TotalANXiousNESS said:

I LOVE JUDGE JUDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I can't wait to go on maternity leave so I can watch it again!

Good. Then you know how these stories all end up. Judy wants proof that you loaned the money for the phone or you added him to the plan with him promising to pay you. If you're gonna be foolish and do him the favor, be prepared to be screwed over and then maybe you can be on Jude Judy yourself. Oh, and if you do make the show, she's gonna read you for doing it in the first place.

You better say no.

Dont Do It, If you have money to burn spend it on the kids. It sounds like he wants to be on your plan so he doesn't have to pay a bill. If your going to do it anyway get it in writing.

Hell yes you should do it! And if you don't also give him your ATM code, then you are a horrible, horrible person!

(Do y'all think reverse psychology is going to work?)

Did you ever promise to be true to him in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health and that you would love him and honor him all the days of your life ? Eh? Did you?

TotalANXiousNESS said:

My ex husband calls me and asks me to put him on my phone plan this morning, cause his new rent a fam has moved out and took all of his stuff with them, and I guess dropped his cell phone as well.

Yes, I'm on a bit of a power trip.

But, I do feel bad for him.

What would YOUUUUUUU do?

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I wouldn't do it...why bother...there is a reason why he is your ex husband.

CarrieMpls said:

He can buy a pre-paid phone.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

My ex husband calls me and asks me to put him on my phone plan this morning, cause his new rent a fam has moved out and took all of his stuff with them, and I guess dropped his cell phone as well.

Yes, I'm on a bit of a power trip.

But, I do feel bad for him.

What would YOUUUUUUU do?

Hell no way. He's on his own now sink or swim. You've been through enough. He just wants to use you and take advantage of you. Don't feel sorry for him.

luv4u said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

My ex husband calls me and asks me to put him on my phone plan this morning, cause his new rent a fam has moved out and took all of his stuff with them, and I guess dropped his cell phone as well.

Yes, I'm on a bit of a power trip.

But, I do feel bad for him.

What would YOUUUUUUU do?

Hell no way. He's on his own now sink or swim. You've been through enough. He just wants to use you and take advantage of you. Don't feel sorry for him.

co sign. don't enable him. and be upfront and honest with your current baby daddy about all this.

N-O I tried this with my sister, and let me tell you this did not turn out well. Sis re-nigged on her agreement with me. And eventually stopped giving me money, and blew up the bill, and I of course, had to pay it to restore my own "credit." So, NO, I would not do it, even with a relative it turned out horrible, and with and ex it would probably be worse.

Thinking conspiratorial thoughts out loud...

First he wants to get on your plan.

Then he'll want to be nice and pay the bill online for you, perhaps convincing you to give him access to do so.

Then he's looking at your phone records to see who you've been calling and how long you spend talking to them.

And he never pays the bill again, if he even pays that first one.

NDRU said:

would he put you on his plan if the situation was reversed?

good answer!!

and IMO...

HELL-TO-THE-NO!!!

TotalANXiousNESS said:

My ex husband calls me and asks me to put him on my phone plan this morning

What would YOUUUUUUU do?

I wouldn't do it

NDRU said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Okay, I know I know.

But you guys aren't really looking at the big picture. Which is WTF does he need MY BROKE ASS to get him a phone for........what the BALLS is he up to NOW??????

yes, just trying to stay involved in your life, and not in a positive way, but trying to tangle himself in it

ABSOLUTELY.

There is NO NEED for a full-grown man to be running back to his ex for a f*cking cell phone.

I'd string two plastic cups together with a length of twine and stick 'em in an old cellphone box.

PurpleJedi said:

NDRU said:

yes, just trying to stay involved in your life, and not in a positive way, but trying to tangle himself in it

ABSOLUTELY.

There is NO NEED for a full-grown man to be running back to his ex for a f*cking cell phone.

I'd string two plastic cups together with a length of twine and stick 'em in an old cellphone box.

!!

ZombieKitten said:

PurpleJedi said:

ABSOLUTELY.

There is NO NEED for a full-grown man to be running back to his ex for a f*cking cell phone.

I'd string two plastic cups together with a length of twine and stick 'em in an old cellphone box.

