Genesia said:

mask said:

Did you ever consider that your arrogance probably got you into trouble with some of these people?

I highly doubt that people wanted to bully you beacause you "have a beautiful face and sing and play so many instruments & write great songs that their girlfriends like"...yuck!

You also have a tendancy to brag about all the women you have" laid",again-yuck!

Your post comes across as soooo arrogant and condescending and rather douchey.

Have you ever even been with a woman before?

Pretty immature post from a guy who is supposedly so worldy and superior at everything.

For instance,I could post all the things that I am better than you at,but I won't.

Why?you ask...because I'm better than you at not being a bragart.

Your post rather proves Dave's point, doesn't it? Bully.

[Edited 11/14/11 14:07pm]

No,it doesn't.

My post points out how arrogant Dave came across in his post. I also understand that you have to defend your friend.Arrogant people tend to flock together and pat each other on the back when someone calls them out.Don't pat Dave too hard,he may whimper.

I could call you a name just like you did to me but I am better than that.

Yes I was bullied, used to get beaten to a pulp by a Gang almost daily.

Teachers did nothing about it, until that is, I snapped one day and beat the shit out of those mofo's one by one, when they where alone without their little "Pack" to back them up, then I almost had my ass thrown out of school for misconduct.

I was beaten so badly one day I puked all over the floor, only to be given a Mop and Bucket and told to clean up my mess, Kicked in the Nuts so hard I couldn't walk from the swelling, I was also strangled with a Tie by those bastards and left with a burn mark around my neck. My Teachers, those fuckers with "A Duty of care" didn't do jack shit.

My final years of School where horrendous, how I survived them I will never know, because my so called friends never supported me in the slightest, they all just stood back and watched. That is one part of my life I have no pleasure in recounting.

itsnotallover said:

Yes I was bullied, used to get beaten to a pulp by a Gang almost daily.

Teachers did nothing about it, until that is, I snapped one day and beat the shit out of those mofo's one by one, when they where alone without their little "Pack" to back them up, then I almost had my ass thrown out of school for misconduct.

I was beaten so badly one day I puked all over the floor, only to be given a Mop and Bucket and told to clean up my mess, Kicked in the Nuts so hard I couldn't walk from the swelling, I was also strangled with a Tie by those bastards and left with a burn mark around my neck. My Teachers, those fuckers with "A Duty of care" didn't do jack shit.

My final years of School where horrendous, how I survived them I will never know, because my so called friends never supported me in the slightest, they all just stood back and watched. That is one part of my life I have no pleasure in recounting.

Damn. Did your parents get involved???

paintedlady said:

retina said:

I think someone is projecting their secret fantasies onto my old school memory...

Would you expect any less of your fellow orger?

Another GD thread turned into sex!

Where's Deadflow3r so we can celebrate?

mask said:

Genesia said:

Your post rather proves Dave's point, doesn't it? Bully.

[Edited 11/14/11 14:07pm]

No,it doesn't.

My post points out how arrogant Dave came across in his post. I also understand that you have to defend your friend.Arrogant people tend to flock together and pat each other on the back when someone calls them out.Don't pat Dave too hard,he may whimper.

I could call you a name just like you did to me but I am better than that.

Yes, you're way better. And yes, I'm all sorts of convinced how beautiful I am and never mentioned that it's all not only relative and subjective, but that I also just think that I simply take care of my physical appearance (like everybody should, in my opinion).

I never said I was better at anything, but I see that your perception is a bit blurred by your own insecurity, which makes you see arrogance in others even when there actually is none.

PurpleJedi said:

itsnotallover said:

Yes I was bullied, used to get beaten to a pulp by a Gang almost daily.

Teachers did nothing about it, until that is, I snapped one day and beat the shit out of those mofo's one by one, when they where alone without their little "Pack" to back them up, then I almost had my ass thrown out of school for misconduct.

I was beaten so badly one day I puked all over the floor, only to be given a Mop and Bucket and told to clean up my mess, Kicked in the Nuts so hard I couldn't walk from the swelling, I was also strangled with a Tie by those bastards and left with a burn mark around my neck. My Teachers, those fuckers with "A Duty of care" didn't do jack shit.

