Here's the deal...

I have a Formspring.me page. It's a simple service that allows people to ask you a question. You post an answer, and it shows up on your Formspring.me profile. You can also set it to post to your Facebook, link in your Twitter, or post to Blogger or Tumblr. Just a fun thing someone came up with. You can also just delete a question if you choose not to answer it. If they person is logged in, you can mark them as spam and block them.

Lately I've been getting a barrage of negative questions. Someone, who doesn't know me from a can of paint, posts constant negative comments and questions, telling me how horrible of a person I am, how fat I am (DUH), how my music sucks, etc. They used to always reference my Twitter account, so I knew they were reading that, at least. Last night, I had a theory and set out to prove it true or not. I thought maybe it was someone on the Org.

I locked down my Twitter and Facebook from public view. I figured if they had anything to say, they'd at least not have that to reference. Today, I posted something on this thread. Almost immediately, two negative, profanity-ridden posts popped up, directly quoting and referencing the Org post. My theory had proven correct!

It's amazing to me that someone who allegedly hates another SO much will spend all their time reading my blog, my twitter, my facebook, my prince.org posts, my myspace, listen to my music on Last.FM, and most times post a rebuttal to anything I say within minutes of me posting it. My other theory: THEY LOVE ME! There's some deep sexual arousal they get by me paying any attention to them. I'm sure this thread alone is enough to get them wet for the whole weekend.

So the question is.....have you had a stalker? Internet or real life based? How did you handle it? Did you handle it at all? Did it die off? Did you ever find out who it was, and if you did...did you even care at that point?

As far as my org stalker... I think it's all been said. They're

PS Dollars to donuts they'll post a question referencing this thread. I plan to expose it if they do. hahahahaha losers.



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[Edited 4/3/10 8:09am]

I have a formspring as well, I stopped using it because of things like that started happening.

To answer your question, no I've never had a stalker.

That's kind of creepy though. Sometimes I wish formspring would reveal the anonymous questions, lol.

Yes

I filed a police report ~ got a restraining order and then 6 months later moved 650 miles away

As I thought, they read my thread here, and responded right away:

Fools.

Mach said:

Wow, that's intense girl! I assume it was a real life thing?

Negritaluvyu said:

I'm learning it's a breeding ground for cowards and the emotionally and mentally bankrupt in the world.

ernestsewell said:

Yes , a mentally and physically abusive relationship gone bad to worse to extreme

It sucked ... I was 18 - 20 ish

I have learned so much since then

Yeah and she somehow got into my org account to send malicious org notes to people this was yearrrrrs ago.

Mach said:

Well I'm glad you're out of that. No one deserves to be harassed, abused, or negated either online or in person. How easy it is to forget someone's humanity in lieu of pumping up one's own ego.

NEVER settle for that again. One hit is one too many.

no.

IAintTheOne said:

Daaaaang, they must have REALLY loved you! That's why you always keep your passwords difficult with numbers and letters.

ernestsewell said:

LOL I know nah she didnt she was just crazy as fuck is all

They're still reading Prince.org. This is hysterical. It's like pulling a string in front of a kitten. They're SO easy to manipulate.





I love my fans. They me even more.

I have a good idea, my list is only about 3 or 4 people, of who it is - but I won't drop names. I ain't here to flame anyone like that. It's probably better they stay anonymous and cowardly. I mean, it's worked this far in life for them, hasn't it?

yeah... l have ...

someone has been stalking me non stop still continuin everyday..from myspace
shessh why would this person come and stalk me so much...why the interest in me ??
lve tracked it down where this person comes from but lm not gonna state it here ...

so l knw how u feel ernest....

Yes. I just had my brothers and a couple cousins beat his ass. We didn't want to involve the law cuz this dude was somebody we grew up with plus he already had a record and this incident would have sent him away for a very long time. After my brothers kicked him around and threatened him with death...I never heard from him again.

I've had internet stalkers but they don't make me feel the least bit uneasy. They are far more easy to avoid than somebody you encounter face to face.

I haven't so far, but I might start to stalk mcmeekle

i already hide under the bed as it is. a stalker's the last bloody thing i need...

ZombieKitten said:

JerseyKRS said:

I'm not funny enough for him anymore he dropped me from his sig!!! I used to be number one

Yes, it fucking SUCKED.

It was an ex, and it was like that movie Sleeping With The Enemy.

There was this girl named Lisa. We grew up together, around the corner from each other from kindergarten thru senior year...same schools, same age, same clique...practically my sister though I knew she had a crush on me since the second grade. She was one of those girls who was definitely cute but just never seemed to be able to put it all together. Something just wasn’t working for me and though she tried and tried to make something happen between us, I always found a way to put it off...you know, not emphatically saying "NO" because I’m trying not to hurt my homegirl’s feelings, but I was not interested.

I spent the summer before junior year in Oakland with my aunt. Sometime while I was gone, Lisa figured it out. BOY DID SHE FIGURE IT OUT!!! She was hot like fire and I was all over it as soon as I got home, but she wasn’t havin it. We had an end of summer block party and she finally gave in. We made out maybe five times over a couple of weeks, came close but no sex...then school started and I decided to get back with my ex-girlfriend.

