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role play. dress up and wear masks so you can fantasize about other people
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Totally agree. the longer youre in a relationship the more you gotta adapt, try new things, be more playful. While I think it's true that men do suffer from the shiny new object syndrome, lust within the relationship doesn't have to decrease, as long as both parties communicate openly about the sex that they have and the sex that they'd LIKE to have. Change it one more time.. | |
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"Tire"? Become less worked up about shakin' her down? | |
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OK, first, I don't mean to be an asshole or anything, but does this guy now have a job? If not, you need to shake that man and tell him he's got other things he needs to be worried about than your damned outfits!
Second, how dare he try and tell you what you should and shouldn't wear. If he had made critical comments on your first date, would you have gone on a second?
GuRRRLLL, go rent Joy Luck Club and home train that man. | |
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He does have a job yes. He doesn't say it in a mean way. Just the other day I had on longer shorts a pair of seakers and a hoodie, and he was like I like when you dress like that instead of wearing shorter shorts. And right away I got offended and was like WHY??? Whats wrong with short shorts??? Are my legs ugly?? And he said no your legs look like they always have. And I said okay why the comments then? And he said cuz that outfit makes you look like a 33 year old mom of 3. ........as if that's a GOOD thing. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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I can't speak for your girl obviously, but Ace nailed it when he said 'less worked up about shakin' her down'. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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Sounds like you have yourself an honest boy Carrie. Though at times I'm sure some stuff is hard to hear, it's still the best. Good for you! I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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its not that he doesnt think u r hot ~ he knows u r hot!!! its just that he already told u and now he needs to let other women know ~ so dont stress, thats how men roll!!!
my question about men is how come they can go to the moon, build bridges, operate heavy machinery ~ but try as much as poss, they cant undo bras thats the real weird thing about men!!!
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other questions about men involve toilet seats, ping pong balls in toilets and flushing toilets ~ trust me these things will always b unresolved questions about men
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By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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I don't often agree with Imago (insert doseki's commercial) but I do here!
I def think that many times our image changes in a man's head after we have their child. That comment about what he likes you better in....(imo) was very carefully worded on his part, not to sound mean BUT says alot. To me it says, as the mother of my child it's inappropriate for you to dress younger than you are. Perhaps it even embarrasses him. It would have really pissed me off.
"not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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funny when men think of women as sex objects were pervs pigs or dickheads etc yet when the light switch seems off it erks .. we cant fucking win .. You 2 care about each other thats whats always been there n thats whats the most important thing, live your life talk to each other seriously if hes got issues he should man up n talk about it n you should talk to him about yours. Nothing better than a deep convo air out all things see what n where it leads.Time to stop the guess worry games. | |
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Did one of his buddies say something to him about how hot you are? Maybe he doesn't like them saying suggestive things about you? He's younger, right? Maybe the fact you are older is one of the attractions? If you dress HIS age you take the "older woman" fun away from him how does he feel about orthopedic shoes? a whore in sheep's clothing | |
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always thought it interesting in the earlier days when a chick fuck'd me say'd the words of endearment n the next day your acid under her eyelids, get enuf of that maybe it leaves an impression .. Its all water under the bridge but now we're in a diff mode with our children and marriages. You need to talk things out now .. | |
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I wasn't crazy about it, myself. The thing that's gets under my skin is the double standard. Like, I know he likes more conservative dress. He always has. But I wasn't dressed conservatively when I met him, and he liked it THAT night, because I wasn't his girl yet. I know there are plenty of men who like their wives to dress conservatively and yet they ogle the women who aren't. I don't GET IT. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
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Because they know how men think, they don't want their friends undressing you with their eyes. They only want to undress other women with THEIR eyes.
But you know what? That is his problem. He fell for you in short shorts, he should not expect you to change (unless MAYBE you looked terrible in them now, but I doubt that's the case) My Legacy
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loves my kids cause i know i can never disrespectful u know who taught me that | |
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Men tire of women but not for their looks so much as the energy you bring. Think about it. You can always change your looks; new hairstyle, new outfit, different makeup etc. but if you have the same ole attitude and routines and he is bored with it then he will look elsewhere. Mind you I said "look". I'm not saying he will cheat on you.
So just buy a new outfit and change your hair and act a lil crazy for about 5 minutes. His interest will be renewed. Although he might be a little scared. I'M NOT SAYING YOU'RE UGLY. YOU JUST HAVE BAD LUCK WHEN IT COMES TO MIRRORS AND SUNLIGHT!
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LOOK...the next time he says something stupid about what you're wearing (and being men, we tend to say lots of stupid things)...just flash a boob. The brain will reset itself and you can remind him that he'd just agreed to take you shopping. If he doesn't believe you, flash the other boob, and he'll be waiting out in the car with your purse on his lap in seconds.
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maybe hes tryn to say hes afriad of something like he n u are getng older etc n just cant cry or get emotional and he says n does stupid things instead .. | |
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