!!

PurpleJedi said:

ZombieKitten said:

!!

did you see Hotel for Dogs? the kid in that returned a cellbox to a store for a refund with a brick in it and got caught I was just discussing the rights and wrongs of that situation with my guys the other day!

ZombieKitten said:

PurpleJedi said:

did you see Hotel for Dogs? the kid in that returned a cellbox to a store for a refund with a brick in it and got caught I was just discussing the rights and wrongs of that situation with my guys the other day!

No, I didn't see that one (surprisingly).

But that sort of stuff does happen in real life.

Oh fuck! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Tell him to shove his broken phone up his ass!

Wow! I canNOT believe the audactiy of some people.

BlackAdder7 said:

luv4u said:

Hell no way. He's on his own now sink or swim. You've been through enough. He just wants to use you and take advantage of you. Don't feel sorry for him.

co sign. don't enable him. and be upfront and honest with your current baby daddy about all this.

I did, and he threw a little hissy fit. Which is pretty much the only reason I'm not doing it.

PurpleJedi said:

NDRU said:

yes, just trying to stay involved in your life, and not in a positive way, but trying to tangle himself in it

ABSOLUTELY.

There is NO NEED for a full-grown man to be running back to his ex for a f*cking cell phone.

I'd string two plastic cups together with a length of twine and stick 'em in an old cellphone box.

HaHa!

TotalANXiousNESS said:

BlackAdder7 said:

co sign. don't enable him. and be upfront and honest with your current baby daddy about all this.

I did, and he threw a little hissy fit. Which is pretty much the only reason I'm not doing it.

So if your bf said do whatever you want, you'd add your ex to your plan?

sextonseven said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

I did, and he threw a little hissy fit. Which is pretty much the only reason I'm not doing it.

So if your bf said do whatever you want, you'd add your ex to your plan?

Yeah, why not. The past is the past. I'm not mad anymore I've forgiven him and moved on, and I kinda feel bad for him. I know he can get his own phone. He just knows that I'm a sucker and will only charge him the extra 9.99 a month for adding the line, instead of making him pay half the bill, like any normal person would do. And he's cheap. thats why he has money in the first place. I know his intentions are ALWAYS for his benefit, but whatever.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

sextonseven said:

So if your bf said do whatever you want, you'd add your ex to your plan?

Yeah, why not. The past is the past. I'm not mad anymore I've forgiven him and moved on, and I kinda feel bad for him. I know he can get his own phone. He just knows that I'm a sucker and will only charge him the extra 9.99 a month for adding the line, instead of making him pay half the bill, like any normal person would do. And he's cheap. thats why he has money in the first place. I know his intentions are ALWAYS for his benefit, but whatever.

NOT

WHATEVER!

If you were a stranger, I would tell your baby daddy to run. he will get the short end of the stick and for what? Because you're a forgiving person? You should ignore your ex at all costs. I know kids bind you together but you should be living every second of your existence making sure he is not part of your life

TotalANXiousNESS said:

sextonseven said:

So if your bf said do whatever you want, you'd add your ex to your plan?

Yeah, why not.

because he has gone out of his way to screw you in the past?

I honestly don't understand why this is even a question.

Genesia said:

I honestly don't understand why this is even a question.

Same here. She would have ignored all our advice anyway.

sextonseven said:

Genesia said:

I honestly don't understand why this is even a question.

Same here. She would have ignored all our advice anyway.

Feel sorry for me as I continue to fuck up my life.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

sextonseven said:

So if your bf said do whatever you want, you'd add your ex to your plan?

Yeah, why not. The past is the past. I'm not mad anymore I've forgiven him and moved on, and I kinda feel bad for him. I know he can get his own phone. He just knows that I'm a sucker and will only charge him the extra 9.99 a month for adding the line, instead of making him pay half the bill, like any normal person would do. And he's cheap. thats why he has money in the first place. I know his intentions are ALWAYS for his benefit, but whatever.

So which type of Man is it you DO not want your son to be like ... the Ex and his manipulative/hurtful/dishonest ways or the Boyfriend and his hissy fits ?

Dani ~ seriously hun ... really ?

TotalANXiousNESS said: