Do they work??Can they work??Do people prefer 2 communicate by computer rather than talk face 2 face?Are people more confident behind there computers?What if after many months/years u develop feelings 4 ur online friend but its not a 2 way thing!!What if resentment creeps up...Then ill feeling...What do u do when u fall in love with ur online friend?Im sure this has happened in the past..It must b messy & painful & very ugly at times.Have any orgers ever fallen in love on line??Was it worth the hassle & the pain.

are you new around here?

have camsex

Stax said:

are you new around here?

Ive only had 1 day of birth so im new 2 everything!.

ZombieKitten said:

You should ask all the married org couples! Funnily enough, once they get together they don't have much further use for the org! Or maybe since they know how tempting it is, they don't want their spouses to spend so much time here anymore?

Interesting

Stax said:

are you new around here?

Hey Stax. For those who don't know, Stax was the first person to flip me off here at the ORG. Good times.

in my experience online friendships are OK til other people deliberately interfere. especially if the two of you are very close and others want in on that whole equation.

same applies to falling in love with an online friend. imo it's better to stay platonic online and if you start feeling something stronger than maybe organise to meet them.

thisisit said:

in my experience online friendships are OK til other people deliberately interfere. especially if the two of you are very close and others want in on that whole equation.

same applies to falling in love with an online friend. imo it's better to stay platonic online and if you start feeling something stronger than maybe organise to meet them.

Or go the "weiner" route.

kewlschool said:

Stax said:

are you new around here?

Hey Stax. For those who don't know, Stax was the first person to flip me off here at the ORG. Good times.

Flip u off?

davetherave6767 said:

kewlschool said:

Hey Stax. For those who don't know, Stax was the first person to flip me off here at the ORG. Good times.

Flip u off?

<------flip off

u cant help but have feelings for the ppl u get to know... even on line

and u experience the same emotions as if u were to know them in real life.... good ones and bad ones

its how u deal with the emotions i guess that can make or break it......

oh and one more thing...... not being able to see them - is the hardest thing to deal with - and that causes a lot of probs

kewlschool said:

thisisit said:

in my experience online friendships are OK til other people deliberately interfere. especially if the two of you are very close and others want in on that whole equation.

same applies to falling in love with an online friend. imo it's better to stay platonic online and if you start feeling something stronger than maybe organise to meet them.

Or go the "weiner" route.

lol yeah well... think of it this way: if you met someone offline would you put them behind a camera and screen-test them? ur either into someone or ur not so either get to it or stop playin'.

kewlschool said:

Stax said:

are you new around here?

Hey Stax. For those who don't know, Stax was the first person to flip me off here at the ORG. Good times.

eleven said:

ZombieKitten said:

eleven said:

u cant help but have feelings for the ppl u get to know... even on line

and u experience the same emotions as if u were to know them in real life.... good ones and bad ones

its how u deal with the emotions i guess that can make or break it......

oh and one more thing...... not being able to see them - is the hardest thing to deal with - and that causes a lot of probs

I do think you have to meet to determine whether feelings are real or just you projecting your fantasies onto someone. I don't believe in a completely virtual relationship, all that yearning and fantasizing for someone who if you met them, you might not be attracted to at all. Another thing to beware of, the exchange of information, all the soul revealing you do on chat is not REAL intimacy, although it kind of makes you feel close, it's not the real thing.

You said are chats were real!

kewlschool said:

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

You said are chats were real!

They were, until you turned out not to be a lady orger

I prefer them sometimes. You can make simple excuses and log off to watch TV if the conversation gets too boring

I like the time differences, when I need attention in the mornings and afternoons, it's always a boring night for someone online in another timezone and I'm a welcome way to pass the time chatting to

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

You said are chats were real!

They were, until you turned out not to be a lady orger

sorry.

XxAxX said:

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said: They were, until you turned out not to be a lady orger

sorry.

I know, I was devastated

eleven said:

u cant help but have feelings for the ppl u get to know... even on line

and u experience the same emotions as if u were to know them in real life.... good ones and bad ones

its how u deal with the emotions i guess that can make or break it......

oh and one more thing...... not being able to see them - is the hardest thing to deal with - and that causes a lot of probs

Good job u cant see me then cuz eye look like quosimodo!!!

ZombieKitten said:

XxAxX said:

sorry.

I know, I was devastated

I feel cheap and used. ( That should come after a good shag!)