Genesia said:

36? Please. I dropped someone last year and I'm way older than you.

I did not, however, ask any mutual friends to drop her. My issues with this person are my issues. They're real - and my position is totally reasonable. But I'm not going to make my friends adopt them.

They were actually not really friends. She is one of those "I meet you once, I add you to my friend's list" kinda person. If they were friends, I wouldn't have asked. We have several legitimate mutual friends and I did not ask them...but this was a close friend of mine, two people I have been involved with and a family member (that she had never even met!).

whistle said:

JustErin said:

at the age of 36! Hilarious.

My life is soooo drama free and then this stupidness happens. It even came to the point that I asked people who know this person (only knew through me very casually) to delete her from their friends' list.

How high school is that? But I had deleted her and was sick of her having a way into seeing my life through them (pictures, wall posts, etc).

They all did it except one person...the dude I have had a casual thing with for like a billion years. And now I am pissed off at him about it.

I'm not used to these childish feelings!

yeah, i'm disappointed in you. i expect a much higher level of maturity and sophistication.

so, what else are we talking about today: your clothes or your hair?

Like I'm going to spend my time on THE ORG being mature.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

JustErin said:

We didn't grow apart. She did something stupid that showed me how selfish she really is...but I let it go. She then came to me with a ton of paranoid accusations and stupid drama saying I wasn't there for her anymore and blah, blah, blah (without knowing a damn thing about the shit I have been dealing with the last few months or even asking how I was) and I really realized that it really was just all about her, her her.

I had done so much to help this girl and I suddenly realized none of it was appreciated. When she then didn't invite me to her wedding and was constantly posting about it and all her awesome friends that were going...I had enough and decided to cut her out of my life.

I'm not used to dealing with people like that.

Oh okay, I read it now.

I have a friend who used to get bent out of shpae over FB stuff, and I always thought she was so lame for getting worked up over FB and I told her that openly.

But now, since loosing a lot of my really good friends (not just ppl you only talk to on fb ) through my divorce, I get it. I'd see them posting how they had done this, and their kids went to that together, and l'm like you F'n bitches. Like I have tried to remain in contact with you's and keep the friendships going even though we hardly have a thing in common anymore, and yet you didn't invite my daughter to 'blah'. So I deleted them, cuz I'm like, what is wrong with me.

Anyways, that was a long way of saying, I get what your saying, even thought its childish and completely ridiculous. You did the right thing to delete her. Either you's'll eventually hash it out, or you don't have to look at her anymore. win, win.

I felt like this...after receiving the ultimate fuck you with her ignoring me in regards to her wedding, I thought, "why would I let you have a window into my life now?'. What's the point?

JustErin said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Oh okay, I read it now.

I have a friend who used to get bent out of shpae over FB stuff, and I always thought she was so lame for getting worked up over FB and I told her that openly.

But now, since loosing a lot of my really good friends (not just ppl you only talk to on fb ) through my divorce, I get it. I'd see them posting how they had done this, and their kids went to that together, and l'm like you F'n bitches. Like I have tried to remain in contact with you's and keep the friendships going even though we hardly have a thing in common anymore, and yet you didn't invite my daughter to 'blah'. So I deleted them, cuz I'm like, what is wrong with me.

Anyways, that was a long way of saying, I get what your saying, even thought its childish and completely ridiculous. You did the right thing to delete her. Either you's'll eventually hash it out, or you don't have to look at her anymore. win, win.

I felt like this...after receiving the ultimate fuck you with her ignoring me in regards to her wedding, I thought, "why would I let you have a window into my life now?'. What's the point?

I'm glad you threw her ass to the ground.

JustErin said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Oh okay, I read it now.

I have a friend who used to get bent out of shpae over FB stuff, and I always thought she was so lame for getting worked up over FB and I told her that openly.

But now, since loosing a lot of my really good friends (not just ppl you only talk to on fb ) through my divorce, I get it. I'd see them posting how they had done this, and their kids went to that together, and l'm like you F'n bitches. Like I have tried to remain in contact with you's and keep the friendships going even though we hardly have a thing in common anymore, and yet you didn't invite my daughter to 'blah'. So I deleted them, cuz I'm like, what is wrong with me.

Anyways, that was a long way of saying, I get what your saying, even thought its childish and completely ridiculous. You did the right thing to delete her. Either you's'll eventually hash it out, or you don't have to look at her anymore. win, win.

