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Is age really just a number? When it comes to dating? [Edited 2/16/11 7:29am] | |
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Yes and no.
If you’re compatible and attracted and everyone’s of legal age and all of those good things, then I wouldn’t worry about age too much. Especially if both folks are at least 25.
But, generally speaking, you’re going to find yourself most compatible with people within a 10 year age range or so. Doesn’t mean it can’t happen outside of that. Just that most folks are going to have an easier time with a relationship within a fairly close age range. |
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I should have said maturity too...lol for a long time I've been in long term relationships back to back. Since I've had room to date some were my age, some older and one younger (my kid's father 4 years younger). I made up my mind not to date younger but then I met someone 10 years younger than me. We are just 'friends' now but we have so much fun together-no pressure or judging. I'm curious to see where this is going... | |
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No, it isn't.
At the same time, if the people are compatible in some way it's not really something that can't be overcome. "I don't think you'd do well in captivity." - random person's comment to me the other day | |
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μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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the things i thought were adult when i was in my 20s make me laugh now. i wouldn't want to be with someone who has not lived long enough to know the basics about living life. it would be like going back and doing second grade over or something... | |
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This was my logic till I dated a 42 year old I broke up some months ago with who acted like a 17 year old just starting out. I tried but just couldn't | |
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Not to me it isn't. | |
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Age only matters to me in dating when it reflects maturity, which it often, but not always, does. time flies. |
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Age means nothing... attitude is what matters and a persons willingness to accept another person into their life..... | |
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I don't think age is a matter at all as long as you're not a pedophile,child molester,old people molester, Hugh Hefner or Prince. | |
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There is a youngster I fancy (I see him a lot and I enjoy looking at him | |
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), he must be mid 20s? But I'm sure he thinks I'm an old hag 
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stop it young whippersnapper!!!
Sorry Grandma. Don't hurt me | |
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how about some pancakes? | |
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He's comin over tonight when we both get off work. Fuck it I'm not gonna over think things. That always gets me in trouble. | |
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I don't think it does at all. But i'm 18 and kinda dating this late 20s guy and he says we're in different parts of our lives...and i'm confused Watch me talk about Prince - http://www.youtube.com/us...ature=mhee
Tumblr - http://dreamyicecream.tumblr.com/ New coat, huh? That's nice. Did you buy it? Yeah right. | |
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In the USA, everyone under age 18 is still jailbait. Thread over. | |
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I'm not talking about jail bait. I'm talking about some one younger than me OVER 21. I'm 36 and my friend is 26, Do I really have to say that? geez!
Tryna shut my thread down? Don't make me come through this thread after you! | |
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No way. My fiance told me the 20 somethings dig the older chics. His friends think its hot he's dating an old hag like me. Were MILFS now Charlotte, MILFS, we know a lot about sex and shit. I've reached in darkness and come out with treasure
I layed down with love and I woke up with lies Whats it all worth only the heart can measure It's not whats in the mirror but what's left inside | |
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And not everyone on here lives in the US, so get outta here, bub.
Anyway, I'm all for dating young dudes if it's just for fun and it's not a serious relationship. | |
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I'm having more fun than what I've had in a long time, but not serious... | |
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Then that's fair game. | |
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TotalANXiousNESS said:
No way. My fiance told me the 20 somethings dig the older chics. His friends think its hot he's dating an old hag like me. Were MILFS now Charlotte, MILFS, we know a lot about sex and shit. Aaaaaw you just made me feel all warm inside  | |
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Agreed. It's a scenario I've tried and I've definitely found it to be true. | |
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Hey, who said there's anything wrong with casual dating?
It's just that if things head into serious relationship territory you could possibly run into maturity issues based on your respective levels of life experience. But hey, some eats, some drinks, some movies and/or good lovin'? Why not? | |
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True. Our coochies can do things now that we never even dreamed possible in our 20's. | |
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Going through that right now. It's not fun. We have nothing to talk about. I know that there are people that are old souls and maybe if he was we would have more in common.
It really depends on who you're dating. Be carefule but have fun.
MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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As long as someone is mature enough to handle responsibilities and treats you right, it don't matter. | |
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