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ADULT SIBLING RIVALRY We always hear talk about sibling rivalry between children. Teasing, competing, taking your stuff, and just plain old evil envy.....but some folks never grow up
Do you have adult siblings that are always doing you wrong or who are straight out assholes to you, your spouse and/or your children. Do they still talk shit about you to your parents or mutual friends even though you are all now supposedly grown? Do you have siblings you never talk to or who you would like to smack down? Maybe they just want to ruin your life just enough to keep you a step behind them........lay here on the org couch and tell us about your worst siblings..... Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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My sister can and always will get the duck sick...
too much shit to mention and it would be too soon for really bad shit to befall her...
. [Edited 2/28/11 20:38pm] A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon | |
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For the record.....I have in total 14 siblings. (9 from one mom) I only talk to 2 of them regularly, 3 of them part time, 4 of them annually and the rest can go straight to hell with some gasoline undies on........
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A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon | |
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I have 3 brothers but there is no real drama in my family.
I used to be very close with my youngest brother but some stupid shit happened a few years ago and we're not all that close anymore. I'm sometimes envious of his success and fame (as I am sure my other brothers feel the same way) but I think that's just normal and it doesn't create any problems. | |
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PERFECT!!! OMG...PERFECT Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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aww hell... where do I start?
I grew up in a dysfunctional family, very dysfunctional.
I was a middle child... my sister, being one year older was made to care for me as if she was my mother.
She was resentful for being made to care for me and my our little brother.
She bullied me every chance she got and it continued into adulthood.
She did lots of dirty shit, but I blame my uninterested mom for how our relationship as adults turned out.
so much shit...... I could write 3 books or so.
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My sister fucked my babydaddy... I think...
but I definitely know she showed him her pussy. | |
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My younger sister's' rap sheet with me:
When we little she broke lollipops before she gave them to me
Since I was mandated to physically protect her, she deliberately started fights with very hard to deal with enemies. Example....I was a 10 year old girl fighting a 16 year old boy
She chased after every boyfriend I ever had
She talked insane amounts of shit about me to every friend I ever had
She forced herself into my wedding party (utilized the rest of the family) and then had the gall to bounce checks at my bridal shop (and yes...i bounced her ass right back out of the party)
apparently, she complained to everyone that I was lucky because I was the pretty one and she deserved more
She talked crazy shit about my husband to be to everyone except me....claiming he was a womanizing dog etc.
she stole shit from me
When I was being stalked, she revealed my location to my stalker
She thought I had cancer at one point and told the person she was talking to that she was glad
Her 12 year old son who attempted to molest my daughter who was only 8 at the time, and when i talked to her like a mature adult about him getting counseling etc., she talked shit about my little girl to anyone who would listen and then called me claiming she would stab me....and that my baby girl was a liar
Lets just say...its the grace of God that I never stabbed her ass....and this is the SHORT list. I dont care what people say...some folks are just born evil [Edited 2/28/11 21:08pm] Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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I'm... I'm... I'm in your sig!!
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No rivalry on my end. I'm the closest thing to success in the bunch . I mean I love my siblings and all, but it's true. They don't see me as a rival either that I know of. If anything, I envy their position as far as being close to family and all. If I could live near family some place other than where they live, I'd be cool with that. | |
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Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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You are very fortunate. I turned out to be very successful and too many of them just can handle it. Some even talked smack when I bought my first home. I dont get it...i used to try to be the peacemaker and shit and then I was like naw, screw that once they started directing stuff at the children. Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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and you still dont have a criminal record? Going to church doesn’t make you a Christian, any more than standing in a garage makes you a car. | |
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Damn...that seriously sucks.
I'm buying my first home at the moment and they've all been happy for me. I might be the first in my immediate family to do so. Of course, I wish them the same. I'd like for them to be in a position to buy a home (if that's what they want for themselves) and to be doing well in all facets of life.
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She did me a favor.... she paraded around the house in skimpy clothing and walked around naked while babydaddy was around. She moved in during her divorce so she was an emotional mess and not herself. Guess she needed attention from anyone who would bother... she got it... in the form of a hot shower with the guy I called my fiance at the time.
She denies having sex with him... so does he... but they were both wet at the same time when I came home late from work one night.... there was only one shower.
Yup.... she did me a huge favor. It hurts but it was for the best. | |
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my bro n i r tight.... through tick n thin
i do have 2 older sisters that i dont see much
i went shopping with one of them a few years ago and she said never again cause the shop assistants thought she was my mum
she is 2 years older than me.... oh well
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I'm the youngest of 4. We're all totally different and don't really have anything in common. We had a lot of up's and down's in our childhood and I think it interferes with our adult lives.
I don't see any of them very often, though we all live in the same town. My brother is alright. I get on pretty well with him and we were always close as kids. My sisters.... well... I don't really get on hugely well with either of them. The oldest one is ok in small doses. That's all I can say about her. The younger of the 2 is a fucking nightmare. We're civil to each other because we have to be. We fought all the time as kids and nothing has improved. I can't stand her and I know she can't stand me either.
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sounds just like my family
were u the black sheep???? ..... my sisters we the good girls... i was always in trouble for stuff | |
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Nope. I was the white sheep
People who know of my sisters and brother have a hard time believing i'm related to them. | |
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geeeez they must have been bad, cause u r cheeky
[Edited 3/1/11 1:56am] | |
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The way I look at it is, what happened in childhood is all done and gone and you can't undo the past. Surround yourself with people you like and live your life the way you want it to be from now on. Works for me. I haven't shut my family out, but I choose not to be around their negativity. | |
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true which is why i am the complete opposite with my kids
and that was cheeky posting b4 my edit
[Edited 3/1/11 3:35am] | |
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Good.
Yes, I am cheeky!
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My sister announced her engagement the day I was having my first baby | |
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and you know what? That kid is now 10 years old, but has my sister got married? nooooooo | |
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and that there is a perfect UP STAGE fail | |
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every now and again she starts talking wedding again, when she needs attention | |
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check small circles, big wheels!
I've got a pretty firm grip on the obvious! | |
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next time she does that just say.....
if u had a new ring for everytime u said that u would b rich
[Edited 3/1/11 11:49am] | |
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