My final years of School where horrendous, how I survived them I will never know, because my so called friends never supported me in the slightest, they all just stood back and watched. That is one part of my life I have no pleasure in recounting.

Damn. Did your parents get involved???

Yes, but it was futile.

My Older Brother suffered worst with Bullying, we as a Family all suffered up until myself. My Younger Brother and Sister escaped the shit.

My Mother came to England after meeting my Father, who was serving in the British Army during teh 1950's in Germany. My Mother is (obviously) German, so we endured many, many years of - well, call it what you want - Racism / Prejudice / Hate - it all equated to a living hell for us.

One of the last things I remember about my Grandfather, was when I was 10 Years old, it was the last time I saw him alive, he became too ill to travel after that visit. My Parents had gone out for teh evening at the request of my Grandad and he stayed and looked after us kids for teh evening, a group of Clusterfucks (the only name I can think of for them) stood at the end of our driveway and started shouted stuff at us, like Heil Hitler, Krauts and go home Nazi - typical braindead moronic drivel that hateful scrotes spew - I can think of that night and will see clearly the events, as though they just happened moments ago.

We all suffered this shit through School too, being called names and treated differently, more so my older brother and sisters, the Schools never did anything about it.

I recall my Religious Education Teacher saying to me in class about how I was destined for Hell because of what "we" did in the War like yeah I personally executed P.O.W's and Bombed London

and no I am not proud to be "British" and would leave in a second given the chance.

Dave1992 said:

mask said:

No,it doesn't.

My post points out how arrogant Dave came across in his post. I also understand that you have to defend your friend.Arrogant people tend to flock together and pat each other on the back when someone calls them out.Don't pat Dave too hard,he may whimper.

I could call you a name just like you did to me but I am better than that.

Yes, you're way better. And yes, I'm all sorts of convinced how beautiful I am and never mentioned that it's all not only relative and subjective, but that I also just think that I simply take care of my physical appearance (like everybody should, in my opinion).

I never said I was better at anything, but I see that your perception is a bit blurred by your own insecurity, which makes you see arrogance in others even when there actually is none.

Poor lad,lots to learn still.

Just remembered this, had to post it

a guy of my class (very weird, not shy, just weird) "raped" (her word against his) and heavily attacked a female bully that started with insults and finally used death threats; the guy had to "leave" the school after the supposed rape...

a case of bullying gone terribly wrong

itsnotallover said:

PurpleJedi said:

Damn. Did your parents get involved???

Yes, but it was futile.

My Older Brother suffered worst with Bullying, we as a Family all suffered up until myself. My Younger Brother and Sister escaped the shit.

My Mother came to England after meeting my Father, who was serving in the British Army during teh 1950's in Germany. My Mother is (obviously) German, so we endured many, many years of - well, call it what you want - Racism / Prejudice / Hate - it all equated to a living hell for us.

One of the last things I remember about my Grandfather, was when I was 10 Years old, it was the last time I saw him alive, he became too ill to travel after that visit. My Parents had gone out for teh evening at the request of my Grandad and he stayed and looked after us kids for teh evening, a group of Clusterfucks (the only name I can think of for them) stood at the end of our driveway and started shouted stuff at us, like Heil Hitler, Krauts and go home Nazi - typical braindead moronic drivel that hateful scrotes spew - I can think of that night and will see clearly the events, as though they just happened moments ago.

We all suffered this shit through School too, being called names and treated differently, more so my older brother and sisters, the Schools never did anything about it.

I recall my Religious Education Teacher saying to me in class about how I was destined for Hell because of what "we" did in the War like yeah I personally executed P.O.W's and Bombed London

and no I am not proud to be "British" and would leave in a second given the chance.

That is so sad...sorry you went through that.

peacenlovealways said:

itsnotallover said:

Yes, but it was futile.

My Older Brother suffered worst with Bullying, we as a Family all suffered up until myself. My Younger Brother and Sister escaped the shit.

