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You need some education and empathy. Oh, and watch The Crying Game.
Anyway, what does it ultimately mean to be a male or a female? After sorting through all the varied, often conflicting messages from family, friends, culture, the media, and finally one’s own heart; each person must find his or her own path. Trying to be something one is not, or not to be something one is, can invariably lead to total despair. I for one know that people do not choose this to suffer the ignorance, stereotyping, and hate from most of society. Is it any wonder that they have such a high rate of suicide?
FYI, gender identity is not always in agreement with the person’s anatomic sex. Gender assignment, (what sex organs does one have?) and gender identity (what our brains tell us we are) can be very dissimilar. The brain as well as the genital organs experience prenatal sexual differentiation. But what happens as a child grows and these two do not agree? From a very young age my grandson outwardly displayed female traits. Transsexuals usually show cross-gender preferences in play and dress in early childhood. Some feel they belonged to the other sex as long as they can remember. Some male-to-female transsexuals recall that, as children, they preferred playing with dolls, enjoyed wearing frilly dresses, and disliked rough-and-tumble play.
All of these preferences were demonstrated by my grandson as a child although he was raised as a typical male child and has three brothers who all identify as male. At the outset, we did not call attention to his behavior. I believe my daughter wanted to overlook what were clearly feminine qualities. In fact, she still calls “her” by the male name she gave him at birth. As time passed he told me he always felt that psychologically he was not a male, and many in the family besides my daughter did not accept it. He hid female apparel from his mother and only spoke to me concerning the extreme mental anguish he was experiencing.
At the age of 17 he decided to live openly as a female and begin the transformation. He is 19 now and most of the family has accepted him…even his mother. 'Nature versus nurture' in so far as my grandson is concerned??? I believe nature to be the determining factor in his sexual identity. His childhood was exactly the same as his biological brothers. He was raised in the same home and went to the same schools. What caused gender dysphoria? I believe many reasons for our sexual identity will be understood at some point in the future. And hopefully some of the ignorance will disappear with knowledge.
Ultimately, it is the brain that tells you who you are...not the body. And fyi, my granddaughter is not homosexual. She is a woman who loves men.
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No...not all of them are "predatory", but I guarantee you that not all of them are meeting guys and then, just before some romance pops off, telling them, "Hey...I used to be a man."
And that shit ain't right.
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much love!
oooh, I danced the whole night way, St. Patrick's Day, with a very lovely t-girl I know here in town.
do you have a still photo? which one were you in the video?
can't spell edit. [Edited 3/19/12 21:09pm] 12/05/2011
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Dude you are [Name calling snip - luv4u]
first of there is a myth of the tranny tricking the straight guy that is constantly played up by the media is false
some of you so called straight guys are dumb as fuck for instance i have a transgendered friend who escorts and even advertises her ten inch penis in all her craigslsit ads so tell me
why she gets hit up by a man off craigslist they meet up at a hotel and before they have sex he asks if she really is a transexual now mind you she has advertisements on the internet advertising her 10 inch cock
or even the amanda milan case were straight dudes killed a trans women because she tricked them yet these same dudes were seeeing driving on the tranny stroll 24/7 crusing for trannies the even fucked several of my friends but when it came time to give a defense of why the killed her they claimed they was tricked GTFO
i dont beleive msot straight men get tricked i've seen to many married men,guys with girlfriends, etc cruising for trannies but physcially attack a tranny after the homeboys , family members etc find out
most hate crimes committed toward "trannies" happen because of straight man embrassment i have to many friends who have been killed by a so called straight dude they was fucking just because people found out he was dating a tranny, so he ikills her then claims she tricked
even when we seen his ass on the stroll looking for t-girls so miss me with that shit tha average "straight male" will fuck a tranny i know this from experience its only when other people find out and start making fun of him does he claimed he was tricked yet his straight ass was on the block crusing for trannies | |
