I do it from time to time but I've never been into porn so I wouldn't wanna be left to my imagination for too long.

You can make relationships less hard work by being openly, blatently, and obnoxiously self-involved. I've no qualms about banging her fast n' hard and leaving her to finish herself off, of course I endeavour to correct this later on.

Like I said to you in a previous thread Dave..Nothing compares to the warm wetness of a woman. I'd rather cum from a pussy than my own hand anyday. And when you do find yourself stressd out from the relationship, arguing or whatever, but once you get inside that warm goodness all that harsh stuff seems to melt away.

There are things his hands can do that mine can't!

JustErin said:

After a shitty, long day nothing is better than getting a release through sex....I've never said, "not tonight".

I don't care if my partner wanks when I am not around. Actually, I prefer it...so that when we are together he doesn't bust a nut early because of excitement. I also have no issue with him watching porn....watch as much as you want, dude.

I like to see a dude jerk off in front of me.

And I'd rather have the real thing than do it myself.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

davetherave6767 said:

But what if when u return & ur horny but he dont wanna no!!!cuz hes done his thing while u were out?

You do realize we are talking about men?

Just because I busted a nut doesn't mean I don't have designs on the real thing when it comes walking through the door.

Dave1992 said:

I think the problem with masturbation in a "relationship" isn't the "not being horny enough afterwards"; it's much more complex than that. It usually has to do with a bit of jealousy (you want to be able to give your partner everything they desire, so that they wouldn't even think about masturbating), lack of control (you are afraid your partner hides something from you and doesn't let it all out when they're with you and fear of not being good enough for your partner.

I felt all this before, even though I always knew it's quite unfair and pathetic, but I couldn't do anything about it.

I'd never forbid my woman to touch herself or anything (because I just know I have to right to), but still I want to do everything to prevent she does.

Did you ever stop to think it's not all about you?

I had a girlfriend who talked like that. We have a fight because she didn't think a married couple should masturbate. She couldn't understand that it wasn't something she had to compete with. Masturbating wasn't some last resort because I wasn't having sex. Masturbation for me is fantasy and reliving Great Moments in My Sexual History. Mostly fantasy.

Men who masturbate don't want less sex.

SUPRMAN said:

davetherave6767 said:

But what if when u return & ur horny but he dont wanna no!!!cuz hes done his thing while u were out?

You do realize we are talking about men?

Just because I busted a nut doesn't mean I don't have designs on the real thing when it comes walking through the door.

if you're old and work 2 jobs and the real thing is your wife of 15 years, then FORGET it

many people in 'relationships' are basically just using people to masturbate themselves.

That's what I love about being a gay guy...we UNDERSTAND eachothers needs to jack off, and even do it together sometimes....

I like a good quickie and then just chill out without all the work.

SUPRMAN said:

Dave1992 said:

I think the problem with masturbation in a "relationship" isn't the "not being horny enough afterwards"; it's much more complex than that. It usually has to do with a bit of jealousy (you want to be able to give your partner everything they desire, so that they wouldn't even think about masturbating), lack of control (you are afraid your partner hides something from you and doesn't let it all out when they're with you and fear of not being good enough for your partner.

I felt all this before, even though I always knew it's quite unfair and pathetic, but I couldn't do anything about it.

I'd never forbid my woman to touch herself or anything (because I just know I have to right to), but still I want to do everything to prevent she does.

Did you ever stop to think it's not all about you?

I had a girlfriend who talked like that. We have a fight because she didn't think a married couple should masturbate. She couldn't understand that it wasn't something she had to compete with. Masturbating wasn't some last resort because I wasn't having sex. Masturbation for me is fantasy and reliving Great Moments in My Sexual History. Mostly fantasy.

Men who masturbate don't want less sex.

Yes, I did. You don't choose to think and act in a self-restraining way that might be dangerous to your relationship.

whistle said:

many people in 'relationships' are basically just using people to masturbate themselves.

pretty much

ZombieKitten said:

whistle said:

many people in 'relationships' are basically just using people to masturbate themselves.

pretty much

I bet Hallmark has a card for that?

physco185 said:

Dave... u may not know this but i 2 am a big fan of the ummmmmmmmmmm 'hand' ...

but u know what even tho i actually please myself more than my ex ever did.... i miss stuff......

i miis the warmth of a man

i miss being held and touched

i miss kissing and cuddling

i miss the omg u r hot look

i miss the sweat

i miss the smell

i miss feeling like a woman

etc etc etc

masturbation will never be able to replace any of that... u need to b in a relationship

^^ You don't NEED to be in a relationship to get those things,

just like you don't NEED to be in a relationship to have sex.

"I don't care if my partner wanks when I am not around. Actually, I prefer it...so that when we are together he doesn't bust a nut early because of excitement. I also have no issue with him watching porn....watch as much as you want, dude."

^^ I sooo agree with this. My ex would text me

(or call and leave a message) while I was at work

and tell me what he was doing/watching.

Would turn me on sooo much, and I'd have to keep

right on working.

kewlschool said:

ZombieKitten said:

pretty much

I bet Hallmark has a card for that?

SUPRMAN said:

JustErin said:

After a shitty, long day nothing is better than getting a release through sex....I've never said, "not tonight".

I don't care if my partner wanks when I am not around. Actually, I prefer it...so that when we are together he doesn't bust a nut early because of excitement. I also have no issue with him watching porn....watch as much as you want, dude.

I like to see a dude jerk off in front of me.

And I'd rather have the real thing than do it myself.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

Same here.

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

I bet Hallmark has a card for that?

SUPRMAN said:

davetherave6767 said:

But what if when u return & ur horny but he dont wanna no!!!cuz hes done his thing while u were out?

You do realize we are talking about men?

Just because I busted a nut doesn't mean I don't have designs on the real thing when it comes walking through the door.

So what about men? If I just came and she comes home, chances are I don't feel like fucking. Also, I know some guys are always in the mood for sex, but there are plenty of times where I said no because I didn't feel like it.

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

I bet Hallmark has a card for that?

They both have their upsides and downsides. Masturbation is like ... sex on the go- dont have to ask permission, you can go as fast or as slow as you want, and if you're done after one, no need for a repeat performance. Its the ultimate selfish sexual act, and its awesome. Relationships definitely has its rewards, but its only worth it when someone who is in tune with you and your in tune with them.

I wonder how many people fantasize about things, while they masturbate, which they are incapable of seeking in real life. (Like all that booty stuff that when mentioned in a thread guarantees that the thread goes on for pages and pages!!!)

I'M GONNA MARRY THE NIGHT.

Alej said:

I'M GONNA MARRY THE NIGHT.

LOVE the remix of this on her album

tinaz said:

Alej said:

I'M GONNA MARRY THE NIGHT.

LOVE the remix of this on her album

It's fierce [img:$uid]http://i159.photobucket.com/albums/t145/theodore_3121/Emoticons/ehh.gif[/img:$uid]