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PrintableI read INMATE.  I've been at work too long.
I always thought that the older I got my standards would be lower. They're even higher now. So, yes, what I look for in a mate has changed. They have to be damn near perfect. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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nope...they still have to have:
a dick a brain a job some kitchen skills some bedroom skills and be disease free. a desire to bathe on a daily basis 
Apparently since the dawn of time...the requests on that list have been too much for any one man to fill. 
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: I read INMATE.
I've been at work too long.
I always thought that the older I got my standards would be lower. They're even higher now. So, yes, what I look for in a mate has changed. They have to be damn near perfect.  me and the master just had a good chuckle at this!!!
what DO you look for in an inmate by the way? | |
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ZombieKitten said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: I read INMATE.
I've been at work too long.
I always thought that the older I got my standards would be lower. They're even higher now. So, yes, what I look for in a mate has changed. They have to be damn near perfect. me and the master just had a good chuckle at this!!!
what DO you look for in an inmate by the way? Hello sweety!! An inmate must love hiking, walks on the beach, must have tattooes, a piercing or 4. They CAN'T have any sex crimes or child crimes. But they have to have a Parole card.....only sayin'..... MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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MIGUELGOMEZ said: ZombieKitten said: me and the master just had a good chuckle at this!!!
what DO you look for in an inmate by the way? Hello sweety!! An inmate must love hiking, walks on the beach, must have tattooes, a piercing or 4. They CAN'T have any sex crimes or child crimes. But they have to have a Parole card.....only sayin'..... good call what about those things they might wear around their ankle? are those OK? | |
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. [Edited 4/16/10 4:17am] ..She's Just A Baby..but she's my lady..my loveR..my only friend!..true love that will last!..PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND..WHAT SHE SEES IN AN OLDER MAN..they never stop 2 think that maybe i'm what she's looking 4..THEY NEVER TAKE THE TIME..2 look in her mind | |
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DesireeNevermind said: nope...they still have to have:
a dick a brain a job some kitchen skills some bedroom sills and be disease free. Apparently since the dawn of time...the requests on that list have been too much for any one man to fill.
[Edited 4/13/10 17:04pm] It all sounds so simple, doesn't it ? | |
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Yes. I am now into salt & pepper colored hair, BIG TIME. My boo has really good hair, kinda Pierce Brosnan/Remington Steel-like, romantic leading man-ish, and the salt& pepper coloring drives me wild! | |
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 ain't that old yet.
But back in the day when the idea of what I wanted began to formulate, it was simple. In the first stages, my mate had to be... ~Prince Charming kind of handsome ~Kinda romantic like the soap opera guys ~A suit-ready kind of guy. Dressed to kill, if you will. ~Kind ~Funny like Eddie Murphy ~Rich ~A good kisser Now keep in mind this was when I was about 5 or 6. Once I got older, a lot of things changed. In the second stages, my mate had to be/had to like/[insert property here]...
