Cerebus said:

JowiiCoco said:

Aren't you contradicting yourself here? I also disgree with you saying it was forced onto women.

Well if you can explain how I'm contradicting myself I'll be happy to answer one way or the other, but I don't think so as I read it right now. And yes, it was. Porn and mens magazines are fun by men - look at what happened in them over just the last 30 years. Its those men deciding what is sexy to them and forcing it upon the public at large. Its no different than makeup and clothing trends. They all come about the same way.

I read the whole thing again and I think I must have misunderstood you. I still don't agree with the "forced" stuff though. Pressured, maybe, but not forced.

JowiiCoco said:

LadyCasanova said:

That was a FAIL for my man, he wouldn't even trim up

and tried to give me that "you'll get used to it/like it" BS and

I stopped shaving EVERYTHING. I wouldn't even trim. As much

as I hated it, he hated it even more and gave in. Yall might have

the guns...but blunt force isn't always the answer

So in the end he did let you have it your way. It's so sad when men are weak.

Just curious... Are you single? And by single I mean in no exclusive relationship...

Serious said:

JowiiCoco said:

So in the end he did let you have it your way. It's so sad when men are weak.

It's not being weak to give in when it is a wise thing to do that sometimes.

It definitely was a power game and he eventually gave up, thus making him weak. Well I would have either fucked her in the ass instead or told her she'd get no cock.

tinaz said:

JowiiCoco said:

So in the end he did let you have it your way. It's so sad when men are weak.

Just curious... Are you single? And by single I mean in no exclusive relationship...

Yes I am.

JowiiCoco said:

Serious said:

It's not being weak to give in when it is a wise thing to do that sometimes.

It definitely was a power game and he eventually gave up, thus making him weak. Well I would have either fucked her in the ass instead or told her she'd get no cock.

What a charming guy you are

30peacessilver said:

vainandy said:

Honey, I like a chest so hairy you could braid it.

vainandy- you are 2 horny! it seems to me you have not had a great, hard fuck for a long time. i think you need it.

Yes, it's been a while since I've had some dick because it's getting harder to find a real man these days. I keep having to throw these shaved and trimmed up sissy looking men back into the sea. But then again, the sea is where fish belongs anyway.

Cerebus said:

JowiiCoco said:

Aren't you contradicting yourself here? I also disgree with you saying it was forced onto women.

Well if you can explain how I'm contradicting myself I'll be happy to answer one way or the other, but I don't think so as I read it right now. And yes, it was. Porn and mens magazines are fun by men - look at what happened in them over just the last 30 years. Its those men deciding what is sexy to them and forcing it upon the public at large. Its no different than makeup and clothing trends. They all come about the same way.

You got that right. Shaving and trimming started out with women and feminine gay men but never on masculine gay men or straight men. It caught on more and more with women, which I really didn't care because I don't want anything out of a woman other than friendship. But then, masculine looking gay men started doing it also and then even straight men followed also. But just look back to where it started. If these so-called masculine men want to look like sissies, well hey, that's their choice. Maybe they'll get fitted for a dress next.

JowiiCoco said:

Cerebus said:

Well if you can explain how I'm contradicting myself I'll be happy to answer one way or the other, but I don't think so as I read it right now. And yes, it was. Porn and mens magazines are fun by men - look at what happened in them over just the last 30 years. Its those men deciding what is sexy to them and forcing it upon the public at large. Its no different than makeup and clothing trends. They all come about the same way.

I read the whole thing again and I think I must have misunderstood you. I still don't agree with the "forced" stuff though. Pressured, maybe, but not forced.

OK, that's fair. Pressured is a good word. But its pressure to be accepted at a supposed "cool" societal norm, which may as well be force.

vainandy said:

Cerebus said:

Well if you can explain how I'm contradicting myself I'll be happy to answer one way or the other, but I don't think so as I read it right now. And yes, it was. Porn and mens magazines are fun by men - look at what happened in them over just the last 30 years. Its those men deciding what is sexy to them and forcing it upon the public at large. Its no different than makeup and clothing trends. They all come about the same way.

You got that right. Shaving and trimming started out with women and feminine gay men but never on masculine gay men or straight men. It caught on more and more with women, which I really didn't care because I don't want anything out of a woman other than friendship. But then, masculine looking gay men started doing it also and then even straight men followed also. But just look back to where it started. If these so-called masculine men want to look like sissies, well hey, that's their choice. Maybe they'll get fitted for a dress next.

I get the "trim" thing, as far as asthetics and friction and all that goes. But the shaving bald thing, nuh-uh, not necessary.

Cerebus said:

vainandy said:

You got that right. Shaving and trimming started out with women and feminine gay men but never on masculine gay men or straight men. It caught on more and more with women, which I really didn't care because I don't want anything out of a woman other than friendship. But then, masculine looking gay men started doing it also and then even straight men followed also. But just look back to where it started. If these so-called masculine men want to look like sissies, well hey, that's their choice. Maybe they'll get fitted for a dress next.

