Spinlight said:

armpit said:

The only way you or anybody else would ever get a chance to piss on me is if they slipped a roofies in my soda can or something.

One thing I noticed about you is that you're kinda...anal (no pun intended) about sexual topics. If anyone says they just aren't into something of a sexual nature, you fly off the handle and start on tirades, over-analyzing their comments. I get being all about personal freedom, but that should extend to everybody. Just like people have the right to choose to do what they want to do to themselves or one another sexually, people also have the right to choose not to. Really your behavior doesn't make you all that different from the super-judgmental, self-righteous conservatives you rally against who push their sexual mores on the rest of the populace. Neither extreme is good and it's just two sides of the same coin.

Now, when I brought up cognitive dissonance and someone else corroborated my thoughts, you felt intimidated and essentially just played the cognitive dissonance card out to a T. I'm not judging you, I just think you seem to be a very tense person in your head and it does not really surprise me that you are indifferent about sex (not to mention, indifferent to the sex being had by a gay man).

Any student of the mind would draw conclusions or see connections between various aspects of a person's life and how that reflects upon their sexuality. Because I believe all mammals are bisexual and that society shuns homosex due to religion, you think I'm overanalyzing.

I'm all for people doing whatever it is they want to do. Period. I feel it's none of my business, even if it doesn't personally appeal to me and I wouldn't do it. When I state that I personally don't like something and don't see the point of it, it is not an unspoken declaration that the rest of the human population should fall in line and think exactly like me.

You can play armchair psychoanalyst until you're blue in the face, but it really just boils down to that. Like every other human being I'm entitled to my own personal tastes and preferences about what I choose to do (or not do) sexually. And, like everyone else, I have every right to express that, and I'm absolutely not obligated to like something sexually because you say so, and if anything all you manage to do with your comments is push me in the opposite direction, not any closer to seeing your point of view.

And frankly yeah, you do overanalyze as well as project your own sexuality onto other people. Believe it or not, there actually plenty of people who are born very straight, just like there are people who are born with absolutely no interest in the opposite sex. Not everyone is gay just because you are. And this is coming from a bisexual female so don't hand me that 'you're a homophobe!' shit that I know is coming next. And honestly with your baiting you do nothing to further the gay and lesbian cause and everything to alienate people. Frankly, we have enough problems without people like you speaking for us.

And...it takes far more to intimidate (and impress) me than chucking a few big words at my head.

happened to me just before, I was paying a medical bill at the pediatrician's office. This was for no reason at all. No visual cue, no physical stimulation, nothing!

armpit said:

...Why is the whole world so freaky?

Why is it that everybody only thinks about sex, sex, sex, all the time?

Even on another completely unrelated forum I visit, there's a thread a billion pages long about BDSM and 'kinky sex'.

*ponders this*

Maybe they're chemtrailing nympho mist over all the first world countries or something.

the answer is pretty clear to me. The internet is full of deviants and nymphos. Simply log off!

blackbob said:

unique said:

instead of posting on the org, look at some porn sites and have a wank. simples

but thats my point...it aint enough....think my hormones are telling me i should be ''spreading my seed' for the want of a better way of putting it...masturbation aint scratching the itch....surely this is something an 18 year old should be getting..not me..

mid life crisis! manopause

yes

and often

u r not alone

Yes.

Especially right after my period... I am easily set off. Thank God for dick! Hallelujah!

armpit said:

Spinlight said:

Now, when I brought up cognitive dissonance and someone else corroborated my thoughts, you felt intimidated and essentially just played the cognitive dissonance card out to a T. I'm not judging you, I just think you seem to be a very tense person in your head and it does not really surprise me that you are indifferent about sex (not to mention, indifferent to the sex being had by a gay man).

Any student of the mind would draw conclusions or see connections between various aspects of a person's life and how that reflects upon their sexuality. Because I believe all mammals are bisexual and that society shuns homosex due to religion, you think I'm overanalyzing.

I'm all for people doing whatever it is they want to do. Period. I feel it's none of my business, even if it doesn't personally appeal to me and I wouldn't do it. When I state that I personally don't like something and don't see the point of it, it is not an unspoken declaration that the rest of the human population should fall in line and think exactly like me.

You can play armchair psychoanalyst until you're blue in the face, but it really just boils down to that. Like every other human being I'm entitled to my own personal tastes and preferences about what I choose to do (or not do) sexually. And, like everyone else, I have every right to express that, and I'm absolutely not obligated to like something sexually because you say so, and if anything all you manage to do with your comments is push me in the opposite direction, not any closer to seeing your point of view.