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in real life most transexuals i know who were killed by straight men not only did they not trick them but the straight guy was actively seeking them out and only killed them after people found he was dating a tranny
i cant beleive people actually beleive that shit
being an escort i've seen everyone from eddie murphy i 1980's nad 90's harlem all the way down to teddy pendgrass crusie trannies yet these men continue to claim we trick them
when they get caught red handed by the general public and folks actually beleive thems thats insane to me | |
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anyways let me get the thread back on track the so called straight dude who psoted in here really pissed me off
its hialrous if i was to make an ad right now on craigslsit sayin i was a transexual with a 10 inch penis i guarantee u in a hour or less i would get hit by like a 100 men and msot of them would be married , have kids, or a girlfreind,etc
on top of that these same men would claim i tricked even when they were seeking transexuals in the tranny section on craigslist
then these same men could possibly kill me and they would get away with it but the so called predatory tranny is always out to trick the straight guy lmaoooo
yet transexual porn is one of the fastest growing subgenres of porn, the tranny stroll is regularly visited by married men etc
yet we trick straight guys into sleeping with us lmaooooooooooo
you watch way to many movies dude
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WOW OnJenae!!! You are beautiful!! You haven't changed much at all. How do you do it? Reminds me of Sade' who doesn't seem to age either. "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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lol well first i've always had good skin , i got to the dermatologist almsot ever month im constantly doing ever thing i need to do to keep my skin clear, and blemish free and i eat healthty too
also i have eliminated things such as smoking and drinking my from life drinking takes a toll on you and ages you real fast alot of my friends who were heavy drinkers in the past look horrible in 2011
also i have good genes my mother did not get her first wrinkle on her face til she was almost 60 so i guess i get it from my momma lol they was telling her she looked 18 when she was almost 40 lol | |
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here are some pics of my beeauty rival tanay pendavis ranging from when she was 18 years old to her mid 40's
she was a ballet dancer,model ,actress etc i love her
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All good things to do. And good genes help too! I never smoked and only drink red wine occasionally. Never did any drugs. I don't go in the sun either. I'm too light-skinned and tanning makes wrinkles anyway. I don't look my age either but damn, I wish I looked that good.
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HERE ARE SOME PICS OF ANOTHER ONE OF MY BEAUTY RIVALS FROM BACK IN THE DAY MO'DAYVIA LABEIJA
she was a professional model,dancer,etc these of her range from when she was 18 til 41 its nice to see the girls still turning heads in the 40's
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Great thread, Tony. I don't know how I missed it. (I stayed in P&R too much)
Going back to read the rest of your thread. "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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@OnJanae, I agree. People love to trip about transsexual/transgender people, yeah they want to have sex with them, but then claim they were tricked, much like gay/bisexual men are pursued yet beaten, killed or accused of trickery, it's stupid.
Anyways, back to the subject, beautiful women! Just beautiful... [Edited 3/20/12 4:15am] | |
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Those guys were definitely tranny-hunters. | |
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I know about Eddie & Teddy. Can you also comfirm (fact or rumor) if some rap artists are still seeing transgender women on a down low? | |
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Not only are you very feminine , but you are aging very gracefully. | |
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No one said anything about hate crimes...and I meant no disrespect whatsoever.
I was just commenting on another poster (who's comments have all been removed), and all he said was basically "Guys watch out...these girls are so hot they could fool you." ATTACK! Yeah, he was a little insensitive with his comebacks, but his OP was truth.
And yes, I'm sure there are men who go cruising for transgenders...and there are transgenders that are up front about themselves...but I know for a fact that there are transgenders who are not up front about themselves...and that shit aint right.
Again...I apologize if I stepped on anyone's toes. The truth is the truth. These women are drop dead gorgeous...and that can be scary for a man who isnt hip to that sort of thing.