My Mother came to England after meeting my Father, who was serving in the British Army during teh 1950's in Germany. My Mother is (obviously) German, so we endured many, many years of - well, call it what you want - Racism / Prejudice / Hate - it all equated to a living hell for us.

One of the last things I remember about my Grandfather, was when I was 10 Years old, it was the last time I saw him alive, he became too ill to travel after that visit. My Parents had gone out for teh evening at the request of my Grandad and he stayed and looked after us kids for teh evening, a group of Clusterfucks (the only name I can think of for them) stood at the end of our driveway and started shouted stuff at us, like Heil Hitler, Krauts and go home Nazi - typical braindead moronic drivel that hateful scrotes spew - I can think of that night and will see clearly the events, as though they just happened moments ago.

We all suffered this shit through School too, being called names and treated differently, more so my older brother and sisters, the Schools never did anything about it.

I recall my Religious Education Teacher saying to me in class about how I was destined for Hell because of what "we" did in the War like yeah I personally executed P.O.W's and Bombed London

and no I am not proud to be "British" and would leave in a second given the chance.

That is so sad...sorry you went through that.

Thank you, but no need to apologise, People say stuff,usually without thinking about the effect and consequence. Now that I am older, I actually pity her for such a blind comment.

I was bullied when I was younger. In elementary school, I was made fun of and excluded a lot because I did well in school I was called quite a few names, but most often nerd. It didn't bother me much though because it's never been something that I've thought was a bad thing In middle school, I had braces and spoke kinda funny and stuttered at times, which caused a few kids to always come after me and constantly make fun of me. I ended up punching one of the kids that did it and that ended that Soon after that, I started dealing with a lot of sexual harrassment at school, but that's a whole nother thread

itsnotallover said:

peacenlovealways said:

That is so sad...sorry you went through that.

Thank you, but no need to apologise, People say stuff,usually without thinking about the effect and consequence. Now that I am older, I actually pity her for such a blind comment.

itsnotallover said:

PurpleJedi said:

Damn. Did your parents get involved???

Yes, but it was futile.

My Older Brother suffered worst with Bullying, we as a Family all suffered up until myself. My Younger Brother and Sister escaped the shit.

My Mother came to England after meeting my Father, who was serving in the British Army during teh 1950's in Germany. My Mother is (obviously) German, so we endured many, many years of - well, call it what you want - Racism / Prejudice / Hate - it all equated to a living hell for us.

One of the last things I remember about my Grandfather, was when I was 10 Years old, it was the last time I saw him alive, he became too ill to travel after that visit. My Parents had gone out for teh evening at the request of my Grandad and he stayed and looked after us kids for teh evening, a group of Clusterfucks (the only name I can think of for them) stood at the end of our driveway and started shouted stuff at us, like Heil Hitler, Krauts and go home Nazi - typical braindead moronic drivel that hateful scrotes spew - I can think of that night and will see clearly the events, as though they just happened moments ago.

We all suffered this shit through School too, being called names and treated differently, more so my older brother and sisters, the Schools never did anything about it.

I recall my Religious Education Teacher saying to me in class about how I was destined for Hell because of what "we" did in the War like yeah I personally executed P.O.W's and Bombed London

and no I am not proud to be "British" and would leave in a second given the chance.

Growing up, there weren't that many Hispanics in my neck of the woods. I do remember a few sporadic condescending episodes (like the seemingly sweet little old ladies walking past us in the school/church parking lot who nastily spewed "talk English while you're here" at us)...but NOTHING like what you suffered through.

Surely though, you must've had many GOOD experiences to offset the bad, no???

I think i emit some type of pheromone that makes people want bully me.

When im quiet i get ignored and disrespected.

When i act out i get called stupid and overly defensive.

I remember freshman year i got bullied by the nieghborhood whore and some fat kid.

8th grade year so bad that i bought a knife to school, I was gonna stab this bitchy fat girl who made my life a living hell. I'm glad i didnt stab her.

formallypickles said:

I think i emit some type of pheromone that makes people want bully me.

When im quiet i get ignored and disrespected.

When i act out i get called stupid and overly defensive.