Lisa lost her f*cking mind. She started sneaking out at night, coming to my window to talk. At first I talked to her using the "I don’t want to ruin our friendship" line, but she just wasn’t getting it. Tried to ignore her and that didn’t work. She tied heart-shaped balloons to my locker, not everyday but at least twice a week for like a month! She ended up slashing two tires on my girlfriend’s car (she claims she didn’t), got her ass beat by my girlfriend and my sister, carved my initials into her hand with a hot safety pin, constantly threatened suicide…it went on and on. She would come to my work (Burger King) and sit in the lobby just staring at me, practically everyday that I worked. (Strangely my manager, and most of my friends for that matter, found the entire thing hilarious) Finally she brought her mom to my house to tell my mom how much of an asshole I am and how this was all my fault. My parents did blame me for the whole thing, but me and my dad had to separate them as my mom was about to beat the sh*t out of Lisa’s mom for having the gall to come to her house talking sh*t. My father chewed me the f*uck out, saying that if I ever brought bullsh*t like this to his doorstep again I was out on my ass.

I finally REALLY told her off. I was out of my mind pissed and I remember saying "Leave me the f*ck alone! I fucking hate you, you f*cking b*tch!", ALL up in her face. I’ll never forget the look on her face...huge tears...I felt terrible later that night, but at the time she had me insane. A couple of days later I woke up to find my tricked out 1990 Nissan Sentra covered in writing. This b*tch took her lipstick and completely redecorated my ride! "I LOVE U", “IM SORRY", “R&L 4EVA", hearts drawn all over the place...I cannot stress to you how thorough a job she did, windows and body. It was ridiculous. My parents laughed at me, my sister beat her ass again and finally her mother stepped up. Suddenly Lisa was a loner, ignoring me and all of our friends, and my dumbass started to feel bad about the whole thing. I talked to her, trying to be friendly, and she started up again...not nearly as bad as before and it was over pretty quick.

I saw her a few years ago at a Lenny Kravitz concert. She was with some dude, I was with my wife. She ignored me though I know for a fact she saw me and she knows that I saw her.

It may have been just some high school bullsh*t, but for like four months this broad made my life a living hell.

Wow...I wish I could say i had "A" stalker, but sadly, I have had quite a few. Guys I didn't want to date were over persistent, guys I wanted to break up with just wouldn't go away, and one stalker was my husband's ex girlfriend.

The exgirlfriend was stalking me and I had no idea, you see I didn't know who the hell she was. She was bent on learning everything about me. I noticed a car that I felt like I kept seeing but it didn't click. She was following me to his house, following me on the streets, staring at me from a distance in social places...and eventually, she was leaving notes threatening suicide on my husbands car when we went out together. He knew about her, but at the time thought she was only following him...it took a while before we realized she was following me. After unbelievable drama, my last encounter with her ended up with her knocking on my apartment door. I was engaged to marry, and she said she just wanted to know why he chose me...she was with him for years but he meets me and 6 months later, I have a ring. I took the time to treat her like a human and talk....and yes, my maneating super defensive rottweiler was just a few feet away staring quietly at her every gesture.

The dudes who stalked me? Where do I begin? My policy was that as soon as a dude did something I didn't like, I was done. I wasn't arguing or anything. It was just over, and quite a few men just wouldn't let go.

Once, I broke up with this guy, I didn't call him for a while, and he rang my doorbell (I was still at my parents home). My mom didn't know how sour things had become and let him in. When I saw him, I went to my room and locked my door. Prior to this, he had been showing up at my job where I had to call security on his ass. He was flooding my office with roses which pissed me the fuck off. He was leaving a ton of messages with the receptionist too.

Anyway, that jerk stayed outside of my bedroom door for like an hour after my mom unknowingly let him in. I came out to tell him to leave or I would have him arrested (i didn't want to call the police, he was in pain but I was fuckin done). he refused to leave, he was like 15 years older than I was and got on his hands and knees, in front of my parents and begged. If he had a shred of hope, it dissapeared at that moment. I walked into my bedroom, called the police and then told him to leave before they arrived. He didn't. He was still begging as they dragged him away.

One other guy had threatened to kidnap me and told me he would keep forever as his own, and never let me out. I went to the police for him.

Another guy was unbeknown to me, sleeping outside of my apartment when I had roomates, sleeping in my roomates broken car which sat in the driveway!!!!

I will say that if you have a stalker, dont take it lightly.

I've had a few, but I don't think it was a dangerous thing or anything.
I've also stalked others but not in a dangerous way either. I just kind of obsess over what someone is saying or doing...almost like trying to determine what Prince's next move is or something.

I have ADHD so the stalking never lasts too long.

ernestsewell said:

So do you think the way you treated Jarvius was justified?
Do you think you are doing a service by publicly correcting people's grammar and spelling or for having a go at people for not using the search function for posting threads that have been repeated millions of times?
Remember the time you posted pitures of an orgers boyfriend by infiltrating their photobucket account?
Could that be considered as stalker-ish?
Im not a particularly big fan of you but sometimes I do enjoy reading your posts.
Its nice to be nice Ernest...thats all i''m saying.

I never used formspring, but that sounds awful Ernest. It's like... people shouldn't be allowed to be so anonymous if you are also sharing with them. Ykno?

I can see how fame drives private people crazy too. I wouldn't want to divulge a thing!

TheVoid said:

HAHA best line in the thread.

muirdo said:

That's so far fetched, I'm can't even begin to break down how disgusting your attempt was.

I don't need you to be my fan, or not be a fan. I'm not here to be a celebrity. It's like that old saying, "What you think of me is none of my business".

muirdo said:

that's all s/he was sayin'

Sounds annoying and possibly quite creepy when, like you said, they're obviously spending a fair amount of time following your online movements.

Thankfully I can't say I've ever been stalked. I'm seeing something similar happen to a friend right now though. Frightening.

Didnt you once track down Bart Van Hemelins real name and work information?