peacenlovealways said:

I always wanted to date outside of my race...I'm into white guys.....but everyone is beautiful.

Ain't nothing wrong with that. I'm really into them right now. I haven't had any in years but I have been craving some like hell for the past two or three years. They're hairier than other guys and hair turns me on more than anything else. Honey, I want me somebody hairy like Burt Reynolds or Tom Selleck. Lord have MERCY it's done got hot in here!

vainandy said:

peacenlovealways said:

I always wanted to date outside of my race...I'm into white guys.....but everyone is beautiful.

Ain't nothing wrong with that. I'm really into them right now. I haven't had any in years but I have been craving some like hell for the past two or three years. They're hairier than other guys and hair turns me on more than anything else. Honey, I want me somebody hairy like Burt Reynolds or Tom Selleck. Lord have MERCY it's done got hot in here!

JoeTyler said:

vainandy said:

Oh no honey. He's completely hairless with all those extreme lines on his chest and stomach and then he's shiny. He doesn't look real. He looks plastic like a Ken or GI Joe doll.

I bet his balls are hairy...

and those muscles are real

the oil...bah, not truly necessary...

Damn, you just got my dick hard when you said hairy balls.

vainandy said:

JoeTyler said:

I bet his balls are hairy...

and those muscles are real

the oil...bah, not truly necessary...

Damn, you just got my dick hard when you said hairy balls.

I cannot think of someone hairier than Paul Stanley...

JoeTyler said:

vainandy said:

Ain't nothing wrong with that. I'm really into them right now. I haven't had any in years but I have been craving some like hell for the past two or three years. They're hairier than other guys and hair turns me on more than anything else. Honey, I want me somebody hairy like Burt Reynolds or Tom Selleck. Lord have MERCY it's done got hot in here!

That's another one that has always turned me on, him and David Lee Roth (well, David Lee Roth back in the day). I hate that long ass hair on their head but I love it everywhere else.

JoeTyler said:

Serious said:

Not sexy at all IMO .

Arnold is sexier, right?

Serious said:

JoeTyler said:

Arnold is sexier, right?

stallone?

JoeTyler said:

Serious said:

stallone?

Probably a little less aweful, but also totally unsexy . And at least he's not Austrian like Arnold .

JoeTyler said:

vainandy said:

Ain't nothing wrong with that. I'm really into them right now. I haven't had any in years but I have been craving some like hell for the past two or three years. They're hairier than other guys and hair turns me on more than anything else. Honey, I want me somebody hairy like Burt Reynolds or Tom Selleck. Lord have MERCY it's done got hot in here!

^ BOUT TIME COUSIN IT SHOWED US HIS FACE!!!!!

I'm a gay black male, my boyfriend is a gay white male. I was holding hands with him just this weekend in UNION SQUARE, NEW YORK CITY and a "straight" (I'm only assuming) black male who was selling stuff on a street corner, hollered in the street explicitly for me to hear "FUCK YOU, YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO. YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO [he was saying some other stuff but I drowned him out as I was talking with my bf and we were thinking of where to shop."

I continued holding my boyfriend's hand. I have not told my boyfriend about it, I don't think he heard it as we were engaged in conversation while the guy was yelling it.

I didn't react to the guy, I just kept walking holding my boyfriends hand.

This was JUST LAST WEEKEND IN NEW YORK CITY IN 2011 WITH OBAMA AS PRESIDENT.

Straight people, you're not the only ones who get drama. Trust me. Being black and gay has it's OWN SET of navigations I'll just say that.

I'm Bat and my girlfriend is Cat

drifit said:

I'm a gay black male, my boyfriend is a gay white male. I was holding hands with him just this weekend in UNION SQUARE, NEW YORK CITY and a "straight" (I'm only assuming) black male who was selling stuff on a street corner, hollered in the street explicitly for me to hear "FUCK YOU, YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO. YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO [he was saying some other stuff but I drowned him out as I was talking with my bf and we were thinking of where to shop."