I remember freshman year i got bullied by the nieghborhood whore and some fat kid.

8th grade year so bad that i bought a knife to school, I was gonna stab this bitchy fat girl who made my life a living hell. I'm glad i didnt stab her.

I'm glad u didn't as well.

There was this one girl in my neighborhood who would be nice to me and my friends one minute, mean and bullying the next. Knew her throughout middle school. Never was afraid of her though, even at my young age I sensed there was something "off" about her behavior.

Years later she dated a drug dealer and sad to say...they died an unnatural death. Barely in her 20s when she died. Damn shame...

In high school, I dealt with my share of teasing for being bookish, shy and bespectacled. But there were folks who also had my back. A friend once told me that a teacher overheard some guys making fun of me while I was out of the classroom. The teacher held up my test scores, then theirs. That shut them up quick!

Years later my older brother worked with one of the guys who used to tease me. My brother told him he and his friends drove up to my school looking to kick his ass. Hearing that scared the crap out of the guy,

[Edited 11/15/11 0:21am]

PurpleJedi said:

itsnotallover said:

Yes, but it was futile.

My Older Brother suffered worst with Bullying, we as a Family all suffered up until myself. My Younger Brother and Sister escaped the shit.

My Mother came to England after meeting my Father, who was serving in the British Army during teh 1950's in Germany. My Mother is (obviously) German, so we endured many, many years of - well, call it what you want - Racism / Prejudice / Hate - it all equated to a living hell for us.

One of the last things I remember about my Grandfather, was when I was 10 Years old, it was the last time I saw him alive, he became too ill to travel after that visit. My Parents had gone out for teh evening at the request of my Grandad and he stayed and looked after us kids for teh evening, a group of Clusterfucks (the only name I can think of for them) stood at the end of our driveway and started shouted stuff at us, like Heil Hitler, Krauts and go home Nazi - typical braindead moronic drivel that hateful scrotes spew - I can think of that night and will see clearly the events, as though they just happened moments ago.

We all suffered this shit through School too, being called names and treated differently, more so my older brother and sisters, the Schools never did anything about it.

I recall my Religious Education Teacher saying to me in class about how I was destined for Hell because of what "we" did in the War like yeah I personally executed P.O.W's and Bombed London

and no I am not proud to be "British" and would leave in a second given the chance.

Growing up, there weren't that many Hispanics in my neck of the woods. I do remember a few sporadic condescending episodes (like the seemingly sweet little old ladies walking past us in the school/church parking lot who nastily spewed "talk English while you're here" at us)...but NOTHING like what you suffered through.

Surely though, you must've had many GOOD experiences to offset the bad, no???

Sure, we had lots of Good times, I see that now more than I did growing up, but between School and a Stepfather who was overly keen to use his fists for Discipline, my life seemed somewhat grim.

The whole "Speak English" thing annoys the hell out of me, it is still quite commonly used here in England from my experiences of people (Probably mostly by closet Racists). The same goes for Brits who go abroad on Holiday and expect everyone to speak English, if they cannot, these Brits are incredibly rude towards them.

I also play World of Warcraft and the evil vile spew that is poured out in the chat on that game is appalling - again the "Speak English" thing is used there substantially.

I was given a 24 Hour Suspension from the game for addressing the situation publicly, apparently Blizzards moderators said I was " Inciting National Hatred" I had logged in one night to play and there was this whole bunch of people being abusive towards Italian and Black players, so I stated in the Chat, and I quote "Fuck me, I thought I logged into WoW not the KKK Site" Someone complained and I got suspended

[Edited 11/15/11 0:57am]

formallypickles said:

I think i emit some type of pheromone that makes people want bully me.

When im quiet i get ignored and disrespected.

When i act out i get called stupid and overly defensive.

I remember freshman year i got bullied by the nieghborhood whore and some fat kid.

8th grade year so bad that i bought a knife to school, I was gonna stab this bitchy fat girl who made my life a living hell. I'm glad i didnt stab her.

