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Reply #60 posted 01/10/12 6:08am

Tremolina

PurpleJedi said:

Tremolina said:

Talking about a generalisation lol. BUT no woman - so far - has objected to you making it.

So suppose, that you "practically" could get any woman in the world with fame and money, how many women could you actually keep? And how many of them could you keep from robbing you and making you feel like a total loser when it's all over because you finally found out that all she ever really loved was your fame and money?

Not really "rich and famous" BUT my late uncle "C" was both wealthy (by Honduran standards) and a horndog.

He would travel throughout Honduras doing business, and was one of those "had a woman in every port" type guys. But, because he had money, if they got knocked up he'd set them up with a house. So wherever he travelled, he'd have a place to stay-&-slay. His wife (my aunt) pretty much dealt with it b/c she lived very, very comfortably.

He died 10 years ago...at the time of his death his oldest son was 35, his youngest 6 months old, and I have something like 30 cousins in between.

So the short answer is you can keep ALOT of women, so long as you find the "right" ones. wink

Lol. With respect, your late uncle C was a traditionalist who kept his women by paying them. When he died he had been robbed blind. I as a modernist, am against that wink

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Reply #61 posted 01/10/12 6:15am

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Tremolina said:

PurpleJedi said:

Not really "rich and famous" BUT my late uncle "C" was both wealthy (by Honduran standards) and a horndog.

He would travel throughout Honduras doing business, and was one of those "had a woman in every port" type guys. But, because he had money, if they got knocked up he'd set them up with a house. So wherever he travelled, he'd have a place to stay-&-slay. His wife (my aunt) pretty much dealt with it b/c she lived very, very comfortably.

He died 10 years ago...at the time of his death his oldest son was 35, his youngest 6 months old, and I have something like 30 cousins in between.

So the short answer is you can keep ALOT of women, so long as you find the "right" ones. wink

Lol. With respect, your late uncle C was a traditionalist who kept his women by paying them. When he died he had been robbed blind. I as a modernist, am against that wink

lol By "traditionalist" you mean "machista" right? nod

No, I could never be that way. Honduras is still very chauvanist as a society (I read some classified Want Ads once from a Honduran newspaper, and I read some ads looking for Secretaries that called for "young, single, attractive lady" lol)

Yeah, if my late uncle hadn't been such a nympho, he would've been a MILLIONARE (in dollars) but keeping all those women must've been a financial drain (even in local currency).

There's no way I'd want that life...but damn, if I could've inherited at least SOME of that mojo in my DNA... sigh

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Reply #62 posted 01/10/12 1:04pm

Tremolina

PurpleJedi said:

Tremolina said:

Lol. With respect, your late uncle C was a traditionalist who kept his women by paying them. When he died he had been robbed blind. I as a modernist, am against that wink

lol By "traditionalist" you mean "machista" right? nod

No, I could never be that way. Honduras is still very chauvanist as a society (I read some classified Want Ads once from a Honduran newspaper, and I read some ads looking for Secretaries that called for "young, single, attractive lady" lol)

Yeah, if my late uncle hadn't been such a nympho, he would've been a MILLIONARE (in dollars) but keeping all those women must've been a financial drain (even in local currency).

There's no way I'd want that life...but damn, if I could've inherited at least SOME of that mojo in my DNA... sigh

I should not say too much, but let's just put it that I do understand your uncle lol

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Reply #63 posted 01/10/12 6:42pm

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Tremolina said:

PurpleJedi said:

lol By "traditionalist" you mean "machista" right? nod

No, I could never be that way. Honduras is still very chauvanist as a society (I read some classified Want Ads once from a Honduran newspaper, and I read some ads looking for Secretaries that called for "young, single, attractive lady" lol)

Yeah, if my late uncle hadn't been such a nympho, he would've been a MILLIONARE (in dollars) but keeping all those women must've been a financial drain (even in local currency).

There's no way I'd want that life...but damn, if I could've inherited at least SOME of that mojo in my DNA... sigh

I should not say too much, but let's just put it that I do understand your uncle lol

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"Allegedly" right?

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Reply #64 posted 01/11/12 2:31am

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I think there's quite a big difference between having manners, or at least knowing when you have to pull yourself together or when the situation suits being a bit more aggressive, bold and cheeky, and being snivelling, pathetic, weak, attention-seeking, overly emotional and clingy.

I think everybody prefers "nice" people - someone you can talk to, someone you can trust, someone who knows how to behave in certain situations, as long as they can let go and are not boring or too stiff.

A nice, dirty motherfucker is still a dirty motherfucker. He'll just help you wipe your pussy juice off the kitchen table after he's done.

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Reply #65 posted 01/11/12 9:55am

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Dave1992 said:

I think there's quite a big difference between having manners, or at least knowing when you have to pull yourself together or when the situation suits being a bit more aggressive, bold and cheeky, and being snivelling, pathetic, weak, attention-seeking, overly emotional and clingy.