I continued holding my boyfriend's hand. I have not told my boyfriend about it, I don't think he heard it as we were engaged in conversation while the guy was yelling it.

I didn't react to the guy, I just kept walking holding my boyfriends hand.

This was JUST LAST WEEKEND IN NEW YORK CITY IN 2011 WITH OBAMA AS PRESIDENT.

Straight people, you're not the only ones who get drama. Trust me. Being black and gay has it's OWN SET of navigations I'll just say that.

This dude was mad at you twice for being gay and for dating a white guy? Ridiculous.

You know what's weird. I notice some straight black people give me shit (as a gay black man) for dating interracially -- it's like "oh you're a faggot, you're going to hell, but STICK TO YOUR RACE, brotha" [wtf??? Isn't that fucked up?!] This is the vibe I get from straight black folks on occasion.

But if I was holding hands with another gay black man they'd have a problem that he was not a woman. I've never really had the opportunity to hold hands with a gay black man in the street so I don't know if it would be different, the last black guy who I was dating was not into public displays of affection and didn't want to hold my hand publicly, he, coincidentally, was also in the military.

drifit said:

You know what's weird. I notice some straight black people give me shit (as a gay black man) for dating interracially -- it's like "oh you're a faggot, you're going to hell, but STICK TO YOUR RACE, brotha" [wtf??? Isn't that fucked up?!] This is the vibe I get from straight black folks on occasion.

But if I was holding hands with another gay black man they'd have a problem that he was not a woman. I've never really had the opportunity to hold hands with a gay black man in the street so I don't know if it would be different, the last black guy who I was dating was not into public displays of affection and didn't want to hold my hand publicly, he, coincidentally, was also in the military.

Wasn't that a joke in the Death At A Funeral movie remake where the fact that the deceased father had an affair with a male dwarf didn't bother one of the sons as much as the fact that the dwarf was white?

Interesting that for some people, interracial dating is a bigger sin than same sex dating. Makes no sense to me.

drifit said:

Straight people, you're not the only ones who get drama. Trust me. Being black and gay has it's OWN SET of navigations I'll just say that.

Oh, I know just what you mean. I'm white, gay, and love some black men and I get the same exact thing from white people and I also hear the black people I'm with get it from other black people. It's all fucking rediculous.

drifit said:

You know what's weird. I notice some straight black people give me shit (as a gay black man) for dating interracially -- it's like "oh you're a faggot, you're going to hell, but STICK TO YOUR RACE, brotha" [wtf??? Isn't that fucked up?!] This is the vibe I get from straight black folks on occasion.

But if I was holding hands with another gay black man they'd have a problem that he was not a woman. I've never really had the opportunity to hold hands with a gay black man in the street so I don't know if it would be different, the last black guy who I was dating was not into public displays of affection and didn't want to hold my hand publicly, he, coincidentally, was also in the military.

Ain't no shame in my game but I don't do that either. I don't do it because straight people think it's funny and I'm not about to be nobody's damn clown. I'm not about to listen to comments like...."aww, ain't that sweeeet". Honey, I'm not sweet, I'm rattlesnake venom.

I see straight people holding hands and kissing all out in public too but I still wouldn't do it if I was straight either.

vainandy said:

drifit said:

You know what's weird. I notice some straight black people give me shit (as a gay black man) for dating interracially -- it's like "oh you're a faggot, you're going to hell, but STICK TO YOUR RACE, brotha" [wtf??? Isn't that fucked up?!] This is the vibe I get from straight black folks on occasion.

But if I was holding hands with another gay black man they'd have a problem that he was not a woman. I've never really had the opportunity to hold hands with a gay black man in the street so I don't know if it would be different, the last black guy who I was dating was not into public displays of affection and didn't want to hold my hand publicly, he, coincidentally, was also in the military.