I felt like this...after receiving the ultimate fuck you with her ignoring me in regards to her wedding, I thought, "why would I let you have a window into my life now?'. What's the point?

Yup. Fuck her.

Same thing just happened to me more or less. Someone I was trying to help get comfortable living in this area always refused to show up at events or complain about something. Everything she posted was negative blah blah blah, so i called her out on it. People don't like to look in the mirror, and when you hand them one they freak out. She deleted me a few weeks after and I find it to be hysterical!

I say GOOD RIDDANCE!

JustErin said:

at the age of 36! Hilarious.

My life is soooo drama free and then this stupidness happens. It even came to the point that I asked people who know this person (only knew through me very casually) to delete her from their friends' list.

How high school is that? But I had deleted her and was sick of her having a way into seeing my life through them (pictures, wall posts, etc).

They all did it except one person...the dude I have had a casual thing with for like a billion years. And now I am pissed off at him about it.

I'm not used to these childish feelings!

That's where you're being childish. The issues you have with this person are between you and her ONLY. You should not dictate to your other friends whom they should befriend or not; that's their business. Perhaps one of your other friends likes this person and their friendship has nothing to do with you nor should. If you get pissed at all your friends because they befriend someone you don't like or approve of, you might find yourself on the receiving end of the drop list. Just my 2.

whistle said:

JustErin said:

at the age of 36! Hilarious.

My life is soooo drama free and then this stupidness happens. It even came to the point that I asked people who know this person (only knew through me very casually) to delete her from their friends' list.

How high school is that? But I had deleted her and was sick of her having a way into seeing my life through them (pictures, wall posts, etc).

They all did it except one person...the dude I have had a casual thing with for like a billion years. And now I am pissed off at him about it.

I'm not used to these childish feelings!

yeah, i'm disappointed in you. i expect a much higher level of maturity and sophistication.

so, what else are we talking about today: your clothes or your hair?

how awful

I avoid dramas like this by not having any friends in the first place. It works!

ZombieKitten said:

how awful

I avoid dramas like this by not having any friends in the first place. It works!

me too!

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

how awful

I avoid dramas like this by not having any friends in the first place. It works!

me too!

I avoid getting into friendship-like situations by not having a cell phone and keeping a landline that barely works.

Shyra said:

JustErin said:

at the age of 36! Hilarious.

My life is soooo drama free and then this stupidness happens. It even came to the point that I asked people who know this person (only knew through me very casually) to delete her from their friends' list.

How high school is that? But I had deleted her and was sick of her having a way into seeing my life through them (pictures, wall posts, etc).

They all did it except one person...the dude I have had a casual thing with for like a billion years. And now I am pissed off at him about it.

I'm not used to these childish feelings!

That's where you're being childish. The issues you have with this person are between you and her ONLY. You should not dictate to your other friends whom they should befriend or not; that's their business. Perhaps one of your other friends likes this person and their friendship has nothing to do with you nor should. If you get pissed at all your friends because they befriend someone you don't like or approve of, you might find yourself on the receiving end of the drop list. Just my 2.

Yeah, they are not really friends in the first place and have no contact other than thru me or facebook voyeurism.

There's a lot of high school bullshit among folk who should be grown ass.

I have NO PATIENCE. None.

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

me too!

I avoid getting into friendship-like situations by not having a cell phone and keeping a landline that barely works.

I just shoot mean glances at everyone

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I avoid getting into friendship-like situations by not having a cell phone and keeping a landline that barely works.

I just shoot mean glances at everyone

I wish I could see that

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I avoid getting into friendship-like situations by not having a cell phone and keeping a landline that barely works.

I just shoot mean glances at everyone

Sounds to me like you two are becoming friends!

RodeoSchro said:

NDRU said:

I just shoot mean glances at everyone

Sounds to me like you two are becoming friends!

our situation is perfect, we live across the world from one another

NDRU said:

RodeoSchro said:

Sounds to me like you two are becoming friends!

our situation is perfect, we live across the world from one another

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

our situation is perfect, we live across the world from one another

love will always find a way keep the faith

i'm not on facebook. but i keep hearing about the excitement that goes along with FB status.

i'm scurred

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

me too!

I avoid getting into friendship-like situations by not having a cell phone and keeping a landline that barely works.

wow! you sound like me!

kimrachell said:

ZombieKitten said:

I avoid getting into friendship-like situations by not having a cell phone and keeping a landline that barely works.

wow! you sound like me!