I think everybody prefers "nice" people - someone you can talk to, someone you can trust, someone who knows how to behave in certain situations, as long as they can let go and are not boring or too stiff.

A nice, dirty motherfucker is still a dirty motherfucker. He'll just help you wipe your pussy juice off the kitchen table after he's done.

lol

That belongs on someone's sig line! nod

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Reply #66 posted 01/11/12 10:50am

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Not till I started being bad was when my confidence started shooting SKY HIGH. I cant tell you how many gay, straight men and women considered sleeping with me or visa versa....

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Reply #67 posted 01/11/12 11:48am

Ottensen

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UGH.

Please stop reading that website. It’s written by low-IQ adolescents. A man of your maturity and intelligence can find better reading materials and advice. I promise.

That said, it seems they are defining “nice guy” as some kind of whiny pushover with no self esteem. Maybe that’s what some people define as a “nice guy”. They’re talking about the cheesy “nice guy” stereotype.

I happen to define a “nice guy” as a guy who is polite, has good manners and is generally kind to everyone. None of that has anything to do with being a pushover or whiny or no self esteem.

THANK YOU.

askmen.com...next we're going to have to pry him away from King Magazine or good lord knows what disbelief

Jedi, you are not allowed to keep your screen name if you keep going back to that site hmph!

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Reply #68 posted 01/11/12 11:53am

Ottensen

Pomade said:

Deadflow3r said:

Some "nice guys" are really submissives/subs, bottoms or whatever you want to call it.

Some bitchy women are really just tops/doms whatever.

Christianity says that the women is submissive to the husband but that does not work for all people. Some women are attracted to submissive men. Those men are usually attracted to dominating women.

My idea; if people were honest with themselves about what they really want in a partner then they could begin to honestly look for the right one for them.

Not all dominating women are unfeeling. There are some caring and appreciative ones out there( who are more then willing to love on a cute Puerto Rican sub that may not be into pain).

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Reply #69 posted 01/11/12 11:56am

Ottensen

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You do not want to get involved with women who don't like nice guys. timeout Self-esteem issues. shake

If you folks are gonna insist on getting involved in one of these "romantic relationship" thingies and you're hoping that it'll last - without drama - for a long time, your best odds are going with someone who's mature and emotionally healthy. People who want "bad boys" or "bad girls" are not these things.

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Reply #70 posted 01/11/12 12:04pm

Ottensen

uPtoWnNY said:

Pr1nceQuik said:

All that is a myth.

If you have money, or even better, rich and famous, you can practically get any women in the world. Don't matter how nice you are or dull.

PREACH!!!

well I'm glad he put "practically" in there, because trust and believe I am in the category of women where that sh** would have a snowball's chance in hell working with me. I've been around, worked with, partied alongside many a handsome, wealthy, and yes famous man (models, film actors, some comedians), and none of it ever impressed me enough to sell myself or my soul just to be with or around them.Hell a person can have all the money in the world and still be an energy sucking asshole- why would I subject myself to that? Chile please, I'd rather make my own money, build my own reputation and occasionally try playing the lotto bored2

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Reply #71 posted 01/11/12 1:23pm

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Ottensen said:

CarrieMpls said:

UGH.

Please stop reading that website. It’s written by low-IQ adolescents. A man of your maturity and intelligence can find better reading materials and advice. I promise.

That said, it seems they are defining “nice guy” as some kind of whiny pushover with no self esteem. Maybe that’s what some people define as a “nice guy”. They’re talking about the cheesy “nice guy” stereotype.

I happen to define a “nice guy” as a guy who is polite, has good manners and is generally kind to everyone. None of that has anything to do with being a pushover or whiny or no self esteem.

THANK YOU.

askmen.com...next we're going to have to pry him away from King Magazine or good lord knows what disbelief

Jedi, you are not allowed to keep your screen name if you keep going back to that site hmph!

boxed

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Reply #72 posted 01/11/12 1:38pm

Ottensen

PurpleJedi said:

Ottensen said:

THANK YOU.

askmen.com...next we're going to have to pry him away from King Magazine or good lord knows what disbelief

Jedi, you are not allowed to keep your screen name if you keep going back to that site hmph!

boxed

redface

oh, alright... disbelief Just one last look at KING for the road, but you gotta wean yourself offa this and that askmen site. no no no!

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Reply #73 posted 01/11/12 1:42pm

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Ottensen said:

PurpleJedi said:

boxed

redface

oh, alright... disbelief Just one last look at KING for the road, but you gotta wean yourself offa this and that askmen site. no no no!

boxed

So then...could KING be my substitute drug...you know, like heroin addicts that get hooked on methadone?

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Reply #74 posted 01/11/12 8:06pm

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Visionnaire said:

PurpleJedi said:

I'm sorry Ace, but the post above you has got me thinking about nothing but flying out to California.

Maybe after a day or two I'll revisit your post and read the words then.



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