And frankly yeah, you do overanalyze as well as project your own sexuality onto other people. Believe it or not, there actually plenty of people who are born very straight, just like there are people who are born with absolutely no interest in the opposite sex. Not everyone is gay just because you are. And this is coming from a bisexual female so don't hand me that 'you're a homophobe!' shit that I know is coming next. And honestly with your baiting you do nothing to further the gay and lesbian cause and everything to alienate people. Frankly, we have enough problems without people like you speaking for us.

And...it takes far more to intimidate (and impress) me than chucking a few big words at my head.

O.o

I don't even know you like that. What's your hardon for me? Again, I've not enforced my sexuality on anyone and I challenge you to show me where I have. I didn't say anyone was gay. WTF?

Girl, you're right. You ARE awkward. So go back and learn some things about human interaction before you come at me like you lost your mind.

paintedlady said:

KidaDynamite said:

paintedlady said:

Yes.

Especially right after my period... I am easily set off. Thank God for dick! Hallelujah!

It happens to me while I'm on my period.

I was like that when I was younger.

KidaDynamite said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

Not normally, no. Only when im under the influence of something.

Alcohol for me and all I need is a few sips.

Only a few sips wow.

During exams.

When every ones leaving and im still working on my exam the pressure to finish makes me horny.

formallypickles said:

During exams.

When every ones leaving and im still working on my exam the pressure to finish makes me horny.

lmao thats no good

KidaDynamite said:

ThrillUorKillU said:

Not normally, no. Only when im under the influence of something.

Alcohol for me and all I need is a few sips.

How about a drink?

Yeah I can get horny too fast sometime. Especially if I ses a nice pair of legs or without notificiationa southry cooky booty when I go to the org...I think the summer gets me more energized and xcited.

And im just a hornball.

armpit said:

Spinlight said:

Now, when I brought up cognitive dissonance and someone else corroborated my thoughts, you felt intimidated and essentially just played the cognitive dissonance card out to a T. I'm not judging you, I just think you seem to be a very tense person in your head and it does not really surprise me that you are indifferent about sex (not to mention, indifferent to the sex being had by a gay man).

Any student of the mind would draw conclusions or see connections between various aspects of a person's life and how that reflects upon their sexuality. Because I believe all mammals are bisexual and that society shuns homosex due to religion, you think I'm overanalyzing.

I'm all for people doing whatever it is they want to do. Period. I feel it's none of my business, even if it doesn't personally appeal to me and I wouldn't do it. When I state that I personally don't like something and don't see the point of it, it is not an unspoken declaration that the rest of the human population should fall in line and think exactly like me.

You can play armchair psychoanalyst until you're blue in the face, but it really just boils down to that. Like every other human being I'm entitled to my own personal tastes and preferences about what I choose to do (or not do) sexually. And, like everyone else, I have every right to express that, and I'm absolutely not obligated to like something sexually because you say so, and if anything all you manage to do with your comments is push me in the opposite direction, not any closer to seeing your point of view.

And frankly yeah, you do overanalyze as well as project your own sexuality onto other people. Believe it or not, there actually plenty of people who are born very straight, just like there are people who are born with absolutely no interest in the opposite sex. Not everyone is gay just because you are. And this is coming from a bisexual female so don't hand me that 'you're a homophobe!' shit that I know is coming next. And honestly with your baiting you do nothing to further the gay and lesbian cause and everything to alienate people. Frankly, we have enough problems without people like you speaking for us.

And...it takes far more to intimidate (and impress) me than chucking a few big words at my head.

Is he speaking for the gay and lesbian community because he is gay and everything

he has to say automatically effects the "cause?"

Is he speaking for the gay and lesbian community because he has been elected king of

the gays?

Is he speaking for the gay and lesbian community because every time you see him post you

think/read GAY GAY GAY BALLS GAY GAY DICK GAY?

When does he get to speak as an individual?

Bisexual or not, you can be heterosexist, so don't think that throwing that card down means

that you are immune from the effects of internalized heteronormative views.

Gahhh...I hated it when it would hit while I was in class. It would suddenly become the

ONLY thing I could think about. When I look back at my notes I laugh at all

of the sexual images I doodled while in class.

kewlschool said:

KidaDynamite said:

ThrillUorKillU said: Alcohol for me and all I need is a few sips.

