To me very simple.

If the person is willing to "hurt" U.

Whether it by emotional or physical
damage. If someone KNOWINGLY does something that will it turn affect
the other person NEGATIVELY --they suck ASS!!!

origmnd said:

you get dumped dude?

origmnd said:

I can see where you could think that--makes sense. Knowingly harming someone. Yep, that person would suck ass!

MrBliss said:

Show him some brotherly compassion, huh?

When he/she say's "I love you, BUT". If somebody loves you there should be NO "BUT", either they love you or they do not and they should love you UnConditionally! Once somebody starts putting conditions on you this IS NOT LOVE...I learned this just in the last couple years. What conditional and Unconditional love is...I would rather be alone than to be living in a conditional relationship. I myself would never and HOPE I will never love in this way.

AnotherLover2 said:

i was.. ...just wanted to know where he was coming from...for what it's worth i agree

I once was in a relationship where I stated "I love you BUT I'm not in love with you"

They never got the hint so I had to show tough love and dump that person after 4 years.

Much Love,
LoLinex

lolinex said:

charming...bet they were devestated at the loss of such a warm hearted soul

Been hurt to many times by the very above situation...
[This message was edited Sat Jan 18 22:58:52 PST 2003 by MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld]

When they tell U 2 f ck off mayB or they start spreading their legs 4 every Tom, DICK and Harpo in your face?

, Power of the ... dangerous.

'dre

maybe they didn't intentionally hurt you...

..maybe you have been hurt by something they have no control over...

somebody can love you..and still hurt you...but only if you allow yourself to be hurt...



(i had to edit...cos it's late..)
[This message was edited Sat Jan 18 23:10:49 PST 2003 by rio]

rio said:

Oh it was intentional...black eyes and bruises do not happen on accident. Now I just
hide in a to keep safe. I learned alot from
the situation, and came out of it alot stronger then
I thought I would be.
[This message was edited Sat Jan 18 23:16:04 PST 2003 by MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld]

origmnd said:

lolinex said:

Well I never got told "I love you, but I am not in love with you" ...And I am sorry somebody has to get hurt as in you're situation..But before we were even married EVERYTHING was , "I love you but we can not do this", or "I love you but we have to do this" (4 his family most of the time) everything HAD to benefit his family. I was always an obedient child, I was also obedient as an adult but I now learned I do not NEED a man to be my parent or me be his...I just want to be a wife and hear "I love you because"!

i dont know about LOVE

but i know what it looks like when someone do not like you

its a matter of yanking someones chain...

come close...GO AWAY



come close...GO AWAY


come close...GO AWAY




come close...GO AWAY...

LatinaAngel said:

:solace:

mentally ill people are abusive of others without even knowing it

which is why i say Fuck 'em




haven't had this much fun on the ORG in quite a while

Cutting off your penis in your sleep is one clue... :O

origmnd said:

Someone may hurt who they are in love with because they don't feel their love is returned.

saying "I hate you" is a clue

Anji said:

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Then why would they stay in the rtelationship?? To continue to NOT be loved...and that gives them the justification to hurt the other person?

XxAxX said:

There's mentally ill people who are incapable of conscious rational thought
because of a brain disorder ---they
are not responsible.

There's mentally ill people who've
been abused beyond recognition and /or repair---and they consciously CHOOSE NOT to inflict their distress on others. They
have minds aware to not spread disease.

There's mentall ill people who've
been abused beyond rcognition ad /or repair--and they consciously CHOOSE TO
inflict their distress on others. They
have minds with no regard for anyone
but their own misery--sociopaths. NO excuse for these people.

AnotherLover2 said:

Thanks but it's not necessary. Just stating reality.

origmnd said:

Shit..thats proof that someone doesn't like you much less love you.

origmnd said:

DigitalLisa said:

No I take that back, if someone says "I hate you" they really love you, if they say "I love you" It means they really hate you It's always the opposite.

DreZone said:

Why is everybody use quotes from The Color Purple?? LOL Is it the thing to do in this site, 1st Brother915 and now you Dre??

But hey I like this

and if he's going around cheating on you and talking about you behind ur back, then that may be a clue .

origmnd said:

U always hurt the one u love! "i hate 2 see u happy, i hate 2 see u sad". Theres a very thin line btween love & hate...