Ain't no shame in my game but I don't do that either. I don't do it because straight people think it's funny and I'm not about to be nobody's damn clown. I'm not about to listen to comments like...."aww, ain't that sweeeet". Honey, I'm not sweet, I'm rattlesnake venom.

I see straight people holding hands and kissing all out in public too but I still wouldn't do it if I was straight either.

I have to comment on this, even though it's about a heterosexual relationship. I'm just like you in mine, though there is a little bit of PDA, it was excessive and like being smothered in the beginning and I hated it, cause I'm not a sap and though I look nice and sweet and act like it, most people take it to mean I'm girly or into being like that, but I feel like venom myself

drifit said:

I'm a gay black male, my boyfriend is a gay white male. I was holding hands with him just this weekend in UNION SQUARE, NEW YORK CITY and a "straight" (I'm only assuming) black male who was selling stuff on a street corner, hollered in the street explicitly for me to hear "FUCK YOU, YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO. YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO [he was saying some other stuff but I drowned him out as I was talking with my bf and we were thinking of where to shop."

I continued holding my boyfriend's hand. I have not told my boyfriend about it, I don't think he heard it as we were engaged in conversation while the guy was yelling it.

I didn't react to the guy, I just kept walking holding my boyfriends hand.

This was JUST LAST WEEKEND IN NEW YORK CITY IN 2011 WITH OBAMA AS PRESIDENT.

Straight people, you're not the only ones who get drama. Trust me. Being black and gay has it's OWN SET of navigations I'll just say that.

Never take seriously the stuff that's yelled at you by NYC street vendors. I was walking through Times Square once with a white guy, and one of the "African Hebrew Israelites" was all over me about cavorting with "devils." In the 21st century, dude was selling (poorly written and illustrated) racist comic books off of a darned folding table in Times Square, dressed in public like someone out of Earth Wind & Fire, and I was catching a hard time!?! I couldn't even be offended by that.

I will say, though, that racism is magnificently alive and well in the LGBT community. Before I met my spouse, most of the men I met were... devils -- not by design, but because I was raised and went to college in very white environments, where if the few brothers around were interested in men, you'd have to be God or a high-level CIA operative to find out. I encountered all sorts of idiocy. Had a guy tell me while trying to flirt with me that he'd have sex with black men -- several at a time, even -- but would never date one. Had another guy tell me his very observant Orthodox Jewish mom was moderately upset when he came out as gay, but literally burst into tears as she begged him never to bring home a black dude. And I won't go into all the fetishized rumors, questions, fears and requests I encountered.

[Edited 1/28/11 14:07pm]

alphastreet said:

vainandy said:

Ain't no shame in my game but I don't do that either. I don't do it because straight people think it's funny and I'm not about to be nobody's damn clown. I'm not about to listen to comments like...."aww, ain't that sweeeet". Honey, I'm not sweet, I'm rattlesnake venom.

I see straight people holding hands and kissing all out in public too but I still wouldn't do it if I was straight either.

I have to comment on this, even though it's about a heterosexual relationship. I'm just like you in mine, though there is a little bit of PDA, it was excessive and like being smothered in the beginning and I hated it, cause I'm not a sap and though I look nice and sweet and act like it, most people take it to mean I'm girly or into being like that, but I feel like venom myself

It just looks trashy to me. I'm from the South and I see straight redneck couples riding in cars and pickup trucks all the time. The guy will be in the front seat driving and the girl will be sitting right up directly next to his ass with their arms around each other. The whole damn passenger seat (that she's supposed to sitting in) will be damn near empty because she's all up under his ass.

It's like they want people to see them as if to say...."Look here what IIIIII got. This is miiiiine". As if anybody wanted his trashy ass anyway. It just looks stupid looking.

JoeTyler said:

Serious said:

stallone?