I get the "trim" thing, as far as asthetics and friction and all that goes. But the shaving bald thing, nuh-uh, not necessary.

I don't even like men trimming. It makes their dick look like a woman who has had a bikini wax. A dick should never look manicured, it should look manly, natural, and sexy. That's fine for a woman because a woman is supposed to be feminine. But a man needs to let it grow all out the bikini out onto the legs. That's sexy as hell because it gives a hint of what's inside those bikinis....a thick full manly bush.

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vainandy said:

Cerebus said:

I get the "trim" thing, as far as asthetics and friction and all that goes. But the shaving bald thing, nuh-uh, not necessary.

I don't even like men trimming. It makes their dick look like a woman who has had a bikini wax. A dick should never look manicured, it should look manly, natural, and sexy. That's fine for a woman because a woman is supposed to be feminine. But a man needs to let it grow all out the bikini out onto the legs. That's sexy as hell because it gives a hint of what's inside those bikinis....a thick full manly bush.

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I don't mean trim like, shaping the edges and shit. I'm talking about putting a guard on the clippers and making the entire field a bit shorter. For me, that works. Shaping, shaving, etc., not so much.

And with women, as I've said many time before, I hate bald on the top. That doesn't look like a woman to me, it looks like a girl and it turns me off. Keep the business portion (the lowers) as hairless as you like. But on the top I'm all about the texture, look, feel, taste and smell of the hair when I'm going to work.

Cerebus said:

vainandy said:

I don't even like men trimming. It makes their dick look like a woman who has had a bikini wax. A dick should never look manicured, it should look manly, natural, and sexy. That's fine for a woman because a woman is supposed to be feminine. But a man needs to let it grow all out the bikini out onto the legs. That's sexy as hell because it gives a hint of what's inside those bikinis....a thick full manly bush.

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I don't mean trim like, shaping the edges and shit. I'm talking about putting a guard on the clippers and making the entire field a bit shorter. For me, that works. Shaping, shaving, etc., not so much.

And with women, as I've said many time before, I hate bald on the top. That doesn't look like a woman to me, it looks like a girl and it turns me off. Keep the business portion (the lowers) as hairless as you like. But on the top I'm all about the texture, look, feel, taste and smell of the hair when I'm going to work.

I like it as long and thick as possible. The thicker it is, the more masculine it looks. So thick you can run your fingers through it. So thick it wraps around the base of the shaft with little tiny hairs even on the actual shaft down at the base. Thick hairy balls too. Honey, get me some ice because it's hot up in here now!

JowiiCoco said:

LadyCasanova said:

That was a FAIL for my man, he wouldn't even trim up

and tried to give me that "you'll get used to it/like it" BS and

I stopped shaving EVERYTHING. I wouldn't even trim. As much

as I hated it, he hated it even more and gave in. Yall might have

the guns...but blunt force isn't always the answer

So in the end he did let you have it your way. It's so sad when men are weak.

I didn't see it as him being weak, it was about him becoming enlightened.

I keep myself shaved/waxed up proper, my man wants a landing

strip, I make it happen. Wants that shit straight up bald...no problem.

At the end of the day...I'm not the one eating out there, so if I can keep

it the way he wants it without causing myself pain etc, why shouldn't I?

All I was asking for was a trim, and when he couldn't give me that, I reverted

to what God gave me, instead of what he liked. When he realized the deal he was

getting he made his own choice, and that was to trim it up. As for the "in her ass" comment

you made on the other page...I give as good as I get, so that wouldn't have been

a wise choice for him

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LadyCasanova said:

JowiiCoco said:

LadyCasanova said:

I didn't see it as him being weak, it was about him becoming enlightened.

I keep myself shaved/waxed up proper, my man wants a landing

strip, I make it happen. Wants that shit straight up bald...no problem.

At the end of the day...I'm not the one eating out there, so if I can keep

it the way he wants it without causing myself pain etc, why shouldn't I?

All I was asking for was a trim, and when he couldn't give me that, I reverted

to what God gave me, instead of what he liked. When he realized the deal he was

getting he made his own choice, and that was to trim it up. As for the "in her ass" comment

you made on the other page...I give as good as I get, so that wouldn't have been

a wise choice for him

[Edited 6/22/11 21:07pm]

Oh God...

what i like to do instead of a landing strip is use heart stencils 3 little hearts- really cute

cdv76 said:

There was recently a discussion on a local radio station I listen to about guys shaving their armpits along with other areas. Do you ladies dig the body hair or is it wierd to see a guy with clean shaven pits, etc? Please advise

Just a little hair is fine. If he shaves his pits it's cool because he won't stink with the slightest bit of sweat. I love a hairless chest, dick and pubic area but hair on the balls is ok and tummy hair is fine.

HELL NO to those hairy half-ape looking dudes. Take a bill or something.