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First, I don't get why it is scary. If people weren't so terrified of what other people would think of them...seriously? I don't see the issue. If you see someone and you are attracted to them...you like their personality, their charm, their humor, and you find yourself wanting to be with them, what the hell would it matter if they were born a male or female? Why would someone be disgusted one way or the other? Why can't we just love the 'person?'
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Thing is most of these women dont approach men neither do i and i am not going to go around wearing a sign that says tranny on my back my bad if a transgender womens hotness makes a straight male uncomfortable
its hilarious sometimes i wish gay males, trannies, bis and lesbians banded together and dragged all the closet cases out of the closet then you would see how little you really know about whats going on in this world a good portion i say majority of hate crimes are usually committed by closet cases
imo its very rare that a man messes with a tranny and doesnt know especially if its a pre-op never understood these cases of how dudes have sex with transexuals who still have their penises yet claim they did not know she was born no amount o tucking is that good
AND WHAT DO U MEAN NOT UP FRONT ABOUT THEMSELVES if u saw me on the street nad tried to holla or get my number of course im not going to tell you im a tranny fuck out here with htat now if i ever saw things getting seriosu or we almost got to the dating stage then yes i would
but i dont owe some random straight guy who thinks he has the god given right to holla at every single attractive women he sees on the street a goddam explanation on what the fuck i am
we aint fucking,we aint getting married, we probably wont even date so basically your asking transgender women to put themselves in possible harms way just so straight men can feel comfortable lmaoooooooo
you got life messed up bro and yes you are advocating for hate crimes to happen jsut look at the rate of black and latino transwomen who get sexually assaulted,raped and murdered by straight men like yourself
or the larege bias the police officers have against transwomen when we get physcially assualted by closet case males like i said i beleivve its a myth and i witness the myth with my own eyes , have plenty of friends who can attest to and it and the fact that transgender women who still have their penis seem to be the msot popular ones in "straight" males eyes could be used for further proof:-D
now have a nice day straight man that does not want to get tricked by the evil trannies [Edited 3/20/12 14:08pm] | |
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amen to that
ITS CRAZY TO ME THAT PEOPLE ARE SCARED OF WHAT I AM BUT THEN AGAIN THEY ARENT REALLY SCARED THEY ARE SCARED OF WHAT THERE FRIENDS AND FAMILY THINK
i get approached by men all the time and have a wonderful sex life but im tired of straight guys and there issues with their sexual identity because of there attraction to me
i use to have a boyfriend who banned me from talking to him in public in front of his buisness associates, ban me from walking up and saying hi to him when ievever i saw him around the city and would only come out with me at night when nobody could really see us
one time i made the mistake of saying hello while he was sitting outside with a buisness asociate nad he went off on mr its crazy how straight men egos are so fragile:-o
i dont understand it and dont try to lol i broke up with that crazy dude who was ashamed of me but men like him disturb me these the type of dudes that would go off and kill a tranny just for saying hello to them just because people might assume them and the transgender woman are "fucking"
it gets tiring have to defend your right to exist to the same men who would sleep with u and engage in sexual relationships with you behind closed doors [Edited 3/20/12 14:12pm] | |
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Who called you "evil trannies"? How am I advocating hate crimes? I swear...this place is ridiculous.
Never mind...like the moderator said...this is an appreciation thread.
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thanks for exiting i did not want you in my thread and its not ridiculous first the reality is a transgender women revealing that she is trans to the wrong man can lead to her death
you would know this if you actually was a transwomen
lmaoo do u know the rate of transwomen who get killed every year by closet cases like yourself lmaooo
anyways im done lets get back on topic i dont even see why a supposed straight man would come in this thread when i gave u a warning with the title
AND I DOUBT YOU KNOW OF ANY REAL LIFE CASES WHERE A TRANSEXUAL TRICKED A STRAIGHT MAN OUTSIDE OF STUFF YOU SAW ON JERRY SPRINGER , A TV SHOW OR MOVIE
SO WHY IS SO SCARY STRAIGHT MAN
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