Honey.

Gab76 said:

[In bad taste snip - luv4u]

Really?
Far be it for me (but here I go) to say, since I tend to find laughter in just about everything. Perhaps youre trying to inject a bit of humor (I hope) to cheer her up but its coming off as LAME.

funkmunki said:

Lammastide said:

I'm so sad to hear that it happened, that you had to see it, etc. But I'm so grateful your son wasn't there to see it.

Take care of yourself, Erin. And by all means consider talking to a professional about it. That sort of thing is something you'll never forget.

fuck me!!... advice from someone with the most disturbing avitar i have ever seen....ha ha run Erin some of these fucks are so fucked up it's unreal

The fuck?? Lammies avi is the most disturbing you've ever seen?

Have you ever had an exchange with him? He's quite un-fucked up, actually.

johnart said:

funkmunki said:

fuck me!!... advice from someone with the most disturbing avitar i have ever seen....ha ha run Erin some of these fucks are so fucked up it's unreal

The fuck?? Lammies avi is the most disturbing you've ever seen?

Have you ever had an exchange with him? He's quite un-fucked up, actually.

no!..but he did toss me off just that once as a straight guy we just gloss over it.(as you do) But you just had to fucking bring it up (fucking hell john you know the score)...

johnart said:

Gab76 said:

[In bad taste snip - luv4u]

Really?
Far be it for me (but here I go) to say, since I tend to find laughter in just about everything. Perhaps youre trying to inject a bit of humor (I hope) to cheer her up but its coming off as LAME.

that would b a horrible thing to do!!! stand there and take a pic the worst thing is that ppl do it or take a video and put it on the net

that's rough, it's a reminder to all at how fragile & unpredictable life is,. poor lady going about her business, shopping 4 shoes or something. very upsetting 4 u

SO SORRY you had to see that!!!

Most people on here already gave you sound advice on how to deal with it. Make sure you talk to a professional. Make sure you get even more hugs. This is something that burns itself on your retina for the rest of your life and you need to give it a place.

I once witnessed someone dieing and it helped me immensely to visit that person's burial. It put things into perspective and made it easier to handle the experience.

For now, all my love to you, hun.
(((((((((((((((((Erin))))))))))))))))))))

So sorry to hear this! Take good care!

a dreadful sight and experience

RIP

Damn!

How surreal is that? I am sorry you had to see such a thing, and I hope things start looking up for you.

I understand where you stand Erin, I once saw a 8 year old girl die in the roadway. Try prying all the blood and the lifeless body from your brain. People just don't know, real death is nothing but every shade of ugly. Movies make it look cool. Death is awful.

please go and talk to someone about the trauma you have experienced and go soon promise? If you start to have nightmares or unreasonable fears about going out make sure you tell the counselor/doctor/ professional.

go quickly.

That's horrible.

strange.

becouse i work on an ambulance and chopper and my background is ICU i often wonder what it must be like to be affected like that.

im a wee bit numb to all that.

not for a second denegrating your experience

its sad erin what you saw but you'll be fine.

but i cant help but snigger.

bit of advice people when somebody is going through something or has witnessed something traumatic it doesnt help to say.....

"oh thats awful..I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL COS I SAW......"

and then go again to mention gruesome daths,plane crashes etc

Wow. That is terrible.

jonylawson said:

Wow........sorry 2 hear that.

I am truly sorry you (& others) witnessed this woman's final moments on Earth.

My heart goes out to you...@)-}------

~*~ May she rest in peace ~*~

Honey, I hope you don't get PTSD from it. I did once.

Talk about it and get it all out.

MIGUELGOMEZ said:

Honey, I hope you don't get PTSD from it. I did once.

Talk about it and get it all out.

PTSD

oh of course.........

May god bless everyone that seen, or was involved in such a terrible thing.

I've seen 3 violent deaths in my life. When i was 9 years old i saw a baby fall out of a 6 story window. Im still traumatized by it. It does help to talk about it. God bless.

jonylawson said: