I was talking to a friend that has recently put herself back in the market to date.

I have a few friends that have done so, and in my generation, these women are not comfortable giving head.

So, I've decided to help my friends and teach them. But there are some things I can't show them with plain ol' produce.... I need a real man.

Don't know how to do a search for a guy who wouldn't mind getting his dick sucked infront of 3-5 women and having his gentials pulled and poked at. He would also have to be clean and pretty confident.

I don't think I have any male friends that could do this.

I need suggestions.... Should I just stick to produce?

So where do you live?

Boston, MA.... USA.

paintedlady said:

I was talking to a friend that has recently put herself back in the market to date.

I have a few friends that have done so, and in my generation, these women are not comfortable giving head.

So, I've decided to help my friends and teach them. But there are some things I can't show them with plain ol' produce.... I need a real man.

Don't know how to do a search for a guy who wouldn't mind getting his dick sucked infront of 3-5 women and having his gentials pulled and poked at. He would also have to be clean and pretty confident.

I don't think I have any male friends that could do this.

I need suggestions.... Should I just stick to produce?

How old are you if I may ask?

Let's see....catch a flight out of SE US by midnight, be in Boston between 4 and 6 AM or so, depending on connecting flights. When does this need to happen?

Serious said:

paintedlady said:

I was talking to a friend that has recently put herself back in the market to date.

I have a few friends that have done so, and in my generation, these women are not comfortable giving head.

So, I've decided to help my friends and teach them. But there are some things I can't show them with plain ol' produce.... I need a real man.

Don't know how to do a search for a guy who wouldn't mind getting his dick sucked infront of 3-5 women and having his gentials pulled and poked at. He would also have to be clean and pretty confident.

I don't think I have any male friends that could do this.

I need suggestions.... Should I just stick to produce?

How old are you if I may ask?

39

my friends are around my age... one's in her twenties

paintedlady said:

Boston, MA.... USA.

Boston...designated location for the pending org-gathering in April most likely?

But really, aside from some lucky guy getting head for the sexual betterment of womankind, that's extremely generous (can't think of a better word right now) of you to do that for some friends.

Poiple said:

Let's see....catch a flight out of SE US by midnight, be in Boston between 4 and 6 AM or so, depending on connecting flights. When does this need to happen?

One friend is in New York... she really wants to be there.

I'll orgnote you if you're serious....

FauxReal said:

paintedlady said:

Boston, MA.... USA.

Boston...designated location for the pending org-gathering in April most likely?

But really, aside from some lucky guy getting head for the sexual betterment of womankind, that's extremely generous (can't think of a better word right now) of you to do that for some friends.

We may all do that, depending on how the "class" goes.

Heck you only live once ya know? I'm not married and my friends really want to know, throw in some wine and its a recipe for great memories.

[Edited 2/5/11 11:20am]

paintedlady said:

Poiple said:

Let's see....catch a flight out of SE US by midnight, be in Boston between 4 and 6 AM or so, depending on connecting flights. When does this need to happen?

One friend is in New York... she really wants to be there.

I'll orgnote you if you're serious....

While it's quite an offer, I must decline. Good luck!

paintedlady said:

Serious said:

How old are you if I may ask?

39

my friends are around my age... one's in her twenties

I would have thought that women of that age are pretty comfortable about it. As they know themselves and their own needs at thats age. IMO you are a good example for that yourself from what I see you posting here . Or that age doesn't matter that much, apart from the really old women who might still consider it something inapporiate.

Poiple said:

paintedlady said:

One friend is in New York... she really wants to be there.

I'll orgnote you if you're serious....

While it's quite an offer, I must decline. Good luck!

It isn't really, I would imagine up to four women pulling on your dick that do NOT know what they are doing pretty brutal.

This is gonna be tricky. Imma need all the luck I can get!

And while I love to give my bf blowjobs and am totally comfortable about that (and great too from what he is telling me ) I would sure not be comfortable enough to participate in anything like that.

Oh and can I nominate this for thread of the year !

Why the hell would you ever be considering this?

Seek therapy.

Serious said:

paintedlady said:

39

my friends are around my age... one's in her twenties

I would have thought that women of that age are pretty comfortable about it. As they know themselves and their own needs at thats age. IMO you are a good example for that yourself from what I see you posting here . Or that age doesn't matter that much, apart from the really old women who might still consider it something inapporiate.

Cultural/religious background is more of a factor here.

My peeps were in the church too long... and two women are divorced and only been with one man for a long time.

I need to corrupt my girls. I can show them videos but I think this would be more fun since learning dexterity would make a big difference.

paintedlady said:

I was talking to a friend that has recently put herself back in the market to date.

I have a few friends that have done so, and in my generation, these women are not comfortable giving head.

So, I've decided to help my friends and teach them. But there are some things I can't show them with plain ol' produce.... I need a real man.

Don't know how to do a search for a guy who wouldn't mind getting his dick sucked infront of 3-5 women and having his gentials pulled and poked at. He would also have to be clean and pretty confident.

I don't think I have any male friends that could do this.

I need suggestions.... Should I just stick to produce?

I know several men that would ~ no problem

Live in AZ ? ~ all I'd have to do is call him and tell him where and when to show

Spinlight said:

Why the hell would you ever be considering this?

Seek therapy.

I wouldn't do it with MY man! FYI condoms will be used. May only need to show hand jobs...

and yes, I was in therapy. Worked out pretty well.

paintedlady said:

Serious said:

I would have thought that women of that age are pretty comfortable about it. As they know themselves and their own needs at thats age. IMO you are a good example for that yourself from what I see you posting here . Or that age doesn't matter that much, apart from the really old women who might still consider it something inapporiate.

Cultural/religious background is more of a factor here.

My peeps were in the church too long... and two women are divorced and only been with one man for a long time.

I need to corrupt my girls. I can show them videos but I think this would be more fun since learning dexterity would make a big difference.

That's what I thought too. I just don't quite get it why they are not "adventorous" enough to try and learn with a man, but are to do it in front of others watching.

Mach said:

paintedlady said:

I was talking to a friend that has recently put herself back in the market to date.

I have a few friends that have done so, and in my generation, these women are not comfortable giving head.

So, I've decided to help my friends and teach them. But there are some things I can't show them with plain ol' produce.... I need a real man.

Don't know how to do a search for a guy who wouldn't mind getting his dick sucked infront of 3-5 women and having his gentials pulled and poked at. He would also have to be clean and pretty confident.

I don't think I have any male friends that could do this.

I need suggestions.... Should I just stick to produce?

I know several men that would ~ no problem

Live in AZ ? ~ all I'd have to do is call him and tell him where and when to show

You are a godsend!

I can't imagine finding a guy on Craig'slist

Serious said:

paintedlady said:

Cultural/religious background is more of a factor here.

My peeps were in the church too long... and two women are divorced and only been with one man for a long time.

I need to corrupt my girls. I can show them videos but I think this would be more fun since learning dexterity would make a big difference.

That's what I thought too. I just don't quite get it why they are not "adventorous" enough to try and learn with a man, but are to do it in front of others watching.

One friend has a special rendevous planned for her new guy, the other is single, one is well.... she's spaychul.

Funny thing is they are all attractive women, very decisive but just not into "all that" until now. I think this type of set up would help them release inhibitions regarding handling a man's body.

paintedlady said:

I was talking to a friend that has recently put herself back in the market to date.

I have a few friends that have done so, and in my generation, these women are not comfortable giving head.

So, I've decided to help my friends and teach them. But there are some things I can't show them with plain ol' produce.... I need a real man.

Don't know how to do a search for a guy who wouldn't mind getting his dick sucked infront of 3-5 women and having his gentials pulled and poked at. He would also have to be clean and pretty confident.

I don't think I have any male friends that could do this.

I need suggestions.... Should I just stick to produce?

There are dvd's to teach your friends

kpowers said:

paintedlady said:

I was talking to a friend that has recently put herself back in the market to date.

I have a few friends that have done so, and in my generation, these women are not comfortable giving head.

So, I've decided to help my friends and teach them. But there are some things I can't show them with plain ol' produce.... I need a real man.

Don't know how to do a search for a guy who wouldn't mind getting his dick sucked infront of 3-5 women and having his gentials pulled and poked at. He would also have to be clean and pretty confident.

I don't think I have any male friends that could do this.

I need suggestions.... Should I just stick to produce?

There are dvd's to teach your friends

We spoke of that... but I think they could have done that long ago on their own.

Then we got on the subject of using veggies... eh.

I don't know... How would I do this class?! I think I may be the only one that ends up touching dude, but I hope not.

I think it would only be fair to send pictures of all your friends to the guy before decides if he wants to do it. I mean, I would want to know.

paintedlady said:

Mach said:

I know several men that would ~ no problem

Live in AZ ? ~ all I'd have to do is call him and tell him where and when to show

You are a godsend!

I can't imagine finding a guy on Craig'slist

None are in the NY area

you're in NY yes ?

JustErin said:

I think it would only be fair to send pictures of all your friends to the guy before decides if he wants to do it. I mean, I would want to know.

Yeah... I think so too. I would want him to be serious about it...

on second thought, that would be up to my friends. Its not like they are looking for a commitment/BF.

If he chooses not to based on looks would be weird. My friends are attractive, not dogs... but health issues should be the real consideration, not how cute they are to him.

[Edited 2/5/11 14:25pm]

Mach said:

paintedlady said:

You are a godsend!

I can't imagine finding a guy on Craig'slist

None are in the NY area

you're in NY yes ?

Boston, MA. One of the ladies is from NY though...

paintedlady said:

JustErin said:

I think it would only be fair to send pictures of all your friends to the guy before decides if he wants to do it. I mean, I would want to know.

Yeah... I think so too. I would want him to be serious about it...

Well, I hope it all works out.

But I will say, if a woman is just not into doing it...she'll never be good at it in the eyes of a dude.

JustErin said:

paintedlady said:

Yeah... I think so too. I would want him to be serious about it...

Well, I hope it all works out.

But I will say, if a woman is just not into doing it...she'll never be good at it in the eyes of a dude.

When I started to do it I was not into it even though I was the one who brought it up and not the man. But after some time and practice that changed. So maybe they will start to get into it too.

But I agree, that being into it is key. IMO that this is the most important thing about giving head and about sex in general: that you really enjoy what you are doing and that you show it how much you do.

JustErin said:

paintedlady said:

Yeah... I think so too. I would want him to be serious about it...

Well, I hope it all works out.

But I will say, if a woman is just not into doing it...she'll never be good at it in the eyes of a dude.

I agree. Many women in my circles are taught that sucking dick is only a whore's chore.

So I am glad that at least in my circle, my friend's are finally opening up. I think this way, these ladies will let go and finally not see it as a big deal.