Not harldy. He's just boning another chick so we stop when that happens...but you're right, I'm leaving anyway. I still don't like to be told this.
And no, he's an old (but younger than me), crazy, neurotic Italian. I wouldn't call him a hipster either.
at the risk of sounding like your granddad: where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years?
you don't seem to be into the whole marriage thing, but being the bit on the side for men who are committed to other girls has to be getting old...
In 5-10 years I see myself running my business, raising my son and being very successful. I never really put much thought into where I will be when it comes to men, but maybe by then I will be interested in being in something serious, or maybe not.
And it's not like I have a habit of being someone's chick on the side.
I wasn't that with the dude I just talked about. We just hook up when we are both single. As soon as one of us starts seeing someone, it stops immediately. We've been doing this for like 8 years. The difference between us is he is looking for a serious relationship with someone, and I am not.
And yes, I am in something a bit seedy with another person, but we don't really see each other very often anymore.
In 5-10 years I see myself running my business, raising my son and being very successful. I never really put much thought into where I will be when it comes to men, but maybe by then I will be interested in being in something serious, or maybe not.
And it's not like I have a habit of being someone's chick on the side.
I wasn't that with the dude I just talked about. We just hook up when we are both single. As soon as one of us starts seeing someone, it stops immediately. We've been doing this for like 8 years. The difference between us is he is looking for a serious relationship with someone, and I am not.
And yes, I am in something a bit seedy with another person, but we don't really see each other very often anymore.
i wasn't condemning/judging your lifestyle. as a boring married person, i imagine it's much more exciting than my own.
i was just curious as to how it goes if you never commit. is it really empty and lonely, or is that just what married miserable people tell each other to keep from going insane?
In 5-10 years I see myself running my business, raising my son and being very successful. I never really put much thought into where I will be when it comes to men, but maybe by then I will be interested in being in something serious, or maybe not.
And it's not like I have a habit of being someone's chick on the side.
I wasn't that with the dude I just talked about. We just hook up when we are both single. As soon as one of us starts seeing someone, it stops immediately. We've been doing this for like 8 years. The difference between us is he is looking for a serious relationship with someone, and I am not.
And yes, I am in something a bit seedy with another person, but we don't really see each other very often anymore.
i wasn't condemning/judging your lifestyle. as a boring married person, i imagine it's much more exciting than my own.
i was just curious as to how it goes if you never commit. is it really empty and lonely, or is that just what married miserable people tell each other to keep from going insane?
Ok, I would imagine it really is empty and lonely for many....however, for me...as long I am having sex and getting my physical needs met regularly I'm cool (which is why this axe hurts).
I guess I am never lonely because I have my wonderful son that I simply love to death.
I've come to realize that I do not need romantic love to be happy. Yes, it's nice and all. But I don't feel empty without it.
I do not feel that love and sex are connected in any way. I am not someone who feels being in love with someone makes the sex better. I've fucked guys I loved and guys I couldn't stand (personality wise) and the sex was exactly the same.
And before anyone says something silly like, "Well, obviously you've never really loved someone if it's not different"....
I say, please.
I spent my 20s doing anything and everything for men that I thought I needed in my life...all in the name of "love". I seriously can not be bothered anymore.
Funny though...last weekend we had a BBQ at our place, with our usual circle of friends.
I recently reconnected with a childhood friend of mine. Hadn't seen him in YEARS, then ran into him at my niece's Sweet 16 last month. We invited him to the BBQ, ...and I couldn't believe the ATTENTION the dude was getting! One of our friends flirted with him in front of all of us, INCLUDING her husband! Another (whose husband couldn't make it) spent an excessive amount of time chatting with him off to one side (until another friend pulled him away).
Makes me wonder why my own wife insisted that we invite him.
Having good-looking friends is highly overrated.
By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory!