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I have just realized Tonight on my way home from work I realized how spinless I am when it comes to guys hot or not. Tonight was going all normal...typical buss ride back to the city from the suburbs...was anticipating the nightly pick up of UPS workers so I could see the hot UPS guy I am diggin. Well this is where it went all downhill. Ok so the hot UPS guy(whose actual name is Frank) was on as usual so I had something to look at on my way home  .
The problem started when I got to the stop where I have to transfer busses. I am standing outside the buss with the buss driver smoking when all of a sudden another one of the nightly UPS workers comes up and askes me for a smoke. So I kindly gave him one. So he then proceeds to ask me if he can ask me a question and I told him yes. However I had a funny feeling this was not going to go where I wanted it to go, but I hoped and prayed and it did not go the way I wanted it to. He proceeds then to ask me if I am single. I tell him yes and he askes me out. This is where I just wanted to jump off a cliff. I did not know what to say...except... Me- what is the deal with your co-worker Frank Mike guy - Oh him, he is crazy Me- so is he single, married, gay or what Mike guy - I don't know... Me - thinking to myself you are full of shit you know so just tell me So I just stood there waiting for an answer that I was not given. The story goes on to him giving me his number...blah blah blah. And him calling me this weekend, cause my dumbass was to nice and gave into giving him my number. Ok so I am totally not interested in this guy...I am not attracted to him what-so-ever, and I want his boss not him. I am not able to avoid him in anyway cause the buss I take is the only one I can take and he has to take the same one. FUCK I do not know what to do. You would think he would get the hint after I blantantly asked about his supervisor. HELP!!! ah I feel better now that I talked about this. | |
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 You didn't give him your phone number, did you? | |
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Ummm...excuse me???  Hello???  | |
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althom said: You didn't give him your phone number, did you?My cell phone which is currently not working...damn I am so mean | |
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Heavenly said: Ummm...excuse me???
Hello???  Sorry I did not know what to do | |
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 Tell him the truth, SO WHAT!! You can't loose and if the other guy is interested all the better! | |
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make up a illness you have
or say your les. | |
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Christopher said: make up a illness you have
or say your les.  | |
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Muse2noPharaoh said: Tell him the truth, SO WHAT!! You can't loose and if the other guy is interested all the better!but I feel so bad knowing that he knows I want his co-worker and that I told him no in hopes that the other dude would be interested. | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Muse2noPharaoh said: Tell him the truth, SO WHAT!! You can't loose and if the other guy is interested all the better!but I feel so bad knowing that he knows I want his co-worker and that I told him no in hopes that the other dude would be interested. WHY?? It's how it goes! He heard you but chose to ignore it! So just explain though you appreciate the offer you are really interested in Frank!  | |
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Oh Jess, honey, you have a beautiful, beautiful spirit. However, you don't "owe" this guy anything. If you aren't interested, you aren't interested and it's probably better to let him know before he gets the wrong idea.
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Muse2noPharaoh said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Muse2noPharaoh said: Tell him the truth, SO WHAT!! You can't loose and if the other guy is interested all the better!but I feel so bad knowing that he knows I want his co-worker and that I told him no in hopes that the other dude would be interested. WHY?? It's how it goes! He heard you but chose to ignore it! So just explain though you appreciate the offer you are really interested in Frank! Coming from a guys point of view. He was pretty stupid not to pick up on your hints anyway. | |
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Moonbeam said: Oh Jess, honey, you have a beautiful, beautiful spirit. However, you don't "owe" this guy anything. If you aren't interested, you aren't interested and it's probably better to let him know before he gets the wrong idea.
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althom said: Muse2noPharaoh said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Muse2noPharaoh said: Tell him the truth, SO WHAT!! You can't loose and if the other guy is interested all the better!but I feel so bad knowing that he knows I want his co-worker and that I told him no in hopes that the other dude would be interested. WHY?? It's how it goes! He heard you but chose to ignore it! So just explain though you appreciate the offer you are really interested in Frank! Coming from a guys point of view. He was pretty stupid not to pick up on your hints anyway. I thought so too... But damn I have had my feelings hurt and heart broken so many times that I do not want to do exactly that to him... I am such a softie  | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: althom said: Muse2noPharaoh said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Muse2noPharaoh said: Tell him the truth, SO WHAT!! You can't loose and if the other guy is interested all the better!but I feel so bad knowing that he knows I want his co-worker and that I told him no in hopes that the other dude would be interested. WHY?? It's how it goes! He heard you but chose to ignore it! So just explain though you appreciate the offer you are really interested in Frank! Coming from a guys point of view. He was pretty stupid not to pick up on your hints anyway. I thought so too... But damn I have had my feelings hurt and heart broken so many times that I do not want to do exactly that to him... I am such a softie He's just one of the kind who only wants to date you because you're an org-celebrity! I have that all the time... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: I thought so too... But damn I have had my feelings hurt and heart broken so many times that I do not want to do exactly that to him... I am such a softie Heart broken??? He was hitting on ya, that's all! It's not like he had feelings for you, yet. [This message was edited Wed Feb 26 22:48:21 PST 2003 by Heavenly] | |
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He's just one of the kind who only wants to date you because you're an org-celebrity! I have that all the time... [/quote]
Damn right I am an org-celebrity | |
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Heavenly said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: I thought so too... But damn I have had my feelings hurt and heart broken so many times that I do not want to do exactly that to him... I am such a softie Heart broken??? He was hitting on ya, that's all! It's not like he had feelings for you, yet. [This message was edited Wed Feb 26 22:48:21 PST 2003 by Heavenly] I just do not want to hurt anyones feelings that is all. I am trying to be nice and fair about this... | |
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So if he asked you to sleep with him, would you hurt his feelings then??? | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Heavenly said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: I thought so too... But damn I have had my feelings hurt and heart broken so many times that I do not want to do exactly that to him... I am such a softie Heart broken??? He was hitting on ya, that's all! It's not like he had feelings for you, yet. [This message was edited Wed Feb 26 22:48:21 PST 2003 by Heavenly] I just do not want to hurt anyones feelings that is all. I am trying to be nice and fair about this... And so you end up hurting your own feelings. That could have never been the intention... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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ChocolateInvasion said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Heavenly said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: I thought so too... But damn I have had my feelings hurt and heart broken so many times that I do not want to do exactly that to him... I am such a softie Heart broken??? He was hitting on ya, that's all! It's not like he had feelings for you, yet. [This message was edited Wed Feb 26 22:48:21 PST 2003 by Heavenly] I just do not want to hurt anyones feelings that is all. I am trying to be nice and fair about this... And so you end up hurting your own feelings. That could have never been the intention... as fucked up as it sounds I would rather hurt myself and my own feeling rather then someone elses | |
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Heavenly said: So if he asked you to sleep with him, would you hurt his feelings then???
yes I would but we are talking about a date not sex | |
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well, after you date him, he would expect for more. better hurt his feelings now, when his hopes are not as high. [This message was edited Wed Feb 26 22:56:22 PST 2003 by Heavenly] | |
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Heavenly said: well, after you date him, he would expect for more. better hurt his feelings now, when his hopes are not as high.
[This message was edited Wed Feb 26 22:56:22 PST 2003 by Heavenly] Have his email adres? Send the link to this thread. He'll figure it out... ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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ChocolateInvasion said: Heavenly said: well, after you date him, he would expect for more. better hurt his feelings now, when his hopes are not as high.
[This message was edited Wed Feb 26 22:56:22 PST 2003 by Heavenly] Have his email adres? Send the link to this thread. He'll figure it out... I wish | |
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Heavenly said: well, after you date him, he would expect for more. better hurt his feelings now, when his hopes are not as high.
[This message was edited Wed Feb 26 22:56:22 PST 2003 by Heavenly] I know I gotta do what I gotta due... Thank god I do not work tomarrow...it will give me a day to think what I am gonna say to him  | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Heavenly said: well, after you date him, he would expect for more. better hurt his feelings now, when his hopes are not as high.
I know I gotta do what I gotta due... Thank god I do not work tomarrow...it will give me a day to think what I am gonna say to him Well, since I didn't see his face when he was hitting on you, and don't know how excited he was, and how often he does this, I can't tell you if he'll get hurt or not, but again, better let him down before ANYTHING happens, then for him to think that something going to happen and build expectations, and only THEN letting him know. And hey, who knows, maybe he's better than me in bed, so give it a try  | |
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Heavenly said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: Heavenly said: well, after you date him, he would expect for more. better hurt his feelings now, when his hopes are not as high.
I know I gotta do what I gotta due... Thank god I do not work tomarrow...it will give me a day to think what I am gonna say to him Well, since I didn't see his face when he was hitting on you, and don't know how excited he was, and how often he does this, I can't tell you if he'll get hurt or not, but again, better let him down before ANYTHING happens, then for him to think that something going to happen and build expectations, and only THEN letting him know. And hey, who knows, maybe he's better than me in bed, so give it a try There is nobody better then you in the sac my love | |
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MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: There is nobody better then you in the sac my love
 You really know how to compliment a guy  | |
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Heavenly said: MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said: There is nobody better then you in the sac my love
You really know how to compliment a guy I try | |
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