Damn, what would you do to your man?

itsnotallover said:

PurpleJedi said:

Growing up, there weren't that many Hispanics in my neck of the woods. I do remember a few sporadic condescending episodes (like the seemingly sweet little old ladies walking past us in the school/church parking lot who nastily spewed "talk English while you're here" at us)...but NOTHING like what you suffered through.

Surely though, you must've had many GOOD experiences to offset the bad, no???

Sure, we had lots of Good times, I see that now more than I did growing up, but between School and a Stepfather who was overly keen to use his fists for Discipline, my life seemed somewhat grim.

The whole "Speak English" thing annoys the hell out of me, it is still quite commonly used here in England from my experiences of people (Probably mostly by closet Racists). The same goes for Brits who go abroad on Holiday and expect everyone to speak English, if they cannot, these Brits are incredibly rude towards them.

I also play World of Warcraft and the evil vile spew that is poured out in the chat on that game is appalling - again the "Speak English" thing is used there substantially.

I was given a 24 Hour Suspension from the game for addressing the situation publicly, apparently Blizzards moderators said I was " Inciting National Hatred" I had logged in one night to play and there was this whole bunch of people being abusive towards Italian and Black players, so I stated in the Chat, and I quote "Fuck me, I thought I logged into WoW not the KKK Site" Someone complained and I got suspended

[Edited 11/15/11 0:57am]

Anyway...you should be happy with your home. Don't allow a few knuckleheads (or maybe more than few) to sour your take on your home. As shitty as things can be here, I'm happy and wouldn't want to go anywhere else. The moment I feel like I'm miserable is when I pack my bags and GO.

Of course...nowadays there are more Hispanics here than you can shake a stick at. We're everywhere. We don't even need to travel into NYC to get amazing Latin food (Columbian, Dominican, Mexican, Central American...) so it helps.

PurpleJedi said:

itsnotallover said:

Sure, we had lots of Good times, I see that now more than I did growing up, but between School and a Stepfather who was overly keen to use his fists for Discipline, my life seemed somewhat grim.

The whole "Speak English" thing annoys the hell out of me, it is still quite commonly used here in England from my experiences of people (Probably mostly by closet Racists). The same goes for Brits who go abroad on Holiday and expect everyone to speak English, if they cannot, these Brits are incredibly rude towards them.

I also play World of Warcraft and the evil vile spew that is poured out in the chat on that game is appalling - again the "Speak English" thing is used there substantially.

I was given a 24 Hour Suspension from the game for addressing the situation publicly, apparently Blizzards moderators said I was " Inciting National Hatred" I had logged in one night to play and there was this whole bunch of people being abusive towards Italian and Black players, so I stated in the Chat, and I quote "Fuck me, I thought I logged into WoW not the KKK Site" Someone complained and I got suspended

[Edited 11/15/11 0:57am]

Anyway...you should be happy with your home. Don't allow a few knuckleheads (or maybe more than few) to sour your take on your home. As shitty as things can be here, I'm happy and wouldn't want to go anywhere else. The moment I feel like I'm miserable is when I pack my bags and GO.

Of course...nowadays there are more Hispanics here than you can shake a stick at. We're everywhere. We don't even need to travel into NYC to get amazing Latin food (Columbian, Dominican, Mexican, Central American...) so it helps.

I am happy with my Life now. It could be better, like having more Money to spend on the Kids etc, but I get the feeling 99% of the Worlds population is in the same boat on that one

I rent a beautiful house with my Wife, we live in a relatively quiet area, I drive the Car I have dreamed of owning for the last 11 Years - (Since it was launched) and best of all, I have a Wife and two kids who I love and they love me.

The onlly thing I would change, honestly, is my Beer Belly......

[Edited 11/15/11 6:44am]

itsnotallover said:

PurpleJedi said:

Anyway...you should be happy with your home. Don't allow a few knuckleheads (or maybe more than few) to sour your take on your home. As shitty as things can be here, I'm happy and wouldn't want to go anywhere else. The moment I feel like I'm miserable is when I pack my bags and GO.

Of course...nowadays there are more Hispanics here than you can shake a stick at. We're everywhere. We don't even need to travel into NYC to get amazing Latin food (Columbian, Dominican, Mexican, Central American...) so it helps.

