BBWIVES:
I don't know if the ending was filmed, like, last week and suddenly inserted into the season finale, but it looks like the clean-up and spin process is going into overdrive as this season of Basketball Wives Miami has come to an end. The show's final scenes were of Shaunie O'Neil happily at home with her 57 children having dinner and saying grace around the table, hi-fiving her young daughters for eating their vegetables
The finale concluded with her meeting with her pastor to discuss how draining and embarrassing the women behave, and how it's created a PR mess for her and she can't help being preoccupied every time she goes into a meeting with other black Americans, wondering if they think she's a ghetto hot mess because they've seen the show.
Now if that was Jennifer Williams, everyone would be up in arms about her thinking she's better than everyone else and they'd be trying to smack her down with flower vases and clutch purses 
Preacher man essentially tells Shaunie that she's in a valley right now, andin order to climb up and out she may have to leave some folks behind. 
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In the meantime, I saw this on Madame Noire on Monday afternoon. Outside of Kesha Nichols blog on bullying, this is likely one of the best articles I've read related to the show that ends on a constructive note :
Basketball Wives' Jennife...Black Love

I am not a regular viewer of Basketball Wives, but from what I’ve seen, there’s a lot of emphasis placed on a circle, and even greater importance placed on who is or is not in it. Each reunion features that season’s outcast jockeying for position, or denying they ever wanted entry into said circle.
This season, Jennifer (the bourgie one) has been catching flack from Evelyn (the appointed keeper of the circle). Apparently, Jennifer has been collecting wealthier, more famous friends in the wake of the show’s growing notoriety. Depending on whose storyline you take as the truth, this may or may not be a problem for Evelyn.
Dumping your friends for the popular crowd is never a good thing; Mean Girls taught us that. (I think the cast would benefit from a viewing party, Vh1.) But, being mindful of the company you keep is. The cast of Basketball Wiveshas come under fire for bullying, with a few advertisers pulling their endorsements from the show. Jennifer may be showing she’s a little savvier than her cast mates by trading in her old circle for a new one.
Friendships Are a Reflection of Your Present and Your Future
A popular quote by Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon, says “a brand is what people say about you when you’re not in the room.” The people you associate with hold a similar, related power. Your social circle shapes your brand when you’re not in the room.
Just as people make judgments about you based on the work that you do, judgments are made based on what and whom you hold in high esteem. If your best girlfriend is a known bully or gossiper, it’s understood that you co-sign that type of behavior. As the old saying goes, “birds of a feather flock together.”
Your social circle is more than a reflection of where you are now; it can determine where you are going. Today’s interconnected world of business requires a strong network to get ahead. More than ever, it’s not what you know, it’s who you know. Therefore, it is important to surround yourself with people who are moving their lives in a positive direction.
More than just networking opportunities, a good social circle provides the foundation for a great career. If your personal relationships are steeped in negativity, they will undoubtedly poison your professional life. The people you surround yourself with have the power to propel you forward, or drag you down.
Are You in the Right Circle?
Cultivating a healthy social circle is simple in principle. Take stock of the relationships in your life. If your circle can’t get in sync with the three principles below, it may be time to pull a Jennifer and find a new flock to fly with.
- Surround yourself with positivity. Your friends should be a support system. Those in your circle should be supportive of the work that you do and the person you are. If a person in your circle is giving out the wrong type of energy, give them a chance to correct their actions by letting them now how you feel.
- Don’t give your time to negativity. Time is too valuable to spend it with people who don’t make you feel good. Unlike your family, you choose your friends. Choose to associate with people who support and inspire you.
- Be the friend you want to see in your world. In relationships, you get what you give. Make it a habit to look for ways to support the dreams of others, and you should start to see the same energy return back to you.
OH NO! UH UH HONEY! You went WAAAAYYY too far to be seeking "redemption" now! If it wasn't for the backlash and your so called "show", you would STILL be acting like a BANSHEE! Don't EVEN try to front! The things you did to Jennifer were OUTRAGEOUS and INSANE! I have NEVER seen anyone involved in a so called "friendship" act like that. I can understand being mad and/or annoyed because that happens in friendships, but you crossed the line SO MANY times that if she NEVER wants to see you again, I'm sure THAT will be too soon. Who DOES what you did to her? You hit her in the head with your purse, then threaten to STING her every time you see her, THEN get your a$$ kissin' flunky to slap her, THREATEN since last season to put her business out on front, JUMP UP on a table to FIGHT her, TELL her she is YOUR ENEMY when she tried to apologize, KEEP the crap GOING Looong past it's time, and refuse to fess up to the fact that YOU were all over the place talking about her! YOU talked about her husband like a DOG, tried to GET HER to cheat, she said on radio EXACTLY what she said to YOUR FACE, and your silly immature a$$ gonna keep this mess going! YOUR problem is SHE has left your rat behind IN THE WIND, she is no longer your "whipping boy", she hasn't given you a backwards GLANCE and it is eating you UP! SHE made YOU relevant girl, and THAT'S why you are STILL crying and talking about her. You PROVED you are NO FRIEND, and NOBODY can trust you. I don't care HOW mad I was at someone, ESPECIALLY someone I claimed to know for TEN YEARS, NO WAY would I BLURT out their business because WHATEVER they told me, or did in my presence I consider CONFIDENTIAL!!! You are a NASTY, DECEITFUL, ROTTEN, SLIMEY BIRD, and you, Shaunie, and Tami DESERVE each other! GOOD FOR JEN! Oh! I almost forgot, you had the NERVE to throw shade at her business ventures, and for that, you, ski nose Shaunie, and Tami just made BIGGER sales for her! I for one will not buy ANYTHING you IDIOTS have to offer! KARMA BABY.....It's coming!
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