How about a drink?

where are you when I've had a few

Only if I think about what I did was him.. Idk

NMuzakNSoul said:

Yeah I can get horny too fast sometime. Especially if I ses a nice pair of legs or without notificiationa southry cooky booty when I go to the org...I think the summer gets me more energized and xcited.

And im just a hornball.

love that

InternationalLover82 said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

Yeah I can get horny too fast sometime. Especially if I ses a nice pair of legs or without notificiationa southry cooky booty when I go to the org...I think the summer gets me more energized and xcited.

And im just a hornball.

love that

Thanks

blackbob said:

unique said:

sounds like you need to stick a dildo up your arse whilst you do it. reach the prostate when you cum. does the trick for me

.

.

...ehhh...thanks for that..unique...blunt as a brick wall as usual... .....your posts are the only ones that can make me blush ...thats another image of you thats burned onto my retina ....

.

.

look who else has the same problem as you...

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I was recently watching a video on youtube of a guy playing some classic stuff by Herbie Hancock on his Rhodes piano really, really well and I noticed I had a hard on while watching it.

LadyCasanova said:

armpit said:

I'm all for people doing whatever it is they want to do. Period. I feel it's none of my business, even if it doesn't personally appeal to me and I wouldn't do it. When I state that I personally don't like something and don't see the point of it, it is not an unspoken declaration that the rest of the human population should fall in line and think exactly like me.

You can play armchair psychoanalyst until you're blue in the face, but it really just boils down to that. Like every other human being I'm entitled to my own personal tastes and preferences about what I choose to do (or not do) sexually. And, like everyone else, I have every right to express that, and I'm absolutely not obligated to like something sexually because you say so, and if anything all you manage to do with your comments is push me in the opposite direction, not any closer to seeing your point of view.

And frankly yeah, you do overanalyze as well as project your own sexuality onto other people. Believe it or not, there actually plenty of people who are born very straight, just like there are people who are born with absolutely no interest in the opposite sex. Not everyone is gay just because you are. And this is coming from a bisexual female so don't hand me that 'you're a homophobe!' shit that I know is coming next. And honestly with your baiting you do nothing to further the gay and lesbian cause and everything to alienate people. Frankly, we have enough problems without people like you speaking for us.

And...it takes far more to intimidate (and impress) me than chucking a few big words at my head.

Is he speaking for the gay and lesbian community because he is gay and everything

he has to say automatically effects the "cause?"

Is he speaking for the gay and lesbian community because he has been elected king of

the gays?

Is he speaking for the gay and lesbian community because every time you see him post you

think/read GAY GAY GAY BALLS GAY GAY DICK GAY?

When does he get to speak as an individual?

Bisexual or not, you can be heterosexist, so don't think that throwing that card down means

that you are immune from the effects of internalized heteronormative views.

...You're a bore.

Go find someone else to bait.

armpit said:

LadyCasanova said:

Is he speaking for the gay and lesbian community because he is gay and everything

he has to say automatically effects the "cause?"

Is he speaking for the gay and lesbian community because he has been elected king of

the gays?

Is he speaking for the gay and lesbian community because every time you see him post you

think/read GAY GAY GAY BALLS GAY GAY DICK GAY?

When does he get to speak as an individual?

Bisexual or not, you can be heterosexist, so don't think that throwing that card down means

that you are immune from the effects of internalized heteronormative views.

...You're a bore.

Go find someone else to bait.

You're the one baiting every fucking thing in sight. Can't leave people to their own devices without your hum-drum, Eeyore shit being dripped all over everything.

I'm not kidding when I say your sadness is quite visible. All you do is poopoo every damn thing. It's not the same as criticizing art or having something to say. You just come into opinion threads, drop your asshole opinion, and make some shitty comment about how everyone else is crazy.

Well guess what. Not everyone else is crazy. YOU are. Get your shit together before you make a lot of comments about how other people's tastes reflect poorly upon them. How about, your LACK of taste makes you a boring, soulless psychology project walking and it's tiresome.

"Why is everyone a nympho?" We're not. We're human. Mammalian. You, on the other hand, can't accept your own humanity and, thus, you shit all over it. Sorry you are uncomfortable in your own skin, but that doesn't mean everyone else should live such a chaste and milquetoast life.

[img:$uid]http://i51.tinypic.com/6p5b2g.gif[/img:$uid]

Now like I said, go learn about human interactions before you bring your dour ass back.

armpit said:

Spinlight said:

Is this because I peed on you?

