seriously thinking of writing a novel inspired by my recent experiences...I just don't have the ending yet! If you really want to know you will have to wait for the book. | |
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fuck buddy
it's complicated
something but nothing
no real BF/GF since birth
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Totally agree. If you're still legally married you are not single. |
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I guess I'm selfconfident, trustworthy, trustful and respectful enough not to have to label any of my "relationships". Every relationship is different, every one is unique, every one is to be respected as what it is and, most of all, every healthy relationship changes from day to day. | |
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Could make a killing with a graphic novel perhaps?
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LTR "Aren't you even curious? Don't you want to see the dragon behind the door?" | |
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Looking for Tender Romance?
Loving Tan Romeos?
Lost The Relationship? By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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Forever Alone......
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Officially I'm single, broken hearted, and confused.
But unofficially..
Kinda talking Mutual Understanding
The salvation of man is through love and in love. - Dr. V. Frankl
"When you close your heart, you close your mind." - Michael Jackson (Man In The Mirror) "I don't need anger management, I need people to stop pissing me off" | |
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. [Edited 6/5/12 21:55pm] "We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15 | |
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Hot and sexy. You? 99.9% of everything I say is strictly for my own entertainment | |
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"Holding on to what I've got while I keep looking" :mrgreen: My mum told me that one I'm the mistake you wanna make | |
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FWB I guess. She's not married, but I know she has somewhat if a commitment to someone else. If one is married, I won't mess with her unless their dude is aware. She's not married but does have the other persons name tattooed on her. What can you do...ya know?
Marriage?...commitment?...loyalty?... These concepts frighten me. [Edited 6/2/12 3:51am] | |
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Ex-Moderator | Somewhere between in a relationship and engaged.
It's the longest relationship I've been in and I think it always will be. |
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