Most men like 2 jerk off right!!!!As do alot of women but there r times that eye actually prefer a wank 2 being with a woman!!!Stick a dvd in a glass of wine & off u go!!U c all u want 2 c, u come the deed is done u relax & chill.When ur in a relationship there is simply so much stress!!things r far more complex!Maybe uve had a crap day or shes had a crap? & sex is a no no.What if ur horny but she aint?And 2 make things worse she hates u jerking off!!!In her company 2 jerk off is a criminal offence!!!!Then what do u do??Relationships r such hard work!!!U no all there is 2 no about that person yet ur supposed 2 get hard everytime she wants u??Masturbation is so simple!!ur hard & turned on in seconds & u can make it last as long as u want!!!There r so many stresses in everyday life & when in a relationship sex & pleasure sometimes isnt that high on the list of peoples priorities!Eye mean how many of u outthere have partners & wank when they r not in the house!!!!Not only that u cant wait 4 them 2 f**king leave & ur masturbating!!!!!!Come on now b honest!!! A nice stress free Wank or waiting 4 ur partner 2 get in,see what mood there in & hope that u might get some???Which 1 is it???

I don't know why I always thought you were a chick.

Alej said:

I don't know why I always thought you were a chick.

Eye do get called Bitch alot!!!!

davetherave6767 said:

Alej said:

I don't know why I always thought you were a chick.

Eye do get called Bitch alot!!!!

That's hot.

hard to imagine why you're single.

BlackAdder7 said:

hard to imagine why you're single.

Im not single thru choice!!!!!!! Eye was dumped 4 jehovah!!!!! Living on my own is C......OO........L

Dave... u may not know this but i 2 am a big fan of the ummmmmmmmmmm 'hand' ...

but u know what even tho i actually please myself more than my ex ever did.... i miss stuff......

i miis the warmth of a man

i miss being held and touched

i miss kissing and cuddling

i miss the omg u r hot look

i miss the sweat

i miss the smell

i miss feeling like a woman

etc etc etc

masturbation will never be able to replace any of that... u need to b in a relationship

even i know that

but in the mean time... untill Mr Right is knocking on my door... i will be a very very handy lady

I get what u mean esp as you are fully in control of the pleasure when you DIY.

However, even if you DIY you crave the real thing and to have the real thing after a long time of DIY is amazing.

U then have enough fantasy from that to DIY to for a little while!

So the answer is you need both IMO!

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BlackAdder7 said:

hard to imagine why you're single.

Masturbating is no substitue for having sex with my partner in any way at all. Being with him is a million times better.

Serious said:

Masturbating is no substitue for having sex with my partner in any way at all. Being with him is a million times better.

eye just dont think ive found the right woman yet?????????

After a shitty, long day nothing is better than getting a release through sex....I've never said, "not tonight".

I don't care if my partner wanks when I am not around. Actually, I prefer it...so that when we are together he doesn't bust a nut early because of excitement. I also have no issue with him watching porn....watch as much as you want, dude.

I like to see a dude jerk off in front of me.

And I'd rather have the real thing than do it myself.

JustErin said:

After a shitty, long day nothing is better than getting a release through sex....I've never said, "not tonight".

I don't care if my partner wanks when I am not around. Actually, I prefer it...so that when we are together he doesn't bust a nut early because of excitement. I also have no issue with him watching porn....watch as much as you want, dude.

I like to see a dude jerk off in front of me.

And I'd rather have the real thing than do it myself.

U dont mind if ur partner wanks when ur not around??wow!!!

davetherave6767 said:

JustErin said:

After a shitty, long day nothing is better than getting a release through sex....I've never said, "not tonight".

I don't care if my partner wanks when I am not around. Actually, I prefer it...so that when we are together he doesn't bust a nut early because of excitement. I also have no issue with him watching porn....watch as much as you want, dude.

I like to see a dude jerk off in front of me.

And I'd rather have the real thing than do it myself.

U dont mind if ur partner wanks when ur not around??wow!!!

Of course not. Why the hell would I?

But what if when u return & ur horny but he dont wanna no!!!cuz hes done his thing while u were out?

davetherave6767 said:

But what if when u return & ur horny but he dont wanna no!!!cuz hes done his thing while u were out?

I've never had that happen.

i cant be bothered with either. they both feel good for a while and then they're over. it's like ok, what now? oh yes that's right... MY LIFE.

davetherave6767 said:

But what if when u return & ur horny but he dont wanna no!!!cuz hes done his thing while u were out?