Look, it was just once. I thought you'd get into it.

The only way you or anybody else would ever get a chance to piss on me is if they slipped a roofies in my soda can or something.

One thing I noticed about you is that you're kinda...anal (no pun intended) about sexual topics. If anyone says they just aren't into something of a sexual nature, you fly off the handle and start on tirades, over-analyzing their comments. I get being all about personal freedom, but that should extend to everybody. Just like people have the right to choose to do what they want to do to themselves or one another sexually, people also have the right to choose not to. Really your behavior doesn't make you all that different from the super-judgmental, self-righteous conservatives you rally against who push their sexual mores on the rest of the populace. Neither extreme is good and it's just two sides of the same coin.

"Sex is natural, sex is fun, but sex is best when it's one - on - one."

blackbob said:

i am a guy...as you may have noticed...and i am up for it most of the time with all the testosterone running through me ...but..in the last two weeks...i have become very very turned on...any attractive women i see and i am like a dog on heat... ...i am in my early 40s here ??...not some 18 year old kid....what the hell is going on...?...this cant be normal...can it ?...i think i will need to start taking cold showers or something....

.

and i was chatted up last week by a woman in her early 30s at the 80s festival and she made it clear she was up for a bit...you have no idea how hard it was to walk away from her...(i am in a relationship so i did the right thing and i have never cheated on her) but i wont pretend it was easy..maybe i need that stuff they give soldiers to calm them down or something......

.

does anyone else get this ?...male or female ?..

[Edited 8/10/11 13:41pm]

[Edited 8/10/11 13:41pm]

It's called summer. I always get more horny in the hot weather and I think most people do. Looking around there is also more flesh on display.

U should be pleased most people complain of the opposite as they get older.

Also do you watch a lot of porn, because if you see something that really excites u that can get things going....however you can become desensitised to it quite quicky I find.

I also find the more you masturbate the more you want to do it more and the less you do it the less you want to do it, a lot of it is habit and the body adjusting to the demands put on it

I also sometimes think men have hormones because I have periods of horniness and not being horny and also I sometimes get times of being attracted to the same sex and other times just really attracted to girls.

[Edited 8/12/11 9:17am]

SexLovely said:

They give soldiers stuff to calm down????? Without them knowing I hope!

.

I think half the people in my area need whatever that stuff is...

They give them bromide which is meant to lower the sex drive. I don't know if they still do this but I know they did in the past. Makes sense I guess as sex is a distraction and theres no real use in it in an all male army environment

armpit said:

Spinlight said:

Now, when I brought up cognitive dissonance and someone else corroborated my thoughts, you felt intimidated and essentially just played the cognitive dissonance card out to a T. I'm not judging you, I just think you seem to be a very tense person in your head and it does not really surprise me that you are indifferent about sex (not to mention, indifferent to the sex being had by a gay man).

Any student of the mind would draw conclusions or see connections between various aspects of a person's life and how that reflects upon their sexuality. Because I believe all mammals are bisexual and that society shuns homosex due to religion, you think I'm overanalyzing.

I'm all for people doing whatever it is they want to do. Period. I feel it's none of my business, even if it doesn't personally appeal to me and I wouldn't do it. When I state that I personally don't like something and don't see the point of it, it is not an unspoken declaration that the rest of the human population should fall in line and think exactly like me.

You can play armchair psychoanalyst until you're blue in the face, but it really just boils down to that. Like every other human being I'm entitled to my own personal tastes and preferences about what I choose to do (or not do) sexually. And, like everyone else, I have every right to express that, and I'm absolutely not obligated to like something sexually because you say so, and if anything all you manage to do with your comments is push me in the opposite direction, not any closer to seeing your point of view.

And frankly yeah, you do overanalyze as well as project your own sexuality onto other people. Believe it or not, there actually plenty of people who are born very straight, just like there are people who are born with absolutely no interest in the opposite sex. Not everyone is gay just because you are. And this is coming from a bisexual female so don't hand me that 'you're a homophobe!' shit that I know is coming next. And honestly with your baiting you do nothing to further the gay and lesbian cause and everything to alienate people. Frankly, we have enough problems without people like you speaking for us.

And...it takes far more to intimidate (and impress) me than chucking a few big words at my head.

Spinlight said:

[img:$uid]http://i51.tinypic.com/6p5b2g.gif[/img:$uid]

Now like I said, go learn about human interactions before you bring your dour ass back.