I am happy with my Life now. It could be better, like having more Money to spend on the Kids etc, but I get the feeling 99% of the Worlds population is in the same boat on that one

I rent a beautiful house with my Wife, we live in a relatively quiet area, I drive the Car I have dreamed of owning for the last 11 Years - (Since it was launched) and best of all, I have a Wife and two kids who I love and they love me.

The onlly thing I would change, honestly, is my Beer Belly......

@ the beer belly.

I was told to buy an "Ab Roller". It's cheap (about $10?) and supposed to really work...

I've never been a bully but I've stopped several over the years from bullying other people.

Most bullies seem 2 just want some attention.

BklynBabe said:

Just about everyone feels bullied and not bullish. Glasses, buck teeth, funny name, adopted, and smart= total bullying for me. It made me insecure and aggressive. I wasn't one to run or get beat up, so now I have a sassy mouth and I don't take no shit. But I tend to retreat from people. I have a lot of anxiety, esecially at the thought of being judged. It made me kinda neurotic lol. However I can admit to having a few bully tendencies too. More like a dominating, folk are stupid, hilosophy....and I don't like that about myself.

yeah I find I have anxiety cause I'm withdrawing to keep myself from blowing up, and I have been told by those closest to me I could be a control freak when I let go

PurpleJedi said:

itsnotallover said:

I am happy with my Life now. It could be better, like having more Money to spend on the Kids etc, but I get the feeling 99% of the Worlds population is in the same boat on that one

I rent a beautiful house with my Wife, we live in a relatively quiet area, I drive the Car I have dreamed of owning for the last 11 Years - (Since it was launched) and best of all, I have a Wife and two kids who I love and they love me.

The onlly thing I would change, honestly, is my Beer Belly......

@ the beer belly.

I was told to buy an "Ab Roller". It's cheap (about $10?) and supposed to really work...

Will look into that cheers

I have lost almost a full Stone in Weight in the last couple of months, so I am pleased with that. I can now fit into a Pair of Jeans I bought at the start of the year, so thats the waistline lowered lol, just the Homer Pouch to lose

itsnotallover said:

PurpleJedi said:

@ the beer belly.

I was told to buy an "Ab Roller". It's cheap (about $10?) and supposed to really work...

Will look into that cheers

I have lost almost a full Stone in Weight in the last couple of months, so I am pleased with that. I can now fit into a Pair of Jeans I bought at the start of the year, so thats the waistline lowered lol, just the Homer Pouch to lose

(how much is one stone btw?)

Graycap23 said:

I've never been a bully but I've stopped several over the years from bullying other people.

Most bullies seem 2 just want some attention.

I think it's more than attention...they crave power. To be able to have power over someone by instilling fear and physical harm.

They can't get that from someone who could whoop their ass, so they pick on smaller/weaker prey.

PurpleJedi said:

itsnotallover said:

I am happy with my Life now. It could be better, like having more Money to spend on the Kids etc, but I get the feeling 99% of the Worlds population is in the same boat on that one

I rent a beautiful house with my Wife, we live in a relatively quiet area, I drive the Car I have dreamed of owning for the last 11 Years - (Since it was launched) and best of all, I have a Wife and two kids who I love and they love me.

The onlly thing I would change, honestly, is my Beer Belly......

@ the beer belly.

I was told to buy an "Ab Roller". It's cheap (about $10?) and supposed to really work...

It works, however it puts strain on your back. Sit ups are better:

PurpleJedi said:

itsnotallover said:

Will look into that cheers

I have lost almost a full Stone in Weight in the last couple of months, so I am pleased with that. I can now fit into a Pair of Jeans I bought at the start of the year, so thats the waistline lowered lol, just the Homer Pouch to lose

(how much is one stone btw?)

According to Google, 1 Stone = 14 Pounds

kewlschool said:

PurpleJedi said:

@ the beer belly.

I was told to buy an "Ab Roller". It's cheap (about $10?) and supposed to really work...

It works, however it puts strain on your back. Sit ups are better:

If only I could get my Knees that high up

Thanks