Hold upnow. I love me some Sylvester Stallone! He was fine back in the day.

drifit said:

I'm a gay black male, my boyfriend is a gay white male. I was holding hands with him just this weekend in UNION SQUARE, NEW YORK CITY and a "straight" (I'm only assuming) black male who was selling stuff on a street corner, hollered in the street explicitly for me to hear "FUCK YOU, YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO. YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO [he was saying some other stuff but I drowned him out as I was talking with my bf and we were thinking of where to shop."

I continued holding my boyfriend's hand. I have not told my boyfriend about it, I don't think he heard it as we were engaged in conversation while the guy was yelling it.

I didn't react to the guy, I just kept walking holding my boyfriends hand.

This was JUST LAST WEEKEND IN NEW YORK CITY IN 2011 WITH OBAMA AS PRESIDENT.

Straight people, you're not the only ones who get drama. Trust me. Being black and gay has it's OWN SET of navigations I'll just say that.

wow i'm sorry that happened to you. i give you major props for being strong and continuing to walk hand in hand. people are so damn rude and ignorant.

dancerella said:

JoeTyler said:

stallone?

Hold upnow. I love me some Sylvester Stallone! He was fine back in the day.

Tastes are different. I just googled him to remember how exactly he was looking back then and no he so was and is not hot to me.

dancerella said:

drifit said:

I'm a gay black male, my boyfriend is a gay white male. I was holding hands with him just this weekend in UNION SQUARE, NEW YORK CITY and a "straight" (I'm only assuming) black male who was selling stuff on a street corner, hollered in the street explicitly for me to hear "FUCK YOU, YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO. YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO [he was saying some other stuff but I drowned him out as I was talking with my bf and we were thinking of where to shop."

I continued holding my boyfriend's hand. I have not told my boyfriend about it, I don't think he heard it as we were engaged in conversation while the guy was yelling it.

I didn't react to the guy, I just kept walking holding my boyfriends hand.

This was JUST LAST WEEKEND IN NEW YORK CITY IN 2011 WITH OBAMA AS PRESIDENT.

Straight people, you're not the only ones who get drama. Trust me. Being black and gay has it's OWN SET of navigations I'll just say that.

wow i'm sorry that happened to you. i give you major props for being strong and continuing to walk hand in hand. people are so damn rude and ignorant.

drifit said:

I'm a gay black male, my boyfriend is a gay white male. I was holding hands with him just this weekend in UNION SQUARE, NEW YORK CITY and a "straight" (I'm only assuming) black male who was selling stuff on a street corner, hollered in the street explicitly for me to hear "FUCK YOU, YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO. YOU UNCLE TOM HOMO [he was saying some other stuff but I drowned him out as I was talking with my bf and we were thinking of where to shop."

I continued holding my boyfriend's hand. I have not told my boyfriend about it, I don't think he heard it as we were engaged in conversation while the guy was yelling it.

I didn't react to the guy, I just kept walking holding my boyfriends hand.

This was JUST LAST WEEKEND IN NEW YORK CITY IN 2011 WITH OBAMA AS PRESIDENT.

Straight people, you're not the only ones who get drama. Trust me. Being black and gay has it's OWN SET of navigations I'll just say that.

Obama being president won't change folks' hearts. Hatred will always be with us until doomsday.

I'm glad you didn't respond to that fool. We have some crazy mfers in this town. He could have had a box cutter or a blade on him. You never know what dudes are capable of.

I wanna know why this thread hasn't been banished to P&R. Yet, I start a thread about what folks are doing for MLK day and it gets moved in mere minutes.

SCNDLS said:

I wanna know why this thread hasn't been banished to P&R. Yet, I start a thread about what folks are doing for MLK day and it gets moved in mere minutes.

Simple: Your thread had no sex talk, Wendy Williams or naked men.

Lammastide said:

SCNDLS said:

I wanna know why this thread hasn't been banished to P&R. Yet, I start a thread about what folks are doing for MLK day and it gets moved in mere minutes.

Simple: Your thread had no sex talk, Wendy Williams or naked men.