So we all are just human... and for all of us the things we do are life lessons... i was listening to a girl talking to someone at the bar the other night... talking about how she only puts out for her honey as a reward system .. like she has to profit for the deal or its a no go...

i know we all have our moments when we get mad at our lovers and your last low blow to them sometimes is well your not getting the dick or the punani tonight .. cause your pissed and thats understandable .. you will just go have amazing makeup sex the next day or whatever..

but have you ever used SEX as a weapon? or a reward system? ( i can understand this if you were desperate to get rid of your lover or whoever you were banging at the time) or if its some kinda kinky thing your into ... then ok you do what you gotta do .. but would you ever use Sex as a weapon?

i just have to ask because im curious?

my answer: ive never used sex as weapon with anyone i have ever been with ... i love my husband and couldnt imagine deni -ing him my love..

sure ive gotten mad at him and told him he killed the mood more than once and if he wants me to get back in the right frame of mind hes got some apologizing to do and some romantic swooning.. but its so hard for me to resist him sometime even when i am mad .. he just has that way of screaming i love you take me with his eyes..

discuss

Not as a weapon, but let's say I used to like to "play", including playing with people and their emotions. I'm not proud of that and don't do that anymore, though.

Yes Sex is the biggest gun in my arsenal.

I've never done that because then that'd mean I'm not getting sex either But I've been like you, insatiable, and had the mood killed by my man Then we gotta work back up to it

sex is usually the lady's prerogative!...I know my place

insatiable3 said:

Wow im taken by surprize I thought this thread would be on fire by now!! Guess it wasnt as good of a question as I thought..

I think its cuz we just had a similar thread not long ago..

Denying me her 'love'? Not gonna happen.

Fauxie said:

Denying me her 'love'? Not gonna happen.

When I was engaged, my EX- did that crap.

He would sleep on the couch or say something obnoxious to make it clear that it was because of something I did that we weren't going to be intimate.

I did say EX right?

There have been times that I've "withheld", but not as a game. If the guy had hurt me in some way, I wasn't in the mood. I didn't want to be touched; sex wasn't going to make it go away.

...................... nah ......................

yeah no

My johnson doubles for a ballpeen hammer.

Shoot Me! ....Shoot Me!

smoothcriminal12 said:

She's such a good Christian.

Cerebus said:

smoothcriminal12 said:

She's such a good Christian.

Ain't that the truth.

sex as a bartering tool is one thing, as a weapon....that's just rape.

HotGritz said:

sex as a bartering tool is one thing, as a weapon....that's just rape.

Uhhh... methinks you're missing a bit of the context here. Rape is rape. Sex as a weapon, either using it, or having it used on you, is pretty much part of daily life once a person has reached puberty these days.

Cerebus said:

HotGritz said:

sex as a bartering tool is one thing, as a weapon....that's just rape.

Uhhh... methinks you're missing a bit of the context here. Rape is rape. Sex as a weapon, either using it, or having it used on you, is pretty much part of daily life once a person has reached puberty these days.

I know this thread died over a week ago but that comment makes no sense.