~Artistic ~Thoughtful ~Funny ~A Prince Fan ~A gamer ~An "extreme guy" (Like, I dunno...into extreme sports or some crap.) ~Sensitive ~Must love anime ~Good Kisser ~Innovative This was around the time I was 13. Things took a drastic change once I grew up a little. And the list...got...longer. ~Good in bed ~Thoughtful ~Good sense of humor ~Artistic ~Must be a gamer ~Sensitive ~Must be able to cook something ~Must be able to separate seriousness from playtime ~Gotta be somewhat handy ~Random/spur of the moment romantic ~Able to get wacky ~Must be open minded. No homophobic, judgmental crap ~Can't be intimidated by sex toys ~Caring/considerate ~Good listener ~Must know what unconditional truly means ~Not feel intimidated by the whole feminist/womanist movement ~In good standing with mother/father/sister  Basically I want the impossible guy that does not exist. Some things I'd be willing to lose. Can't have everything. But personality things...ahh...very important. That was the one thing I began to shape and change as I got older. It went from looks to personality. | |
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mzkqueen03 said: . ..give unconditionally..2 give while expecting a return or certain results is the same as paying 4 something.. But what if only one of the two seems to be able to give unconditionally? Don't you do it because you expect the other one to do just the same for you? You can love something with all your heart, but still grow tired of always giving and trusting and believing when you don't get any of that in return. | |
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Dave1992 said: mzkqueen03 said: . ..give unconditionally..2 give while expecting a return or certain results is the same as paying 4 something.. But what if only one of the two seems to be able to give unconditionally? Don't you do it because you expect the other one to do just the same for you? You can love something with all your heart, but still grow tired of always giving and trusting and believing when you don't get any of that in return. its true.... u made some valid points here.. | |
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Dave1992 said: mzkqueen03 said: . ..give unconditionally..2 give while expecting a return or certain results is the same as paying 4 something.. But what if only one of the two seems to be able to give unconditionally? Don't you do it because you expect the other one to do just the same for you? You can love something with all your heart, but still grow tired of always giving and trusting and believing when you don't get any of that in return.  so very, very tired. | |
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. [Edited 4/16/10 4:17am] ..She's Just A Baby..but she's my lady..my loveR..my only friend!..true love that will last!..PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND..WHAT SHE SEES IN AN OLDER MAN..they never stop 2 think that maybe i'm what she's looking 4..THEY NEVER TAKE THE TIME..2 look in her mind | |
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mzkqueen03 said: Dave1992 said: But what if only one of the two seems to be able to give unconditionally? Don't you do it because you expect the other one to do just the same for you? You can love something with all your heart, but still grow tired of always giving and trusting and believing when you don't get any of that in return. .
. ..aside from our entrance in2 this world and our exit from it,..it is rarely our fate 2 be alone... . ..most of us desire that one special person with whom we can share our joys and sorrows,..our triumph and despair,..the one whom we can be most ourselves.. . ..4 many of us,..just one other person is enough,..and the magic of meeting such a person,..the shock of recognition,..can be among the most heartfelt and thrilling of human experiences.. . ..searching 4 this individual gives us reason 2 go on,..becomes of paramount importance.. . ..w/o an appreciative partner with whom 2 share our lives,..the glory of riches,..of fame,..of achievement fades 2 dust and ashes.. . ..most of our relationships are due 2 chance...TRULY,..few of our significant others are chosen by us.. . ..we do not pick our parents,siblings,children,co-workers,or neighbors.. ...even those closest 2 us,..our L-O-V-Ers,mates or friends,..usually come 2 us through some fortunate twist of fate that placed them in our path.. . ..rarely are our relations due 2 objective 4thought.. ...L-O-V-E is indeed blind 2 conscious decision making.. ..it is the most subjective of experiences.. . ...MZSEXYBABY  Yes, yes. I actually do agree with most of that. But it has nothing to do with my questions/what I tried to say. It may not be our fate to be alone and to share our feelings really makes them real in one way or another, but still: If something causes you more pain and sorrow than happines, you step away from it. That's also human nature. Unless, of course, you're a masochist. | |
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. [Edited 4/16/10 4:18am] ..She's Just A Baby..but she's my lady..my loveR..my only friend!..true love that will last!..PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND..WHAT SHE SEES IN AN OLDER MAN..they never stop 2 think that maybe i'm what she's looking 4..THEY NEVER TAKE THE TIME..2 look in her mind | |