One of my exes used to get really pissed off when that happened...and for some reason it happened a lot.

JowiiCoco said:

davetherave6767 said:

But what if when u return & ur horny but he dont wanna no!!!cuz hes done his thing while u were out?

One of my exes used to get really pissed off when that happened...and for some reason it happened a lot.

So u would prefer a wank 2 her???

JustErin said:

After a shitty, long day nothing is better than getting a release through sex....I've never said, "not tonight".

I don't care if my partner wanks when I am not around. Actually, I prefer it...so that when we are together he doesn't bust a nut early because of excitement. I also have no issue with him watching porn....watch as much as you want, dude.

I like to see a dude jerk off in front of me.

And I'd rather have the real thing than do it myself.

I LOVE so watch him j/o that shit is turns me on like crazy

nammie said:

JustErin said:

After a shitty, long day nothing is better than getting a release through sex....I've never said, "not tonight".

I don't care if my partner wanks when I am not around. Actually, I prefer it...so that when we are together he doesn't bust a nut early because of excitement. I also have no issue with him watching porn....watch as much as you want, dude.

I like to see a dude jerk off in front of me.

And I'd rather have the real thing than do it myself.

I LOVE so watch him j/o that shit is turns me on like crazy

I like to watch him too .

davetherave6767 said:

Serious said:

Masturbating is no substitue for having sex with my partner in any way at all. Being with him is a million times better.

eye just dont think ive found the right woman yet?????????

Probably

I think many people end up in long term relationships with someone who they are no longer sexually compatible with. I don't envy them at all. So they have a relationship and basically are still their only sex partner. Worse, even though they are getting almost nothing sexually at home, they are expected to be monogomous. Few couple are willing to open up the relationship despite the fact that the fire went out long long ago.

davetherave6767 said:

JowiiCoco said:

One of my exes used to get really pissed off when that happened...and for some reason it happened a lot.

So u would prefer a wank 2 her???

No, they're two different things to me and I never did it on purpose. How the fuck was I supposed to know that when she'd come back, she'd be in the mood for sex?

I think the problem with masturbation in a "relationship" isn't the "not being horny enough afterwards"; it's much more complex than that. It usually has to do with a bit of jealousy (you want to be able to give your partner everything they desire, so that they wouldn't even think about masturbating), lack of control (you are afraid your partner hides something from you and doesn't let it all out when they're with you and fear of not being good enough for your partner.

I felt all this before, even though I always knew it's quite unfair and pathetic, but I couldn't do anything about it.

I'd never forbid my woman to touch herself or anything (because I just know I have to right to), but still I want to do everything to prevent she does.

Dave1992 said:

I think the problem with masturbation in a "relationship" isn't the "not being horny enough afterwards"; it's much more complex than that. It usually has to do with a bit of jealousy (you want to be able to give your partner everything they desire, so that they wouldn't even think about masturbating), lack of control (you are afraid your partner hides something from you and doesn't let it all out when they're with you and fear of not being good enough for your partner.

I felt all this before, even though I always knew it's quite unfair and pathetic, but I couldn't do anything about it.

I'd never forbid my woman to touch herself or anything (because I just know I have to right to), but still I want to do everything to prevent she does.

For me that's the only problem about it. When I am apart from my bf I am perfectly fine with him doing it. When we have the chance to stay together I just don't want to miss one fuck I could get .

I'm actually quite lucky that I can J/O and still have some reserves left for my woman.

J/O is always important before you go on a date too. It helps release tensions and can make you more relaxed.

Pr1nceQuik said:

I'm actually quite lucky that I can J/O and still have some reserves left for my woman.

J/O is always important before you go on a date too. It helps release tensions and can make you more relaxed.

My boyfriend sure can J/O and still have sex with me more than once, but there is a natural limit for every man.

Serious said:

Pr1nceQuik said:

I'm actually quite lucky that I can J/O and still have some reserves left for my woman.

J/O is always important before you go on a date too. It helps release tensions and can make you more relaxed.

My boyfriend sure can J/O and still have sex with me more than once, but there is a natural limit for every man.

We're a rare breed

Pr1nceQuik said:

Serious said:

My boyfriend sure can J/O and still have sex with me more than once, but there is a natural limit for every man.

We're a rare breed

I guess I made a good choice then .