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. [Edited 4/16/10 4:18am] ..She's Just A Baby..but she's my lady..my loveR..my only friend!..true love that will last!..PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND..WHAT SHE SEES IN AN OLDER MAN..they never stop 2 think that maybe i'm what she's looking 4..THEY NEVER TAKE THE TIME..2 look in her mind | |
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I now just want him to shut up and give me his wage packet!!! ha ha ha!!!! "I may not agree with what you say but I'll fight for your right to say it"
Be proud of who you are not what they want you to be... | |
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. [Edited 4/16/10 4:19am] ..She's Just A Baby..but she's my lady..my loveR..my only friend!..true love that will last!..PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND..WHAT SHE SEES IN AN OLDER MAN..they never stop 2 think that maybe i'm what she's looking 4..THEY NEVER TAKE THE TIME..2 look in her mind | |
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Alright. | |
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. [Edited 4/16/10 4:19am] ..She's Just A Baby..but she's my lady..my loveR..my only friend!..true love that will last!..PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND..WHAT SHE SEES IN AN OLDER MAN..they never stop 2 think that maybe i'm what she's looking 4..THEY NEVER TAKE THE TIME..2 look in her mind | |
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mzkqueen03 said:
. ..when a relationship between individual A and individual B is discussed,..do we mean the dynamic that goes on in private between these 2 individuals or the relationship unit AB,..which interacts with the world around it?.. . ..of course,.. the relationship AB is present in public or private,..but the degree 2 which A and B identify with it,..and give up their individual identities 2 become it,..is of the utmost importance.. ...there is no hard and fast rules 4 such surrender 2 the relationship,..in some cases,..or at certain times in the life of a relationship,..it will be necessary 4 A or B 2 pull back and affirm his or her own individual identity once more,..perhaps even 2 the point of setting out once again on his or her own path.. . ..however,..peak experiences between 2 people are only really possible through SURRENDER-that is,..giving up a good measure of individual ego in service of the relationship,..AB.. . ..each person will get something back that is much more valuable... . . ..these are the key guidelines that i have been following since 2000:.. . . ..listen 2 what ur partner is saying.. . ...truly share..solely giving and taking is not the answer,..but only a combination of the 2 in equal measure.. . ..give unconditionally..2 give while expecting a return or certain results is the same as paying 4 something.. . ...kindness,..understanding,..trust and consideration are worth more than all the selfish pleasure u can gain...if u are in it only 4 what u can get,..4get about meaningful relationships.. . ..don't let any1 treat u abusively..demand respect.. . ...by refusing 2 make decisions,..express disapproval or take a stand u may really be just avoiding taking responsibility 4 ur own actions,..fear of rejection is usually behind such an agreeable facade.. . ..beware of possessiveness and claiming behavior..ur partner is his own person and should never be treated as an object or possession.. . ...refuse 2 allow others 2 push ur buttons..one trick is 2 grow a whole new set of buttons that cannot be pushed so easily.. . ..much can be learned from self-observation..in the midst of an argument,..try backing off and observing urself...by being both the observer and observed,..u will increase ur awareness.. . ...control ur aggressive and violent side..at the same time,..seek outlets 4 ur feelings and do not repress them..working out differences through clam discussion is often the best way.. . ..learn 2 postpone ur gratification through patience,..trust and understanding.. . ...acceptance is important but does not imply agreement..agree 2 disagree..do not insist that u and ur partner must see eye 2 eye.. . ..try 2 distinguish between needs and wants..what u seem 2 want most is not what u really need,..in many cases.. . ...be sensitive 2 kairos,..the right time 4 an action 2 take place..what will work well under one set of circumstances will be entirely wasted under another.. . ..respect ur partner's space.. . . ..now if i can only find a man that thinks like me..i will be alright
...some1 who can examine the issues,..think things through and rationally envision the results of our actions--->2GETHER.. . ..MZSEXYBABY errr as long as they are good at blowjobs  What you don't remember never happened | |
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endymion said: mzkqueen03 said:
. ..when a relationship between individual A and individual B is discussed,..do we mean the dynamic that goes on in private between these 2 individuals or the relationship unit AB,..which interacts with the world around it?.. . ..of course,.. the relationship AB is present in public or private,..but the degree 2 which A and B identify with it,..and give up their individual identities 2 become it,..is of the utmost importance.. ...there is no hard and fast rules 4 such surrender 2 the relationship,..in some cases,..or at certain times in the life of a relationship,..it will be necessary 4 A or B 2 pull back and affirm his or her own individual identity once more,..perhaps even 2 the point of setting out once again on his or her own path.. . ..however,..peak experiences between 2 people are only really possible through SURRENDER-that is,..giving up a good measure of individual ego in service of the relationship,..AB.. . ..each person will get something back that is much more valuable... . . ..these are the key guidelines that i have been following since 2000:.. . . ..listen 2 what ur partner is saying.. . ...truly share..solely giving and taking is not the answer,..but only a combination of the 2 in equal measure.. . ..give unconditionally..2 give while expecting a return or certain results is the same as paying 4 something.. . ...kindness,..understanding,..trust and consideration are worth more than all the selfish pleasure u can gain...if u are in it only 4 what u can get,..4get about meaningful relationships.. . ..don't let any1 treat u abusively..demand respect.. . ...by refusing 2 make decisions,..express disapproval or take a stand u may really be just avoiding taking responsibility 4 ur own actions,..fear of rejection is usually behind such an agreeable facade.. . ..beware of possessiveness and claiming behavior..ur partner is his own person and should never be treated as an object or possession.. . ...refuse 2 allow others 2 push ur buttons..one trick is 2 grow a whole new set of buttons that cannot be pushed so easily.. . ..much can be learned from self-observation..in the midst of an argument,..try backing off and observing urself...by being both the observer and observed,..u will increase ur awareness.. . ...control ur aggressive and violent side..at the same time,..seek outlets 4 ur feelings and do not repress them..working out differences through clam discussion is often the best way.. . ..learn 2 postpone ur gratification through patience,..trust and understanding.. . ...acceptance is important but does not imply agreement..agree 2 disagree..do not insist that u and ur partner must see eye 2 eye.. . ..try 2 distinguish between needs and wants..what u seem 2 want most is not what u really need,..in many cases.. . ...be sensitive 2 kairos,..the right time 4 an action 2 take place..what will work well under one set of circumstances will be entirely wasted under another.. . ..respect ur partner's space.. . . ..now if i can only find a man that thinks like me..i will be alright
...some1 who can examine the issues,..think things through and rationally envision the results of our actions--->2GETHER.. . ..MZSEXYBABY errr as long as they are good at blowjobs Well, I don't like to brag and I think every skilled fellator should know how to keep his mouth shut, but I have made lollipops smile. | |
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vivid said: endymion said: errr as long as they are good at blowjobs Well, I don't like to brag and I think every skilled fellator should know how to keep his mouth shut, but I have made lollipops smile. That is damn good news  however I have heard your breasts are a little hairy 
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endymion said: vivid said: Well, I don't like to brag and I think every skilled fellator should know how to keep his mouth shut, but I have made lollipops smile. That is damn good news however I have heard your breasts are a little hairy
See what I did with the red there They're pretty damm smooth for a fella! | |
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vivid said: endymion said: [/color]
That is damn good news however I have heard your breasts are a little hairy
See what I did with the red there They're pretty damm smooth for a fella! Whats your name Dan What you don't remember never happened | |
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endymion said: vivid said: They're pretty damm smooth for a fella! Whats your name Dan I pick up languages quick. Not many Englishmen around here | |
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mzqueen!!!!   | |
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ZombieKitten said: MIGUELGOMEZ said: Hello sweety!! An inmate must love hiking, walks on the beach, must have tattooes, a piercing or 4. They CAN'T have any sex crimes or child crimes. But they have to have a Parole card.....only sayin'..... good call what about those things they might wear around their ankle? are those OK? That is required. MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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One more thing: A couple of years ago it was all about a mysterious and hot, erotic character and charisma. Now I'd rather go for something a bit more down-to-earth, although she should still keep a little bit of that feminine distance, if you know what I mean. Not be too blunt about certain things and simply be perfect about some things, without having to ask how to do them, why to do them and all that. Sounds superficial, but it works wonders for me. | |
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